Virgo man with Venus in Cancer?

Very confused about this guy. Virgo sun, sagg moon, venus in cancer, mars in libra. seems like he's a very "casual" person. He jumped straight into the fwb relationship. He acts like he doesn't want to get to know a person, like he has enough people in his life and there isn't anymore room for another. He's very successful at work.

Example of something he's done: We have awesome sex one day, then he shows up at my school the next afternoon to "visit a friend" .. funny thing is the friend has been a student there longer than i have and I've never seen the virgo at the school a day in my life before. To top it off, i see him two days later at the school again (weird or what?).
Isn't he supposed to be a nurturing perfectionist lol (joking). He doesn't talk much. I have to hunt him down to find him or he'll stalk me when he needs to find me. I'm a cap sun, venus pisces, mars cancer, rising cancer. I happen to have a lot in common with this person in terms of personality, but it seems I can't understand him at all. We have interesting conversations when We're together about random things like sports, health food, school, electronics etc.. but he will not just have a conversation with me if I initiate it via text for instance. I have to be with him. It bothers me I want him to speak to me lol.

One day he's interested in my whole life, the next day I won't hear from him till he needs to see me. Don't get me wrong the sex is awesome and I'm totally into it, but I know I'm eventually going to want more (he's pretty interesting). I'm hoping for someone to give me some insight on if it's worth it to wait and see if he will warm up or if he's shut down emotionally. I won't be hurt if there's no chance the whole situation we're in is pretty new.

Anyway, I hope you guys can help,
Thanks

Hi there. I just wanted to pop in and tell you that I too have a Venus Pisces and the Virgo I'm dating has a Venus Cancer, BUT that's not all to this guy or you. I can't tell you exactly what this guy is thinking based the info you shared. But based on the little you shared, it seems to me that he might be perfectly content with the FWB status. What do you want this guy? Have you expressed any feelings to him? How did you two meet? How long have you known him? How old is he?

Correction: What do you want from this guy?

venus in retrograde go and buy yor homoginized milk half off 2day

FWB typically do not turn into relationships... he is casual because it is a FWB.

What happened to the other guy you where talking about like 2 days ago? I popped in to it from the home page..

Posted by houstonpeach74
I can't tell you exactly what this guy is thinking based the info you shared. But based on the little you shared, it seems to me that he might be perfectly content with the FWB status. What do you want this guy? Have you expressed any feelings to him? How did you two meet? How long have you known him? How old is he?

We're both young 21. He was in my class way back in grade school. Known him for a while. Lost contact for damn near 10 years. Today I told him I cant do this anymore. He seemed angry and lashed out at me. I told him politely. I find it funny he reacted that way bc im just a fwb. I told him he thinks hes too good for everyone. He confirmed my accusation. I honestly am not looking for a relationship from him bc our agreement wasnt a relationship in the first place. It just seemed a little confusing after a while. I was fine until he showed up to my school twice and called me 21 times at 5am "just for sex". Who in their right mind would do such a thing? he called for 5 hours straight. Me being venus in cancer I need a companionship. Someone to connect with. Im sure you understand what I mean by that. Im a bit confused why he would lash out at me when hes never done that before...

Thanks for your help also

Posted by justagirl
FWB typically do not turn into relationships... he is casual because it is a FWB.

What happened to the other guy you where talking about like 2 days ago? I popped in to it from the home page..

Lol... there isnt another guy. Im aware of how fwb works. Its just very odd. He didnt seem like that type of person initially.

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Posted by justagirl
FWB typically do not turn into relationships... he is casual because it is a FWB.

What happened to the other guy you where talking about like 2 days ago? I popped in to it from the home page..

Lol... there isnt another guy. Im aware of how fwb works. Its just very odd. He didnt seem like that type of person initially.

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ohh ok. I was not trying to pry.. I had followed the link about the cancer/leo cusp thread from the home page.. they really need to somehow associate what forum those are going too. lol

Anyway, from reading your post above.. you ended things?

Posted by justagirl


Anyway, from reading your post above.. you ended things?

yes today. he completely lashed out at me. this isnt my first fwb relationship but from previous experience i had one with a venus in scorpio .. he did not react that way bc he honestly didnt care. my virgo guy bugged out on me when i had a few follow up questions about our "sexlationship". he said something along the lines of, "no you backed out already! dont change your mind now bla bla bla. goodbye." never answered my simple questions either... so confusing.