What makes Virgos so unlovable?

More specifically, what makes me so unlovable? Why are we crazy? Why do we bring out the crazy in others?

*sigh* I'm losing hope on love...life.

Umm No..Virgos are amazing individuals and I thank God for all my Virgo friends in my life because I would be a wreck without them...I love y'all..you're one of my favorite signs seriously..

Plus I'm crushing on a Virgo right now lol..
Kisses Virgie and cheer the hell up!

Friend are one thing but spouses? That's a whole other story.

Its just so hard to think anything positive when I keep hearing my Pisces tell me I'm crazy and anal and too analytical.

I think my spouse is planning on leaving me, but he has too much to lose and stays. I feel worthless in his eyes.

I'm just so confused. He's so hot and cold. He says he's resentful and so full of anger. He threatens to leave all the time but stays. Then he's so super loving and affectionate but loses his shit all of the sudden and the cycle starts over.

We only have fur kids together. And a business. We run a nanny agency together. Well not anymore cuz he quit last week and I've been working the business alone.

I get it. Working together and living together can be tough but never once have I ever thought our problems are irresolvable.

I wish I understood Pisces. He says I'm crazy but so much of his behavior has been erratic.

Is it the retrograde? Wtf is a retrograde anyway? Everyone keeps blaming everything on that lately.

He sounds like a piece of shit.

dont be too hard on yourself 🙂

virgo.. nice people to hang out with.. they are fun and helpful..
was in a rs with one, i dont know, had been burnt by one, but that can't totally blame him, i'm too navie then.. am flirting with one virgo right now. lol..

'He threatens to leave all the time but stays.' this is very manipulative.

He left me. I came home from work to find him and his sister and his bff packing up his car. Didn't even have the decency to give me the heads up so I wouldn't lose my shit when I got there. Now he wants me to buy him out of the business and pay him out.

Posted by 77virginsuicides

Why do we bring out the crazy in others?

*sigh* I'm losing hope on love...life.

Because you act pitiful, helpless .... look at your words above. You are having relationship problems, so you automatically resort to throwing in the towel, and believing your worthless.

so, that means you are worthless. You are what you think.

A defeated person makes other crazy. It's not the Pisces .. it's you.

How long did you actually expect a person to stay with such a low attitude? All people are going to give up on you, since you clearly give up on you.

On another note of why Virgos make others crazy = because there is a tendency of the Virgo to fix everything. Well, in doing that, you take away the mysteries of life. People want to learn, explore and experience life from witnessing it for themselves, for what it's worth to them as individuals.

The Virgo robs people of that. They make decisions on what is in the best interest of their partners, by not accepting what the partner wants to explore.

Virgos steal their partners passion and drive in life, and attempt to reduce the partner to the mundane of just existing, without curiosity and desires.

And I can see this in the OP .... you even say, you think you're unlovable.

You lost before you even woke up this morning ... and this will always be your lot in life, so long as you continue to try and steal your partners desire to live his life his way.

I don't feel sorry for you. I actually believe you being a self-assigned loser makes you a piece of shit to society, and probably even your family.

Why not try actually letting your partner experience his life without you deciding it's not good enough for you?

*you're

Or maybe you weren't looking for honesty at all .... maybe this thread is like a selfie.


It only exists so you can wrap yourself up in a shroud of ignorance, by having your ego stroked.

56 years old and resorting to bashing people online based on a sun sign :/

You've stated she's ' thrown in the towel ' but you have no idea what she's endured up until the point in which her partner left her . We tend not to just throw in the towel and fall at the first hurdle but if there's nothing left to fight for we are graceful about it and let it go . it's obviously left the woman that's posted this broken so who the hell are you to tell her she's basically here for a pity party and to have her ego stroked ?

I'm not going to judge you based on your sun sign but i will on your posts and you appear to be nothing but negative and bitchy , you get no respect for kicking a person when they are low .

Op I really hope things get a better for you sooner rather then later . Things happen in life to rock us but be strong for yourself and your children . When the dust is settled and you're ready someone out there will show you how loveable you are 🙂

It's about having grace and tact . Obviously if that is p angel's opinion she's more then entitled to it but there's ways and means of saying things . The first post was fine but the acusation of her coming here to have her ego stroked was just a low blow .

I believe totally in tough love and telling it how it is but in the correct way and manner .

Course there's different sides to every story but we can only comment on the one the op has given as her former partner isn't here to tell his so her truth is the only one we have . Whether my reaction would be the same if he were i can't say .

Op has stated that she's been left struggling with a buisness , children and he's up and left her leaving her asking ' is she lovable ' ? That's pretty telling on someones state of mind don't you think ? i found it cruel that someone waded in when someone appears to be at their lowest and questions if shes here simply for people to give her a ego boost .

with all due respect I'm sure ' coddling ' off random people on a Internet site is going to make too much difference , she's got no choice and she's going to have to deal with the situation and ' grow ' for the sake of her children .

So my answer to you're question is yes i do believe fully in tough love but maybe you should know the person and WHOLE situation before dishing it out .

