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@Ixion120.. it cut my response off

Bit damn. That's fuked up. Maybe she knew how she felt for you, and she thought she just couldn't go through with it. I domt know but maybe.

See..that's the thing, I don't want to do that to him and just.ignore the email like he never meant anything to me amd u cerrtainly dont wakt to make him feel like he didnt. I know it took a lot on his part to do that, and probably contemplated in hitting the send button. He deserves a response bcuz he was.someone very important to be, but I also don't wamt to open up a can by responding.

IF I do, I'll be sure to mention my Scorpio.
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
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Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.
cheating on a CRAB? whats his wife signs


damn these guys are annoying
We don't talk about her much as you can imagine but he mentioned going out for birthday once cant remember either Aqua or Pisces
You wonder why he keeps reaching out to you.. When you're keeping lines of communication open. Why wouldn't he since you seem to be approachable still?

Had you blocked any form of communication he would've gotten the hint sooner or later.
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Did you read the rest?.. I haven't spoken to him in 3 years.
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I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.

I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.

Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..

I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
the question you need an answer to is why did he email you....

if you have to ask why he did then let him be on his way and you also. dont stand on on both side of the sky.
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That's what I was thinking..which is why I never.contacted him after we ended, whem i hd tjought aboit him aND thought of reaching out. But.my question was, is this normal for virgos...to my original post? 3 years..
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Posted by Greentea
I thought this whole Mercury retrograde sort was not.going to hit me, but I was wrong.

I just received an email from a Virgo I was in a relationship with a few years back. Said he's never stopped thinking of me, and us, brought up some things we used to do together and how I made him feel.

Do you Virgos do this?...is there that one person that lingers?..

I'm taken back by this. I haven't heard from, or seen him in a long time.
the question you need an answer to is why did he email you....

if you have to ask why he did then let him be on his way and you also. dont stand on on both side of the sky.
That's what I was thinking..which is why I never.contacted him after we ended, whem i hd tjought aboit him aND thought of reaching out. But.my question was, is this normal for virgos...to my original post? 3 years..
whats more important to know is when or if he finds out you have to ask others for answers, he will be gone.

you have to ask your own self if its normal for him....? to do this?
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I don't know if it's normal for him to reach out to exes at all, or 3 years later.
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by Libralula
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Libralula
Virgo Sun ex who is now married came back. He is always in the background married for over a year now.. I won't entertain him. He says he loves me and wants me to fill his lack of attention but no.
cheating on a CRAB? whats his wife signs


damn these guys are annoying
We don't talk about her much as you can imagine but he mentioned going out for birthday once cant remember either Aqua or Pisces
You wonder why he keeps reaching out to you.. When you're keeping lines of communication open. Why wouldn't he since you seem to be approachable still?

Had you blocked any form of communication he would've gotten the hint sooner or later.
You're right a bit.. It disturbs me what he contacts me for now and what he says.. But I guess we were bff since 8th grade and it took five years before we seriously dated... I chase him away every time but I allow conversation.. I email him back I answer the phone
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I guess I miss our friendship in a way but not or romantic relationship... He tells me he loves me and tries to get me back while he's still married and that makes me so mad.. I tell him off but it does nothing most guys would leave me alone but he's the only person I know I can insult and cuss out and still remains unphased. Hell say nothing then a few months later returns.
I had a similar situation with my ex. Only difference was I was the one that moved on. I told him I was with my fiancé but did not mind staying friends (my fiancé was aware), and the ex said he respected that.. But he'd always end up trying to win me back. So I had no choice but to cut him off for good.

Guys that are out to have sex will be very persistent. It's not even like your ex is not getting any in the meantime, he is, so he's not really losing out either way by continuously putting himself out there. Hes just trying his luck out every time he hits you up.

At the end of the day if he truly loved you like he says he does he wouldn't have ran off and married someone else only a few months after your break up. He would've tried to resolve your issues.
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Right, and also Libralula, look what he's doing to his wife. He doesn't seem to truly love her either, or resp
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Posted by lnana04
It seems as if you still care for the Virgo.

This is a messy situation because I know we(caps) only analyze when we still care. We want to know if they still care too, and all of this is a threat to your current relationship.

IF your Scorpio had this type of curiosity I'm sure you would be upset.
I do still care/have love for him as a person amd someone i share great memories with, but it stops there. We had a great relationship up until the end. I analyzed why he decided to contact me after so long. He just started off, "I know this must be a surprise to you"..
And it was.

As far as my scorpio, I've contemplated about telling him, I just don't want to have him worry over something that's never going to happen. Believe me Cappy, this goat just keeps it moving forward.