virgo male hopelessly love a capricorn female

The Big downer is she won't talk with me anymore. Though I know in the way she looks at me that she is fighting something inside. I am perplexed. We got along extremely well and with an ease I had never felt before, Then the world stepped in and next thing I know I am on the outs and not so some much as a "Dear john text."

I see her from time to time out and about and I give her space but when she looks at me it seems that she wants me to come over and say hello or something. On the occasion I did she silently walked away. If she hates me though why doesn't unfriend me from facebook. (Btw no happy birthday message.)

Is she getting a kick out of torturing me?

what say you?

Very depressed Virgo.

"...the world stepped in..."

Can you elaborate?

you must have done something.
or you were more interested in her, than she you, romantically.
or someone came along she liked better..

She isn't torturing you .. you torture yourself by clinging on to feelings that should be let go.

The girl doesnt' want you ... grow some fucking dignity and step away

With other earth signs I find its MUCH better to start off as friends then if feelings are there move into something else. I dont think I could ever just date one. I think we all may prefer that comfort or foundation first.

MiamiVirgo,

I've known my Cap bestfriend for 10 years and I still don't quite understand her. I've met quite a few throughout my life as well and all I can tell you is that if you're not up to par with her expectations, she will not settle for you.

Reading is fundamental cause I just read over what was said not paying a lick of attention. silly me.

So the two of you were friends from what i see.

Im not sure exactly what happened, but it sounds like you hurt her. It could be something simple too.

For example. I worked with an older Taurus guy I clicked with. He brought me candy all the time, he'd listen to my mp3 player on the daily, he'd open up about past relationships etc. Then he switched shifts. We'd still talk when we saw eachother, but one day we were in line in the break room and he barely gave me a nod and started holding a convo with the girl behind him. That was a wrap because I felt we were better than barely speaking.
After that I didnt speak much but he had to work with me so he'd come by my work area and Id be silent. He'd shake his head a bit as if he didnt know what was wrong or how to fix it.
Then one day it was just the two of us in the hallway and he handed me a candy bar that he said he bought for me. My reaction(smile) was a little extra, not sure why, but I think he read it as me being a bit fake by his expression lol. Either way that was the start of us slowly becoming cool again.

I posted this to show how simple it could be, but she's definitely acting hurt. If she has a favorite little snack or candy etc, try silently handing it to her. something small/simple and a way to extend yourself apologizing about whatever it is you may have done. you're most likely reading her right though.

Sorry maybe my first post, do to my anxiety over the whole situation, I may have left out a lot of details for you all to make an accurate assessment of the situation.

Some more pertinent details. We met when I was acting as guardian for my grandfather and she was a nurse at the facility we took him to. From the start we hit it off (my capricorn girl and I) for a full year we developed a deep friendship. Then my grandfather died. Her grandmother came to the place with alzheimers and my uncle developed liver failure and I had to leave the state to help with his situation and he died.

when I came back I wanted to see her and talk to her and pick up where we left or move forward but as you can tell from the begining of my post you know how that went.

I never was into astrology until some friends told me close I am to the perfect virgo (whatever that means) and when I looked around and read some reports it is uncanny that it is so close to the truth at times. Sometimes its way off.

Anyway, I'd like to send her an email about being friends but according to her sign she's not in a good place and I might just cut off my nose dispite my face.

Also rumor has it she has a Cap man in her life right now but I think they are locking horns a little. I really don't want to throw gas on a fire and get myself burned in the process.

You're burning either way, right? So why not burn with passion.

If she still cares about you, your apology will be much appreciated. Be open and honest with her, she'll forgive you if there is something there.

We were way more than friends. We dated and had those oh so sweet romantic interludes.

Still... And still I am here. I want to thank you all even though you all seem to want me to move on and believe me I want to but then I see her and BAM.

Love is a B*tch. I wish she would just talk with now and again.

*sigh*