You're so cold You're an iceberg - Women

What does this mean. I know what it would mean from a mans point of view but what does it mean when you women let things like this ramble out of your mouths? I've heard it from women while in arguments and even in from them in regular conversation when we're having a good time.

Perhaps, looking at your Sun/Moon combo will shed some light on it for you ...


Sun in Virgo, Moon in Aries The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces some degree of conflict in your nature because of vast differences between these signs. The common qualities are hardness and a true strength of purpose. Real emotions are not likely to be common to your nature. The variance of these to signs suggests a personality that is high-spirited, combative, and critical. Sociability is not second nature to you, and you seem to hold on to friends and lovers in spite of, not because of, the way you project yourself. You are demanding and exacting; always such a perfectionist. You have much less self-confidence than most perceive. You express yourself in a dynamic and executive way that makes you a strong, but probably not always the most popular manager. Mentally, you are both thoughtful and accurate, having piercing insights into people and situations. Being not at all disinclined to voice your dissatisfaction with others, many will view you as an exceptionally demanding leader. You may have difficulty seeing yourself objectively as a sense of detachment and the lack of emotional involvement retards self appraisal. You may express emotions when you feel this would serve your purpose, but sentimentality and gushy emotions are viewed by you as character weaknesses to be avoided. You are repelled by others that openly demonstrate such traits. - See more at: http://www.astrology-numerology.com/sun-moon.html#sun_virgo

Just because your headline triggered this memory.

"Why is your mother cold?" my (paternal) grandmother asked me once when I was about, idk, ten years old. Like I would know the answer. I didn't even know that concept until then.

My mother is fine. She is who she is.
Today is her birthday.
"Happy Birthday, Mom!"

Posted by HungVirgo
you women let things like this ramble out of your mouths?

Sagtastic used excellent words to describe it. Insensitive, unsympathetic, and I'll add uncaring.

From the description P Angel provided, you come by it naturally.

I just have to ask about the statement of women rambling. That is the second time I have seen you use those terms. It's just my pesky feelings/emotions talking here, but that comment comes across as cold to me. Like you find no value in anything that comes from a female's mouth. Don't know you so certainly not trying to put words in your mouth. Just interested in why you word it like that.

It means that your woman doesn't feel like the two of you are on the same emotional level. She doesn't feel that you understand or are empathizing with her in the way that she wants or needs to be happy. She doesn't feel that close heart-to-heart kind of connection that most females crave. The key word here is feel. She's feeling while you're thinking.

Basically, you're being a man.

I get the same thing HungVirgo. Even my mom told me that sometimes I can respond/react to things in a non-human way. She's like, are you even from Earth? My own mom!!!! Lol, other people say it as well.

I'm not cold. Actually I'm very hot. So hot to the fact that certain things make me react coldly because I'm burning with passion regarding whatever it may be...& I'm pretty passionate about uh...everything? *hot ice*

Posted by CluelessCancer
I agree you seem very cold and unfeeling when you post on these boards, so in real life, i'm sure you're probably like an ice berg.

Mr D all over again? Lol

Posted by CrabbyCat

Just interested in why you word it like that.

I worded it like that because its funny to me to say on a majority woman board.

Posted by Sagtastic1
It means you don't have the ability to objectively look at a situation and asses it without coming off as a selfish asshole. Women need to "feel" as if you understand them on a gut level and that is something you are incapable of doing. You might be able to finagle your way into leading a girl to believe that you really care, but in all actually, you're putting on a show only for your benefit. Having an Aries Moon, it's pretty hard to consider anybody else but yourself because you have a "me first" nature.

Men tell me the same thing and I can only attribute that to my Capricorn moon which is insensitive, even unsympathetically cruel, and selfish when in the search for status and financial security. If it don't make money, it don't make sense....so F it! My Sag sun will allow me to run off into the fields towards something or someone who is "bout that life"...lol

Don't feel bad that you come off as insensitive, just date woman who aren't emotional wrecks!

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lmao. Well didnt you make me sound like a piece of shit buddy...

I understand women more than women understand women usually, but what is a man doing to make you feel understanding on a gut level? When he uses a patronizing tone of voice and treats you like his daughter?

anyway the only thing I can really take exception with is

"You might be able to finagle your way into leading a girl to believe that you really care, but in all actually, you're putting on a show only for your benefit"

This is false. I'm not going around hustling women for my benefit, I dont keep any gains that were ill gotten. More importantly im not uncaring, I love just about everybody, I care about just about everybody, if we we speak youre important to me. and if someone makes their want/desire known to me 9x out of 10, I'll consider it as strongly as I do my own. Now do I make an effort to make sure the other person knows or feels all of this? Thats debatable.