VirGuys - Your experiences with Sag women please!

In in ongoing quest to meet a lovely girl and settle down I am dating quite a few people. I wouldn't knowingly date a Sag because my experiences of them are that they are chaotic, random, disorganized, haphazard, etc... everything that makes me feel anxious and uncomfortable around a person. BUT... Friday evening I went on a date with a girl who's sign I didn't know and it turned out that she was a Sag. She also happened to be absolutely lovely. Smartly dressed, very clean and tidy looking, very chic and had the loveliest big brown eyes 🙂 She was a really sweet girl and full of interesting ideas and with a very perceptive appreciation of some of my goals in life and had some interesting ideas that I hadn't thought of for realizing them. Anyway, we're going to meet again and I'm quite looking forward to it.

I just wondered if any other VirGuys here have experienced Sag women and what your experiences have been like. My manager at work is a Sag and she is with a VirGuy and that has lasted ten years so far, so maybe it can work!!

It??ll always work, as long as you both stay honest with each others feelings and needs.

Way to go mate??_

RUN i have mess with a lot of them and have friends that gone out with them. they cheat, its not if they will do it, its when there going to do it. there good in bed they always want it.. but they are better as fwb.. But ur older than me so women in your age range could have that out their system but look for it because its there..

I apologize for my messages. I meant to reply to a different post and i have no idea how it posted on this thread instead.

Great potential, but requires proper communication.

Sag ladies like to keep their problems to themself, and hurt inside.
You can tell there's a problem, but they will not admit to it.

They do not hesitate to cheat, if they believe you are not serious or if they feel like it.

Highly unreliable, hypocritical and independent.

But very loving, passionate and horny.

My advice is don't play mind games with her. I'm a Sag female and I was seeing a Virgo guy for almost 2 months. We've agreed to take things slowly cuz he just got out of a relationship and I wasn't going to rush into one since my exes were nightmares. He had told me that since he just got out of a relationship, he wasn't ready to be emotionally attached to me. He wanted the dust to settle before anything got serious. We were both attracted to each other. He didn't want to be just friends with me since he was really attracted to me and he clearly told me from day 1 that he wasn't just looking for sex with me. He wanted to hang out, have a good time and see how things go from there. He said he was willing to wait for as long as I wanted until I was ready to be intimate with him. We would see each other almost everyday and he would only hug me and kiss me on my cheek. It took him almost 2 weeks for him to actually kiss me. We did get intimate a lil while after that but only twice. He was one of the sweetest guy I know. The only problem with him was he kept testing me. He would ask me if I saw myself with him in the future. He would try to get me jealous by telling me he could get any girl's number and he wanted to me to pick a girl for him. I went along with his game and told him to go for the brunette. He asked me if I was serious and I told him, "yes, do what you want". He went up to the girl and started talking to her. I went to the washroom and when I came back, he was back at our table. My friends had told me that as soon as I left, he came back and told them that I shouldn't have sent him to her cuz he was testing me out. I don't understand why all the mind games he was playing with me. If he wanted something more why couldn't he just tell me straight up? He would tell me all the time that he would never hurt me, i have his word that he would never break my heart. He said if he were ever to be interested in another girl, he would come out and tell me. He would rather tell the truth even if it hurts. Well, I believe that was all a LIE. Today, I found out that he has someone else. I truly believe he went back to his ex. I've called him to see if he wanted to do something and I heard a girl's voice in the background to give her his phone and I've hung up after that. He called me back a couple of hours later for me to never call him again and I've asked him if it was because he had someone else but he refused to answer.

Could someone tell me why would he play mind games and if this is a Virgo trait? BTW...I have never cheated on anyone cuz I've been cheated on many times. I know how it feels to have someone betray your trust so I wouldn't have the heart to do that to anyone.

Thank you Shaka_laka_boomboom. I hope I do have better luck with the next guy.

I thought Virgos were supposed to be honest. I thought they would tell the truth no matter how much it would hurt the other person. I still don't understand anything. Just last week he was asking me if I saw myself with him. He's never avoided me before. Always returned my phone calls if he missed it. He called me back that day when I called him earlier to see why I've called him earlier just before I heard another girl's voice in the background. Like I said....spent almost every single day with him. I never had his hot/cold moods like how I've read in other posts. He would normally tell me what's on his mind if something was bothering him. If he didn't tell me at first, he would eventually tell me later. Don't know what happened....not even an explanation to why he wants me to stop calling him.

