Virgo Sisters, I am heart broken, can you help me?

Ok, long story short, been in a realtionship with Scoripo man, sort of long distance at times as we both have to travel for work, BUT we fly back and forth, I was with him from May - July, then I had to leave for about 6 months. The ONLY reason I accepted this job was HE told me he was coming to NY as well. WEll he is nOT coming this way at all now, I am now stuck 900 miles away, and he chose to stay on another job! Ok I get it, he is making great money.

So, since I left, the phone calls from him have dwindled to barely nothing, when he does call, he is tired, we talk two minutes, OR we will talk early evening, he says he will call me back? Nope, I am so hurt! so I text him, " I am so hurt, if you don't want me in your life, please tell me, but I guess you already have by ignoring me" I had no intention of taking his calls or text messages, I am so hurt. was that a stupid thing to say or do?

He Scorpio, me virgo.

What do you think he will do? I wish I did not love this man so freaking much!!!! BUt I am so hurt.

Yikes.

Aw man...I'm sorry you're going through this, but rule #1 is to always make sure any move you make in life is to your benefit no matter what or who. If you said you made this move because you wanted to do it for yourself, but an added benefit was that he would make the move as well, I'd just say tough break but at least you didn't make the move for him--so you'll be fine no matter what.

In this case...

In my experiences, I find that Scorps may be the water sign I get along with the most, but they're still a water sign and can be just as wishy-washy or undecided as their element.

Time to pull back, and focus on YOU right now. Chasing him isn't going to help; it's not going to help him OR you. Focus on your job now, and if it's not what you want can you move back? What are your options?

Please don't make moves in life the depend on partners you are not married to 😢

I don't think it was a stupid thing to say. You were just being open about your feelings. Now I think it's time to stop contacting him and let him see what life is like without you and your attention for him. See what happens when he misses you and learns the only way to have you in his life is to treat you better. Don't let him have your attention in exchange for bad treatment.
Break ups hurt a lot and you want to fix this but leave him to either do all the work or you move on. Focus on yourself and let the rest fall into place. I don't know what it's like to be in a relationship with a Scorpio and I don't have any Scorp friends to know personally what they are like. Maybe get insight from the Scorp forum if u didn't post there already. There was one Scorpio guy who liked me whose feelings I didn't return. I ignored him and he tried on and off for about a year until I changed my number. So maybe hard to get works with them but I don't know.

Lol Clc you are one step ahead of me.

Oh Bethann.Sorry to hear that.Yes,it will hurt for quite a while to come.I had one of them scorps once.I almost missed the next really good guy that came along ,b/c I was worried about the past.There is nothing else that you could have done "righter" to make things any differently.3 months is a short time to be with someone to make any long term decisions with.I know it is nice to think that you have the romantic part of your life worked out,then moving on to the other parts,but once again life has other plans for you.You will recover.


The way I see it is, that he did things a dirty way to you.He could have been an adult about the whole thing.BUT when you have time to reflect back on this,think about this;what if you had needed him in an emergency,would he had come through or would he have become a coward,like he is being now.Isn't it better that you find out now that he is a liar, non-supportive and self serving?!He's also an idiot that he doesn't know a good woman when he had one.He's also shallow and short sighted.Do you really need that??

CL is right.Don't contact him.Keep yourself busy.Keep your phone on silent when not using it for work.You won't be jumping expecting that next ring to be from him.He needs to step up to the plate.He needs to make the next move.Your job is to take care of your self right now.You need to figure out what you need to make yourself happy,within yourself.This part has nothing to do with him.What are you worth to yourself ?Think about this parts of this that were good and think about what needs of yours that yet to be met.Why are you drawn to the type of men that you are.Giving is great,but give of yourself to someone who gives you something back.

It's a step in learning more about yourself.Don't close yourself off,be kind to yourself,be a friend to you.Things will be better.Good Luck

Try to make the besy of where you are at.Maybe this is a gateway to a whole new world for you.If not go to work,save your money and move back to where you have the most support from.