Virgo+Virgo=— she drives me CRAZY

Hi all i'm new here, i've been reading these boards for a while and decided to join now(since I've got some q's).
I'm 25 and 100% Virgo 🙂 moon:Taurus asc:Saggitarius

So i met this girl about 2 years ago(i had a girlfriend at that time in stage of breaking) and when i first saw her my jaw almost fell off (like in cartoons), she's not that sexy chick kind(which are for sex only, for me at least). she's cute, elegant, pretty, there's something about her... Then after a few months i found out her number and called her, but I(fool) lied to her my name age etc. since i didn't want to hurt my although ex but....(cuz they know each other), we talked a little and i found out that she had a boyfriend, she's 22,smart ,intelectual , modest etc.(all the things we virgos like) and she's VIRGO(since then my attraction doubled dunno why,i have a feeling that she's made for me) and though she had a boyfriend i asked her if it'll be ok if sometimes i call her, she sad alright you may call. After i was calling her about once in 2-3 months not to disturb/bother her. we also met several times at my friends but she didn't know it was me calling,the last time we met was about 11 months ago, i was in a very bad situation because of my lies and i decided not to call her anymore.
But i called her again a week ago(couldn't help myself) 🙂 we talked a little, she told me that all this time she was curious who i am (she thought she hadn't seen me) and then suddenly:

she: have i seen you anywhere?
me: maybe but i don't think u'll remeber(and laughed)
she: you have cute voice
me: thank you (laughed again)
she: hey i know who you are, tells my name(real) (and starts describing myself, eyes, hair, lips, how tall i am and everything)
me: silence (my jaw almost fell off again)
she: is that right? is that right?
me: yes, but how do you know?
she: by your laugh
she: yes (kind of happy and laughs)
me: what are you so happy for?
she: that i guesed who you are.
me: (wondering why is she so happy because of finding out/guessing everything by herself or because it appeared me calling)
me: err umm so you maybe think i'm lier, fool or crazy or something like that for my lies and my acting?
she: hey nevermind, it's not that important, and i don't think you've done anything that bad.

Then i invited her to the restaurant, but she sad no, i asked if it's because of her boyfriend and she said no it's because her brother is very ill at hospital and she doesn't feel like going to the restaurant, but she promised to go when her brother cheks out of hospital in a week or so.

Every time, she mentions her boyfriend as "that guy" and tells how he get's on her nerves and that she's confuzed lately about who he is to her, but alwayes mentions that loves him. I know Virgos don't like to rush into relationships but i'm confused what the hell is going on. Maybe she's moving to anotherrelationship slowly but surely as Virgos do? I really don't want to be another "just for fun" event in her life.

This girl drives me crazy, does everything this make sence or do all Virgo girls remember(after 11 months) every mans laugh and appearence they met? Why was she so happy because she found out it was me or because herself that she's so smart and guessed everything. Even my Virgoan analytical mind couln't come to conclusion.

So if any Virgo girls here or guys whith Virgo girl experience please explain/advice/help me.

Thanks in advance

Good question. Altought I am not Virgo and many Virgos drive me to madness (both male and female), I had same results (laught for no reason) with female Virgos.

Thanks everybody for such amazing and informative help and support,
such a GREAT FORUM. 😢
seems nobody wants to help me 😢

Does she even know your name yet?

I think she laughed because she figured out who it was,
*maybe* also because she likes you,
because personally I cannot laugh with someone I dont like or at least feel comfortable with,
um your situation is a kinda confusing,
I think she loves her boyfriend, and by her complaining about him to you, I think shes trying to send you subtle signals about her situation, no girl would tell a *any* guy that she isnt happy with her relationship unless she had some kind of interest in the guy, but in all honesty maybe shes just stressed and wants someone to vent to,
who knows, this sounds like a big fat mess, she has a boyfriend, her brother is ill, it seems pointless, plus virgos and virgos are usually..USUALLY..not a good mix...I hate VIRGO GUYS! (no offense) but virgos and me tend to always clash(maybe because were too alike, and we need people to even us out)...I was infatuated with a virgo guy once, he was a jerk, player, broke my heart in so many ways possible,....be careful, i would advise not bothering with this girl! like dr phil says "when you play with fire, youre gonna get burned!"

lostinaqua:

Hey welcome. I have a question. Are you Virgo girl?

YES! 🙂

whats the question?

LOL. I have already asked my questio. It was "Are you Virgo girl?".

oh duh! i am tired sorry LOL...wow not a blonde but sure do feel like one right about now🙂

Oh well. You arent like them. You bare sense of humour. I guess the others were simply immature or something else...

Welcome lostinaqua and thanks for your reply

about it being pointles and not bothering with this girl i'd say that i've got nothing to loose so i'll try.
you said: "when you play with fire, youre gonna get burned!" (who's dr phil—)
i say : "If you are falling off a cliff, you may as well try to fly. You've got nothing to lose" 😉
and i know that this sounds like a big fat mess, but i'm sure everything will clear up soon.

