Virgos - the first time u said I love you

Virgos,
I'd like to hear about how it went down the first time you told the person you were dating that you loved them. Just curious what this typically looks like coming from a Virgo.
Happy Saturday!

thats going to depend on the person.. in retrospect
I can say the words dont come out right from a virgos mouth.. I remember when I first said it, it seemed empty, without feeling. Kinda scared me a bit.
I remember dating a sag girl and she called me out and said "I dont really feel that you mean it." I was a lil shocked and a lil perplexed and said "well I dont really know how to prove that." The actions are far more important then the words itself.

You guys have been dealing with each other for a while now, correct? Are you guys exclusive yet? Have you admitted feelings at all?

Posted by thisismylife2015
You guys have been dealing with each other for a while now, correct? Are you guys exclusive yet? Have you admitted feelings at all?

4 months. We haven't stated that we were exclusive but we've talked about it. He's met my son and we've both shared how we feel about each other.
He told me last night out of the blue over text message that he loved me. It totally shocked me. I didn't expect it at all. Honestly, because of how distant he's been lately, I thought it was a joke or a mistake.
I'm not asking because I'm second guessing him. I understand we all show emotions differently. Just curious if this is normal for a Virg.

I'm a gem but my virgo said he loved me about 4 months in. We were just hanging out and he got real serious with me when he told me. He said it first and I replied back with I love you too. He also wanted confirmation about 2 weeks after we were dated that we were both wanted to exclusive.

never, but i have loved.
the one i am in love now is killing me with his charm, warmth and i am deeply involved, but i think i will never say i loveyou, or may be i would..

Not to rain on the parade, but does anyone think Virgo's, especially Virgo men, mirror your expressions after you've shared your feelings with them?

I have had this happen several times. In each case, I was the first to say how I felt. Which has always made me wonder if their response, which was basically saying the same thing I had shared with them, was legit or just mirroring me to keep things controlled and not cause any negative repercussions.

I'd rather have someone tell me how they really feel, even if it's not want I want to hear; mirroring me just to drag me along is more painful in the long run.

i think it's going to depend on the person and how they view live or were treated by someone in the past. Lots of us are afraid to say those words our of fear of rejection or embarrassment. If he said it through text message, to me that means that's his comfort zone and to open up the door for you to say it to him face to face when you are ready to say it

One of the many things I've learned from my Virgo is that they do mirror the one they're with and like to lay low and wait for the other person to make the first move.

I dated a virgo recently and he never said he loved me. I said it to him because it's what I felt. He didn't really have to say it though. He showed how he felt in his actions. Really nice guy. Too bad things didn't work out.