Virgos hard to read—

Hello Virgos! It's me again...the pesky Pisces! I have written about the Virgo I have been seeing since beginning of December. We have such an awesome time together but he is so hard to read. We both talked about not wanting anything too heavy. We have had "relations" a number of times and it has been cosmic. He was a big messager and texter in the beginning and I am the type of person that if something is fun and enjoyable I get real excited about it and may be seen as a little overzealous. I have really calmed that down but it still gets a hold of me sometimes. I haven't felt that I was "bothering" him with too many texts or anything but now he texts less and his answers are shorter and not as flirty as before. When we are together we talk and he really seems to be into me and we cuddle all night. I just don't know if he's just being cautious b/c he thinks I want more than he can/wants to give at this point but I don't want anything more. I would ideally just like to spend time with him when we can but still have my freedom with friends and give him his space as well and I don't feel the need to talk with him or text everyday. In other words I want the same as him...to have my cake and eat it too! Give me an idea of where his head is? And what I should do? I do believe he is talking to other women and I am going to meet someone for drinks tomorrow b/c I don't want to get TOO attached to him. This is a hard situation for me to even talk to someone else b/c I am a woman that is loyal to a fault and I have never really dated more than one man at a time. I almost feel like it's cheating even though we haven't laid claims on one another. I guess I am just one mixed up Pisces right now. I am really used to being able to read people and feel what they are feeling but I can't get my radar right with Mr. Virgo that is for sure! Sorry this is confusing but I guess that's how I am feeling....lol.
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Posted by sortilege85
"I have really calmed that down but it still gets a hold of me sometimes. I haven't felt that I was "bothering" him with too many texts or anything but now he texts less and his answers are shorter and not as flirty as before."

I have read some where that a virgo man will come off as a flirt at first, if he chooses, but after time he'll begin to dull and rather do something that is more productive than talk all day *not to be rude* or cuddle as often with their partner. Yes, it is confusing because it makes you wonder if it is you who isn't doing anything right or wrong because they just don't speak their minds until being ASKED too.

"I am really used to being able to read people and feel what they are feeling but I can't get my radar right with Mr. Virgo that is for sure!"

Your not alone. Many women or men come in here confused about virgos all the time. Even before I joined as a member i watched constantly the same type of situations happening over and over again...

You are too good to me with your kindness in addressing my inquiries into the Virgo man...lol! I decided I would just give him some space and not text for awhile. I know he practices with his band on the weekends anyways. Last time he didn't text for a number of days and I didn't contact him and he ended up texting me and asking if I wanted to spend time with him. I thought he was backing off even at that point until he finally texted. What you said has eased my mind b/c I know I am not doing anything that should be scaring him so maybe he is just being a Virgo! No offense to you of course and I need to keep in mind that we are opposites according to what I have been reading and hearing from you all. I do like a lot of Virgo traits though and he is hot! Ssssooooo...I guess I will just have to see where his head is at after I give him space until he contacts me next.
Uuuuuggghhh... I'm so impatient and I know you Virgos are patient...infuriating...he he! 😉

Pesky Pisces? Damn sexy Pisces more like, if your profile pic is anything to go by 😉

My take on the situation is that he is maybe holding back a bit because you appear to be keeping your options open. He doesn't want to lay it all on the line if he thinks you aren't 100% serious about him. I'm surprised that you are open to other offers if you are having "relations" with him. Once I get to that stage with a woman I see it as a 100% exclusive thing - I won't give myself to someone physically unless I know I'm their only one. I suspect, reading between the lines, that he doesn't actually want to "have his cake and eat it", he just feels like he might as well if that's what you're doing, but being a Virgo myself I reckon he secretly wants you to be his one and only. I certainly would. Any drop-off in communication would be a reflection of the fact that you don't appear to be 100% serious abut him. He doesn't want to appear to be acting like someone who's totally loved-up when you're not treating him accordingly. When I really like someone I like to speak with them every day, either by seeing them or on the phone, and I always like to text someone to say "goodnight" at bedtime and "good morning" when I first wake up. I like, via communication, to say the things that I would naturally say if we were living together. Virgos can be hard to read, mainly because we fear rejection, so when we start to feel very strongly about someone we are afraid to tell them for fear of finding out that they don't feel the same way. I know honesty and openness is the best policy, but it can be difficult when you're trying to protect your heart. Anyway, that's my take on the situation.