Virgos are very lovable (very attractive too), perhaps too lovable and that makes them unlovable.

Does it make sense? I don't know, it does to me.

You can't beat their intensity and obscurity, which is key to me being a Pisces sun/Virgo rising myself. Basically they keep your mind always wondering, active and it's never boring, you also get super creative as a result. The drawback is that once you've experienced that intensity and been spoiled by one of them, you'll have a hard time falling for any other sign.

I know many friends who are happily in love with their actual girlfriends that still can't forget, after years, the Virgo they've been with. The most frequent line I hear is this: "it isn't the same, with her it was different".

You often become nostalgic because Virgos "put a spell on you" cit*.

They can draw the best out of you, but the worst too, they're magical and toxic at the same time, a deadly combination because you simply can't expel them from your system when things go amiss, the toxins usually linger on.

Another trait that definitely makes people hesitant in their chase is their passive-aggressive nature that can drive people nuts, but you can work on that though, they're very open to the idea of self-improvement. This tendency is tangible in the way they physically interact with people, in general. You can sense their strong sexual drive, they can be very touchy and sweet if they like you (and Virgos know perfectly how to please you), but at the same time, for some arcane reasons, you can somehow perceive their detachment.

They have a "detached way of touching" you, if that makes sense. It's very confusing at times because you never know where you stand, they don't even realize the effect they have on people, how powerful they are. Around them you feel comfortable/uncomfortable all at once in a weird way.

However there's one thing that absolutely scares the hell out of Virgos, they can't stand the fact that people, once they get to know you, CARE. It's human nature.

Their intent is noble, being fully-aware of their emotional roller-coaster and mood swings they want to protect you/themselves. Basically when they feel you're starting to have a read on them they cut you out to prevent you from suffering, even though you may be the most understanding person on Earth leaving them all the space they need. In doing so they hurt you even more.

Unless they've done some soul-searching in the past they're incapable of fully trusting/loving people because they lack self-love and can't accept being a central figure in others' life. They think no one can't handle them, therefore they miss out on so many opportunities.

Having said that I personally love them but I can't blame people that can't be bothered, it's not worth it if you start developing bad habits.

Yes me too!!!

I wasn't referring to you personally when I said about ' dishing it out ' i was referring to p angel's last post .

Everyone has the right to walk away from a situation in which they no longer find themselves happy in , we live one life so why would anyone want to live it miserable ? Having children is not a reason to stay together , the children pick up the anamosity and that's not fair on them .

My posts and being sympathetic towards her are based simply on the fact that she's now got to build herself and her children a whole different life to what they have been used to and that's the fact here . I can relate to that and can remember being heartbroken and not knowing where the hell to begin , its soul breaking but years down the line I appriciate what happened , what went wrong and I'm a much better person for it .

I agree fully that she'll get a variety of answers on here and they won't be all what she's wanting to hear and she'll question herself and that's a positive , I don't agree however with statements of spite . P angel made good points in her first response but by the third that just overstepped the mark a little .

There's nothing wrong with showing a little compassion towards people .

The man was clearly driven away and he's somehow the piece of shit. The logic of entitled women...

Posted by LillyBlossom
I don't know what it is, but anytime I meet a virgo, I wanna give them an Aries hug, mess their hair, tease them, and then ask them a thousand questions. I also wanna touch all their things. A flustered virgo is amily adorable virgo. 😄

😄 Seriously,I'd run from you...😛

I now full well your kind, ramy chick 😄 Chase all ya will, you will not catch till I wan't you to 😉

Posted by LillyBlossom

Posted by kane48txboy
I now full well your kind, ramy chick 😄 Chase all ya will, you will not catch till I wan't you to 😉

Aries just *happens* to people. In other words, you won't know what hit you. *^.^*

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Rams are so overconfident. 😄

im a sweety... im awlays looking out for the best for my friends and family.

whats unlovable about that?

it is weird how rams and virgos always seem to butt heads tho.

them females tho 🙂

YEAH I've dated Aries and we got along, but y'all are sooo headstrong...thats where the head butting comes in. 😐

Yeah, but we are always right.. 😉

We Virgos are not crazy, just intense. Which is how we handle things that no one else can... Our gifts are NECESSARY.

Be proud of that and if someone can't handle it, it speaks of them, not you.

I have learned:
I offer my help once or wait to be asked. Then, I let them live their life lessons while I watch (or not) and sympathize/empathize. They will be fine.

I also refrain from verbalizing at least 50% of what's in my head.

everythings cool... u just need to calm the F down

Virgos are vulnerable; you are deeper than a world this selfish contains as any total giving nature. I am a Virgo and don't meet the expectations of others either because the world is still not a friendly place to us. I believe in working hard for equality, and that is often seen as analytical, and even risks splitting our true purpose from how much some of us just prefer to have all our needs met through old fashioned sweetness. We probably had a better reputation in the middle ages. You are not ambitious and aggressive? so hang in there, think of God and how much he loves you. You deserve so much peace and I can tell what a lovely person you are.

virgos can be sensitive.... they react to this sensitivity by being total a holes lol......