VIRGO CRUSH

aloha all Virgo females....

I need some advice.

I have a Virgo crush and I am not sure what to do.

The mother of a Virgo female friend of mine showed up for a visit and when I met her, she said that her daughter thinks the world of me and how much she likes my laidback and go with the flow attitude. I thought that was nice since it was the first and only time I recieved a compliment from the Virgo Female, indirectly thru her mom. Not sure she knows her mother told me that cus Virgo was not there at the time.

The Virgo admires her mother so very much.

But she has 5 brothers, all really good friends of mine.
She is 21 and I am 36, technically.

I am an Aries, and I always try to listen to my gut instinct. But a lot of times I do not listen or I just plain talk myself out of it. Anyways, there has been several instances that she gives me special attention, like she likes me but is afraid to let it out as I would feel if I were her and I do feel since I am friends with her brothers.

I really would hate to mess things up but I have a really good feeling about her.

Just recently she took a picture with me and she kissed my cheek and said, "this is the first time I've ever kissed you."

All her friends love me. They all flirt with me but not too seriously and never around her for some reason.

I really hate to wait too long but don't know what to do.

Age difference matter? Not really, depends on the individuals.
I know that girls her age are ready for something bigger and better than just "boys" that don't know what they want in life. I know she is ready for a "real man" even if she doesn't know it yet.

Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.

Aloha & Mahalo,
mauicountry

Why does this story sound so familiar to me?

LOL...i agree freebird, but i believe sag was substituted for virgo the last time.

aloha.

hey freebird & lady m ......... why u got to be like that?
you guys are funny. kooks.

AriesLovesVirgo is the first person to give me some great advice on this board.
did you see what she wrote?

so incredibly helpful...clear and to the point....and full of potential.
truely inspiring.

da aries way, ya..

I will follow that advice.
Many many mahalo ALV.

aloha.

mauicountry

ALOHA ALV,

Mahalo for the advice.
You know....my best friends have always been girls.
The better ones were always aries.
hmm....
like hot blooded sisters.....u know.

anyways. you read my mind as far what you wrote.

steady as she goes. I know.

i just get so excited about things and ruin it, u know.
i get ahead of myself...ya.

as i said before, truely inspiring.

aloha & mahalo.

mauicountry

alv,

i am feeling a bit irie. so forgive my studdering....🙂
I had to reread your post...it blows me away each time i read it.
I get some comments/questions..

"Age doesn't really matter @ all. She is 21 and that is an appropriate age to start dating older men/women. If she is open with you to her MOTHER then believe me she is not struggling with any issues about age either and neither is her mother "as it looks like".

Absolutely what I thought. Just a note:the mother is a Leo. The whole family are leos & aries....she's the virgo.

"You have to stop worrying about how it could fail and focus on how you would like to make it work."

I figure one must focus a little of both, ya. Look ahead for potential obstacles & such but always be prepared and in the right place and aries charm.

"Are you ready for a relationship? Virgo's don't muck around in that sence unless they don't care for you all that much anyhow."

So ready. It makes me laugh....🙂🙂 No rush, though. Just been looking and waiting for a while. If I go for this, it will be with my full force & energy. I've been thru this before, ONCE, a long time ago. My first and only heartbreak. I am ready again to be the amazing aries that I can be.

"I can assure you she probably is harboring some strong feelings since she's talked about you with her mother."

I can feel a really special vibe from them. the energy feels natural. it boggles me really.

"If you are ready for a relationship just keep in mind that Virgo's don't really like to move as fast as you do. Keep yourself paced but don't loose that Aries quality that I know a lot of Virgo's like."

Very true. All I need to know is that the feelings are there and mutual and i'll be fine. No rush. On the contrary, da slowah da bettah, island style .
What aries quality? specifically or generally speaking?

"Of course she is afraid to let her real emotions out. She knows shes young and full of emotions. She probably doesn't want to let the flood gates down and chase you off."

Really. hmm.

"Making her comfortable around you is key if you want to get to know her. "

right on.

"No secrets, no lies and if you have already lied, confress and appologise and expect to be cut off for a couple of weeks. "

No secrets. no lies. no need.