Posted by VirgoM20
Pesky Pisces? Damn sexy Pisces more like, if your profile pic is anything to go by 😉

My take on the situation is that he is maybe holding back a bit because you appear to be keeping your options open. He doesn't want to lay it all on the line if he thinks you aren't 100% serious about him. I'm surprised that you are open to other offers if you are having "relations" with him. Once I get to that stage with a woman I see it as a 100% exclusive thing - I won't give myself to someone physically unless I know I'm their only one. I suspect, reading between the lines, that he doesn't actually want to "have his cake and eat it", he just feels like he might as well if that's what you're doing, but being a Virgo myself I reckon he secretly wants you to be his one and only. I certainly would. Any drop-off in communication would be a reflection of the fact that you don't appear to be 100% serious abut him. He doesn't want to appear to be acting like someone who's totally loved-up when you're not treating him accordingly. When I really like someone I like to speak with them every day, either by seeing them or on the phone, and I always like to text someone to say "goodnight" at bedtime and "good morning" when I first wake up. I like, via communication, to say the things that I would naturally say if we were living together. Virgos can be hard to read, mainly because we fear rejection, so when we start to feel very strongly about someone we are afraid to tell them for fear of finding out that they don't feel the same way. I know honesty and openness is the best policy, but it can be difficult when you're trying to protect your heart. Anyway, that's my take on the situation.

(Blushing) Thanks for the compliment! I guess I should explain more. He is the one that first told me he wasn't looking for anything serious or too heavy. It sounded good to me b/c I am gun shy right now as well after getting out of a 5 year marriage to a very jealous and controlling Scorpio. I have been having a fantastic time with friends (which previous man hated for me to do!) and so we started messaging and exchanging pictures and then texting a lot before we finally met. I have definitely made him feel secure and this is the first time I am doing anything involving another man. I am NOT planning on being at all sexual with anyone else unless I were to end it with Virguy. I am just not lik

just not like that. He doesn't even know that I am talking to this other man b/c he never asks and I think he is talking to other women b/c of early am texts and new friends on myspace...etc. I have definitely shown him that I truly like him as I am the one that texts him after our times together to tell him what a great time I had and that I can't wait til the next time and have even told him that I really like the person he is. Last weekend I surprised him with vegetarian Indian food which is both our favorites as we are vegetarians. I also brought over a movie of his choice and we had such a nice time watching and discussing the movie and just SLEEPING all cuddled together (until the morning relations...he he). I show him a alot of affection and we seem to really connect on an intellectual, social and sexual level. Another note that may help is that he is 7 years younger than I and I don't know if that could be something he thinks about even though he is the one who contacted me and knew I was 38 from the beginning. I probably have more of a fear of rejection than he does! I am a Pisces you know...lol.
Thanks so much for your input! I just love all of you peeps on here and I am truly addicted to dxpnet!!!
Patricia
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Posted by sortilege85
Stpatrickpisces this is on the question about him being cautious and backing off. I'm going to quote DY (Don't get mad i'm quoting you, dude!!) on how the virgos only kick themselves in the ass.

"I regret missing out on an experience, solely because -- as a Virgo -- I anticipated it would end badly. What if I was wrong? What if the Pisces Chick could have unlocked a spiritual side of me that will remain shuttered?"

"We're too damn cautious for our own good at times ."

I'm not sure if you want it to go further or not or if your still confused... but if you do come to a clear conclusion and wish to have it become monogamous then make him know and it'll be however it is you want.