Don't hate Virgo guys just beacause some are jerks and players etc. because not all VIRGOs are like that, i have a friend VIRGO(male) we were born the same year, same day, only 1 hour difference we're 70% alike and i'm sure we have same planetary aspects too, but even we are sometimes completely different. so hating all VIRGOs because of some is like burning down your house to get rid of a rat. 🙂
and don't say u hate virgos cuz i have a lot of respect for all VIRGOs in the world(even you)🙂

thanks again


"He who does not hope to win has already lost" - Jose Joaquin Olmedo

well i'm sorry for them.
so how do i understand your post?(what's the meaning?) i know a lot of couples who cheat, so what, how does it relate here?


sounds like AQUARIUS 😉

ok you wanted advice and input but when i told you what you didnt want to hear you got upset why even bothering asking if youre not going to listen to the advice at all...and say im wrong? geez, virgos and virgos are really not a good mix not just in my experience but a lot of virgos ive known, unless the planetary aspects are good, it rarely lasts...its usually a "wet blanket" aspect...she has a boyfriend why would u pursue this? its a negative undertone to your diginity and personality, do you really want to start a relationship with a girl who dumped her boyfriend after some guy pursued her? wouldnt you be worried she would do the same thing to you if the right guy came along? and even then, most people in a relationship need time to heal from the last, so even if youre seeking a relationship with this girl it will end up being a rebound...you dont know who dr phil is? geez no wonder youre lost....your off the cliff quote was stupid...try to fly? unless youre sleeping and in a dream you will fall, you cant fly, i would advise not to come off as a an ass, cause in all honesty i dont respect any guy who would break up a couple, just as bad as breaking up a home, you need to detach yourself from this situation and really analyze it, what do you expect from this? why do you like her? is it worth it? are you just infatuated? are you pursuing her because "you want what you cant have"? what if once you have her, you get bored and dont want her anymore? you'd be in a relationship where she could say "I DUMPED A GREAT GUY FOR YOU!" and use it against you, think it through i believe i have valid points, youre beating a dead horse. good luck.

""your off the cliff quote was stupid...try to fly? unless youre sleeping and in a dream you will fall, you cant fly,"" - yes one can't fly and i didn't say that human being can fly, it's just you don't(or won't) understand the meaning of that statment.

""ok you wanted advice and input but when i told you what you didnt want to hear you got upset why even bothering asking if youre not going to listen to the advice at all"" - thanks for your advice really,😉 but you are wrong again,
you see advice is such a thing when you got some, you think about all take in account and then come to conclusion by yourself. who said i didn't want to hear/listen to your advice, it's just that you can't differ(or may be don't know the difference between) ADVISE and ORDER. 🙂or maybe you think that i'll give up everything just because you said so? though i took in account your advise and i'm really very very very thankfull for it(i didn't get upset), but SORRY FOR NOT TAKING ORDERS FROM YOU 😉

""she has a boyfriend why would u pursue this? its a negative undertone to your diginity and personality, do you really want to start a relationship with a girl who dumped her boyfriend after some guy pursued her?""
""i would advise not to come off as a an ass, cause in all honesty i dont respect any guy who would break up a couple, just as bad as breaking up a home"" - i'm not trying to break anything, i'm not that kind. their relationship is already 90% broken and i don't think they'll get back to that relationship. they're(at least her) even not trying to.

""are you pursuing her because "you want what you cant have"? what if once you have her, you get bored and dont want her anymore?"" - it's not that i want what i can't have, really. i wondn't want anyone with whom there was even 1% chance that i'll get bored!!! so i'm sure about that.

it sounds like you're trying to protect your opinion, not help me.

thank you you really are GREAT 😉

I am not ordering you around, i am advising you...you are obviously really young and naive, and thats fine because we've all been there.


Just be her friend, dont try to be a lover interest while shes in a relationship, I know no matter what anyone says its hard to follow advice, because we feel what we feel so strongly inside, its like trying to change a habit....almost sometimes impossible...
I wasnt trying to protect my opinion, idiot.
I was trying to help you, if I didnt feel for you, I wouldnt bother, I like helping people a lot, and I hate to see people get in situations like this.

Youre not going to listen to anyone obviously, thats fine, but take into account at least some of the sh/t i said.

Take orders from me...god...lol ANYWAYS...

