Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Virgo males and females: Do you perfer your own company? Do you ever feel that TRUE love just isn't going to happen for you? It's been said that virgo people are most likely to be bachelors/bachelorettes until they are up in age. Even forever. Do you agree with that? You don't like to jump the gun in anything. Could Virgos be messing up their chance at love for themselves?
Posted by LoveBucket
Just wanted to chime in to say my first ex-husband (Scorpio) is with a Virgo. They met two years ago, I think it was, around but before her birthday. I told him Virgos love to receive gifts because it shows someone thought about them in a right special type of way. Because he used to send me hellafied looking roses, I told him if he send her a dozen of *those roses* he sends, she will be his. Sure enough, he gave her the roses for her birthday and, she gave him the key to her house!! So, not all of you need forever to decide on a mate. 🙂 Some a youz got a little fast ass in your class!! 🙂
Anywho, that being the history, she decided to buy a house away from here, so she bought a huge ole foreclosure house down in southern NC and, they moved down there. Because there were no jobs for him, he got into the tractor trailer thing and has since been spending most of his time on the road. Myself knowing Virgos can be comfortable just being by theirself (b/c my Mom is one), I asked him hows it working for her, to have just met a man, then buy a house in the middle of nowhere, only to now be *separated* from him because he's always on the road. He said she seems to be fine with it, that it's working real well for her.
Posted by wgamador
Do you perfer your own company?
Only on Valentine's Day.
Do you ever feel that TRUE love just isn't going to happen for you?
I dont really care about that right now.
It's been said that virgo people are most likely to be bachelors/bachelorettes until they are up in age. Even forever. Do you agree with that?
Yes. I can see myself alone. The benefits being: I could do what I want. The negatives: Getting elderly and having no one.
You don't like to jump the gun in anything. Could Virgos be messing up their chance at love for themselves?
Yes. Absolutely. I probably had true love but didnt give it a chance because I felt true love for someone else.
Its a funny thing the stupid love thing in my opinion.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Yes. I always tell my family "I'm alone, not lonely".
Same goes for relationships. It's like I alternate between this attraction/repulsion thing. Someone told me to get therapy for it. Meh
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Yes. I always tell my family "I'm alone, not lonely".
At certain times I crave company like an addict craves a pipe, but ironically enough, after a few minutes in my presence, I just want them to go away.
Same goes for relationships. It's like I alternate between this attraction/repulsion thing. Someone told me to get therapy for it. Meh
Posted by LoveBucketPosted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by LoveBucket
Virgos don't love recieving gifts. They "appreciate" the gesture of well thought out gifts. Personally, roses don't do it for me. If you pick up on what I like without me telling you, that will impress me.
As far as your ex being away from his virgo woman while he works, that could ring true. I kind of feel like I can exhale when the guy that I'm dating goes to the store or to his friend's house to watch a game.
My mother never was into all of that feelings stuff so, you could be right that she doesn't *love* receiving gifts, but instead, she appreciates the gesture so, unbeknownst to you, thanks for teaching me something new about Virgos because when *I* give her a gift, the presentation and then gift, which reflects me and her, are pure spectacle!! 🙂 To staighten out what I initially had twisted, what it is is *I* love giving gifts -- rather than she loves receiving them and, once she gets through the wrapping to see the things I've given her, she appreciates how well everything was so well thought out. I tried to project my feelings onto her, when it's *me* who loves to give the gifts!! 🙂
You don't like roses? My thing with them, b/c I don't care for flowers either, is that quality roses have a good look and, because I love A GOOD LOOK, that is why I love quality roses -- it's not the roses at all that I love but instead, the look. And, this apparently rang true with my ex's Virgo because it was not the roses that she loved but, THE LOOK -- a look in quality that was so appealing that they got him the key to the house!! 🙂 Well, it wasn't just the look of the roses -- he is a swell guy too!! 🙂click to expand
Posted by wgamadorPosted by 25thDecan
Yes to all three...but honestly, over the last couple of years... I don't care. I'm happy inside with who I am and that's never happened before. *shrugs
A wise man once wrote....
Concrete Never Cries.click to expand
Posted by wgamadorPosted by 25thDecan
Yes to all three...but honestly, over the last couple of years... I don't care. I'm happy inside with who I am and that's never happened before. *shrugs
A wise man once wrote.... Concrete Never Cries.click to expand
Posted by catguyPosted by everevolvingepithet
It soaks it up if it wasn't mixed that well initially, fwiw.
Well, I guess it's crying on the inside. lol.click to expand
Posted by buttercup
Do you perfer your own company?
Definitely not. I need my quiet time to work and to think but I'd rather have a friend with me throughout.
Do you ever feel that TRUE love just isn't going to happen for you?
Definitely not. I feel that True love is a choice. Soulmate, however, is granted. I've met one. Left one. Met another. When life closes a door it opens windows.
It's been said that virgo people are most likely to be bachelors/bachelorettes until they are up in age. Even forever. Do you agree with that?
I can see why, but definitely not me.
You don't like to jump the gun in anything. Could Virgos be messing up their chance at love for themselves?
Perhaps, in general stereotypically speaking. Personally however, my heart is an open sky.
Posted by LoveBucket
Ahhhhh, now I see what you mean about the thoughtful thing.
Ahhh yes, those are the best -- gifts that reflect the giver AND the receiver because undoubtedly, those be the ones laced with thoughtfulness!! 🙂
Posted by MiaSangriaPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Yes. I always tell my family "I'm alone, not lonely".
Same goes for relationships. It's like I alternate between this attraction/repulsion thing. Someone told me to get therapy for it. Meh
THIS.click to expand
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Yes. I always tell my family "I'm alone, not lonely".
