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Posted by leow31Lol, ya, you take the chance in this place.Posted by GreenteaMy ex did this. I had the same question a few months back and got jumped ( not by all ) but by a lot for "making things up" lol.
I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.
I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.
Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..
I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
Good luck girl.
Ps. Yes looks like they do sometimes try and get you back. Me and you are proof..click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesYou think so? ...what makes you think that?
There's not a one person that lingers, there's multiple people that linger, depending on where the Virgo's ego needs stroking.
im very certain the Virgo i dated has tried to fuk the Aries he dated after me and him broke up last time.
it's circular with these guys.


Posted by SensitiveBluesI broke up with him.
anyways how did you guys break up, if you dumped them, they will certainly be back
if they dumped you, its a lost cause.


Posted by SensitiveBluesI have to think back, there were multiple reasons. I was very focused on my new career and moving up the ladder. I was there.for him, but he needed more time. It eventually hindered our relationship. So I broke it off, because it wasn't fair to him.Posted by Greenteaya ...well...there's your answer, unresolved mattersPosted by SensitiveBluesI broke up with him.
anyways how did you guys break up, if you dumped them, they will certainly be back
if they dumped you, its a lost cause.
what was the reason?click to expand

Posted by MissvirgoHow long.did it take you to make contact?...what did you say when you did?
I used to date a virgo and it ended on my terms because of my own stupidity . That was six years ago and I still find myself thinking of him and I have made some effort to reconnect with him .
So yes we do come back and there's no time frame . If someone meant something to me they will frequently be in my thoughts .

Posted by LibralulaHe's married, and trying to creep.
Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.

Posted by SensitiveBluesTrue.Posted by Greentea3 yrs is nothing if you like someonePosted by SensitiveBluesI have to think back, there were multiple reasons. I was very focused on my new career and moving up the ladder. I was there.for him, but he needed more time. It eventually hindered our relationship. So I broke it off, because it wasn't fair to him.Posted by Greenteaya ...well...there's your answer, unresolved mattersPosted by SensitiveBluesI broke up with him.
anyways how did you guys break up, if you dumped them, they will certainly be back
if they dumped you, its a lost cause.
what was the reason?
3 years though?...come on.
i could date many people but years down the road still think about the X Virgo
i mean its about impact of a person.click to expand


Posted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .

Posted by LibralulaDamn, 3 months after the break up? Makes me think he had the girl already on the side prior.Posted by GreenteaYes.. Back in 2014 we stopped our engagement in May he went and got married in August and every few months he returns to contact mePosted by LibralulaHe's married, and trying to creep.
Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.
click to expand

Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?click to expand

Posted by MissvirgoI understand. Thank you for sharing.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?
No course not ๐
In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .
I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .
All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .
I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .click to expand

Posted by MissvirgoI feel like the virgo also went back amd forth with the decision to contact me. I can see that in him. We had the same relationship, no drama and very compatible physically as well.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?
No course not ๐
In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .
I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .
All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .
I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .click to expand

Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoI understand. Thank you for sharing.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?
No course not ๐
In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .
I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .
All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .
I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?click to expand

Posted by MissvirgoTakes a lot of courage to do that.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoI understand. Thank you for sharing.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?
No course not ๐
In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .
I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .
All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .
I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?
No it was never anything to do with him not coming back because I knew he wouldn't . He was hurt , he severed all contact with me , phone , facebook and just accepted my choices . I too closed the door on it and moved on but like I say I thought about him more and more until the point where I had to make contact to say sorry .click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesPosted by Missvirgois he single?Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?
No course not ๐
In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .
I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .
All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .
I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .click to expand

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomDefine short, we were together for over a year..
I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.
We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.

Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoTakes a lot of courage to do that.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoI understand. Thank you for sharing.Posted by GreenteaPosted by MissvirgoDo you mind sharing, if you were hoping for more to come out of that comtact?
I actually only contacted him a couple of months ago so it was a long time after we finished .
I didn't bring up ' oh remember this and remember that ' it was a simple ' im so sorry for my actions towards you ' he did reply and was okay towards me but it wasn't a long conversation .
Like I say me personally I reflect on all my actions and I do realise what a absolute idiot I was .
Also why wait so long?
No course not ๐
In all honesty I don't know . Part of me misses the innocent relationship I had with him , there was never ever any drama between us and physically we connected well , I hadn't been separated from my ex before him for long so like a idiot I went backwards when I should have kept moving forwards . A ex is a ex for a reason though so that didn't last long . I had a brief relationship with a cancer male which was a mess ! I've been single since and like I say I have reflected on things and the way certain relationships have made me feel .
I hurt him and I don't like that knowledge at all . Why so long ?? Because I've been stuck between do I / don't I , it's not something I've taken lightly .
All my exes come back round sag , aqua , cancer but never him .
I would only ever think about him and a leo ex .
So do you think, maybe because he never came back like the others, maybe that also had something to do with it. He was different than the others. Maybe?
No it was never anything to do with him not coming back because I knew he wouldn't . He was hurt , he severed all contact with me , phone , facebook and just accepted my choices . I too closed the door on it and moved on but like I say I thought about him more and more until the point where I had to make contact to say sorry .click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesI.don't think she's going after any virgo. Lol
I'd give you some advice, but i dont' know which virgo you're going after, he could be my ex so im going to stay mum on this one
Posted by GreenteaI dont think he sees you as a 'satellite girl', he just genuinely still loves you and has been thinking about you so much that finally he had the courage to let you knowPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomDefine short, we were together for over a year..
I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.
We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.click to expand

Posted by LibralulaThis one was.talking marriage as well.Posted by SensitiveBluesLong story short he wanted me to abandon my family and move away with him and do a courthouse marriage and I wanted him to meet my family and do things differently.. He got impatient then something happened and we had a big argument from there.Posted by Libralulawhy did your engagement fail?Posted by GreenteaYes.. Back in 2014 we stopped our engagement in May he went and got married in August and every few months he returns to contact mePosted by LibralulaHe's married, and trying to creep.
Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.
He said he wasn't involved with her but that's a lie he knew he since High schoolclick to expand

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by GreenteaI dont think he sees you as a 'satellite girl', he just genuinely still loves you and has been thinking about you so much that finally he had the courage to let you knowPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomDefine short, we were together for over a year..
I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.
We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.click to expand

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomSo you think he's been mulling this over and over before reaching out.finally?... bcuz for some reason I can see him doing that. He always came to me when making decisions. He felt insecure a lot about certain things.Posted by GreenteaI dont think he sees you as a 'satellite girl', he just genuinely still loves you and has been thinking about you so much that finally he had the courage to let you knowPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomDefine short, we were together for over a year..
I dont do this stuff anymore, cause Im in a happy relationship right now, but up untill a couple of years ago I used to have what I like calling "satellite girls", mostly girls I had something short with at some point but there was still enough chemistry left for me to always consider reconnecting with, and with some I did. Girls I had long term relationships with I could probably never consider "satellite girls" after the relationship is over.
We can get in nostalgic moods sometimes and if someone meant something to us at some point in our lives (no matter how unimportant that something seems right now) the fond memories make us wonder what that person is up to these days. It doesnt always have to be intended for ego-stroking or a quick bootie, often we are just curious as to how they are doing, etc.click to expand


Posted by SensitiveBlues
I'd give you some advice, but i dont' know which virgo you're going after, he could be my ex so im going to stay mum on this one

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom3 years though Boom...
Im pretty sure he had been thinking a lot about it before he reached out to you, especially him being so honest about his feelings
Posted by GreenteaWell, for better or for worse there is always some sort of permanent attraction between virgos and caps, no matter how things end up between the two.
Man I kind of want to post some of what he said, but not sure if I want to go into dissecting his.words.
You think virgos are bad, caps are just as bad with over analyzing. Lol

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomI can see that. One of the times I've thought of him, I contemplated to see how he was doing..but I thought, nevermind, just let him keep moving on and let things be.Posted by GreenteaWell, for better or for worse there is always some sort of permanent attraction between virgos and caps, no matter how things end up between the two.
Man I kind of want to post some of what he said, but not sure if I want to go into dissecting his.words.
You think virgos are bad, caps are just as bad with over analyzing. Lolclick to expand

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomHaha.
I cant say Im attracted in any way to my Cap ex anymore though, in fact sometimes I wonder these days what it is that I saw in her at the time ๐ HOWEVER, every once in a while (like couple of times a year) when we run into each other, there is always this awkward feeling between us, in a good way, like we both know exactly what the other is thinking but not saying, its hard to explain really.

Posted by SuperMercurialI have not replied, not sure if I wamt to.
Did you tell him you're in a relationship yet?

