i have been searching for any advice on Virgo Pisces.
Im August 27th Virgo and she is a March 11th Pisces.
she just started at my work, i noticed her because she is really pretty, not ever spoken to her.
On wednesday she spoke to me asking "where i got my jeans from, they are really nice" i told her and she asked what label they are? i span round and showed her my behind as the label was on the bottom, and replied "Firetrap" she said they are really nice i told her were to get them from etc.
I then sat back at my desk and got a call from a colleague asking "what i think of the new blonde girl" i told him my little story and said i quite fancy her but she's got a boyfriend so i am guessing she is straight.
He told me he was speaking to her on Tuesday about a few things, i asked what about any he sent me the email convo they had which he asked
"I was interested in your view on girls, who do you think are pretty?"
She replied "Hmmmm girls?. I think that Gemma is pretty, and the other girl on that team, with the blonde flash in her hair. Bit tomboyish, I like chicks like that. Baggy jeans n trainer girls are hott"
So she said she likes chicks like me.
i was astonished when he told me that, so i took it upon myself to try get talking to her more, i sent her the website link to were i got my pants from we have been chatting ever since, she has told me she has kissed girls and finds girls like me attractive and said i would be the type she goes for but has a boyfriend she even said i had a cute lil ass.
office flirting has gone on and i gave her my number, since wednesday we have emailed, & text. we have arranged to go out tonight to watch some bands play.
we have mostly spoken over text and email so i am really nervous about meeting her, do you think she likes me? i wouldnt ever make a move since she has a boyfriend id leave it to her, i just dont know what to do, i get nervous when first meeting people.
when i have known other pisces we have got along brilliantly, always found each other funny and been good company i am just sp nervous about tonight and i know i am builing it up too much when it could just be nothing. Wish me luck
Hi Just to update you, we went out on friday night for a drink, she brought her friend in for one drink, before she arrived she was texting me "oh what shall i wear etc" she showed up about 9:15, introduced me to her friend, her friend left. We were sat having a drink, we seemed to get on really well, we soon felt really comfortable with one another, which was good, several hours and drinks later. We both left and went to a house party, she was telling me how she is never usually tied down by a guy so considering she is still with her is strange she was also telling me how everyone expects her to mess it up. People wanted us to get together at the house party cos they said the sexual chemistry was amazing between us, even her best friend saw it and her best friend said she is dying for something to happen between us. We were having such a laugh at the party it was brilliant, we were instantly comfortable with each other. We left the party for my house about 5:30, went to mine where we both slept. We have spent since we knew each other texting, and she has told me that she thinks im Hott! And if she wasn't single she would defiantly go there it's a shame she isn't single cos she likes the idea of licking p***y which was abit forward and I didn't expect it, but I know I would never make a move on her, I have told her that so its in her court, she told me she has dreamt about me 2 days in a row, so I don't know what she is doing, I would love to have her as a friend cos we genuinely get along great which she was surprised about. She asked me ?when you were getting ready to meet me Friday, did you expect something to happen? I said ?I thought there was a chance something would happen cos we have been flirting? she agreed she said when she was getting ready she was nervous like it was a date. I don't know why she tells these things I have called her a tease etc, what should I do, her boyfriend is in the Army, and doesn't return for about 28 days then is only back 2 weeks, I know she is attracted to me and does want something to happen, I just don't know how I can get her to want me more and make a move or something———??
"I just don't know how I can get her to want me more and make a move or something———??"
The below sounds pretty much a something, don't you think? How much moving in do you want her to do?
"cos she likes the idea of licking p***y which was abit forward and I didn't expect it"
Of course you expected it ^^^^^^^ .. you even ended this with saying how can you get her to make a move on you? So, sex is exactly what you mean by "Move" on you since you know she isn't single, so there's no chance of a relationship outside of sex.
"but I know I would never make a move on her, I have told her that so its in her court"
She already batted the ball back to you .. it's in your court now.
She did make a move .. what do you mean by move in and somethign more?
Virgos are so damn submissive .. it's nauseating.
I thought just last week, you made a thread about your Sagittarius girlfriend and how she is upset because you cheated on her, and you were upset saying you wanted to know how to get her back?
P Angel - "She already batted the ball back to you .. it's in your court now.