At certain times I crave company like an addict craves a pipe, but ironically enough, after a few minutes in my presence, I just want them to go away.
Same goes for relationships. It's like I alternate between this attraction/repulsion thing. Someone told me to get therapy for it. Meh
Yes girl. Relationships: For me it can be kind of an antithesis. I want him around but then I look at him like, please go somewhere. Especially if the guy doesn't have ANY hobbies other than me.
I never "crave" company per se. But I do long for a relationship with someone who can mesh well with me. Someone that I can just be myself with and he understands me and vice versa.click to expand
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Children too.click to expand
Yes. "Go with daddy.....Okay?"
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Children too.
Yes. "Go with daddy.....Okay?"click to expand
LOL.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I keep reading about how cancers are supposed to be one of my love matches. To tell you the truth, Cancer men and especially the women get on my nerves. You want to hear some people complain more than a virgo? DAMN! And it's whiney at that!
Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I keep reading about how cancers are supposed to be one of my love matches. To tell you the truth, Cancer men and especially the women get on my nerves. You want to hear some people complain more than a virgo? DAMN! And it's whiney at that!
Oh yes. When it's good, it's good, but when it's bad, watch the fuck out~
Who? Virgos? Whiny? NAH! 😉click to expand
Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by LostinmyMind11
^^ 😉
lol would love to have a thread like that!click to expand
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by buttercup
Do you perfer your own company?
Definitely not. I need my quiet time to work and to think but I'd rather have a friend with me throughout.
Do you ever feel that TRUE love just isn't going to happen for you?
Definitely not. I feel that True love is a choice. Soulmate, however, is granted. I've met one. Left one. Met another. When life closes a door it opens windows.
It's been said that virgo people are most likely to be bachelors/bachelorettes until they are up in age. Even forever. Do you agree with that?
I can see why, but definitely not me.
You don't like to jump the gun in anything. Could Virgos be messing up their chance at love for themselves?
Perhaps, in general stereotypically speaking. Personally however, my heart is an open sky.
Good. You answered your questions just as an optimistic virgo would. I personally, have not found "true love". If it were a choice, I'd pick a guy that already loved me and then tell myself that that he is the one that I choose to be my true love. Is it really a choice? I think that a soulmate would catch me by total surprise especially as gaurded as I can be. I believed it when you said the when one door closes another opens. I just have not had that many windows closed because true love didn't happen. It has always been open for me.
I'm not surprised that you can definitely see why virgos are most likely to be bachelors/bachelorettes until they are up in age or even forever. Do you know why it is not a surprise? Because you are a virgo! Anyone can defy the odds but that feeling is still there.click to expand
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I keep reading about how cancers are supposed to be one of my love matches. To tell you the truth, Cancer men and especially the women get on my nerves. You want to hear some people complain more than a virgo? DAMN! And it's whiney at that!
Oh yes. When it's good, it's good, but when it's bad, watch the fuck out~
Who? Virgos? Whiny? NAH! 😉
I said that cancers complain MORE than virgos and their whiney when they do it. Not us.click to expand
Posted by Layna
VV... REALLY has a soft spot for them pincers. -grins-
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by LostinmyMind11
^^ 😉
lol would love to have a thread like that!
That would be VERY interesting!! lolclick to expand
Posted by buttercup
Oh I don't know pumpkin, life is different for everyone. For me, true love is a choice. I don't set any benchmark or parameters on what I define as true love. I'm more of a go with the guts type of gal you know. So perhaps the definition is different between you and me.
Alas, I see myself as a human first, a woman second, and a virgo xxth.
Surely you will find your other half should you want to. No one is meant to be alone love. At least that's what I believe in.click to expand
LoL. Your screen name is Buttercup and you called me Pumpkin. LoL
Yes, we both have different definitions and that is okay. I do hope to find my other half. I do want love. I just don't want to go looking for it. Going with your gut is what I agree with you on. If I'm dating someone and I get that feeling in my gut then that is more natural to me. For me to choose to love someone without that feeling is a bad choice for me.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
I pretty much need solitude on demand. This might sound weird but I set aside time to think and be alone with my thoughts just like the way I set aside time to go to the grocery. Any man I end up with will have to understand that. Children too.
Posted by VolkswagenPosted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Virgo males and females: Do you perfer your own company? Do you ever feel that TRUE love just isn't going to happen for you? It's been said that virgo people are most likely to be bachelors/bachelorettes until they are up in age. Even forever. Do you agree with that? You don't like to jump the gun in anything. Could Virgos be messing up their chance at love for themselves?
Can non virgos answer this too?
I LOVE my own company and do prefer it over having to deal with and worry over other people's emotions.
Sometimes I feel true love isn't ever going to happen (mostly when Im down and being pessimistic/moody) and then I remind myself that Vern Troyer was once married. So was Gary Coleman and that makes me feel better. I mean, I could pretty much have anyone I lay my eyes on, really. Priorities and responsibilities first though 😉
Virgos are the bachelors of the Zodiac cus theyre picky people. Trust me, when they stapled the wor "perfect" onto the Virgo category, they werent wrong. Sure one can date a model or someone who looks like they hopped out of a calvin klein ad but not everyone with great looks live up to the virgins' high standards. I mean, they have so many hoops for the 11 other zodiac signs to jump through, its no wonder they remain single so long.click to expand
Posted by RealTalk
Virgos have huge warm hearts & we love hard...but when that love is over because someone has crossed and/or betrayed us in any way, watch the fuck out because then we can become extremely COLD and turn to ICE, and won't give a rats ass...
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
People can only provide the type of care/love they know to give, the fact they were in a relationship with you doesn't mean they automatically had to change that aspect of theirs into a copy of your own way of caring/loving. Acceptance is the key word here.
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