That is good to know sortilege and I do think he enjoys who I am as well and I know we are so different but that's one of the things I like about it. I appreciate who he is but I do see the cautiousness for sure. I can get kind of shy when it comes to defining relationship issues but I will try and talk about it the next time we see eachother. At least now I know that his decline in texting and messaging could just be him and his ways. I know I don't want to stop seeing him and want to see what happens but it really confuses me b/c I don't feel secure enough to trust my heart to him yet. My heart may already be taking off without my mind already though....lol. I really think he is great!
P.S. He hasn't really been excited or really addressed when I have mentioned that I would love to see the band he's in when they play somewhere. This makes me uncertain as well. Eeeeekkk...I hate this uncertainty!!!
You guys are the greatest though for helping me through these new and scary waters...lol.

Posted by sortilege85
Besides you said that you aren't taking it seriously, but you are. You screwed yourself.

If you claim that you aren't taking this guy seriously then don't; yet, you made a mistake that being in a short-term relationship with a man whom you just saw as another "on the side" type of guy back fire on you only made you realize that this guy is a potential lover.

You made it clear that you two are not going to make it go any "further" than that, so he's only doing what is reasonable and is seeing other other women including you because you made it "clear" that you don't want anything seriously. You probably want some sort of reassurance out of him and wish him to make it serious but he wont since you and he agreed to keep things from getting "heavy".

You messed up.

Hey sortilege, I missed this somehow at first. I think I explained more in the ensuing posts about it being him that told me he didn't want anything heavy b/c of where he was in the beginning. I thought I could do that as well and didn't think I did want anything too serious. He knows nothing about me seeing anyone else and I have even shared with him that I am not the sort of person that sleeps around and that he has been the only man I have been with since my marriage ended. I am a very faithful person and just b/c I am meeting another guy for drinks (he doesn't know anything about it) doesn't mean that man is getting in my pants! I am faithful to a fault and was even faithful when I knew my ex was talking to other women online. I have never even cheated on a man my entire life. He is my first and right now..."only" on the side guy. I guess I do need to address the issue with him about what kind of relationship he really wants and see if I messed up too bad. I only agreed with him b/c I did think that is what I wanted as well but my silly, romantic Pisces heart just can't do that I guess....so complicated! I wish I didn't like to be with men b/c I was going to just be celibate and have fun in other areas of life and look at me! Worrying over a man! Ugh! I hope this clarifies it even more though and if I messed up then I messed up and I will just have to deal with it...wwwaaaaggghhh.

The problem is not that he is "hard to read", the problem is that you are a Pisces.

Pisces don't get Virgos and vice versa. Though we often like to think otherwise, this is most often the case.

You may want things to "not get heavy", but the sexual attraction would be too strong to ignore.

There is no easy way to get your "radar on" correctly, all you can do is be open minded, take him seriously and try not to get too emotional.

Virgos are pretty easy to read.... which is a really good thing. They can wear their heart on their sleeves, like a pisces, but they mask a lot of their emotions. I think it's because they feel vulnerable and exposed, so they mask up to protect themselves, and then they question how much they are exposing of themselves.

One thing about Virgos is that they ARE huge analyzers...... almost to a fault. When they analyze, they are searching for reason. It's actually really compelling to watch, and when you recognize the signs, it's even more compelling to watch them ease up. With my Virgo, I can almost sense the panic when something has happened and he's not sure about it. I'm aware of many aspects of his character, so it's really cool when I'm there to ease it up for him so that he doesn't have to go through that strenuous thought process of analyzing.

Another thing about Virgos..... if your social setting or home setting is uncomfortable, they will make themselves scarce. This is what I'm dealing with right now..... my roommates fight all the time, and she is a bit of a whiner, and my Virgo CAN'T STAND IT!!!!! I just moved into this house, and before we used to spend nights together, now he leaves. I can't be upset with him, and when I talk to him about it, he tells me to straighten it out.

The one really cool thing that I have discovered about Virgo guys is that they won't pretend. IF you fit into their mold, you are golden and they are willing to put up with a little bit more. If you don't fit into their mold, then start looking elsewhere. They won't stop talking to you, or grow cold on you, or anything like that, they will just switch off. They like to fix things and see the results..... if they can't see the results, then the urge to fix things will become too compelling, almost to the point of obsession. It becomes toxic for them, and as soon as they realize this, they will grow cold, because they will resent you. But still, they will keep you at arms reach.

