Virgo's your not perfect and your a little cray

So here is the back story
Just let my virgo go, he proposed marriage several times but never came through. I also found out he still talks to his ex and that wasnt the worst part lol I also found out that he wasn't divorced, he was just seperated. How did I found out? Welp his wife died in her sleep right when the venus retrograde started. Talk about made for tv movie. I also found out that he lied about having kids. All this started during May and I just let it all go. I think it was the mercury retrograde when his ex came back in the picture and then the venus retrograde is when his wife died and I found out by accident from his cousin lol I was like " huh what wife?" his cousin said "oh I thought you knew" I said " Uhmm why would I consider marriage to a married man!" Well all the cards fell after that. We only dated a year but the cracks started to show around may and by august I had all the info I needed.
So on Sunday (yesterday ) I was coming home from having brunch with my girls and when I pulled up to the gate of my building, I saw a car, I didn't pay it any attention because I didn't reconize it . As, I waiting for the gate to open.. to my shock, he gets out of the car I never seen before. I was kinda taken a back but I acted like I didn't see him, I know he saw me. Then I noticed that he was picking up a guy we knew. He walks to right next to my car and waves the guy over and they walk back towards his car that I have never seen. I am 100% sure he jumped out of his car as soon as he saw my car, it looked so obvious. If he had just pulled into the gate and parked to wait for the other guy I would have never seen him because I don't know that car so why look? We haven't spoken in several weeks and our last conversation, when I found out he was a big liar, I said please just leave me alone, I don't know you. I told him they guy I knew was not the person you really are. Maybe we can be friends one day but not any time soon. I told him I just don't want to see him or speak to him because Im so pissed I only have four letter cus words for him.
I wish he would just disappear, he doesnt even like the guy he was picking up. Today I saw the guy he picked up, he said my ex called him out the blue to just meet up. Why is trying to be sneaky, maybe if I stupid I would not see through him. I thought virgos don't look back ? When will he stop? is this just the new moon ? lol help

Well if he was honest all of this could have been avoided.

Ratedx

I think the only solution is for him to give me space. I don't think I could go back to being with him, how can I trust him. The best thing to do is let it go right ?

Your right, maybe its not astrology but I never dated a virgo before, most I end up with gemini for some reason. Once I started to look up virgo men its so much about deception, perfection, cheating and being critical. I know that a good virgo is loyal but I think I got the bad one. Even the cancer guy I dated was shady but this virgo took shady to another level.

Ratedx

I told him im done, I cut it off. Then he pops up at my building lol

thanks ratedx
My virgo was a case of perfection go wrong. I almost became an episode of WHO DID I MARRY. I think thats the name of the show, people get married then found out there spouse is a completely different person. 2015 will be a year to remember.

If he didn't care he wouldnt be around me or near me or in front of my house. I wouldnt even cross his path. He is pretending not to care and doing a bad job at it.

I can try to figure out his intentions when Im doing be angry lol I am sure I can get past it he needs to give me time. Im a cancer, I go back in my shell and lock the door give me time and I will come out if you push me my claws will come out .

ahmen

Posted by moonchild84

He is pretending not to care and doing a bad job at it.

@OP:

I'm just curious and it's a simple question: why would you reconsider a person who kept secret to you that he was separated while proposing to you and is now sniffing around his ex?

I mean, it doesn't get any better. But...have at it.

Congrats Moonchild! Just let him go.. I saw very distant and cold ways of being with my Virgo roommate. He couldn't relate to women. He hadn't dated in years. He basically was like a cold, angry little boy in school who is a loner. As soo ( and I do mean as soon) as he started projecting his bad luck and loneliness on me, I left. I knew this is a cray cray sign. Trust me they are very fucked up inside. Be happy you got away and look for a better man
Love, affection and sweetness. If a man has none of these- run for the freaking hills. Don't wait!!!