Alright to the charts:

Mine**
Leo/Cancer Cusp Sun (It does exist, don't bother telling me it doesn't.. experience too much of it for it not to exist)
Capricorn Moon
Aquarius Rising
Virgo Venus
Virgo Mars

His**
Aries Sun
Aries Moon
Aries Rising
Pisces Venus
Scorpio Mars

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We've been together about a year and a half now. I have somehow adapted to his ways really well.. We are doing great right now
BUT it's still a struggle due to his need to always feel "heard" and "respected" in which I feel like I am doing it.. but the littlest thing will make him feel like he is small.. he's very childlike and it gets frustrating as I am super dominant and can sometimes stifle the need to be in control and make things go my way.. we are working on it, biggest thing is listening.. I always try to listen to what he is saying even if it doesn't make sense.. If he feels like I rejected his idea, even if I don't agree I will still listen.. But man he takes the simplest things and complicates the butter out of them... GAH

IDK it's a hard combo lol but are both into the same things.. love adventure going out, he doesn't try to change me.. always helps me out when I ask.. Idk.

What do you guys see when you see our charts together?

Posted by leoFemale
How you getting on Cancerleo91? I'm on the cusp of cancer Leo so I understand your battles. I'm aware of my different traits and can see how you could clash, I clash with myself a lot!! lol :-)

But I think if you both respect each others differences, accept each others traits, then it can work xx

We are doing ok still together and it’s been a year and a half.. he gets in my nerves lol

I think it’s the opposite the more air or water mixed with a Leo helps with the ego so that in the relationship Aries can still feel in charge. It’s working well for me, only thing that the cancer parts I have that affects the relationship negatively is the emotional mood swings but because I also have Leo in my chart it balances out well enough the my mood swings don’t affect others.

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Posted by Cancerleo91
This has been the worst year for me as well but also the best. It was one of the hardest because I left my abusive husband, was a single mom, failed at so many things.. struggled to survive.. saved my trauma head on.. but good because I’ve grown, I found love.. I found a career, I have my own home.. my kiddo is doing better than ever. I feel like it was a season this year for planting and next year we can actually have he fruit from the seeds? Dunno. It’s a weird perspective lol

next year will be so much better. i think still hard but better.

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I agree. We got this!

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Posted by LibraSupreme
Do Aries have feelings?

What is feeling anyway?

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How does one explain what a feeling is...

This has been the worst year for me as well but also the best. It was one of the hardest because I left my abusive husband, was a single mom, failed at so many things.. struggled to survive.. saved my trauma head on.. but good because I’ve grown, I found love.. I found a career, I have my own home.. my kiddo is doing better than ever. I feel like it was a season this year for planting and next year we can actually have he fruit from the seeds? Dunno. It’s a weird perspective lol

I have seen a tiny bit of softness in my Aries guy but he moves so fast it’s hard to feel it often. But just curious on other people’s experience with Aries and how they act when they are in love, emotionally?

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking

Don't be like that.

We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...

Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.

I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.

*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.

After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.

See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats ok

Humm...i just closed my pm box...lol...i think i am going to Aries this one out lool sorry

And tbh you don't need to tell me anything, i saw the trip picture. Let's just leave it at that ^^

As for the compulsive liars and obvious mind games...i don't know about that...but wold you actualy believe it if i told you that *we* actualy really mean the things we say ?...

As i see it, and from my perspective...most of the time, the problem is *how* to keep all that flame up...lol i know, i know you think that is a bbutter of an answer lool but it really is...at least that's what i feel about this.

You know what you should have done ?...Straight up give him the finger....now that's what a woman should do !! It makes my blood boil if i want her !! God, you have no idea...haha

That's how you treat an Aries...you fight trtrking Fire with Fire. And that flame..just keeps going and going...we might be a bit trtrked up in the head tbh...lolol

But then again you are a Libra...and even knowing all of that about Aries...you just can't resist it lol...Let me tell you something, when it comes to matters of the *heart*...your scales plain and simply.....suck haha xD

You do what you feel you want to do at that moment, even knowing all of that, and that's it. Very similar to the Aries passion, woldn't you agree ? ^^

We all are who we are and thank god for diversity

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This makes sense.. my ram keeps coming back and when we talk its either passionate about a topic or borderline fighting our communication is always fire-y.. I blame my leo sun.. but we have tons of fun together.. I just noticed our "fire" keeps the spark alive even after almost 1 year together.

Update. SO we have had some ups and downs and broken up a few times.. but he doesn't give up and neither do I, so we have found our way back to each other. Most recently we have been even better than before. He has told me that our physical times are the best he's ever had and that's such an ego boost lol. He also told me that he no longer sees me the same as the beginning.. like in the beginning he had an idea version of what I was, now he isn't blind he sees me for who I am showing him and he still chooses me. He's still frustrating and I am for him I'm sure but I'm looking forward to more days together.

I don't know. I love my aries man.. but there are so many ways where we clash. so many ways where we are good together.. I just think it's also super difficult too.. I guess I don't know where I stand. I just think we are a great match while also being an awful match.. both at the same time.

Posted by AriesJo
It’s terrible from my experience, for the reason you said. (Not the Aries being irrational part, obviously we’re perfect)

On a side note, do you say “hard headed”? The expression is “hot headed”

Both lol but I've always said "hard headed" for me because I learn through making mistakes.. No one is able to tell me what to do.. I don't learn easily, it takes multiple mistakes usually.. so it's as if my skull is too thick for knowledge to get in.. I am also hot headed.. both are not a good combo for a person.

Posted by peachy06
Aries and Leo are meant for each other.


End of the discussion.

Disagree. Can't be possible with both being so hard headed

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Posted by Cancerleo91
The too temperaments don't match well when angry. Leo woman doesn't back down once angered, and Aries man becomes irrational.

you have to look at whole chart

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I know.. I am being dramatic I guess. Things are not going well.. just feeling pretty hopeless on this combo.

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Posted by Cancerleo91
The too temperaments don't match well when angry. Leo woman doesn't back down once angered, and Aries man becomes irrational.

Wrong

Just this sunday my sister Leo and her husband aries celebrated their childs first birthday😃

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This makes me hopeful. I am being cynical

The too temperaments don't match well when angry. Leo woman doesn't back down once angered, and Aries man becomes irrational.