The one thing that my Virgo has really taught me is patience. I've been patient with him, but there is a limit for me too. As soon as I bounced that off of him, he was very responsive. They are excellent communicators, so use that to your advantage. Talk to him, let him know how you are feeling, and if he's compassionate to your needs, then he's in it. If he's not compassionate to your needs, then that is another issue.

I wish I had dated a Virgo a long time ago....

WOW! I really appreciate all the great advice all of you are sharing with me! I am cautious as well at this time because I don't want to get involved with someone that I will regret later. My ex really did a number on me and I have had to rebuild my confidence level and again learn who I am and what I truly want in life. I was actually very anti-men for awhile and didn't want anyone in my life except friends. As you can see, that has changed....lol.

Sortilege85: Hahaha, yeah, I posted that before you stated about "him" wanting that. Meh, he'll eventually just want to be in a relationship with you. He's just in a state of analyses.

Thank god i'm a cuspian, half the thinking, half the risk-taking and always a roller coaster.

So you wanted to be single? TRUST ME being single isn't as hyped up as how it's claimed to be... trust me I KNOW haha.

This is how it goes: Single and lonely or married and bored. YOU NEVER WIN, haha.


I was just analyzing this myself a lot yesterday! About how I can't see myself totally alone (without a man) but that it's hard to imagine life with a man (b/c of bad experiences). It is hard!


Cajun: The problem is not that he is "hard to read", the problem is that you are a Pisces.

Pisces don't get Virgos and vice versa. Though we often like to think otherwise, this is most often the case.

You may want things to "not get heavy", but the sexual attraction would be too strong to ignore.

There is no easy way to get your "radar on" correctly, all you can do is be open minded, take him seriously and try not to get too emotional.

So true Cajun from what I am learning from you folks and what I am researching. I don't get emotional around him and I am actually pretty good at controlling any extreme emotional outbursts....lol. One thing my previous marriage did for me was help me to delve in and mature even more. I appreciate people and their differences and always put myself in their shoes. Thank God I am open minded!!! Can't handle closed minds that is for sure!

Let it Be: Please know this....if he did not enjoy being with you or like what he sees in you, Virgo would not be around. Patience is the #1 keyword for you to remember and go by if you can. TRUST is 2nd. Men have female friends, doesn't mean this Virgo is doing anything wrong. However....if you give him a reason not to trust you, that cold be a deal breaker. So if you are even considering seeing other men, I'd have an open communication FIRST about where you two are going, and ASK him about seeing other people. That would be considered respect and at the same time build trust. NEVER assume with a Virgo. Ask...and he will answer. 😉

Let it Be: This is virgo translation for I want to GO SLOW. However it is your responsibility to ASK him to define what the above means. Again, never assume. These guys move slowly, they want to analyze and be sure before taking the next step. (99% of them anyway)


Thanks Let it Be! I do know he was talking to this one lady before but maybe he has stopped. Before I started reading and hearing about Virgos on here I did think he was more of a player b/c he is so charming, hot and flirty (at first..lol) and I know I shouldn't generalize but he is also a drummer in a band here. So I really did think he probably didn't want more but now that I see the other traits he has and know he's a Virgo and can be so tender and loving I don't feel like that as much. I will definitely have to ask him to tell me more before I get hopelessly hooked on his fishing line and find out he really doesn't want to be exclusive. I can see his brain just ticking away sometimes when he looks at me and when we are together. I know he is trying to peg down who I am as well. We just need to talk more and I haven't b/c I have felt that he is gun shy as well so I haven't wanted to push it but now through you all I am seeing that we do need to clarify things b/c he may want to take it to another level as well. I do think I am open to that b/c I can't get him out of my thoughts and truly love spending time with him. The great thing is that we are both the type to give eachother our space as well since I know he is busy with his band stuff and he knows that I love spending time with my girlfriends. I will also be sure to reassure him of the person I am and that is that when I am exclusive with a man that means I have eyes for NO ONE else! I am a very devoted one man woman but I was just trying not to get too attached to him if he wasn't wanting that.

