What are your thoughts on friends on benefits?

I am an aries female and began a fwb relationship wit virgo man.. we became bffwb and both ended up with alit of feelings for each other. Something big andt dramatic happened and he said we got to close and hes not ready for a relationship in his life right now. We have'nt seen ea other in a week and im missing him si much, but i know the feelings mutual. I'll c him soon he said, and i have no resaon to doubt him. I don't think its a good idea for aries and virgo are fwb.. they might just catch a case of the feelings..lol that totally wrecks fwb.. so now what? Do i move forward with this "thing" because, im sure once we see each other we'll be right back where we were, being perfect together, in then he backs off cause we to close... Blah! But i love me some virgo man!

i couldnt do it. Ive tried, its just too awkward for me

I'm a virgo woman. Here's my take of FWB. 1) he really needs to be a good friend 2) you can't be jealous of other women in the mans life and he shouldn't be jealous of other men in yours 3) define what FWB means to you. VIRGOS need friends to be loyal, so if u think ur going to drop us as friends for your new friend, its not going over well.

I have a long term FWB relationship with a Sag, but we had a lot in common and were friends even when we weren't taking advantage of the benefits.

I'm a virgo woman. Here's my take of FWB. 1) he really needs to be a good friend 2) you can't be jealous of other women in the mans life and he shouldn't be jealous of other men in yours 3) define what FWB means to you. VIRGOS need friends to be loyal, so if u think ur going to drop us as friends for your new friend, its not going over well.

I have a long term FWB relationship with a Sag, but we had a lot in common and were friends even when we weren't taking advantage of the benefits.

There aren't any "benefits". Not for the woman anyway. All she is doing is giving away free ass, hahaha...

Correct....

Is FWB possible with a Cancer woman, dear Mr.Defense? What is your opinion?

Im a virgo man, I could never do it, i would either get feelings, or feel insecure or both

The situation's fine. It can and should be realllyyyy simple. Be great friends
outside of the benefits and don't let romantic feelings get involved. If you're not
up for it then don't even try- you'll just ruin everything. Also, Geminis are great.

There's no benefits for the woman— Really? My FWB and I have been together for over 10 years. He's my best friend and I'm his. Plus, he works those benefits 🙂))

Maybe it's the asc. And Venus in Scorpio

I agree. There are clear benefits for both parties. Not just the guys haha

Posted by Sexyvirgosiren
There's no benefits for the woman— Really? My FWB and I have been together for over 10 years.

Nope. You have been a FWB for 10 years. That's nothing to brag about.

We don't take advantage of the benefits if either of us are in LTR. So yes, we are still best friends that aren't indulging now. That is something to brag about. How many ppl can say they have a FWBs that respect each others real relationships? That's a REAL FWB!! Like I stated in my previous post, we were friends long before the benefits came into play.

FWB=Fucking Without Benefits. You get to be someone's cum dump until someone better comes along...right, I'd totally brag about that, but to each is own.

Then later on a woman realizes she can't get a descent man, gee I wonder why—

Sex is a mutual act RealTalk. Sounds like you've only had really bad sex. For some women (and I applaud these women) sex is a physical need, just like for men.
FWB is perfectly fine, it's not easy to initiate for me however. Morally FWB is an excellent idea but there some idiotic virgo personality trait that doesn't let it work. I shall try again when the opportunity presents itself.

I've had some bad sex, good sex, great sex, awesome sex...what's the relevance to your mentioning that?

As a Virgo. I would love dat arrangement.

Posted by RealTalk
I've had some bad sex, good sex, great sex, awesome sex...what's the relevance to your mentioning that?

Because when you have the option of good sex or nothing, most women would choose good sex. I've yet to hear any girl say to me that sex is about her "giving something up", as a give and take situation like you described.

Its perfect when both people know what they want and dont want! In all other cases, feelings will surface eventually and one of the two will start to get too attached.

It works perfectly for me!