Virgo man vs. Cancer woman.

Hello all. Thanks in advance for your time.

So, on the 31st I met a cool virgo man at my bff's party. At first, I didn't notice him really. He started to speak and that sparked my interest. He told me his name and I totally forgot it and had to do the "what your name again bs". I was a lil tipsy and really meant not to be so careless. I asked him about his hometown and some other getting to know you questions. It was when he looked into my eyes, I realized something there. He was posted up in the kitchen the whole time playing spades. I floated in and out, said some things to him, and I'd go. I did play a round with him opposing me- mind you, our knees met and we kept them there. I am a novice but I'm learn quickly and my partner and I won the round. I said to him "we should be on a team" and he replied "we should". I wound up getting all social butterfly and wondered into another area of the house. We never teamed up, darn it! I came back to the kitchen and had to get by him. Being the uber-affectionate person that I am, I rubbed his back as I went by him. as to say, pardon me and to get a good feel, lol. I further asked him if he had a gf and he replied no. We talked more about his city and my like for his city. He asked what part did I stay, yadda, yadda. Each time he looked into my eyes, I am certain the attraction was mutual. So, when he decided to split(he was in a group that was leaving) I told him we should exchange numbers. He agreed and we did so. Upon him leaving, we hugged. Then we hugged again. The hug was tight and strong. It was not limpy or half-hearted. He put some effort into it. I had a backless top on and I could feel his large and warm hand cover my whole back. It set me ablaze. I texted him if he was good a few hours later, just to see if he made it home. I said that it was really nice meeting him and that I hope to see him again. He replied that it was nice to meet me. That was it. I know it has only been a couple of days and I'm patient. We have lives. I dig it. I just want to know if I scared him off by forgetting his name?
Obvi, I was interested. I know his astro sign for goodness sake. He really didn't ask me anything unless I asked first. I can tell there was a mutual attraction. I'm just so used to men chomping at the bit to talk to me-no ego. What do you guys make of this situation. If he never texts me again, I will be a little sad. Either way, I wish him well.
Cheers~

I don't know, you mention twice this mutual attraction you felt. You might want to think about that. If it was mutual attraction, he would contact you. It's possible you're only projecting your feelings at this point.

Posted by Damnata
I don't know, you mention twice this mutual attraction you felt. You might want to think about that. If it was mutual attraction, he would contact you. It's possible you're only projecting your feelings at this point.

You're right. I was wondering if I was projecting. I am usually good with being intuitive. I'm at the point where I'm just like your loss, mofo. I am awesome to be friends with. I didn't want to marry the bloke,lol.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Don't get clingy please. You already asked him for his number. You're showing him you're interested.

Please stop now. Let him do some work.

Virgos and Cancers hmmmmmm...fatal attraction...

You know, you're right. I think that I will just let it go.
C'est le vie~such is life. I'm really not clingy, I just like beautiful things and he was def nice on the eye. That is it. For all I know, he could be a real jerk. Don't know. But what I do know is, I'm done. Us cancers are very tenacious. Our minds/will are very powerful. So, as of now, I can't give any more thought to it.

btw, you're funny.

I didn't even mention there was a capricorn there that was trying to cock block, lol. He kind of yelled out, oh yeah I have your number. He only has it as a platonic friend. He and I never ever. He's my besties older bro... oh well. On to the next------------->>>>>

Awww sounds sweet but, you will have to leave it at the party.
Who knows, you gave him your information. Stated your interests.
It's up to him to decide if he wants to pursue you.
Carry on with life, meeting people, working, spending time with friends and dating.
Even though he made an impression on you, you should try to push him to the back of your mind.

Wait.. You met him on the 31st? Of January? All this over a guy who's been in your life for less amount of days than a typical period?

Posted by Andalusia
Wait.. You met him on the 31st? Of January? All this over a guy who's been in your life for less amount of days than a typical period?

Haven't you noticed around this site... 5 hours let alone a few days is a lifetime..... I just don't get it, does the time continuum change on dxpnet?

Posted by Andalusia
Wait.. You met him on the 31st? Of January? All this over a guy who's been in your life for less amount of days than a typical period?

All what? I had a question. It was long answered. End of.

Three times you mentioned either how awesome you are, or how good you look ..... you said that men can't wait to have you.