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I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.

I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.

Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..

I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
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I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.

I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.

Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..

I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
My ex did this. I had the same question a few months back and got jumped ( not by all ) but by a lot for "making things up" lol.
Good luck girl.

Ps. Yes looks like they do sometimes try and get you back. Me and you are proof..
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Lol, ya, you take the chance in this place.
So they do huh...

I'd ask my virgo guy friend too, but I'm mad at him right now.

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anyways how did you guys break up, if you dumped them, they will certainly be back

if they dumped you, its a lost cause.
I broke up with him.
ya ...well...there's your answer, unresolved matters


what was the reason?
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I have to think back, there were multiple reasons. I was very focused on my new career and moving up the ladder. I was there.for him, but he needed more time. It eventually hindered our relationship. So I broke it off, because it wasn't fair to him.

3 years though?...come on.
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I used to date a virgo and it ended on my terms because of my own stupidity . That was six years ago and I still find myself thinking of him and I have made some effort to reconnect with him .

So yes we do come back and there's no time frame . If someone meant something to me they will frequently be in my thoughts .
How long.did it take you to make contact?...what did you say when you did?
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anyways how did you guys break up, if you dumped them, they will certainly be back

if they dumped you, its a lost cause.
I broke up with him.
ya ...well...there's your answer, unresolved matters


what was the reason?
I have to think back, there were multiple reasons. I was very focused on my new career and moving up the ladder. I was there.for him, but he needed more time. It eventually hindered our relationship. So I broke it off, because it wasn't fair to him.

3 years though?...come on.
3 yrs is nothing if you like someone

i could date many people but years down the road still think about the X Virgo

i mean its about impact of a person.
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True.

Ya, he mentioned how I made him feel.
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?
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Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.
He's married, and trying to creep.
Yes.. Back in 2014 we stopped our engagement in May he went and got married in August and every few months he returns to contact me
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Damn, 3 months after the break up? Makes me think he had the girl already on the side prior.
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?
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No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?



No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
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I understand. Thank you for sharing.

So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?



No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
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I feel like the virgo also went back amd forth with the decision to contact me. I can see that in him. We had the same relationship, no drama and very compatible physically as well.
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?



No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
I understand. Thank you for sharing.

So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?
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No it was never anything to do with him not coming back because I knew he wouldn't . He was hurt , he severed all contact with me , phone , facebook and just accepted my choices . I too closed the door on it and moved on but like I say I thought about him more and more until the point where I had to make contact to say sorry .
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?



No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
I understand. Thank you for sharing.

So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?



No it was never anything to do with him not coming back because I knew he wouldn't . He was hurt , he severed all contact with me , phone , facebook and just accepted my choices . I too closed the door on it and moved on but like I say I thought about him more and more until the point where I had to make contact to say sorry .
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Takes a lot of courage to do that.
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?



No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
is he single?
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I'm not sure if he is or not . I'm thinking not though as he was lovely and polite as per usual but not really engaging but then again he may have been all ' im not letting you near me ever again ' haha
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I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.

We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.
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I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.

We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.
Define short, we were together for over a year..
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I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .

I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .

Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Do you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?

Also why wait so long?



No course not ๐Ÿ™‚

In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .

I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .

All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .

I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
I understand. Thank you for sharing.

So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?



No it was never anything to do with him not coming back because I knew he wouldn't . He was hurt , he severed all contact with me , phone , facebook and just accepted my choices . I too closed the door on it and moved on but like I say I thought about him more and more until the point where I had to make contact to say sorry .
Takes a lot of courage to do that.
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He knows I feel bad for it and he knows I'm deeply sorry and that's peace of mind for me . I will never forget him though .
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I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.

We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.
Define short, we were together for over a year..
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I dont think he sees you as a 'satellite girl', he just genuinely still loves you and has been thinking about you so much that finally he had the courage to let you know
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Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.
He's married, and trying to creep.
Yes.. Back in 2014 we stopped our engagement in May he went and got married in August and every few months he returns to contact me
why did your engagement fail?
Long story short he wanted me to abandon my family and move away with him and do a courthouse marriage and I wanted him to meet my family and do things differently.. He got impatient then something happened and we had a big argument from there.

He said he wasn't involved with her but that's a lie he knew he since High school
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This one was.talking marriage as well.

I never thought a.fly by night marriage ceremony was something a virgo woukd do.
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I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.

We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.
Define short, we were together for over a year..
I dont think he sees you as a 'satellite girl', he just genuinely still loves you and has been thinking about you so much that finally he had the courage to let you know
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I totally agree with this ๐Ÿ™‚
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I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.

We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.
Define short, we were together for over a year..
I dont think he sees you as a 'satellite girl', he just genuinely still loves you and has been thinking about you so much that finally he had the courage to let you know
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So you think he's been mulling this over and over before reaching out.finally?... bcuz for some reason I can see him doing that. He always came to me when making decisions. He felt insecure a lot about certain things.
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Man I kind of want to post some of what he said, but not sure if I want to go into dissecting his.words.

You think virgos are bad, caps are just as bad with over analyzing. Lol
Well, for better or for worse there is always some sort of permanent attraction between virgos and caps, no matter how things end up between the two.
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Man I kind of want to post some of what he said, but not sure if I want to go into dissecting his.words.