Posted by SuperMercurialYou know what virgo, I'm not answering you until you tell me if you're a male/female. Quit dodging my question. I'm gonna calm you ninja.
Why are you always reminiscing about us? Be more in the present with your scorpio.

Posted by SuperMercurial
Why are you always reminiscing about us? Be more in the present with your scorpio.

Posted by LibralulaBased on his email and what he wrote... I'm thinking he wants me to respond to start connecting again and try to get back what we had before. I'm looking at this logically. Its not just a hey, how are you doing email. He sounds like he did when we were together, sentimental.Posted by GreenteaWhat do you think he wants? What's his reason for contacting you?Posted by SuperMercurialI have not replied, not sure if I wamt to.
Did you tell him you're in a relationship yet?click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Well, I like to analyze as well, and I wanted to post a topic since virgos like to analyze too, and he's a virgo like them. This is a forum.Posted by SuperMercurial
Why are you always reminiscing about us? Be more in the present with your scorpio.
i do agree with Supermercurial.
When you saw that email you should have dumped it and not give it any thought. Instead it hounded your mind, like why? I mean it shoudlnt matter what that guy thinks anymore.click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesI thought about him a lot for a while after we split.. I'm talking about when I finally got over him.
if you dated a year and you're only thinking about the guy 4 times, you were never in love
i dated the virgo 6 months, he strung me along for another 6 and i was obsessed
then we got back together and im still obsessed...can't stop thinking about him
even after he said the cruelist meanest things to me

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomExactly. I think he opened up the past, amd made me remember "us".
Well, in GreenTea's defense...
If someone meant a lot to you at some point, its kinda normal to care about stuff, even when you know you probably shouldnt. To pretend it does nothing to you would be just lying to yourself

Posted by SensitiveBluesLol.
Cap was in love with me and i blew up on him on some ky jelly stuff, even tho after i figured, he wasn't playing me, got it for me to ease me during sex....
but honestly i was already kind of feeling a LEO
so i dumped him and moved on
damn KARMA
same sheet with Virgo now, he played me just like i did the CAP
made a hoopla about nothing so i can move on to the next
GOD you got me.

Posted by Ixion120Damn ixion, was she that bad? I hope not. The virgo and I had a good relationship despite it not working out.Posted by GreenteaThat cap that was my first love, intimate partner, female best friend so on and so forth that I told you about @Greentea? Yea she was someone that I revisited many a time...we maintained a loose but chilly orbit around each other for several years after we broke up in like '06.
I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.
I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.
Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..
I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
I felt a great deal of affection for her in the intervening years but ultimately I learned my lessons regarding her... I stay away from her outta principle and respect for myself.click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesActually that's not.true at all. They try to fix it, and then they will leave if it doesn't sort itself out. Communication is key.
Virgo men love women who treat them like crap it seems like to me.

Posted by Ixion120Posted by GreenteaHer and I went out for close to 2 years when I was in HS...When I say I really did my absolute best to treat her well, did just that...had eyes only for her n that sorta thing (caught in the young and naive trap that causes you to put your all into a relationship to the point where you don't leave enough for yourself for yourself **pisces moon sacrifice shit**)Posted by Ixion120Damn ixion, was she that bad? I hope not. The virgo and I had a good relationship despite it not working out.Posted by GreenteaThat cap that was my first love, intimate partner, female best friend so on and so forth that I told you about @Greentea? Yea she was someone that I revisited many a time...we maintained a loose but chilly orbit around each other for several years after we broke up in like '06.
I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.
I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.
Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..
I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
I felt a great deal of affection for her in the intervening years but ultimately I learned my lessons regarding her... I stay away from her outta principle and respect for myself.
Which makes me not want to respond to him. I'm very respectful of my relationship with my Scorpio and wouldn't want to jeopardize it in any way. A part of me though wamts to bcuz I did and still do care for him.click to expand
She left me for a guy she knew from earlier childhood...I figured him as a problem from the moment he arrived but she swore up and down that nothing was going on.....lol apparently enough was going on for her to break up with me and start seeing him a lil less than a month after we split. Shit happens.
I was pretty much down n out for close to 4 years after it...emotionally sealed off n what not. during that time she would kinda float in on me to check in on me but wouldn't ever really become a participant in my life. I saw her maybe 2 or 3 times during the 4 years after the break up...we would still have really good chemistry and discussion but after it she would disappear...one day I got fed up after I asked to see her she agreed then stood me up.
I penned her a message, to just let her know how fucked up that was...cuz I would nev
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I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.
Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..
I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.