"BEING HONEST from the start is KEY! If you can't have that then you can't do it with a Virgo."

always a priority. lifes easier being honest. less to remember. ha.

sorry so long but very important right now.🙂🙂

Take your time..
Be honest...
Talk but mostly listen...
Comfort don't invade..
Be yourself..not what you think she wants...
Don't be a flake..
Keep your word...
Keep your hands to yourself..unless she wants you...
Show some passion or compassion..she'll like it...
Be flexable and attentive...
Say thank you a lot...
Ask for help with things you know shes good at...
Praise her advice...
Help her as well..
Keep the convo going..

I understand all these. right. I agree.

But what do I need to do after that. is there something i need to be looking out for cuz I suck at that.
I've had girls that liked me right in fron of my face and not even know it. you know.

I feel I am suppose to let her know what I am feeling in my charming way with no strings attached. total secret between us, ya.

Oh ya, I forgot to tell you that I have oly disclosed this crush to one person. One of the Virgo's best friends. She promised she wouldn't say anything. but she loves the idea but will not tell either way. u know. weird kinda but girls are weird....hahahaha.

I think I did that so maybe she would leak it to the virgo in a very non chalante way. early in the game so that the virgo would know but stay watching. And I would do the complete opposite, you know, play hard to get but stoking her out with cool stuff meaning hook her up...I never act like I like her because of all her brothers around and everything.

anyways. if you can read all that....I would love you forever.

Aloha & Mahalo,

Mauicountry

are virgos as romantic as aries?

Lmao...

Fake one that is willing to give advice to the another fake one..


You guys ever give up..??

Lol


Lovely freebird is right when she says; ?Why does this story sound so familiar to me??

ALV.. Please do shut the fuck up for the humanities sake! stop being fake?!

And aloha bullshit..!! cough? cough..

A girl that is 15 years younger than you..! where you've been 15 years ago..?? there she is!

If you can ever Imagine yourself ?15 years ago? then you shouldn't ask this question in the fist place..!





Aloha?. I love a lady 15 years younger than me?!




LMAO?

LMAO

"Age doesn't really matter @ all. She is 21 and that is an appropriate age to start dating older men/women. If she is open with you to her MOTHER then believe me she is not struggling with any issues about age either and neither is her mother "as it looks like".



Age does really matter.. unless you are damn game player..!

I hope and wish she'll kick your ass to hell you old timer asshole?!

I remember the post, because I thought it was beautiful the FIRST time I read it. Each week mr. maui lusts over a new sign, leading me to believe he is a typical aries or/and is just doing some sort of experiment on the boards.

Hi QBone!

Hi to you my lady..

He is typical bullshit.. if I were the active moderator I wouldn't allow this bastard to post something.. along with this porn babe ALV everyday's crap..

The assholes have no signs...same is valid for ALV? but they love to make dramas..

Aries..?? my ass..they don't have any identities?..


I know Aries.. and they are not?. Simple as that..

Sorry?I meant..

?I know Aries people.. and these guys are not?. Simple as that..?

WOW !! That's pretty funny.
Mahalo for being so blunt & direct. I appreciate it.
And, please, don't hold back.
So, I guess I made a bit of an impression.
🙂🙂🙂
figured I would being from Maui.
its attractive but I am not into bullbutter.
all real. two in sight. down to one.

aloha

?WOW !! That's pretty funny.?



Not funny buster.. its damn tragic..! and in your case.. its damn pathetic..

Now ?..go and laugh about..!



To many fakes around here.. I have this urge to (de-fake) this forum.

Nothing personal!

?So, I guess I made a bit of an impression?


lamo?. Giving yourself credits..?? lamo..


Give it up buster...! you are not impressing anyone but yourself..!

Aries?lol?.NOT? asshole??. YES!

Start chanting ? I am fake? I am an asshole?. It will help a lot you sick bastard..

No other in 12 zodiac sings are as direct and powerful as Aries or Sagittarius


You jerks and your comments are direct insult to the species..!

Thats why Virgos love Air signs?!

YES.. OR ?NO..
Its all bout? yes or no.-!


You got that ?aloha? boy..!!??

Haffool.....??

What is haffo doing with this post..??

You Idiot.!

GOD?.

You guys are fucked up.!

.