Thanks folks.

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
With all due respect..from what Ive perceived you seem like a bit of a clingy/insecure type of guy and that definitely doesnt bode well with sags GENERALLY, as long as you can give her space and not get desperate cause she seems like shes flirting with all guys she talks to..you'll be fine.

That's quite true of me, though this year, for the first time in my life, I have found true autonomy and actually become very independent, so maybe this is the kind of woman that will suit who I have become... who knows? I'm certainly not losing sleep over her or pestering her constantly for validation, in fact she seems to be chasing me quite a bit, which is a nice feeling. I'm looking forward to seeing her again! We'll see how this goes anyway.

Just had Date 2 with Miss Sag. Well, she's lovely. Very sweet, dresses in a smart, chic, classy way, has a gorgeous cute face and the loveliest eyes. If there's a negative it's that she seems a little quiet. Maybe she's nervous. I have to try to drive the conversation and she also says it's up to me whenever I give her a choice of things to do. I'm happy to make the decisions, but I want her to feel that she can have what she prefers. I think this will be a "slow burner" - it reminds me of when I first met the Leo that I was with for 8.5 years, where we seemed to be at emotional crosscurrents for quite some time until we had grown together. I feel like we're two trees standing side-by-side in a field, each leaning our own way and with no apparent connection on the surface, but beneath the surface our roots could be come inseparably intertwined, should we choose to stand side by side for long enough... but how long will it take?

My BFF is a Sag. We get along pretty damn'd well. BUT, she can be VERY controlling, which would drive me nuts if we were a couple. I see how she treats her Cappy husband and figure she's "pulling her punches" so to speak, with me, since I'm "only" a friend. I think if we were a couple she'd be giving me the same treatment, LOL. She's very stubborn at times and often refuses good advice, giving some nonsense BS excuse why the advice won't work for her.. or it's just too much trouble and too bad, LOL. But she's a great friend and horse buddy.

Posted by VirgoM20
Just had Date 2 with Miss Sag. Well, she's lovely. Very sweet, dresses in a smart, chic, classy way, has a gorgeous cute face and the loveliest eyes. If there's a negative it's that she seems a little quiet. Maybe she's nervous. I have to try to drive the conversation and she also says it's up to me whenever I give her a choice of things to do. I'm happy to make the decisions, but I want her to feel that she can have what she prefers. I think this will be a "slow burner" - it reminds me of when I first met the Leo that I was with for 8.5 years, where we seemed to be at emotional crosscurrents for quite some time until we had grown together. I feel like we're two trees standing side-by-side in a field, each leaning our own way and with no apparent connection on the surface, but beneath the surface our roots could be come inseparably intertwined, should we choose to stand side by side for long enough... but how long will it take?

Saggies can talk the ear off a lot of signs, but when it comes to Virgos they change...

They look a lot happier when they can talk to others who are less proper.

Being very pedantic, my Sag found it difficult to talk to me. She would become quiet and softer spoken, mindful of her words. Throw a Libra or Leo her way, and she would be loud, obnoxious and curse as she saw fit.

Same with the decision making, I don't know what effect it is Virgos have on them, but they sure can change around some of us...

Posted by Cajunspirit
Throw a Libra or Leo her way, and she would be loud, obnoxious and curse as she saw fit.

Perhaps I should be more outgoing with her. I have Leo rising and five instances of Libra in my chart, so we should have a fighting chance if I can let that side of me step forward. The problem I have is that I tend to come out of my shell with outgoing people and retreat into my shell with quiet people. My Virgo sun is perhaps making her go quiet when what i really need is to see her loud side for mine to come out... but perhaps it's up to me to push my Leo and Libra forward to help her relax.

I found myself to be less talkative with my ex-Virgo. I guess it was because he would take a lot of things seriously even though most of the time I was being sarcastic. I was trying to be careful of what to say to him so I wouldn't hurt his feelings. As much as he would laugh about some of the things, I knew he was feeling hurt inside.

