Virgo User!!

My virguy and I have been together for over a year now and it feels like he's using me. He only calls when he wants something. For example, this whole week we haven't talked. Today he decides to call me to ask if I'm coming to his house this weekend. The only reason he wants me to come over is to get some. It's always like this. When I go home after the weekend is over I barely hear from him. He always asking me for money but he has never and I mean NEVER given me money or bought anything for him. Now that I stopped having sex with him and spending money him, he says I'm bored with him or I'm messing with another dude! I'm so frustrated with him. I'm about ready to leave. We share a child together and he doesn't do much for him, but he'll do for his other baby and her mother. I got myself into a bad situation.

Yes. He's using you. Why do you give a grown man money?

Gemini calling another person a "user" ... now THAT's funny

Gemini's choose to exercise zero control ... then cry victim when their life happens in a way they don't like, eventhough they didn't do anything of their own direction.


Happens all the time .. now here it is again.


You just spend a year going over to his place so he can have a fuck, you even give birth to this fuck child, while handing him money if he needs it .... and do nothing about it, except moan because you are being used.


A person who spends a year in those conditions isn't being used .. their being an intentional doormat, so that they can cry victim.

This doesn't sound much like typical Virgo traits, but more of a dog a** man frankly. And furthermore, you allowed it and accepted it. If your relationship is not a give/take, you got my back, I got yours, then why are you in it? It's because you have settled and accepted this treatment and he just goes with the flow. And to top it all off, since he does things for his other child, he is also probably doing the mother too and taking care of her while you sit on the back burner where you politely stay in your lane and accept his poor treatment.

I agree with iamscorpio.

That isn't your generalized virgo. That's just a straight up Scumbag Steve(internet meme for those who did not know). Someone who uses another person just for kicks and giggles. This is honestly disgusting, and I would probably end up punching this guy if I ever saw him.

Someone with a child should have priorities for that child, not "getting some." They need to give their FAMILY attention, and not just themselves.

The best course of action that I can give you is to pull a Virgo yourself. Take your child, and just disappear. Find another man out there, one better suited for you. Believe it or not, there are virgo's out there who are willing to take care of another man's child(if you're into virgos and stuff). I know this, because I did it with my ex girlfriend. She had a son from her ex, and I being the loyal virgo that I am. Tried to be the best father figure I could while I was around.

Moral of the story.
Learn more about the person you're about to start dating and doing the nasty nasty with.

Thanks for all the feedback even though I didn't ask! I know what I need to do even though I knew this before I got pregnant with his baby!

@ P-angel you stupid so and so. I'm no user never have and never will be. I have morals outside of a stupid zodiac sign. What others do to me I don't have to do to them. I won't lower myself to other peoples pathetic ways.

Posted by P-Angel
Gemini's choose to exercise zero control ... then cry victim when their life happens in a way they don't like, eventhough they didn't do anything of their own direction.


Happens all the time .. now here it is again.


You just spend a year going over to his place so he can have a fuck, you even give birth to this fuck child, while handing him money if he needs it .... and do nothing about it, except moan because you are being used.


A person who spends a year in those conditions isn't being used .. their being an intentional doormat, so that they can cry victim.

You. Are an idiot.

As a Virgo guy, that guy is just a bum!!! Don't let him be the representative of us Virgo guys because I'll tell you that I am a humanitarian & my ex was the envy of all the women she ever came in contact with the entire span of our relationship. He's a useless human being, but it has nothing to do with his zodiac sign. My ex got 2 cars, 3 rhinoplasty operations, a trip to mexico, haiti, florida, Prince Edward Island, & Anniversaries in the Waldorf Astoria. This doesn't include the just-because flowers she'd get all the time. So, please know this is not a reflection on Virgos. You just met a bum. All zodiacs signs have a few just bummy people in them.

@ lostinthesauce-That's amazing what you did for her. I hope she appreciated you and the things you've done for her. I hope I meet a guy as great as you one day.

I love how folks make blanket statements about a certain Astrological sign. Every person born under a certain "sign" is exactly the same...awesome!