Virgo Relationship Help

Im 23 and shes 21.

Shes a Virgo and ive been her best friend for 7 years. We have been dating for 1.5 years.

The whole thing has been crazy and we are always back and forth. First she needed to get over her ex which took awhile. Then her drinking problem took over after about 8 months and tested our relationship to the fullest. Now that things have settled down a bit she told me recently that she thinks that there is something missing in our relationship but she doesn't want to break up. She doesn't want to make the mistake of losing me and regretting it like her last relationship.

Anyway, I told her we need to take a break and Im a bit confused on what to do honestly. Shes my bestfriend and I love her but she acts very immature and I fear she will never learn to be less selfish. Her actions have always been to live in the moment and worry about me later which drives me insane.

I left out alot of details, I dont want to bore anyone to death.

Posted by Seagal
Well more details would help! Most Virgos like to have things planned, and are less "spur of the moment" kind of people. Her rising sign may be stronger in play here. Well, if this helps at all, Virgos are very deep thinkers and analyzers, so it sounds to me like she's doing a lot of thinking about you both. We also like to be in relationships as we prefer stability. She is young though and I know when I was her age I was all over the place. It was really hard for me to settle down.

She is indeed all over the place but she has a great heart. Its just hard for us to see eye to eye being I am a bit more mature than her in some areas.

I think that she has some resentment towards me for helping her change her drinking problem (sort of like a resentment toward a mother or father.) This and she has very little time outside of studying for school to really dedicate toward me. College has really put an insane amount of stress on her this semester in particular.

Update: She said she likes someone else now and we broke up, haven't heard from her in a week. She still says shes confused about losing me but im sure thats just a bunch of crap. She was a hand full, kind of glad shes gone.