Posted by Stpatrickspisces
WOW! I really appreciate all the great advice all of you are sharing with me! I am cautious as well at this time because I don't want to get involved with someone that I will regret later. My ex really did a number on me and I have had to rebuild my confidence level and again learn who I am and what I truly want in life. I was actually very anti-men for awhile and didn't want anyone in my life except friends. As you can see, that has changed....lol.

I had the same thing..... I've taken these past two years to just chill out by myself and focus on me. I had mini flings here and there, but nothing that I emotionally invested myself into. I will testify that Virgo's or Cappy's are good people to start rebuilding your confidence. They both will admire you from the distance and work their way in. They don't rush anything, take their time, and make sure that things are right.

My Virgo and I started off as best friends. For whatever reason, he decided he wanted to pursue a relationship with me, which scared the crap out of me. But he builds up my confidence and doesn't play into my insecurities. He's very protective over me, but in a silent way. He is my protector, and I do feel safe around him.

Little by little, we expose more of ourselves. Virgo's are detail oriented, they remember the simplest things. My guy totally threw me for a loop this week. I moved into a new place, started school, and have been working, so I was starting to stress out with everything that was going on. He totally surprised me by setting up my bedroom, with the bed facing the window so that I could get the morning sun in my face. I love the sunlight, and as simple as the gesture was, the detail of it was very heart warming. That is an aspect that he knows about me, just by being around me.

Good luck with it.... as a Pisces, use that intuition!!!! You know something is right about him. Don't think that it won't work out, because then you will project that, and he will pick up on it. Virgo's analyze. He watches you, remember this. Being open with him will build his confidence. It's a give and take situation, but you gotta give inorder for someone else to give, so that you can take something too. If your intentions are honest, then that is all that matters.

Mars.In.Aries: The one thing that my Virgo has really taught me is patience. I've been patient with him, but there is a limit for me too. As soon as I bounced that off of him, he was very responsive. They are excellent communicators, so use that to your advantage. Talk to him, let him know how you are feeling, and if he's compassionate to your needs, then he's in it. If he's not compassionate to your needs, then that is another issue.

I wish I had dated a Virgo a long time ago....

This is my first experience with a Virgo and I really like Virgo traits even though a lot of what I read is saying we are not a good match UNLESS we can learn accept eachothers differences and compliment one another. That word...patience! Keeps coming up....lol. That's a word that is hard for me b/c when I like/want something I go after it and when I am having fun I am ready for it to be MORE MORE MORE! 😉 He has been a good communicator and I like that he tells the truth about something like his likes instead of just trying to say what he thinks I might like. I like that as well b/c I have made it a point not to "act" like I like something if I don't and vice a versa.

I am going to have a nice conversation with Mr. Virguy and figure out where we are both at so we can just nip this in the bud. That was one of the things I decided I would do when I got involved with someone and that was to make sure along the way that we are on the same page and it sounds like it's time to do that at this point. He is so nice that even if he's not ready for something more exclusive I think he will be gentle about my feelings. I don't want to stop seeing him but if it's got to end it should end soon before my heart gets even more involved...right?

Also to N.Node: I am VERY intrigued!!!! Loving it! 😄

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Posted by Stpatrickspisces
WOW! I really appreciate all the great advice all of you are sharing with me! I am cautious as well at this time because I don't want to get involved with someone that I will regret later. My ex really did a number on me and I have had to rebuild my confidence level and again learn who I am and what I truly want in life. I was actually very anti-men for awhile and didn't want anyone in my life except friends. As you can see, that has changed....lol.

I had the same thing..... I've taken these past two years to just chill out by myself and focus on me. I had mini flings here and there, but nothing that I emotionally invested myself into. I will testify that Virgo's or Cappy's are good people to start rebuilding your confidence. They both will admire you from the distance and work their way in. They don't rush anything, take their time, and make sure that things are right.

My Virgo and I started off as best friends. For whatever reason, he decided he wanted to pursue a relationship with me, which scared the crap out of me. But he builds up my confidence and doesn't play into my insecurities. He's very protective over me, but in a silent way. He is my protector, and I do feel safe around him.