She did make a move .. what do you mean by move in and somethign more?"
i know but i am too afraid to actually kiss her and be rejected, i have to work with the woman. i mean last night we were texting all night
She was telling me, how hot i am and other things, but then saying but your a female thats what i cant get my head around, that she can picture us fooling around like a couple and being sexy, then she thinks "what am i doing i shouldnt be thinkin this about you"
"She even told her boyfriend that she fancys me and that if he gave her his blessing she would sleep with me, but then she would be worried she would be "hooked" and it would get better and better"
She has asked me to come for a drink on thurs with her & her friend in pub, unfortuanatly i cant get down there unless i bring my house mate, as it is a few miles out of my way.
Also i wanted to ask her to hang at mine on friday or something, ask her if she wanted to go out again?
As for submissive, im not usually, its i find this hard cos, she is straight with a boyfriend.
"Pure Virgoans find it almost impossible to let themselves go fully. They keep a tight rein on their own emotions and, if possible, those of their associates. This is not because they don't have strong feelings, but because they fear them - if emotional guards are let down, there is a risk that the unplanned and the unpredictable may manifest themselves in Virgoan life."
Found this on a website thought it was very suiting.
So many warning signs all over this .. that I can't wrap around my head why they aren't evident to you.
If she would consider cheating on her boyfriend .... then she would consider cheating on you, if you two got together.
When a Pisces "feels" another person, there are no sexual boundaries .. so when she says those things to you about you being a female, she is just playing with you, manipulating to get you to give her attention because certainly, being a Pisces, if she was "into" you, your gender would be irrelevant.
This is a co-worker ... you don't shit where you sleep, and you don't fuck where you work ... do either of those two and you're setting yourself up to fall. You know damn well that this isn't going anywhere seriously, and is only a fuck, if it happens .... in the meantime, you HAVE to carry-on at work, professionally. Since, whatever short-lived passion might occur between the two of you will effect both of you emotionally, since your females .... you will fall prey to having it effect you at work, having to be around her. Whereas, with her, being a Pisces .. she can just cut you off, as if you never existed .. the infamous "swimming away" doesn't necessarily have to be physically. We do it in acknowledgements, as well .... she won't even acknowledge that you are even alive, when this sexual encounter runs it's course, and you'll be left floundering in her wake.
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER ... fuck where you work.
For two people to meet and develop a relationship of trust and respect won't hurt your position at work .. but, to just fuck WILL, and that's all this will ever amount to because she can't be trusted, since she has a boyfriend she is willing to betray.
Your best bet is to walk away NOW .. before anything further happens.
I've been seeing a Virgo guy for over a year now & just recently out of the blue he went back to his Pisces girlfriend, for the 3rd time in about 2 years!!
Why is it that in most of the stuff we read about the V/P match, like the famous Linda Goodman, for example - the Virgo and Pisces are excellent matches, yet, the two signs find it very difficult to find harmony? Of course, every person is different, and
juet sound out a virgo male close to me- his mother's a pisces. now, me(Sagg fem) we dont mix well with Pis AT ALL, male or female. per exp, with me and the women they typically have fits just wenever n watever for oh n the sneakiness..but then agen, this
Im August 27th Virgo and she is a March 11th Pisces.
she just started at my work, i noticed her because she is really pretty, not ever spoken to her.
On wednesday she spoke to me asking "where i got my jeans from, they are really nice" i told her and she asked what label they are? i span round and showed her my behind as the label was on the bottom, and replied "Firetrap" she said they are really nice i told her were to get them from etc.
I then sat back at my desk and got a call from a colleague asking "what i think of the new blonde girl" i told him my little story and said i quite fancy her but she's got a boyfriend so i am guessing she is straight.
He told me he was speaking to her on Tuesday about a few things, i asked what about any he sent me the email convo they had which he asked
"I was interested in your view on girls, who do you think are pretty?"
She replied "Hmmmm girls?. I think that Gemma is pretty, and the other girl on that team, with the blonde flash in her hair. Bit tomboyish, I like chicks like that. Baggy jeans n trainer girls are hott"
So she said she likes chicks like me.
i was astonished when he told me that, so i took it upon myself to try get talking to her more, i sent her the website link to were i got my pants from we have been chatting ever since, she has told me she has kissed girls and finds girls like me attractive and said i would be the type she goes for but has a boyfriend she even said i had a cute lil ass.
office flirting has gone on and i gave her my number, since wednesday we have emailed, & text. we have arranged to go out tonight to watch some bands play.
we have mostly spoken over text and email so i am really nervous about meeting her, do you think she likes me? i wouldnt ever make a move since she has a boyfriend id leave it to her, i just dont know what to do, i get nervous when first meeting people.
when i have known other pisces we have got along brilliantly, always found each other funny and been good company i am just sp nervous about tonight and i know i am builing it up too much when it could just be nothing. Wish me luck