What is THIS between us? Virguy and Taugal

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Ello Virgins

The story thus far (Thank you for reading...).

I was crushing on a Virgo for 10 months in which time we became very good friends, and as I felt more positive about our potential, I revealed my feelings to him with the undesired effect. He was being repeatedly suggestive with me and I thought this was a green light. Well, since that dramatic moment of tears and anger, when he denied that he would mess with my emotions just for an ego boost (then why did you get so defensive, dear boy?) I instructed there to be some boundaries put in place that would quell his provocativeness and allow me to not be subject to his teasing.

Since then, we've become even better friend, almost companion like. And after my feelings sedated for a while, they've returned. I guess I don't understand how we can be so close and so alike and mutually caring (and he has admitted to finding me 'shaggable'), that there's nothing coming from him in the way of possibly moving this forward.

He is with someone, allbeit casually, and he rarely sees her. But I wonder if she is giving him emotional support that I evidently am.

It's almost as if the only thing missing is the sex.

What are we both doing?!

I value this friendship. He's my mentor, muse and brother all in one. I don't want to be dramatic and to cut my ties, but I just don't understand why nothing has happened between us. Am I still being tested?
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Posted by MayDORISDay

I instructed there to be some boundaries put in place that would quell his provocativeness and allow me to not be subject to his teasing.






And did you equally set your own boundaries, which allows him to have a friend to whom he can share parts of his life with .. where you won't then make him the subject of your emotional neediness?

No, after reading all the way through, it's obvious that you instructed him on what he should do for you to make you feel comfortable being his friend, while not offering him the same in return .. he is still be looked at, by you, as if he hadto prove to you that you are regarding according to your desires, rather than how he actually wants to regard you.

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Hiya P-Angel

Could you clarify this a bit better for me. I am high on coffee and low on sleep.

he is still be looked at, by you, as if he hadto prove to you that you are regarding according to your desires, rather than how he actually wants to regard you.

I guess if I were to embark on another relationship with someone else then he certainly wouldn't see me as much and I would invest emotionally in someone else and vice versa. I don't really know the answer i'm afraid. I guess for creative work purposes yes, but it certainly wouldn't come with as much investment.
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You know you dont belong to that category vb 🙂 in fact not even the Royal Family would be good enough to compare you with 🙂



I concur.
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whatttttttttttttttttttttttttt did some one miss the money factor hell i would love to be apart of the royal family


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