Little by little, we expose more of ourselves. Virgo's are detail oriented, they remember the simplest things. My guy totally threw me for a loop this week. I moved into a new place, started school, and have been working, so I was starting to stress out with everything that was going on. He totally surprised me by setting up my bedroom, with the bed facing the window so that I could get the morning sun in my face. I love the sunlight, and as simple as the gesture was, the detail of it was very heart warming. That is an aspect that he knows about me, just by being around me.

Good luck with it.... as a Pisces, use that intuition!!!! You know something is right about him. Don't think that it won't work out, because then you will project that, and he will pick up on it. Virgo's analyze. He watches you, remember this. Being open with him will build his confidence. It's a give and take situation, but you gotta give inorder for someone else to give, so that you can take something too. If your intentions are honest, then that is all that matters.

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I do need to use my intuition but I think it has been a little skewed due to the past issues and I am having to learn to trust it and not only trust it but ACT on it! I didn't do that in with my ex. I KNEW we shouldn't stay together and especially not get married and what did I do...married him!! I REALLY do need to use it now as well as open communication b/c I don't want a broken heart again even though I am stronger than ever before I know I am a very caring, empathetic and emotional being! Hence why I am in school to become and RN and have worked as a medical assistant since 1993! I really am heeding advice from ones who are Virgo or ones who have been with one because I have only dated Scorpios, Leos, and Pisces! New territory! :-)

Posted by Stpatrickspisces
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I do need to use my intuition but I think it has been a little skewed due to the past issues and I am having to learn to trust it and not only trust it but ACT on it! I didn't do that in with my ex. I KNEW we shouldn't stay together and especially not get married and what did I do...married him!! I REALLY do need to use it now as well as open communication b/c I don't want a broken heart again even though I am stronger than ever before I know I am a very caring, empathetic and emotional being! Hence why I am in school to become and RN and have worked as a medical assistant since 1993! I really am heeding advice from ones who are Virgo or ones who have been with one because I have only dated Scorpios, Leos, and Pisces! New territory! :-)

Like you, this is my first Virgo experience. This is the first time that I haven't acted upon impulse, and it's paying off. I get real excited when something new happens, but I think that's because I'm an Aries, and as the baby of the zodiac, I'm easy to entertain. I've dated Leo's scorps, and pisces too..... the scorp is the one that did me in. But through my pain, I have grown stronger, and resilient to those who may hurt me, but my philosphy is protect yourself first, and if someone really truly cares about you, their intentions will be honest, and they will be willing to make you feel safe.

You're starting a new chapter in your life. You're creating something in your life, building a new life for yourself. Don't allow anyone to take that from you. You're working hard at it, and yes, it can be lonely, but someone should DESERVE to be a part of what you've worked hard for, and compliment your life, help build your life, not destroy it.

Virgo's LOVE women who do things for themselves. It gives them their personal freedom too.....

oh yes, sorti is correct.... Virgo's say very few words, but they will be very direct. It will be as simple as a yes or no........ when you talk to him, focus on what matters to you the most, and don't focus on the emotional part.

Whew! Well, I better prepare myself for that yes or no. You guys are just awesome! I have been really reassuring to him b/c of what I read on here early on about Virgos. We shall see if it's in the stars for us...lol. If I hadn't read about Virgos and discovered this site then I bet we wouldn't have continued seeing eachother already b/c I might've scared him away with my enthusiasm and I would've been scared when he drifted on texting or didn't act as excited as me....lol.
I still don't know if I should wait til he texts me b/c last text I left the ball in his court or if I should contact him sometime this weekend just to at least say hello and that I am thinking of him. Hhhhmmmm....thoughts?
Mars.In.Aries, I really like you woman and appreciate that last thing you shared b/c that is one thing I will NOT again compromise for anyone and that is my happiness in life!!!
Sortilege65 I really like the pics I can finally see you! LOVE the hair! My Virguy has wavy/curly hair and keeps it longer than average and that is cool...very cool. Is your hair still that long?

Posted by sortilege85
Thanks, I use garnier fructis, in case you are wondering! Haha, i'm kidding.

Well, i would have kept my hair at mop length, but I was beginning to look too androgynous, so i keep it slightly past shoulder length like in this picture.