I just started dating a Sage and she is wonderful. We joke all the time and trade compliments. I do believe age plays a huge role b/c when we were younger she was all over the place (we knew each other in High School) but now she wants a mate to enjoy life with. I have always wanted someone who is ready to go on the weekends and can relax at home and enjoy life. That's exactly what she is. Just tell her your Virgo tendencies upfront and let her know we can go cold...that way she'll be prepared and will understand.

In the end there was no chemistry with the Sag - it died after Date 3. I have since fallen very deeply in love with a female work colleague, a Capricorn, with whom I was forming a friendship based on a mutual interest in Astrology at the time... In fact, today is exactly six months since our first date! That said, my Cappy has Sag rising!!

Congrats on your Cappy gf..too bad the Sag girl didnt work out. I am in the new stages of a relationship with a Virgo guy. I am hoping my outcome is better...

Now that i think about it, I am better friends with sag people than anything else. I never been in a relationship with a sag, and I really don\'t care if i were in one with a sag...

I am a loner and independent and all the sag pals i know will only independent on several activities, but they need somebody to keep them inline, and i know that i wouldn\'t care to keep them as \"mine\" as how more possessive virgos like cajun and dy are...

I just don\'t care...

"I never been in a relationship with a sag, and I really don\'t care if i were in one with a sag..."

Sorti: You just haven't met the right one...dont know what your missing...

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

I am a loner and independent and all the sag pals i know will only independent on several activities, but they need somebody to keep them inline, and i know that i wouldn\'t care to keep them as \"mine\" as how more possessive virgos like cajun and dy are...

I just don\'t care...

Woah snap!
Did I just get "possessive" as an adjective to describe me!

Where did that come from 😛

Posted by VirgoM20
In the end there was no chemistry with the Sag - it died after Date 3. I have since fallen very deeply in love with a female work colleague, a Capricorn, with whom I was forming a friendship based on a mutual interest in Astrology at the time... In fact, today is exactly six months since our first date! That said, my Cappy has Sag rising!!

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You scored one like Shaks!
Lucky you!

As for the Sag... maybe you were too orthodox with her. They like to change up scenes and go to sporting activities.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
"I never been in a relationship with a sag, and I really don\'t care if i were in one with a sag..."

Sorti: You just haven't met the right one...dont know what your missing...

Nah, i'm cool with sag people, but i never had the connection to really push myself to be in one with any of them.

sorry if i came off sounding hateful...

Posted by Cajunspirit


Woah snap!
Did I just get "possessive" as an adjective to describe me!

Where did that come from 😛

Hahaha. No offense man, but when i compare myself to how you treat your previous girlfriends, you like to know that your woman acts a certain way at a certain time. I forgot what thread it was that you made, but it had to do with piercings, tattoos, excessive make-up, and all the works showed me more that we are different on our tolerant level of appearances.

But i'm born in august, so you know how i am...haha.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

Hahaha. No offense man, but when i compare myself to how you treat your previous girlfriends, you like to know that your woman acts a certain way at a certain time. I forgot what thread it was that you made, but it had to do with piercings, tattoos, excessive make-up, and all the works showed me more that we are different on our tolerant level of appearances.

But i\'m born in august, so you know how i am...haha.

Yeah and I totally respect our difference.

There is definitely a difference in tolerance levels/preferences, but I just didn't see "possessive" as the word.

I let tricks walk and could'nt be bothered 😛

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
"I never been in a relationship with a sag, and I really don\'t care if i were in one with a sag..."

Sorti: You just haven't met the right one...dont know what your missing...

Nah, i'm cool with sag people, but i never had the connection to really push myself to be in one with any of them.

sorry if i came off sounding hateful...

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No , you didn't Sorti, just wait though, maybe someday your dream girl just might be a Sag!

"As for the Sag... maybe you were too orthodox with her. They like to change up scenes and go to sporting activities."

Cajun: I don't find that to be true in my case. But I have Virgo rising...I am also a Sag/Scorp cusp with a lot of earth in my chart.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

Hahaha. No offense man, but when i compare myself to how you treat your previous girlfriends, you like to know that your woman acts a certain way at a certain time. I forgot what thread it was that you made, but it had to do with piercings, tattoos, excessive make-up, and all the works showed me more that we are different on our tolerant level of appearances.

But i\'m born in august, so you know how i am...haha.

Yeah and I totally respect our difference.

There is definitely a difference in tolerance levels/preferences, but I just didn't see "possessive" as the word.

