Cancer/Leo Cusp Hate Thread

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She sounds like a narcissist straight out of hell, Wynter.

Usually these types cannot handle being in a relationship or marriage with a strong man, be it based on his experience, background or intelligence.

What they usually marry into is a Beta male who cannot stand his ground in arguments or discussions.

This type of woman also insists that she is always right, and that ANY male who dares to put her in her place is probably something to be destroyed.
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Insecurity and Ego do not mix very well, their whole being is driven by fear and narcissism. It's easy to feel bad for them when you realize that they are scared ALL THE TIME. They are constantly afraid others will see their insecurities and their weaknesses. So they bully, they rage, they condescend. An ex cancer friend with a Leo stellium always reminded me of this lesson from lifeguard training. Basically, when attempting to save a drowning person, be aware that in their fear they will try and save themselves by pushing you under water. You can't really fault them this fear, but obviously don't let yourself be drowned...actually I feel this way about all water signs, now that I think about it.lol
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My boyfriend is a Leo, but Cancer cusp...... these two mixed dont seem to know who they are.
But my daughter is a Gem, Cancer cusp.... what an amazing angel, this works well.



Tell me more about this boyfriend of yours.

Does he have conflicted emotions often? How long have you been with him?
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He rides more on the Leo side, but has alot of emotions. He's an analizer about everything, thinks alot. He has to play both sides then decide on something. He's very passionate, I think he has inner struggles, but Leo normally wins.
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omg thats describe my leo ex I only discovered now that she is a cancer/leo cusp !

-phoney compassion makes many hates her, she once told me i cant understand why some girls hate me while i am very nice and compassionate, i told her maybe they think you are fake, I was trying to show her the flaw so she can correct it but she didnt !

-unstable emotions, one day she is enthusiastic funny text me the whole day then the next day she is isolated i text her or call her but she dont reply or reply after 5 hours!

-she was not interested to listen to my ideas or stories, but when its about here she jump excited into the conversation.

-I was really concerned about some of her health issues and her poor diet but when i try to talk to her into it she just say ahh thanks for the good information but she dont try to even consider it as a choice.

-She get irritated when i stand my ground when we argue.

-She is an was and will always be right! she never admit that a choice or position she took was wrong.
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Seeing as half my family are on the cusp...

The women. They're egotistical, overly emotional and annoying because they over react to everything. They'll turn on you so fast you they leave you reeling. They make no sense- their actions make no sense, I am fairly convinced half the time they even know they're not making sense but they want to be in charge of the crazy train anyways. The only way you can survive them having an off day is to just let them get their way even if it defies all logic, because if you don't it really unsettles them and puts them on edge (hello tyrant). The irony is they're easy to dominate if you make them feel insecure. It's like they can't decide where they stand in any of it. Are you the life and soul of the party or are you the quiet one near the buffet table? Make up your mind already! But they're charming, so you forgive them.

The men. They're lovely, confused, deeply thoughtful, creative and imaginative. Just don't come to them with your emotional problems, they can't deal with them without either being affected or disinterested.

They both have a way of making you feel very needed and special BUT there's a short time limit before they get bored of you and want to move on to paying attention to something else. So just take all the loving and then after half an hour give them a breather or you wear their patience quickly. They're kind of firework people who can light up your world really quickly and give you lots of interesting information, but when it comes to you doing the same for them they are definitely wearing shades.

I'd also add, I think they give really awful first impressions. They appear how they think they should, but if they haven't even got to grips with that... I really wouldn't bestow judgement on someone on this cusp before you've engaged properly with them.
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I was expressing my concern about ebola in the US:

2 weeks ago:

Wynter: Omg, ebola is here this thing is going to get out of control! Fuck
Can/Leo: Oh, be quiet! You're NOT going to get ebola! There is no way, we are too carefull...blahblah


