I attempted to forgive him and get back together with him, but then he started making everything about him and saying how he felt "demoted" in the relationship.. and wondering if a fresh start would be easier. I was pissed lol so I broke up with him this morning and told him we can be friends and that I was going to date other people.

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Welp last update. He slept with 2 people while I was trying to get back with him.

Wow! Where did you get that info from?

That's treetrunked up!

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He’s trying to get back with me now. Feels guilty wanted to let me know

Welp last update. He slept with 2 people while I was trying to get back with him.

Posted by FantamRooster
Your posts seem to indicate that it has been one struggle after another with you two pretty much from the beginning of the relationship. Are you sure you really should be focusing on getting him back? It's possible to love someone you just aren't compatible with. Sometimes you have to let it go.

True but I don’t give up easily. There’s been a lot of good in the relationship, albeit with the struggle. I feel it’s worth fighting for. But trust me, if we continue and I get to the point where I no longer see the value, it will be over.. no trying no caring no nothing.

Oh mars sign is Virgo

Posted by Whorpio
Scorpio sun and Venus. Sagittarius mars.

I need it every chance I get. So I’d say daily. And I’m talking multiple times daily.
I’m with someone who doesn’t prioritize sex though so I masturbate before he comes home, just in case I won’t be getting lucky that night.

Same. That’s only if I’m attracted to the person. Fire signs bring it out of me more. I’m a leo sun (leo/cancer cusp).. don’t care what no one says. Lol but my Venus is Virgo.

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Are you a Leo or Cancer? You are either one or the other. You are not two signs. You can check on astro.com

I wouldn't give anymore apologies... what's done is done. I don't think he would have been with another girl so fast, so don't let your insecurities get the better of you.

If you want to know if you're just friends or not, ask him when he brings up hanging out again.

Most people would say there is no such thing as astrology in general and yet here we are. I believe in chaos and I recognize thy I have the traits of both since I was born right in the middle of cancer and leo. So yes I am both whether you believe it or not.

Your sun sign is at a certain degree when you are born. For example, my sun is 4 degrees Aries, so I am an Aries. Your sun cannot be both signs. A sun sign ends at 29 degrees and another sun sign starts at 0 degrees.

If you are a Cancer.. Aries is not the best match for you. Cancer is very sensitive and cries a lot. They also give up on relationships easily. An Aries will run over your sensitivities.

Now lookgirl, I appreciate you.. your feedback is awesome but I’m gonna need you to stop telling me your opinions on this as if they are facts. If they are not, if you have not heard of chap signs and the traits that go to them that does not mean they aren’t real. Obviously I’ve done my research on this which is why I have information on it. But again, July 23 is a leo however I do not match all the leo traits. I have a lot of cancer traits in my sun sign as well which i realize is because my bday is on that birthday. A lot of times I oscillate between being like a leo and being like a cancer and it helps me to be more nurturing than the typical leo while also being less sensitive than the typical cancer. I’m able to look outside of myself more than the typical leo, while also enjoying having attention and being bold which is unlike the cancer. I do get mood swings but I do not cry all the time.

People assume that Hitler is an Aries. He was born on the Aries/Taurus cusp, but he is actually a Taurus when it comes down to it. His sun is at 0 degrees Taurus.

I am not sharing opinions as facts, I am just speaking the truth. No one can be two different signs. You are either one or the other based on when you were born. Check your chart, it will tell you.

So you're a Leo. Whatever you're doing, it's working to get the Aries back. You shouldn't have to do too much to get him back. Good luck!

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Well my birth chart shows leo so technically I am leo. I still have some cancer traits. Lol I’ll leave it as an agree to disagree.. but I appreciate all the info you have given me.

and for it to end so suddenly scared him ALOT. He didn’t understand why we didn’t stop the arguement before it ended and basically told me had I said different words to de escalate things we would have never gotten to the end part and he’s afraid of jumping back in and us getting to that place again.. I’m trying so hard to just show him that I learned from this and that I wouldn’t make this mistake again but also trying to help him see that love is a risk and it’s emotional and things can’t be controlled that way. It’s so hard and then he asked me to give him time to decide if he wants to take the risk and that just pissed me off because I am a freakin good woman!! Why do you need time to decide to be with me?? So I told him this upset me but whatever and was heading out to leave and he stopped me and kissed me and told me he loves me and that he would make sure everything works out for everyone and went back inside and I went home.. so I just feel stupid lol I have no idea wtf to do at this point and I’m sick of trying to convince him to be with me. I have no idea If the I love you and kiss meant that we are good now? Wtf.. I’m gonna see him tomorrow morning so idk. Uhg.

