What are you guys afraid of?

You all seem cool at first, like very friendly. As soon as we get 'too close', you all distance yourselves. Are you all really confusing? What are you scared of getting hurt? Seriously?

I've known a couple of virgos in my life but I've never come across one that doesnt trust me and distances themselves from me.
Two virgos I know are really cool with me, we trust each other have great conversation. Then I come across one that ignores me and goes away from me because we got too close? I mean, that virgal was the one who decided to tell me everything about her life and all her darkest secrets. I'm glad to hear, its usually a good sign of a strong trust. I swear that means that she trusts me and wants to be friends with me. As soon as you get close they move away. Don't pull people close if you don't want them to take a step closer to you. Its weird.

YOu know what Crudemood . . and, I'll probably catch a lot of grief from other females for this, but . . . I just think women don't know what they want. We talk about feelings and what we are looking for, but, in reality . . we've no clue.

I think that's why we pull guys back and forth and make you feel like you're on a yo-yo string, because, hell, we don't know why either.

We just want.
What do we want?
Now, that's the question, isn't it?

"Why's she crying?"
"Hell, I don't know. Just give her what she wants."
"Will she stop whining."
"Yeah, probably."

Voila, the woman just wants. And, you being male, must give. We'll stop.

"Honestly, officer, I didn't hit her . . the floor did."

Sure, I'm fine. Being my normal self. It feels like me.

Maybe somebody else IS lurking in here . . . muahhhhhh . . don't drop your pants.

"just to let them know they were getting a bit "too close" for just a friendship."

You know just telling them, "No, I'm not interested", would be less fustrating for the person on the other end.
Stupid Yo-yo-ing. Make your minds!

Ah, Crudemood . . now, you've opened up a whole new can of worms.

Make up our minds? That would suggest we have one. Maybe that's the real problem. You men thinking we have brains. Why would we have those? Do we really need it?

What's between our legs is the only thing we need to get what we want, that is, if we KNOW what we want.

If for generations, maybe for all time, we ONLY had to use our feminity to command men, then what do we need our brains for?

Ahhhh, we have them, make no mistake, but, not to get what we want from men . . I guarantee it.

Evolution made women brains useless. Men become that thing needy just because of hormones. Hell, I never will understand what is this all about wanting it. Let's say you got it, then what?

I think we humans are all about wanting. Women want as you have described, and men want as I have described.

Who has brains here?

Nobody.

Perhaps men just know what they want, while women are still deciding...

I'm glad to hear, its usually a good sign of a strong trust. I swear that means that she trusts me and wants to be friends with me. As soon as you get close they move away. Don't pull people close if you don't want them to take a step closer to you. Its weird.

You overload there brains....a lot of virgos don't like unnecessary change. They have a particular way of life and way of doing things a lot are insecure so planning and having a knowledge of substantial certainty of what is happening next helps to compensate for that....when someone unplanned comes into the mix they get thrown off. The pulling away is the analyzing:

1. Are you worth changing their pattern for
2. Do you really want them
3. Will you fit into their life pattern
4. Will they fit in yours
5. Do I know enough about this person are they ambitious, responsible,
6. Let me replay all of our interactions in my head and see if I missed any red flags
7. Will my life drastically change
8. Maybe this isn't the best person for me maybe there is someone else
9. Can they deal with my quirks
10. Do I really want to let this person in or is it a mistake.
11. What am I doing

Replay 1-11 about 100 times and you see why virgos pull away for so long!

Why do some people make the concept of evolution sound as if it was an universally accepted and irrefutable truth? fact is, the very same principles its based on have already been proved wrong.

My Cat's Breath Smells like Cat Food.........


The prolific Ralph Wiggum

apparently shaka you don't watch the simpsons....that was today's topic...Evolution vs. creationism......

no need for the sarcasm.....let's not take it there huh.

Why do some people make the concept of evolution sound as if it was an universally accepted and irrefutable truth? fact is, the very same principles its based on have already been proved wrong.

For the same reason you believe what you believe....

good insight menaremysteries !!! 🙂

nope...when Im trying to believe in something I first need to know where it comes from and whether the evidence is sooo irrefutable that it becomes almost impossible not to accept it.

Other people operate on faith....no criticism...To each his reach...

menaremysteries, you have stated good points here. you're being natural = human.

truth hurts but it sets us free.

what's the truth then if it's not fair to speculate? confusing huh?

hey kidz, can somebody please explain to me why do people mostly couples tend to confuse themselves about their feelings? if a person say they love someone why confuse the mind with alot of questions, alot of crap when it's suppose to be love? why do people exchange partners, trial separate, run away and hide from love when the heart is always home no matter how far they run and hide from it?

because it's unknown......who to date has really described every scenario surrounding love? fear.

is it really fear or lack to communicate or lack of something else or lack of i don't know? jeez if that's the case that's really puzzling and hard to comprehend. how miserable life can be.

think about it love is the only thing that does not have a known end result....that's scary. When you go to school you have an end result, when you drive somewhere you have a destination, when you do something it has a purpose...

Love is unpredictable and it's scary...some people cannot deal with this so they run

I compare it to a dissertation for a doctorate degree......So many people start with a purpose but few finish....creating something new is scary! You have to venture into the unknown....yes you'll get there but who knows if the road you've chosen is correct!

i also don't understand why people seem to focus on dwelling with all the hurtful things that happened and will happen from the past, present and future.

and if someone says they love someone they take this commitment/responsibility as something temporary -- they can easily make or break. a choice one has to make. yes only one and not two different individual. it's either it came out first from the other then the other end follows through.

why is that?

it's really possible to know what a love or a potential love will turn out to be. yeah that's really scary and painful if it ends but what if it didn't end? what if two people really love each other despite of their differences but they just don't want to be together. isn't it a paradox that when there is so much pain then there is more great love?

perhaps if i don't show how i care and i am numb about a person at all then i really don't love that person. 'coz it's pointless. love isn't love and will only lose it's meaning until it's given away.