ALV.... give it up you fake asshole?.!!

why do you think he is not..??

The story is pretty refined...

I am an asshole, loves Virgo thing, she/he doesn't love me back??.heard that story at least 1000 times before..!

Ring a bell..?? browse back..

ALV shit is the added feature... the idiot wanted to sue me...-. I wonder why she doesn't yet...

aloha.
what is a marker?
Fake? no way. you are the first ones to ever have called me fake and you don't even know me.
Look, its pretty simple:
I am single, 36, and am ready to settle down. I would say for the past year or so.
I've been narrowing down my best options and its
Leos, Sags, Libra, Gemini.
Leos are tough, my eyes were on one but I finally talked myself out of it.
Sags. well the same thing.
Libra as well. way before Leo girl.
Geminis, way before Libra.
These signs are cool and everything but I have come to realize that I am actually in search for the mother of my children. A bit different than my selfish physical demands.
She needs to be very special.
So, anyways. I am now looking at Virgos because they can teach me what I don't know already. Sure, compatibility is great but the differences are what really teach the most out of life. All the other signs are very similar and compatible but what is compatibility anyways?
I just searching for the right women, thats all.
No marker. whatever that means. No fake. far from it.

Remember that old saying, "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all."

aloha & Mahalo.
mauicountry

Aloha ALV,

Mahalo for the feedback & support.
I am an aries and I have always fallen into infatuation, if you want to call it that.
I love women, always have and always will but as I mentioned in my last post, I've been ready to settle down for the past year or so and have been narrowing down my options for partnesrs. There are so many factors to consider and it intrigues me to find out as much as I can but sometimes the simple stuff is right in front of you.

I am ready to settle down is just that.
Looking for the best possible partner that fits my pretty picky prerequisites.

First of all:

Hows her family life? I have a great one and its very important pre requisite.

Second:

Age & experience. Girls get a bit loopy after a certain age.

Third:

Is she passionate. Does she know what she wants. Will she be able to teach me anything.

Well, ALV, I agree with your previous post. Just chill out and wait & see. Just be myself and all will be good.

I mentioned it to my mom today and she helped a bunch.

She agrees with us but only feels that 15 years difference is tougher for when you are older. Men deteriorate quicker than women. She will be 50-60 and ready to charge and I will be 65-75 and chillin. huh. makes a lot of sense.

but we have to live life for now and prepare for the future.

so, I will let nature take her course.

Will keep you believers posted.

Aloha & mahalo for your help.

And for all you none believers....remember I live in one of the top destinations in the world. Where we recieve millions of beautiful people from ALL over the world. So, we have our pick, but the problem is they all have to go back home in a week. There are not many girls on a small island of a 100,000 population. I have survived by what we call "catch & release", sounds bad but that's life. We hook up with tourists because its simple, easy and no strings.
But when you are ready to settle down, you must be careful who you pick on the island.
So, I have been here for 8 years and been practicing "catch & release" ever since. Been dating local girls for the past year or so. a bit weary but need to filter through them one by one until I find one.

anyways. I turn the other cheek to you.

Aloha & Much Love from Maui.

mauicountry

I live in one of the top destinations in the world. Where we recieve millions of beautiful people from ALL over the world.

Pathetic....

Will you ever give up..?? this is not a dating board.. it is a message board..!

There are not many girls on a small island of a 100,000 population. I have survived by what we call "catch & release", sounds bad but that's life. We hook up with tourists because its simple, easy and no strings.

people like you makes me puke..

Shall I cry for you and your (little island)..??


FAKE?.!

aloha.

hmmm....46 and single.....definite problems.
you really aren't the right person to be talking.

I feel for you, Qboner, maybe someday you will finally learn what it is to be in love or anything remotely close to it.

Good luck, qBONER.....hehe

aloha.
mauicountry

mauicountry don't worry about my age, aloha boy?!.... worry about yourself..!! 36 years old in an island with the populations of 100,000 ?!!.....


again? its not a dating board?! It is message board?. Fake?.!



Be real.. I may respecting you somedays?!!

so. qboner. you not american?
and who is dating on this board ?not me
whatt r u talking about ?
I only come on to ask advice on girls.
and I don't live in an island. I live ON an island.
kook.

Aloha