Next update. We hung out and talked more. He was more emotional as he was talking but made it clear that.. me almost leaving basically destroyed Him because he was beginning to invest everything into us, his kids, his home life, big decisions.. and for it to end so sud

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
@cancerleo91 Aries as you can see haaaate being called out.
Their quasi false egos can’t deal


You’re beautiful mama. Stand your ground and be fearless in pursuits.
He won’t go anywhere if you hold the fort but if you chase and apologise for butter that isn’t yours to own then you’ll be miserable and confused.
Much like now

I’d move on if I were you. Life isn’t for stressing.
Ps you’re very pretty no short of good men to placate your needs.

Thank you I have been holding my side down and just owning my part in things while acknowledging he has his own butter to own. I will just keep focusing on my happiness if it will be with him great if not I will not wait for him if he doesn’t see I’m still good for him.

Posted by Gemitati
@cancerleo91

Listen doll, I do hope that your Aries will pull his head out of his ass and see a clear picture of who you are and appreciate his kids likes you...
However...wtf is his problem on such a small issue you had?
‘Just a friendly peck?’ - that would make me go nasty!!!
I am boiling in my own butter but it’s only continuing because he never ever said anything or done anything to make me mad or upset! I don’t know how we managing it but we just do! I know if I slip - he will be gone. Though I am crazy cookiemonster otherwise!
Apparently he knows his butter and behaving so I won’t go beserk...

I wish you all possible best but I don’t like his butterty ‘favors’ like ignoring your heartfelt text and treating you like if he caught you naked in bed with someone else...

Maybe you need to let him have it?
Sometimes it works!
Just saying. Hope you’ll have all you want and this ‘sensitive’ man will just realize what he is having and what he might lose. Hugs

Yeah it confused me frustrated me. Uhg. It’s so hard finding the delicate balance he needs because he is super needy right now, and I have to make sure all my words make the perfect sense for the “equation” in his mind to work out and him to accept us again. He’s scared to jump back in with me.. that’s something I can tell.

Another update!!!!!!

After hanging out with his kids I dropped them off and he hugged me for like 5 mins straight and kissed my neck and apologized for it lol and then as we were ending the hug we both mutually kissed and he said “this is just a friendly peck” and I said ok I’ll see you later, as we have plans to hangout tonight. Of course I don’t want to be just friends, I feel so much chemistry between us so I know we r not just friends but I am letting him take his time on whatever he is feeling about us..

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Posted by bmoon8
Are you a Leo or Cancer? You are either one or the other. You are not two signs. You can check on astro.com

I wouldn't give anymore apologies... what's done is done. I don't think he would have been with another girl so fast, so don't let your insecurities get the better of you.

If you want to know if you're just friends or not, ask him when he brings up hanging out again.

Most people would say there is no such thing as astrology in general and yet here we are. I believe in chaos and I recognize thy I have the traits of both since I was born right in the middle of cancer and leo. So yes I am both whether you believe it or not.

Your sun sign is at a certain degree when you are born. For example, my sun is 4 degrees Aries, so I am an Aries. Your sun cannot be both signs. A sun sign ends at 29 degrees and another sun sign starts at 0 degrees.

If you are a Cancer.. Aries is not the best match for you. Cancer is very sensitive and cries a lot. They also give up on relationships easily. An Aries will run over your sensitivities.

Now lookgirl, I appreciate you.. your feedback is awesome but I’m gonna need you to stop telling me your opinions on this as if they are facts. If they are not, if you have not heard of chap signs and the traits that go to them that does not mean they aren’t real. Obviously I’ve done my research on this which is why I have information on it. But again, July 23 is a leo however I do not match all the leo traits. I have a lot of cancer traits in my sun sign as well which i realize is because my bday is on that birthday. A lot of times I oscillate between being like a leo and being like a cancer and it helps me to be more nurturing than the typical leo while also being less sensitive than the typical cancer. I’m able to look outside of myself more than the typical leo, while also enjoying having attention and being bold which is unlike the cancer. I do get mood swings but I do not cry all the time.

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Cusp* not chap lol

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Posted by bmoon8
Are you a Leo or Cancer? You are either one or the other. You are not two signs. You can check on astro.com

I wouldn't give anymore apologies... what's done is done. I don't think he would have been with another girl so fast, so don't let your insecurities get the better of you.