I let tricks walk and could'nt be bothered 😛

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yeah dude thats weird I was meaning to get on you about that caj. your never going to get a women thinking like that. I think you like fixer uppers type chick and that can be dangerous. You can't tell people that they can't wear that or this, or you don't like tats or piercing that dose not make a person. If you can't deal with that why did u even talk to her.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

Cajun: I don't find that to be true in my case. But I have Virgo rising...I am also a Sag/Scorp cusp with a lot of earth in my chart.

How do you like to be courted ma'am?

Lots of variety, of no variety?

Posted by virgoking
yeah dude thats weird I was meaning to get on you about that caj. your never going to get a women thinking like that. I think you like fixer uppers type chick and that can be dangerous.

Maybe the term you were thinking of was keeping a woman.

Either way, fine by me, buddy.

You can't tell people that they can't wear that or this, or you don't like tats or piercing that dose not make a person. If you can't deal with that why did u even talk to her.

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In the case, which I reference most was with the Sagittarius.
She lied and deceived me into thinking she was no longer interested in these things.

Otherwise, I look for these things as bright red flags.

Sometimes a woman acts/and or says things that she thinks a man wants to hear. This might've been the case with the tattoo girl. She wanted Caj's approval so ended up not showing her true self to him. Sag ladies tend to hide when they're upset. We almost expect you to know how we're feeling and that is really not fair to the guy we're seeing.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Sometimes a woman acts/and or says things that she thinks a man wants to hear. This might've been the case with the tattoo girl.

She wanted Caj's approval so ended up not showing her true self to him. Sag ladies tend to hide when they're upset.

Yes, she did. Her words " I tried to be the perfect girl for you "

We almost expect you to know how we're feeling and that is really not fair to the guy we're seeing.

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One of the most prominent relationship flaws of the Sagittarius woman.
I used to approach her in these times, I could tell when she was upset and, even then, she would vehemently deny there being something wrong.
Which of course, made me furious, all the lies.

Yes, she did. Her words " I tried to be the perfect girl for you "

We almost expect you to know how we're feeling and that is really not fair to the guy we're seeing.

One of the most prominent relationship flaws of the Sagittarius woman.
I used to approach her in these times, I could tell when she was upset and, even then, she would vehemently deny there being something wrong.
Which of course, made me furious, all the lies.



These are young women Caj, you sound old beyond your years, it might be some time before you find one mature enough for you. There's always older women don't forget...lol (and that was not meant in a creepy way).

I had a short lived relationship with a Sag a little while ago. We were just too different, I suppose. She would always drag me around and basically present me like a trophy to her friends. A part of me didn't like that sort of attention but the underlying possessiveness made me feel secure, which a part of me did like. She would get fiercely jealous and angry when I spoke with other girls who were my buddies(I'm get along with females better so I have more lady friends). Trying to get her to tell me what was wrong was like getting a child to eat their vegetables. She always wanted PDA's which made me a little uncomfortable and would get pissed when I refused to give them. I don't like PDAs, I'll hug you and hold your hand but anything other than that must be done where noone can see. We eventually got tired of one another and silently drifted apart, didn't even have a formal breakup lol.

Sounds like u need a crappy Cajun those women are boring and ur boring so it would be perfect for u

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

These are young women Caj, you sound old beyond your years, it might be some time before you find one mature enough for you. There's always older women don't forget...lol (and that was not meant in a creepy way).

Could not agree more.

Posted by virgoking
Sounds like u need a crappy Cajun those women are boring and ur boring so it would be perfect for u

lmao

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
I wouldnt recommend a cappy to cajun, he seems to be very controlling himself..and cappy women being naturally controlling and somewhat dominant, it would only lead to headaches lol. Theoretically speaking, the opposite (a Cancerian) would be alright for him, if she has some considerable earth in her, the better 😄

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My Ascendant is Capricorn and I hardly seem to be able to have flowing conversation with Cancers....

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom

Posted by SomeRandomVirgo
I had a short lived relationship with a Sag a little while ago. We were just too different, I suppose. She would always drag me around and basically present me like a trophy to her friends. A part of me didn't like that sort of attention but the underlying possessiveness made me feel secure, which a part of me did like. She would get fiercely jealous and angry when I spoke with other girls who were my buddies(I'm get along with females better so I have more lady friends). Trying to get her to tell me what was wrong was like getting a child to eat their vegetables. She always wanted PDA's which made me a little uncomfortable and would get pissed when I refused to give them. I don't like PDAs, I'll hug you and hold your hand but anything other than that must be done where noone can see. We eventually got tired of one another and silently drifted apart, didn't even have a formal breakup lol.

