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virgos and social media?
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Posted by Black-Mamba
I had a Virgo like most of my stuff to completely stopping
I figured he doesnt feel me anymore and has moved on
Accurate.
If I like your sh!t, I'll like all of your sh!t.
The very instant I don't believe you like me, I turn ice cold on you and completely withdraw.
That's generally how I break off my love. Instantly, completely, and I leave you cold and in the dark.
I'm not saying it's a rash decision at all. It's not like at the slightest shred of doubt, I'm pulling the ejection handle.
I just mean that I can read between the lines, pick up on cues and hints, and I know when a battle is lost.
Courtship is a tennis match. If I put the ball in your court, and it doesn't get returned I'm cool with it to a degree. People are busy, people don't always communicate through the same mediums or in the same way, etc. Some aren't as forward. Yata yata yata.
But there comes a point when you've put a ball in every possible court (more than once), and they need to do or say something no matter how shy or timid of a person they are. It's a two way street. No one wants to play catch with themselves. Call me crazy, but I expect their interest in me to come with a pulse. I'm not looking for some grandiose showing either, but basic life would be cool.
That's what I mean by "the instant I believe you don't like me." That's when I walk away. And I'm not interested in being friends either. There's a division. If we aren't getting together, and friendship would just hurt me, I don't see a point in sticking around. It would take a lot to drive me to that point, but when it does, it's quite final.
*Full disclosure: I'm currently being ghosted (literally out of left field) for about a week now. I'm butt hurt and posting accordingly.*
I just mean that I can read between the lines, pick up on cues and hints, and I know when a battle is lost.
Courtship is a tennis match. If I put the ball in your court, and it doesn't get returned I'm cool with it to a degree. People are busy, people don't always communicate through the same mediums or in the same way, etc. Some aren't as forward. Yata yata yata.
But there comes a point when you've put a ball in every possible court (more than once), and they need to do or say something no matter how shy or timid of a person they are. It's a two way street. No one wants to play catch with themselves. Call me crazy, but I expect their interest in me to come with a pulse. I'm not looking for some grandiose showing either, but basic life would be cool.
That's what I mean by "the instant I believe you don't like me." That's when I walk away. And I'm not interested in being friends either. There's a division. If we aren't getting together, and friendship would just hurt me, I don't see a point in sticking around. It would take a lot to drive me to that point, but when it does, it's quite final.
*Full disclosure: I'm currently being ghosted (literally out of left field) for about a week now. I'm butt hurt and posting accordingly.*
I hate when guys like my pics all of a sudden. Bc I know that’s a tactic. Morse code for “May I slide into your dm’s pls”
I like a few back to be polite and bc I feel obligated and BAM next thing you know they’re shooting their shot into my DM’s and unfortunately airballing.
Just DM me instead pls
I like a few back to be polite and bc I feel obligated and BAM next thing you know they’re shooting their shot into my DM’s and unfortunately airballing.
Just DM me instead pls
Honestly I don’t think that’s a clear sign that he doesn’t like you. If anything it may mean that he’s more aware of you and is careful of what he likes.
If there’s no reason for him to hate you and he’s at least your friend (for now), I don’t think he’d be that rude to purposely ignore you
If there’s no reason for him to hate you and he’s at least your friend (for now), I don’t think he’d be that rude to purposely ignore you
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by IceVirg
The very instant I don't believe you like me, I turn ice cold on you and completely withdraw.
Fuggin Virgos, what if you get it wrong?click to expand
Bold of you to assume that Virgos are ever wrong.
Posted by PinsNNeedlesPosted by smol_asianPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by IceVirg
The very instant I don't believe you like me, I turn ice cold on you and completely withdraw.
Fuggin Virgos, what if you get it wrong?
Bold of you to assume that Virgos are ever wrong.
Who said we're always right? Another lie.
It's just his gut-feelin, bellybutton telling him hunches.click to expand
A lot of people proclaim that it's a Virgo trait for us to want to have the last word hahaha. I am usually right but don't go advertising it. 😛
Here's this thing I've observed with these virguys.
One of my male best friends is a virgo. He has had a long term crush on me. He is still my bestie at heart but not the way we were before as he asked me out despite me being in a relationship with my virgo boyfriend so my guy obviously asked me to cut all ties with this virgo bestie.
Anyway, so he used to like all my posts and pictures on social media. Like literally all.
I am anyway not a huge fan of posting too much as I find it immature and irrelevant so I post occasionally and only when I feel it's something really good enough worth posting.
So he clicks the "heart" emoji each time and even comments something or the other.
He'll whatsapp text me and at the same time comment on my post. That's his way of wanting to show everyone that "Look, we have a great relation out there"
So yeah, if they really like youhave a crush on you, they will go gaga over the things you post.
Now coming to my virgo boyfriend. My virguy is an insta addict. He scrolls through insta posts and photos faster than I scroll down any rubbish kardashian news.
He is too generous with pressing that damn "heart" button too. If he find a pic appealing while scrolling, he'll pause for a second,hit the heart button and move on to scrolling down again.
On the other hand, if its a photo posted by me or a really close friend, he'll pause for more than a minute and dissect,diagnose and analyze that pic.