Ps= I know Im great, thanks🙂

lostinaqua i hate to say this but theres something wrong with you, you're nervous/psycho, i told you that: ""i took in account your advise and i'm really very very very thankfull for it""
but you repeat again ""Youre not going to listen to anyone obviously, thats fine, but take into account at least some of the sh/t i said"" (i don't take SH/T into account)>""Ps= I know Im great, thanks"" just saying thanks would have been enough.
""Take orders from me...god...lol ANYWAYS..."" i sayed ""SORRY FOR NOT TAKING ORDERS FROM YOU"" in an IRONICAL way, or are you such a moron that i have to write an explanation after my every word— but i doubt you are, otherwise you wouldn't have said ""your off the cliff quote was stupid...try to fly? unless youre sleeping and in a dream you will fall, you cant fly"" the quote wasn't stupid it's just that some can't understand it because their brains are full of DR.PHILs shit, I'm not going to fly I ain't no BATMAN. i'm sure your DR.PHIL it some smart ass F*CKER who's trying to sell you(with marketing bullshit) book about how to deal with relationships or raise a child.(i wonder how mankind managed to live trough thousands of years without DR.PHILs guidance)

Now that's great, people we're saved after 2000 years of struggle god have sent us DR.PHIL, he'll save you, your children, friends, relationships, he'll guide you through life and teach you how to live, we're christians no more, now we're DR.PHILIANS.
You know what? go read the BIBLE(or KURAN/BUDHA if not christian) it's everything sayed in it, you won't need no DR.SHITs books no more.

DON'T READ THE ABOVE ONE READ THIS

lostinaqua i hate to say this but theres something wrong with you, you're nervous/psycho, i told you that: ""i took in account your advise and i'm really very very very thankfull for it""
but you repeat again ""Youre not going to listen to anyone obviously, thats fine, but take into account at least some of the sh/t i said""! (i don't take SH/T into account)>""Ps= I know Im great, thanks"" just saying thanks would have been enough.
""Take orders from me...god...lol ANYWAYS..."" i sayed ""SORRY FOR NOT TAKING ORDERS FROM YOU"" in an IRONICAL way, or are you such a moron that i have to write an explanation after my every word— but i doubt you are, otherwise you wouldn't have said ""your off the cliff quote was stupid...try to fly? unless youre sleeping and in a dream you will fall, you cant fly"" the quote wasn't stupid it's just that some can't understand it because their brains are full of DR.PHILs sh|t, I'm not going to fly I ain't no BATMAN. i'm sure your DR.PHIL is some smart ass "F U C K E R" who's trying to sell you(with marketing bullsh|t) book about how to deal with relationships or raise a child.(i wonder how mankind managed to live trough thousands of years without DR.PHILs guidance)

Now that's great, people we're saved after 2000 years of struggle god have sent us DR.PHIL, he'll save you, your children, friends, relationships, he'll guide you through life and teach you how to live, we're christians no more, now we're DR.PHILIANS.
You know what? go read the BIBLE(or KURAN/BUDHA if not christian) it's everything sayed in it, you won't need no DR.SH|Ts books no more.

uM its official
youre a moron.

lostinaqua i want to apologize, i really didn't mean everything i sayed, don't be mad at me PLEASE. i was just pissed for calling me an idiot and repeating the same thing again. I know you feel for me and want to help. i thought about being friends too, and i think it's a good idea.
i want to ask u a q again that wasn't answered: do all Virgo girls remember(after 11 months) every mans laugh and appearence(in every single detail) they met? does it mean something/anything—

P.S. you're not an idiot you're great



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Welcome sm Art

I was thinking, maybe the problem with your girl isn't that she's a Virgo at all. Maybe it's just because she's female. We're so difficult to figure out sometimes, you know? We change our minds so rapidly, it's hard to keep up. I'm not a Virgo, so I can't say about the V/V match, but, I've lived with one for 23 years - so, I can understand some things about you creatures. And, what I've heard from you in your original post, just sounds like she's being a girl. I like what you said - I'd have to go back to quote you correctly, but something about burning down the house to get rid of a rat. That was funny, lol !!

The attitude of trying to fly if you were falling off a cliff is definity Virgo. My husband (my Virgo man), would think the same way. You two are a lot alike. Might as well, if you're falling anyway, right?

I think that if you really, really like this girl and want to have a relationship with her - don't give up hope! Sometimes, persistance is the right path. Unfortunately, females know they can dangle men on a string and that's really unfair. I hope you can work this out with some patience - which Virgo's have tons of patience. You know yourself, that you are skeptical by nature of delving too deeply into an emotional relationship without checking everything out first - maybe she's just like that too. I don't know - just my thoughts.

And, btw, the laughing thing. It's funny that you noticed this because my Virgo does the same thing and he doesn't realize it in himself. But, I've noticed that when he does it - it's usually when he's nervous about something. Or, if he's scard.

Hope this helps!

oops, I read that wrong - it was your laugh she recognized!

lostinaqua i wrote my reply before i saw yours(about me being offissial moron) 🙂
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ok,,,ay...for a second i thought it was your horrible attempt to send a virus lol...

I'm a virgo girl and dated a virgo guy (he was three days younger than me) we were really alike. I didn't like him at first thought he was kind of annoying :-/ haha but he grew on to me. from what I've heard virgo-virgo relationships tend to end in extra marrital affairs. needless to say, he left me for a girl that was 4 years younger than us and tried coming back to me after he figured out "she had no personality" his loss... cause now I'm with his scorpio friend the sex is wild :] anywho... virgo-virgo relationships can work if they both curb their critical tounges. even when we do talk now we still critique each other haha!