ami_virgo19
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Virgo's & Jealousy
"i just need a point in the right direction!"
Look inward .. thus far, it sounds like you are looking outward and trying to determine how other people are feeling, their motives.
It appears to me that the issue is on the inside of you .. insecurity, feeling not good enough.
With confidence in yourself, your worth, self-esteem .. this feeling of inadequacy would be mended/healed.
Say, "She loves me because I'm worth loving and I am lovable" .. instead of, "I don't love myself because she doesn't think I'm worth her love"
It's the power of thought. If you think you're a loser .. then that's exactly what you are.
"i dont doubt her feelings for me, im just worried she may get along with her more"
You bring to you what you ask for with these thoughts .. if you are thinking that the Sag gets along more with the Leo than she does with you, then that is indeed, doubt about your self-worth .. and that's exactly what is going to happen because this is the energy you are projecting, which will inevitably push the Sag away from you .. these kinds of thoughts will repel her because that is what you ask for.
The power of thought !!!!!
Call to you what you want .. not what you don't want.
It appears to me that this question is asked as if there is an answer from outside of yourself, as if someone in here can give you a solution to solve this problem and you are looking for direction .. and the only road there is to take to heal your life is within yourself and how you feel about yourself.
Look inward .. thus far, it sounds like you are looking outward and trying to determine how other people are feeling, their motives.
It appears to me that the issue is on the inside of you .. insecurity, feeling not good enough.
With confidence in yourself, your worth, self-esteem .. this feeling of inadequacy would be mended/healed.
Say, "She loves me because I'm worth loving and I am lovable" .. instead of, "I don't love myself because she doesn't think I'm worth her love"
It's the power of thought. If you think you're a loser .. then that's exactly what you are.
"i dont doubt her feelings for me, im just worried she may get along with her more"
You bring to you what you ask for with these thoughts .. if you are thinking that the Sag gets along more with the Leo than she does with you, then that is indeed, doubt about your self-worth .. and that's exactly what is going to happen because this is the energy you are projecting, which will inevitably push the Sag away from you .. these kinds of thoughts will repel her because that is what you ask for.
The power of thought !!!!!
Call to you what you want .. not what you don't want.
It appears to me that this question is asked as if there is an answer from outside of yourself, as if someone in here can give you a solution to solve this problem and you are looking for direction .. and the only road there is to take to heal your life is within yourself and how you feel about yourself.
Thank you for yoru comment, i agree with what you have said, maybe im looking outward and trying to determine the problem. i admit that, i am insecure when it comes to her, she is so funny, beautiful, clever, all things which i believe i am not, and my friend the Leo, is prettier, she has betetr style , and funnier i just worry that she will find her better then me! i should stop it i know, im not the person who feels sorry for myself, i just worry to much!
i am going to try my best to ignore my jealousy, but i seem to notice things like, when the Leo goes to the toilet, my girlfriend goes after, i know it is prob a coincedence but it bothers me! xx
i am going to try my best to ignore my jealousy, but i seem to notice things like, when the Leo goes to the toilet, my girlfriend goes after, i know it is prob a coincedence but it bothers me! xx
It's doesn't sound like you're feeling sorry for yourself, it sounds like you don't love yourself.
Every morning when you wake up, say, "I am beautiful, I am lovable, and I love the person I am" .. and this will be so.
Nobody is better than anybody else .. we are all perfect for ourselves.
Did you know that when you were born your spirit incarnated into your body by choice? So, this means, we are all perfect for ourselves because this is what we choose for ourselves.
Try out this theory .. the next time you go to see your Sag, while you're driving to her house, keep telling yourself, "I am beautiful, I am lovable and I love myself" .. you will find that your Sag will be enamoured by your presence.
Give it a try, what do you have to lose?
Every morning when you wake up, say, "I am beautiful, I am lovable, and I love the person I am" .. and this will be so.
Nobody is better than anybody else .. we are all perfect for ourselves.
Did you know that when you were born your spirit incarnated into your body by choice? So, this means, we are all perfect for ourselves because this is what we choose for ourselves.
Try out this theory .. the next time you go to see your Sag, while you're driving to her house, keep telling yourself, "I am beautiful, I am lovable and I love myself" .. you will find that your Sag will be enamoured by your presence.
Give it a try, what do you have to lose?
wow, i really do like your attitude, are you as positive as you sound? i didnt know that about the
"Did you know that when you were born your spirit incarnated into your body by choice? So, this means, we are all perfect for ourselves because this is what we choose for ourselves." - Very Interesting!
i agree i should try "Love" Myself as you say. i will give your idea a shot! why not eh? Hope you have a super day, and thank you again! xxx
"Did you know that when you were born your spirit incarnated into your body by choice? So, this means, we are all perfect for ourselves because this is what we choose for ourselves." - Very Interesting!
i agree i should try "Love" Myself as you say. i will give your idea a shot! why not eh? Hope you have a super day, and thank you again! xxx
You're welcome 🙂
And no, I'm not that positive .. but, I'm working on healing myself.
You have a lovely day also 🙂
And no, I'm not that positive .. but, I'm working on healing myself.
You have a lovely day also 🙂
Well, my Virgo is rarely jealous .. of course, I don't allow things like that to happen because it causes resentment.
