Specifically a depressed male Virgo (Sept. 16th) 3rd Deacon. He called me to vent about his feelings, issues he is currently having which are many. Shocked the hell out of me to say the least because he is so closed and rarely speaks about how he feels; especially considering he initiated the contact and readily offered to speak about his feelings without any prompting from me.
Anyway, my first instinct is to try to get him out of his slump, go get him hang out a bit to take his mind off things. Or is Virgo best left to stew in his self pity and disappointment. I know when I'm upset, I like to stew a little bit but appreciate it when someone concerned tries to help me, but resent it if I really don't want the help (yes confusing I know but I'm a cap with a virgo ascendant, what do you expect : ). Suggestions—??
"Leave him alone, my foot. I say dunk his head in the toilet. And just be peppy and perky about it." LOL LOL
He has been calling alot lately (well not alot by normal standards, but alot by male virgo standards ; P ) and I have continued to be my usual silly self which seems to have helped somewhat, although he is still in a slump. I decided to stay away, but based on our recents conversations I think I should get him out the house, to distract him a bit. Easier said then done however, since I don't want to be pushy and always chicken out
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Anyway, my first instinct is to try to get him out of his slump, go get him hang out a bit to take his mind off things. Or is Virgo best left to stew in his self pity and disappointment. I know when I'm upset, I like to stew a little bit but appreciate it when someone concerned tries to help me, but resent it if I really don't want the help (yes confusing I know but I'm a cap with a virgo ascendant, what do you expect : ). Suggestions—??