Virgo not texting back? What's the reason? Cancer girl.

It hasn't even been that long but I'm wondering if I had said something to tick him off or if he is just busy. My boyfriend is a Virgo, I'm a girl Cancer and we have been together for about 4 months now. Well it's just strange that he doesn't try to contact me but he every now and then gets on Facebook. I'm wondering if the last text I sent him was easy to respond back to (it was about glasses and contacts, nothing major) or if he just got too busy to say anything, or if he needs some space. Today I did tell him that I wasn't in the mood for talking. I haven't been for the past few days because I was wondering about how he really felt about me. I have heard that Virgos can come off cold and almost rude when they like you but being a Cancer I need something more than a cold shoulder to know his true feelings. When we are together he cuddles me and kisses me but he isn't overly talkative about his feelings. Anyway, I'm just wondering if what I said to him today made him retreat. He responded back to me, asking what I had on my mind and for a short while we texted back and forth but now there is nothing. I'm curious to see if he is losing interest, busy, or trying to figure some things out alone and if he needs some space. Please help?

Maybe, possible.
Sometimes when you tell a Virgo to back off they can be hurt by it.
He could possibly be questioning what he did wrong.
(Shoulder shrug)

Do I apologize to him even though I didn't say he was part of the cause of my silence and racing mind? I can just say I got over it and try to make it up to him somehow. I don't want him to be upset with me or doubt our relationship.

This will happen again and he will have to get use to it.
So no apologies aren't the answer.
and explanations aren't necessary.
If he is smart enough he will grow with it.

I would talk to him about it in person. Clearly, it's bothering you and if he likes you he will appreciate the honesty. You can make it light-hearted but let him know what's on your mind. I wouldn't text any more useless small talk. Perhaps your next text should be inviting him over or going out. Sometimes if a guy starts seeing a girl rather seriously they don't see a point in texting anymore. My cancer man used to do the same - he stopped the texts and only texted when we made plans.

Probably he's not in the mood for talking just like you do earlier today.

Posted by cancer_wyrm
It hasn't even been that long but I'm wondering if I had said something to tick him off or if he is just busy. My boyfriend is a Virgo, I'm a girl Cancer and we have been together for about 4 months now. Well it's just strange that he doesn't try to contact me but he every now and then gets on Facebook. I'm wondering if the last text I sent him was easy to respond back to (it was about glasses and contacts, nothing major) or if he just got too busy to say anything, or if he needs some space. Today I did tell him that I wasn't in the mood for talking. I haven't been for the past few days because I was wondering about how he really felt about me. I have heard that Virgos can come off cold and almost rude when they like you but being a Cancer I need something more than a cold shoulder to know his true feelings. When we are together he cuddles me and kisses me but he isn't overly talkative about his feelings. Anyway, I'm just wondering if what I said to him today made him retreat. He responded back to me, asking what I had on my mind and for a short while we texted back and forth but now there is nothing. I'm curious to see if he is losing interest, busy, or trying to figure some things out alone and if he needs some space. Please help?

i am a virgo female and i don't know about virgo males, but for me i put too much thought into whether to write or not, call or not, when i am super conscious of the person and also like them, because i do not want to come across as clingy. when the other person initiates contact i am happy about responding back. its just initiating is a problem because i need re-assurance that i am not bothering the person. but also if i genuinely have a reason to contact which is nothing romantic i can easily write or call the same person.

Posted by Weeds
Maybe, possible.
Sometimes when you tell a Virgo to back off they can be hurt by it.
He could possibly be questioning what he did wrong.
(Shoulder shrug)

true. virgos want consistency

He finally did text me back after I asked him where he was, he said he was taking a really long nap but his Facebook status said he wasn't active an hour ago. Even before that he was jump on for a minute before jumping off. If he's lying to me then I don't know what to do, we are not able to see each other every day, he lives about 30 minutes away and is very busy with work and other responsibilities. I don't know, if he is thinking of leaving me or just wants some space then I want to know, I just need a straight answer but I worry that if I confront him he'll completely disappear.

Posted by cancer_wyrm
He finally did text me back after I asked him where he was, he said he was taking a really long nap but his Facebook status said he wasn't active an hour ago. Even before that he was jump on for a minute before jumping off. If he's lying to me then I don't know what to do, we are not able to see each other every day, he lives about 30 minutes away and is very busy with work and other responsibilities. I don't know, if he is thinking of leaving me or just wants some space then I want to know, I just need a straight answer but I worry that if I confront him he'll completely disappear.

technology causes so much frustration and emotional drain. seeing when someone is online or not cause so many emotions through you. i wish we could all go back to the days of emails and phone. we didn't spend our every waking minute checking somebody's online status. and what's sad is we are missing out on life and emotions where they matter most because we are wasting them on technology 😢