If you want to know if you're just friends or not, ask him when he brings up hanging out again.

Most people would say there is no such thing as astrology in general and yet here we are. I believe in chaos and I recognize thy I have the traits of both since I was born right in the middle of cancer and leo. So yes I am both whether you believe it or not.

Your sun sign is at a certain degree when you are born. For example, my sun is 4 degrees Aries, so I am an Aries. Your sun cannot be both signs. A sun sign ends at 29 degrees and another sun sign starts at 0 degrees.

If you are a Cancer.. Aries is not the best match for you. Cancer is very sensitive and cries a lot. They also give up on relationships easily. An Aries will run over your sensitivities.

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Now lookgirl, I appreciate you.. your feedback is awesome but I’m gonna need you to stop telling me your opinions on this as if they are facts. If they are not, if you have not heard of chap signs and the traits that go to them that does not mean they aren’t real. Obviously I’ve done my research on this which is why I have information on it. But again, July 23 is a leo however I do not match all the leo traits. I have a lot of cancer traits in my sun sign as well which i realize is because my bday is on that birthday. A lot of times I oscillate between being like a leo and being like a cancer and it helps me to be more nurturing than the typical leo while also being less sensitive than the typical cancer. I’m able to look outside of myself more than the typical leo, while also enjoying having attention and being bold which is unlike the cancer. I do get mood swings but I do not cry all the time.

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Posted by Cancerleo91

Posted by bmoon8
Are you a Leo or Cancer? You are either one or the other. You are not two signs. You can check on astro.com

I wouldn't give anymore apologies... what's done is done. I don't think he would have been with another girl so fast, so don't let your insecurities get the better of you.

If you want to know if you're just friends or not, ask him when he brings up hanging out again.

Most people would say there is no such thing as astrology in general and yet here we are. I believe in chaos and I recognize thy I have the traits of both since I was born right in the middle of cancer and leo. So yes I am both whether you believe it or not.

Your sun sign is at a certain degree when you are born. For example, my sun is 4 degrees Aries, so I am an Aries. Your sun cannot be both signs. A sun sign ends at 29 degrees and another sun sign starts at 0 degrees.

If you are a Cancer.. Aries is not the best match for you. Cancer is very sensitive and cries a lot. They also give up on relationships easily. An Aries will run over your sensitivities.

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Look up cusp signs. That is what I am, sun sign if Leo but because I am so close to cancer sign (July 23) I also get some cancer traits.

Update: he texted me.. told me he missed me and was sorry for canceling our day yesterday. He essentially didn’t want to label us anymore so I couldn’t figure out what he wanted via text but We finally got to hang out and it was really fun and good and I could tell he did miss it a lot, and he was conflicted. Eventually he told me he needed to talk to me about us, and he has feelings I can tell but he also said we will just see if we enjoy each other’s time. He’s trying to figure out the situation and why it turned out the way it did but he doesn’t understand and I think he’s super hesitant to fully get back with me? After hanging out his 2 daughters asked to spend the night with me and I thought he was going to cry.. he seemed really happy about it. And when we left he hugged me right and told me he loved me and I apologized to him again and told him I would never do it and he said “I know” or something like that and then I left. I texted him when I made it home that I loved him but he ignored it.. I’m so confused.

Posted by bmoon8
Are you a Leo or Cancer? You are either one or the other. You are not two signs. You can check on astro.com

I wouldn't give anymore apologies... what's done is done. I don't think he would have been with another girl so fast, so don't let your insecurities get the better of you.

If you want to know if you're just friends or not, ask him when he brings up hanging out again.

Most people would say there is no such thing as astrology in general and yet here we are. I believe in chaos and I recognize thy I have the traits of both since I was born right in the middle of cancer and leo. So yes I am both whether you believe it or not.

Posted by Pandora101
OP, you said something like he is not really into sex, now he is not giving you emotional support...

what are his qualities, again?

Well all the typical Aries qualities. Spontaneous, loving, he is quite kind in his gestures to me, child like in a cute way, creative, never boring, etc

Break was about 5 days ago. Also he cancelled the hangout for today.

I will say that I am giving him space only replying when he reaches out now. I just don’t want to end up just being friends and I’m wondering if he hooked up with people when we were apart? I don’t want to think about it but it’s creeping in.