Today:
Can/Leo: OMG, people I know were on that airplane that nurse was on!
Wynter: You worried now?
Can/Leo: What are you talking about? I never said..blahblahblah
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Posted by RoseTheTaurus
Insecurity and Ego do not mix very well, their whole being is driven by fear and narcissism. It's easy to feel bad for them when you realize that they are scared ALL THE TIME. They are constantly afraid others will see their insecurities and their weaknesses. So they bully, they rage, they condescend. An ex cancer friend with a Leo stellium always reminded me of this lesson from lifeguard training. Basically, when attempting to save a drowning person, be aware that in their fear they will try and save themselves by pushing you under water. You can't really fault them this fear, but obviously don't let yourself be drowned...actually I feel this way about all water signs, now that I think about it.lol



^I agree with this. I think for many cancer-leo cuspies depending on how dominant Leo is, it is extremely difficult to accept the insecure vulnerable cancer side. Deep insecurity shows itself in many, usually obnoxious ways.

It doesn't need to be that way though.
Personally I prefer to cover my insecurities with jokes and silliness rather than nastiness but that took some maturity on my part.
I also pride myself on being able to accept my flaws, to myself and others.
That took many dedicated years of working on myself, and becoming a person I like.
Acceptance of ones flaws is not an easy task for the cancer-leo.

I cannot possibly describe how embarrassing my watery emotions were, to my cancer side growing up. I HATED that part of me, I wanted to bury it 6 feet under. I didn't want ANYONE to know I had a vulnerable side, an exploitable side and so I mistakenly confused nastiness for strength.

This is very likely what your much hated cancer-leo boss is doing.
It's no excuse.

I'm sorry you're dealing with that personality type, it's a real pain.

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Posted by ScorpioFish
She sounds like a narcissist straight out of hell, Wynter.

Usually these types cannot handle being in a relationship or marriage with a strong man, be it based on his experience, background or intelligence.

What they usually marry into is a Beta male who cannot stand his ground in arguments or discussions.

This type of woman also insists that she is always right, and that ANY male who dares to put her in her place is probably something to be destroyed.


My birthday is July 22nd the same as this woman you guys are talking about and this a perfect description of myself. WOW
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interesting.. im a cancer/leo. i'd have to say I can be quite flakey, disorganized, and moody. trainwreck of emotional mess would be right. what can we do!!
Also a Cancer/Leo (July 23) bu t this all sounds foreign to me lol. I can be flakey but I don't generally have a problem with people. These people all sound like they just have miserable lives so I can understand why you might think we are all lunatics lol. Hopefully you guys get to meet the ones of us who aren't insane!
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interesting.. im a cancer/leo. i'd have to say I can be quite flakey, disorganized, and moody. trainwreck of emotional mess would be right. what can we do!!
Also a Cancer/Leo (July 23) bu t this all sounds foreign to me lol. I can be flakey but I don't generally have a problem with people. These people all sound like they just have miserable lives so I can understand why you might think we are all lunatics lol. Hopefully you guys get to meet the ones of us who aren't insane!
Lol i dont know if you meant to quote me.. i get a notification when someone quotes something. July 22nd cusp. I still love myself and know my strengths. Like my artistic ability and good heart. I do think this cusp does have some disorganization though. Maybs you dont, but the ones I've met do. I also have sun and moon conjunct so I'm not making things up!
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Oh, sorry lol. I quoted because I wanted to comment on the fact that I can be flakey too haha. The rest was more geared toward the general discussion versus your direct comment 🙂

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Posted by EmotionalAries
My boyfriend is a Leo, but Cancer cusp...... these two mixed dont seem to know who they are.
But my daughter is a Gem, Cancer cusp.... what an amazing angel, this works well.
Im July 25th Leo/Cancer cusp I am also almost always in some internal war between head and heart. So yeah I agree with this statement haha but and I don't feel like I'm a disorganised, moody train wreck that other posters have mentioned,

I do change my attitude towards someone pretty quick if they disappoint / upset me. I have high expectations of people and if they don't meet them I do feel let down. The issue here is I don't know how to express these feelings tactfully - I come across as rude and blunt.



So maybe thats a little insight to the emotional lunatic mind of a Leo/Cancer cusp that you all dislike so much...