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Posted by cancer_wyrm
He finally did text me back after I asked him where he was, he said he was taking a really long nap but his Facebook status said he wasn't active an hour ago. Even before that he was jump on for a minute before jumping off. If he's lying to me then I don't know what to do, we are not able to see each other every day, he lives about 30 minutes away and is very busy with work and other responsibilities. I don't know, if he is thinking of leaving me or just wants some space then I want to know, I just need a straight answer but I worry that if I confront him he'll completely disappear.

technology causes so much frustration and emotional drain. seeing when someone is online or not cause so many emotions through you. i wish we could all go back to the days of emails and phone. we didn't spend our every waking minute checking somebody's online status. and what's sad is we are missing out on life and emotions where they matter most because we are wasting them on technology 😢

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I know, it hurts me when I see him online but he won't respond back. Honestly I don't know, I want someone I can see on a constant basis but I know that we are both trying to make the best of our lives and get good careers. He'll be moving out of his house soon and in with friends which is even farther than where he is staying now. Honestly I just want to know what he's thinking and I hope my time isn't being wasted.

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Posted by cancer_wyrm
He finally did text me back after I asked him where he was, he said he was taking a really long nap but his Facebook status said he wasn't active an hour ago. Even before that he was jump on for a minute before jumping off. If he's lying to me then I don't know what to do, we are not able to see each other every day, he lives about 30 minutes away and is very busy with work and other responsibilities. I don't know, if he is thinking of leaving me or just wants some space then I want to know, I just need a straight answer but I worry that if I confront him he'll completely disappear.

technology causes so much frustration and emotional drain. seeing when someone is online or not cause so many emotions through you. i wish we could all go back to the days of emails and phone. we didn't spend our every waking minute checking somebody's online status. and what's sad is we are missing out on life and emotions where they matter most because we are wasting them on technology 😢

I know, it hurts me when I see him online but he won't respond back. Honestly I don't know, I want someone I can see on a constant basis but I know that we are both trying to make the best of our lives and get good careers. He'll be moving out of his house soon and in with friends which is even farther than where he is staying now. Honestly I just want to know what he's thinking and I hope my time isn't being wasted.

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as hard as it may sound sometimes you just have to give space. one day when you are calm and doing your own thing he will jump right back in.

I'm going to tell him good night and just see when he responds back. I'm not going to deal with zodiac signs or him right now, he's toying with my emotions and I'm not going to fret on if he's cheating or just not interested anymore. Thank you everyone for your answers!

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Talk to him how you prefer to be communicated too when you next see him

If you're expecting a regular relationship here. Throw that out!

If you want affection, great communication, trust, loyalty, and semblance of normality

Then you should pursue a non Virgo!

Sensitive Blues, what is it that you have against Virgos? Not all of them are bad, and you can't say that all of them are bad for relationships.

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Posted by malloryor

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Talk to him how you prefer to be communicated too when you next see him

If you're expecting a regular relationship here. Throw that out!

If you want affection, great communication, trust, loyalty, and semblance of normality

Then you should pursue a non Virgo!

Sensitive Blues, what is it that you have against Virgos? Not all of them are bad, and you can't say that all of them are bad for relationships.

Ya so? I wasn't talking to you! Pisces are liars and manipulative!

Crabs on the other hand give their all!

I'm warning this chick because I know how she feels! She'll question everything! A Virgo will never make a crab feel safe! There will always questions because Virgos never express. That's a huge problem for crabs!

Pisces are Wily enough and needy enough to get what they want!

Crabs just expect it for the greater good of the relationship.

They expect things to work for the greater good not to have to jump hoops to get the emotional security they need.

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Either you're a troll or just plain dumb in your one-dimensional thinking. I'm definitely not needy, but you're presumptuous, pompous, bitter and down right negative. There's a reason you don't attract any good in your life and it has nothing to do with the Virgos, Pisces, or any other sign you think has done you wrong. And sweetie, judging by your last few posts, I'm quite certain whatever mistreatment you've experienced, you brought on yourself with that stank attitude.

Posted by cancer_wyrm
He finally did text me back after I asked him where he was, he said he was taking a really long nap but his Facebook status said he wasn't active an hour ago. Even before that he was jump on for a minute before jumping off. If he's lying to me then I don't know what to do, we are not able to see each other every day, he lives about 30 minutes away and is very busy with work and other responsibilities. I don't know, if he is thinking of leaving me or just wants some space then I want to know, I just need a straight answer but I worry that if I confront him he'll completely disappear.

You are allowing social media to dictate your relationship and the place you stand within it 😐

Every time I log onto facebook from my phone- it will show active but I'm not on messenger.... Soooo Ya.

You need to have a real conversation with him and let him know your needs and find out his. Take facebook, ig and all that shit out of the relationship. Sit down and talk, Virgos appreciate this, hell most guys appreciate that. Too many females place wayyyyyyy to much on those comments, likes and who's online and for how long and oh my gosh "he's ignooooring me".