Dude, no wonder you two broke up, the way you describe it all seems like she was the man in that relationship, LOL..SHE was always the one trying to do PDA and you hate PDA? lol dude grow some balls, stop caring what people around you think of you and your gf doing PDA. Seriously. *Shakes head*

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Umm, yes. PDA's make me rather uncomfortable. I don't know how you were raised but I was always taught that it's not proper to stand around swapping spit and grabbing ass in public. Here in the States, it's called having a sense of decency. I suppose you have a point though, I'll try to use the tactless cave-man approach from now on. Maybe I'll drag the next one around by her hair and treetrunk her on a park bench in the middle of the day to display my manly dominance. Pssh, ridiculous...

No, just let a lady take your arm, or kiss your cheek. Hold your hand. I promise it won't hurt much.

Oh dear. LOL

*smiles slowly* No, I don't think it's unfounded a bit.

Shaka 😄 😄 😄

Bend over sweetheart, this won't hurt a bit. Wait a moment, yes it WILL. Brace yourself.

Oh yes I do. Prepare for complete domination, and YOU WILL LIKE IT. 😄

I'm having entirely too much fun with this. 😛

to Mr Shaka_laka_boomboom : "but Im not sure Cancerians are the sign to look for when youre looking for mental stimulation. Unless they have Venus in Gemini but even that will make them talk mostly butter, so no chance there either "
i see now why i can't understand with 2 virgo male colleauges ,like i'm from another planet...actually i've very little Earth 🙂 as you may see

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Cancer 11.20 Ascendant Libra 3.36
Moon Leo 21.58 II Libra 29.38
Mercury Leo 2.55 III Sagittarius 0.14
Venus Leo 3.43 IV Capricorn 4.14
Mars Aries 8.04 V Aquarius 8.03
Jupiter Aquarius10.25 R VI Pisces 8.12
Saturn Gemini 26.27 VII Aries 3.36
Uranus Libra 18.57 VIII Aries 29.38
Neptune Sagittarius5.09 R IX Gemini 0.14
Pluto Libra 1.49 Midheaven Cancer 4.14
Lilith Sagittarius25.11 XI Leo 8.03
Asc nodeCapricorn7.44 XII Virgo 8.12

you have much knowledge in Astrology ,so could you explain me what means Ascendent in Capricorn and XII Virgo ,is it look like a hopeless case ?well,guilty if charge 🙂, i've moments when conversation just "can't go" ,but i prefer to stay silent,rather "talk mostly butter" 🙂 .Earth signs could experience with each other mental stimulation as well with Aquas and Libra,that i've been observed,so i agree with you.i guess you don't have good impressions with cancers on that matter.

Thank you virg_goki, I'll start from here. 😉

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Posted by TheLadySagittarius



No , you didn't Sorti, just wait though, maybe someday your dream girl just might be a Sag!

Maybe, i can try my best to convince my pisces-gal to have a three some with a sag gal, and i. How about that? 😄

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom



Dude, no wonder you two broke up, the way you describe it all seems like she was the man in that relationship, LOL..SHE was always the one trying to do PDA and you hate PDA? lol dude grow some balls, stop caring what people around you think of you and your gf doing PDA. Seriously. *Shakes head*

Yee, it's all about scamming it up in front of people! Grabbing that ass as you walk together! Holding her body with your arms over her shoulder while she walks in front of you like how those couples it at the malls or shopping centers.

No, No!!! don't say that!

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

Posted by TheLadySagittarius



No , you didn't Sorti, just wait though, maybe someday your dream girl just might be a Sag!

Maybe, i can try my best to convince my pisces-gal to have a three some with a sag gal, and i. How about that? 😄

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Lol Sorti...but we don't like to share..

Well after going out and spending countless hours with her...she wants to be 'Friends only' *sigh*


Where do I go now..I'm so tired of going through this...

She was the one who asked me was I looking for a relationship..I said yeah and *poof*...stated I *ticked* all of the boxes..say's she just wants someone to "talk to"