You think virgos are bad, caps are just as bad with over analyzing. Lol
Well, for better or for worse there is always some sort of permanent attraction between virgos and caps, no matter how things end up between the two.
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I can see that. One of the times I've thought of him, I contemplated to see how he was doing..but I thought, nevermind, just let him keep moving on and let things be.
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I cant say Im attracted in any way to my Cap ex anymore though, in fact sometimes I wonder these days what it is that I saw in her at the time ๐Ÿ˜› HOWEVER, every once in a while (like couple of times a year) when we run into each other, there is always this awkward feeling between us, in a good way, like we both know exactly what the other is thinking but not saying, its hard to explain really.
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I cant say Im attracted in any way to my Cap ex anymore though, in fact sometimes I wonder these days what it is that I saw in her at the time ๐Ÿ˜› HOWEVER, every once in a while (like couple of times a year) when we run into each other, there is always this awkward feeling between us, in a good way, like we both know exactly what the other is thinking but not saying, its hard to explain really.
Haha.

We don't run into eachother, so that's hard to say. He lives pretty far away now actually.

But I know the feeling you describe, when running into the ex...it's like this "knowing" feeling of some sort. You just have to smile.
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Did you tell him you're in a relationship yet?
I have not replied, not sure if I wamt to.
What do you think he wants? What's his reason for contacting you?
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Based on his email and what he wrote... I'm thinking he wants me to respond to start connecting again and try to get back what we had before. I'm looking at this logically. Its not just a hey, how are you doing email. He sounds like he did when we were together, sentimental.

That's why I'm not sure if I wamt to respond, even if just to catch up. Just wondering why he sent it after so long.
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Why are you always reminiscing about us? Be more in the present with your scorpio.

i do agree with Supermercurial.

When you saw that email you should have dumped it and not give it any thought. Instead it hounded your mind, like why? I mean it shoudlnt matter what that guy thinks anymore.
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Well, I like to analyze as well, and I wanted to post a topic since virgos like to analyze too, and he's a virgo like them. This is a forum.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
if you dated a year and you're only thinking about the guy 4 times, you were never in love

i dated the virgo 6 months, he strung me along for another 6 and i was obsessed

then we got back together and im still obsessed...can't stop thinking about him


even after he said the cruelist meanest things to me
I thought about him a lot for a while after we split.. I'm talking about when I finally got over him.
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Cap was in love with me and i blew up on him on some ky jelly stuff, even tho after i figured, he wasn't playing me, got it for me to ease me during sex....

but honestly i was already kind of feeling a LEO

so i dumped him and moved on

damn KARMA

same sheet with Virgo now, he played me just like i did the CAP

made a hoopla about nothing so i can move on to the next

GOD you got me.
Lol.
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I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.

I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.

Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..

I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
That cap that was my first love, intimate partner, female best friend so on and so forth that I told you about @Greentea? Yea she was someone that I revisited many a time...we maintained a loose but chilly orbit around each other for several years after we broke up in like '06.

I felt a great deal of affection for her in the intervening years but ultimately I learned my lessons regarding her... I stay away from her outta principle and respect for myself.
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Damn ixion, was she that bad? I hope not. The virgo and I had a good relationship despite it not working out.

Which makes me not want to respond to him. I'm very respectful of my relationship with my Scorpio and wouldn't want to jeopardize it in any way. A part of me though wamts to bcuz I did and still do care for him.
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Posted by Ixion120
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Posted by Ixion120
Posted by Greentea
I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.

I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.

Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..

I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
That cap that was my first love, intimate partner, female best friend so on and so forth that I told you about @Greentea? Yea she was someone that I revisited many a time...we maintained a loose but chilly orbit around each other for several years after we broke up in like '06.

I felt a great deal of affection for her in the intervening years but ultimately I learned my lessons regarding her... I stay away from her outta principle and respect for myself.
Damn ixion, was she that bad? I hope not. The virgo and I had a good relationship despite it not working out.

Which makes me not want to respond to him. I'm very respectful of my relationship with my Scorpio and wouldn't want to jeopardize it in any way. A part of me though wamts to bcuz I did and still do care for him.
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Her and I went out for close to 2 years when I was in HS...When I say I really did my absolute best to treat her well, did just that...had eyes only for her n that sorta thing (caught in the young and naive trap that causes you to put your all into a relationship to the point where you don't leave enough for yourself for yourself **pisces moon sacrifice shit**)

She left me for a guy she knew from earlier childhood...I figured him as a problem from the moment he arrived but she swore up and down that nothing was going on.....lol apparently enough was going on for her to break up with me and start seeing him a lil less than a month after we split. Shit happens.

I was pretty much down n out for close to 4 years after it...emotionally sealed off n what not. during that time she would kinda float in on me to check in on me but wouldn't ever really become a participant in my life. I saw her maybe 2 or 3 times during the 4 years after the break up...we would still have really good chemistry and discussion but after it she would disappear...one day I got fed up after I asked to see her she agreed then stood me up.

I penned her a message, to just let her know how fucked up that was...cuz I would nev
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