LMAO...Garnier fructis....too funny! My guy keeps his long on top so kind of hangs in eyes and it is sexy as hell! Do Virgo men like their hair played with and that's why it's longer?? I know I play with his hair all the time and he seems to enjoy it! I have called him silkylocks....lol! :-)

Posted by sortilege85
haha, silkylocks, nice play on words.

I'm not sure about other virguys on here, but I liked it when my hair was being played with, and I would pass out when my woman would groom it with her fingers while I listend to her heart beat whenever i use to lay my head against her chest.

Aha! Maybe it could be a Virgo thing b/c we do that exact thing! I think he likes the silkylocks name...he he. We have a lot of cutsie and sexy names for one another. All the cuddling and sweetness after sex....very nice! Another great attribute for Virgos if it resonates with other Virgos that is or maybe it's just him?

"Virgos mimic and mirror their partners emotions, so if your mad he'll be mad, if you are sad he will be sad."

I keep seeing this on the board, and it couldn't be more true. Thanks for the information.

I wish i had some advice to give, but I hope a Good Luck! helps. 🙂

Posted by Stpatrickspisces
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So true Cajun from what I am learning from you folks and what I am researching. I don't get emotional around him and I am actually pretty good at controlling any extreme emotional outbursts....lol. One thing my previous marriage did for me was help me to delve in and mature even more. I appreciate people and their differences and always put myself in their shoes. Thank God I am open minded!!! Can't handle closed minds that is for sure!

Well then you are more than on your way to success. The question is as you posted, whether or not it will be with this Virgo man.
As much as I doubt it, anything is possible. So long as you be mindful of what I mentioned, what you want may in fact be more than possible 🙂

Im going through exact same thing with a virgo guy, been seeing him 4 months now an he is so hard to read i've had enough an moving on, shame really because what they say about aries an virgo not being compatible we get on really well, but he is a horse in chinese astrology an i am sheep which is compatible so maybe that is why we get on well?

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Posted by Stpatrickspisces
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So true Cajun from what I am learning from you folks and what I am researching. I don't get emotional around him and I am actually pretty good at controlling any extreme emotional outbursts....lol. One thing my previous marriage did for me was help me to delve in and mature even more. I appreciate people and their differences and always put myself in their shoes. Thank God I am open minded!!! Can't handle closed minds that is for sure!

Well then you are more than on your way to success. The question is as you posted, whether or not it will be with this Virgo man.
As much as I doubt it, anything is possible. So long as you be mindful of what I mentioned, what you want may in fact be more than possible 🙂

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Why thank you Cajunspirit! I will definitely keep your advice in mind. You birthday is in September ..right? If so then you are probably more like my Virguy as his birthday is 9/7. Thanks for your bit of optimism...lol. I know that's hard when it comes to a Pisces/Virgo combo... he he.

Posted by sortilege85
Wait have you ever done that with any of your ex's? If not then it probably is a virgo thing haha. Virgos mimic and mirror their partners emotions, so if your mad he'll be mad, if you are sad he will be sad.

A great example would be the television show- The wonder years. *If you ever watched it*

The narrator, Daniel stern (played the bad guy from home alone), is a virgo born on the 28th *oh shit, he's born the same day i was haha* and the romance between wenny and kevin is pretty much the virgo love life...

Alright back to my job...

There has been a little cuddling with prior exes but not every time and not to the extent with him. He is truly holding me, holding my hand or touching me in some way especially wrapping our legs within one another's. This is my first time feeling so taken care of AFTER making love. Very tender and sweet! Seeeee...this is why he is stealing away my heart darn!!!
BTW...didn't go to meet the Sag. I was actually happy about it b/c I really didn't want to go..lol.

Posted by Stpatrickspisces

Why thank you Cajunspirit! I will definitely keep your advice in mind. You birthday is in September ..right? If so then you are probably more like my Virguy as his birthday is 9/7.

I'm 9/8

Thanks for your bit of optimism...lol. I know that's hard when it comes to a Pisces/Virgo combo... he he.

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Haha, it would be nice to hear of more success stories. They are too few.