For example,I was at this beautiful lake in Boston,USA and that made up for a beautiful picture of me in that lake. Many people complimented me by commenting in that photo on Facebook.He pressed the heart emoji and then messaged me saying my face looks kinda weird,I should have taken off my glasses, I should have smiled better, I should have posed better, lol lol lol.
So conclusion - in general they will hit the like for anything they find appealing prima facie. They won't really look at it too much.Jut like it and scroll down. However, if they really like you,love you or feel you're too close to them, they'll disssect your photo and analzye every nook and cranny..
One of my male best friends is a virgo. He has had a long term crush on me. He is still my bestie at heart but not the way we were before as he asked me out despite me being in a relationship with my virgo boyfriend so my guy obviously asked me to cut all ties with this virgo bestie.
Anyway, so he used to like all my posts and pictures on social media. Like literally all.
I am anyway not a huge fan of posting too much as I find it immature and irrelevant so I post occasionally and only when I feel it's something really good enough worth posting.
So he clicks the "heart" emoji each time and even comments something or the other.
He'll whatsapp text me and at the same time comment on my post. That's his way of wanting to show everyone that "Look, we have a great relation out there"
So yeah, if they really like youhave a crush on you, they will go gaga over the things you post.
Now coming to my virgo boyfriend. My virguy is an insta addict. He scrolls through insta posts and photos faster than I scroll down any rubbish kardashian news.
He is too generous with pressing that damn "heart" button too. If he find a pic appealing while scrolling, he'll pause for a second,hit the heart button and move on to scrolling down again.
On the other hand, if its a photo posted by me or a really close friend, he'll pause for more than a minute and dissect,diagnose and analyze that pic.
For example,I was at this beautiful lake in Boston,USA and that made up for a beautiful picture of me in that lake. Many people complimented me by commenting in that photo on Facebook.He pressed the heart emoji and then messaged me saying my face looks kinda weird,I should have taken off my glasses, I should have smiled better, I should have posed better, lol lol lol.
So conclusion - in general they will hit the like for anything they find appealing prima facie. They won't really look at it too much.Jut like it and scroll down. However, if they really like you,love you or feel you're too close to them, they'll disssect your photo and analzye every nook and cranny..
True.
But I don't think I'd ever tell my gf that her face looks weird or criticize her like that. Not happening whether I think it or not. Aren't Virgos supposed to be intelligent? Even if she doesn't get wildly angry at me for saying that, I still want her completely confident in the bedroom. Her bedroom confidence plays to MY benefit too after all.
I use a tad bit more discretion with my likes though. They're valuable currency. They're placed exactly where I want them. My likes (like any product of my work) is an extension, representation, and reflection of me. Maybe it's pretentious of me, but my likes are a serious stamp of approval.
And yes, I've spent many a-minute pausing and absorbing bae's beauty. Some things don't need to be scrolled past. What's gonna be better further down than what I'm looking at right now?
But I don't think I'd ever tell my gf that her face looks weird or criticize her like that. Not happening whether I think it or not. Aren't Virgos supposed to be intelligent? Even if she doesn't get wildly angry at me for saying that, I still want her completely confident in the bedroom. Her bedroom confidence plays to MY benefit too after all.
I use a tad bit more discretion with my likes though. They're valuable currency. They're placed exactly where I want them. My likes (like any product of my work) is an extension, representation, and reflection of me. Maybe it's pretentious of me, but my likes are a serious stamp of approval.
And yes, I've spent many a-minute pausing and absorbing bae's beauty. Some things don't need to be scrolled past. What's gonna be better further down than what I'm looking at right now?
Posted by IceVirg
True.
But I don't think I'd ever tell my gf that her face looks weird or criticize her like that. Not happening whether I think it or not. Aren't Virgos supposed to be intelligent? Even if she doesn't get wildly angry at me for saying that, I still want her completely confident in the bedroom. Her bedroom confidence plays to MY benefit too after all.
I use a tad bit more discretion with my likes though. They're valuable currency. They're placed exactly where I want them. My likes (like any product of my work) is an extension, representation, and reflection of me. Maybe it's pretentious of me, but my likes are a serious stamp of approval.
And yes, I've spent many a-minute pausing and absorbing bae's beauty. Some things don't need to be scrolled past. What's gonna be better further down than what I'm looking at right now?
Lets say I am not fortunate in this aspect at all. He's not at all romantic or much sensitive towards others feelings.
He says he likes being candid even if that makes him appear to be a jerk and an asshole.
If he comes across an instagram wannabe flaunting her seemingly perfect body and pretty face, he'll say it that she looks too pretty and hot. Although I'd never ever do this but if i'd ever ask him to compare me with them and say who's prettier, without a second thought he'd say that they are way above me in terms of looks. And he says that it shouldn't hurt me because that's an honest answer and it should make me want to take care and maintain myself rather than let it affect me.I don't fight back much either because he complains that I have the ability to look very pretty but I never ever maintain myself and it's true that I never maintain my face. I am too lazy to want to do that but I need to realize that relationships come with certain demands and expectations.
Good for me that I try to not let these statements put me down or drag my self confidence low.
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