For instance, if someone praises me, I tell the person that my husband taught me how, even if he didn't.
For instance, if someone praises me, I tell the person that my husband taught me how, even if he didn't.
For instance, if someone praises me, I tell the person that my husband taught me how, even if he didn't.
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May be nice BUT I can't lie.!
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May be nice BUT I can't lie.!
i dont get jealous of her acomplishments or if anyone praises her, it makes me happy & proud, i just get worried that she will find someone more interesting and fun then me! im not boring, around just be and her i feel great but i am more reserved around other people. but her & the leo seam to have loads of fun and i seem boring because im more reserved when around larger crowds! xxx
"when I start to forget the last time you said them"
That's sad .. shame on me, right? Trying to do better, though.
Thank you, archer, for your words of support .. (star) back to you.
"i just get worried that she will find someone more interesting and fun then me!"
ami .. I don't think you need to worry about this. Sags don't look at life according to a measurement of who is funner or more interesting, instead, they have the gift of embracing everything and everyone for what is "good & beautiful" inside of another. So, though, she may find the Leo fun to be around, it will never be better than another .. Sags' just want to enjoy every person for their uniqueness, but, they won't make it a score to keep against or for another .. it's all equal.
If she loves you, then she loves you for you, and will NOT compare you to another, for you are not another .. you are you. And to a Sag, the real "you" of a person is gorgeous. And since it's you she loves, then to her you ARE gorgeous.
That's sad .. shame on me, right? Trying to do better, though.
Thank you, archer, for your words of support .. (star) back to you.
"i just get worried that she will find someone more interesting and fun then me!"
ami .. I don't think you need to worry about this. Sags don't look at life according to a measurement of who is funner or more interesting, instead, they have the gift of embracing everything and everyone for what is "good & beautiful" inside of another. So, though, she may find the Leo fun to be around, it will never be better than another .. Sags' just want to enjoy every person for their uniqueness, but, they won't make it a score to keep against or for another .. it's all equal.
If she loves you, then she loves you for you, and will NOT compare you to another, for you are not another .. you are you. And to a Sag, the real "you" of a person is gorgeous. And since it's you she loves, then to her you ARE gorgeous.
Thanks P you helped alot, i guess the test will tell when we are all next out! xxxxxxxxx
P-Angel that was so awesome!!!
Amix, we Virgo's strive for perfection. Constantly evaluating (worrying) about what could be improved or seen as inadequate. I know you love yourself but you have always know that you deserve love from others too. I don't know much about Sag but I did read that if they don't desire you they will not even blink in your direction. Chin up. 🙂
Caprigirl, we're not big into jealousy. We would be more happy that wonderful things are happening than jealous that they are not happening to us. The only time I can recall being remotely jealous is when I was competing for something where others judged the winners. Not because I envied the winner but because either I disagreed with the outcome or was being hard on myself for not being perfect. Insecure, worriers, (anal)ytical are Virgos and whenever you question your Virgo measure the behavior against one of those first and foremost. As for sarcasm and discounting sometimes we can be ruthless teasers, like there's no off button. Sassy creatures for our own enjoyment to get a friendly rise out of someone. 😛
Amix, we Virgo's strive for perfection. Constantly evaluating (worrying) about what could be improved or seen as inadequate. I know you love yourself but you have always know that you deserve love from others too. I don't know much about Sag but I did read that if they don't desire you they will not even blink in your direction. Chin up. 🙂
Caprigirl, we're not big into jealousy. We would be more happy that wonderful things are happening than jealous that they are not happening to us. The only time I can recall being remotely jealous is when I was competing for something where others judged the winners. Not because I envied the winner but because either I disagreed with the outcome or was being hard on myself for not being perfect. Insecure, worriers, (anal)ytical are Virgos and whenever you question your Virgo measure the behavior against one of those first and foremost. As for sarcasm and discounting sometimes we can be ruthless teasers, like there's no off button. Sassy creatures for our own enjoyment to get a friendly rise out of someone. 😛
archer,
That's a character I can respect. I personally would want to know if someone is sincere when it comes to love.
That's a character I can respect. I personally would want to know if someone is sincere when it comes to love.
Ami,
First - you and your Sag make a cute couple, and in your pictures y'all look genuinely happy with each other, so try not to sweat it!
A little jealousy on your part probably makes her feel loved - just try to minimize it, and don't internalize too much... Sags see things differently than us Virgs - but that's part of the charm, isn't it??
Second - I am not an expert on same-sex relationships. I am very good friends with a SagGuy - started out as drinking buddies when I was between marriages, and has gotten more involved since then. They really seem to respect our opinion, and appreciate our friendship, so if yours says she loves you, take her at her word...
But hey! No harm in keeping a watchful eye out for those unscrupulous bitches who might try to steal her away from you...
Hang in there!
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i do get jealous which i dont believe a little jealous is wrong, but lately, when we have been out drinking, i am getting jealous of Her & my best friend, my best friend is a Leo, i know they are compatible star sign wise and they do get along well which is fine, but i dont know if because i know they are more compatible then Virgos & Sags it is worrying me that she will start to like her more?
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i know she loves me more then anything, i dont doubt her feelings for me, im just worried she may get along with her more, i dont want to make this an issue and push her away, i just need a point in the right direction!
Amixx