Posted by IamTheRam

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking

Don't be like that.

We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...

Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.

I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.

*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.

After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.

See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats ok

Humm...i just closed my pm box...lol...i think i am going to Aries this one out lool sorry

And tbh you don't need to tell me anything, i saw the trip picture. Let's just leave it at that ^^

As for the compulsive liars and obvious mind games...i don't know about that...but wold you actualy believe it if i told you that *we* actualy really mean the things we say ?...

As i see it, and from my perspective...most of the time, the problem is *how* to keep all that flame up...lol i know, i know you think that is a bbutter of an answer lool but it really is...at least that's what i feel about this.

You know what you should have done ?...Straight up give him the finger....now that's what a woman should do !! It makes my blood boil if i want her !! God, you have no idea...haha

That's how you treat an Aries...you fight trtrking Fire with Fire. And that flame..just keeps going and going...we might be a bit trtrked up in the head tbh...lolol

But then again you are a Libra...and even knowing all of that about Aries...you just can't resist it lol...Let me tell you something, when it comes to matters of the *heart*...your scales plain and simply.....suck haha xD

You do what you feel you want to do at that moment, even knowing all of that, and that's it. Very similar to the Aries passion, woldn't you agree ? ^^

We all are who we are and thank god for diversity

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This makes sense.. my ram keeps coming back and when we talk its either passionate about a topic or borderline fighting our communication is always fire-y.. I blame my leo sun.. but we have tons of fun together.. I just noticed our "fire" keeps the spark alive even after almost 1 year together.

Update. SO we have had some ups and downs and broken up a few times.. but he doesn't give up and neither do I, so we have found our way back to each other. Most recently we have been even better than before. He has told me that our physical times are the best he's ever had and that's such an ego boost lol. He also told me that he no longer sees me the same as the beginning.. like in the beginning he had an idea version of what I was, now he isn't blind he sees me for who I am showing him and he still chooses me. He's still frustrating and I am for him I'm sure but I'm looking forward to more days together.

I don't know. I love my aries man.. but there are so many ways where we clash. so many ways where we are good together.. I just think it's also super difficult too.. I guess I don't know where I stand. I just think we are a great match while also being an awful match.. both at the same time.

Posted by AriesJo
It’s terrible from my experience, for the reason you said. (Not the Aries being irrational part, obviously we’re perfect)

On a side note, do you say “hard headed”? The expression is “hot headed”

Both lol but I've always said "hard headed" for me because I learn through making mistakes.. No one is able to tell me what to do.. I don't learn easily, it takes multiple mistakes usually.. so it's as if my skull is too thick for knowledge to get in.. I am also hot headed.. both are not a good combo for a person.

Posted by peachy06
Aries and Leo are meant for each other.


End of the discussion.

Disagree. Can't be possible with both being so hard headed

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Posted by Cancerleo91
The too temperaments don't match well when angry. Leo woman doesn't back down once angered, and Aries man becomes irrational.

you have to look at whole chart

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I know.. I am being dramatic I guess. Things are not going well.. just feeling pretty hopeless on this combo.

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Posted by Cancerleo91
The too temperaments don't match well when angry. Leo woman doesn't back down once angered, and Aries man becomes irrational.

Wrong

Just this sunday my sister Leo and her husband aries celebrated their childs first birthday😃

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This makes me hopeful. I am being cynical

The too temperaments don't match well when angry. Leo woman doesn't back down once angered, and Aries man becomes irrational.

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What was good about it? What wasn't good before? Expand

Well having much more lol I want sex all the time.. he was having trouble keeping up.. but we talked on it and I realized from his past and what he went through, including ap eriod of no dating for 7 months and no sex in that time.. it's taken him a while for his emotions to catch up to the physical in order for him to want to do it more often.. I guess it caught up because we are doing it a lot more.

We are both very passionate with it.. and he is aggressive and rough and we went to an adult store to buy some toys, hand cuffs, etc.. it's just been a lot of fun.. but hes also super sweet, likes to look me in the eyes a lot during.. holds onto me.. it's just great.

coulda shoulda woulda but didn't.

So good in fact that I crave it all the time. Last night session was so amazing I am still thinking about it today.. fantasizing.. uhggggg

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It all comes down to chemistry like @LadyNeptune said. The Leo Sun/Aries Moon girl I hooked up with was trash in bed, talked a big game but was disappointing.

The Leo Sun/Scorpio Moon ex I had was amazing in bed. She was low key about it though, maybe that played a part in it? She aimed to please.

Though I wouldn't say they were the best at sex per se. Every sign is pretty great in their own way.

I agree.. I have a lot of chemistry with my aries sun/aries moon partner.. I am leo sun (cancer cusp?), Capricorn moon.. I was told I was the best he has been with and he has history lol he said sex with me was unprecedented. I am happy.. I aim to please but I also make sure to please myself during so I am aggressive but submissive at the same time.

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Posted by ragingfirelove
horrible.. this combo brings exactly
What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess

Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..
He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.

I'm also Leo on cancer cusp, venus in virgo. The short time I dated an Aries was awful lol. But you have your mind made up. Hope it works out.

If I may ask, what happened? Was he really mean?

Lol not really Just everything in my first post basically and ulimately it came down to the fact that He was a player, liked to have multiple women after him (Might've been his moon in Leo showing lol) I don't doubt he was sleeping with them or at least trying to. I don't like that butter so I cut it off. They don't go away easily though just the other day he texted me(after weeks of no contact) asking to see me I said no and he asked "What did I do" *eye roll*. I'm done, I'm done.

Oh and funny thing he actually made a collage of all his recent women on snapchat... Like flaunting that he messed with "pretty girls" Smdh thats like little boy ish 100x. If I didn't think it was so petty and telling of his character, I might have fell for the trap and contacted him telling him to take my pic off that butter. But he would have got a kick out of that and I'm not giving him the satisfaction lol

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Yeah that would get on my nerves too.. mine hasn't shown signs of being a player, but probably because of his Taurus Ascendant and Pisces Venus.. he is actually very loyal.. I've checked his phone several times randomly because after we broke up I was feeling insecure and he told me it was ok to do it.. he's never talking to anyone, deleted dating apps he had before he met me.. he has a lot of female friends on facebook but he also has a lot of male friends too.. adds random people to keep connections for his business. IDK.. he has been very good to me, just eccentric.. stuck in his ways, childish at times.. very forgetful.. not great with phone communication lol but overall a good guy. I'm sorry your guy was such a douchebag.. I wouldn't want to be with him either.. freakin cheaters.

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Posted by ragingfirelove
horrible.. this combo brings exactly
What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess

Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..
He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.

I'm also Leo on cancer cusp, venus in virgo. The short time I dated an Aries was awful lol. But you have your mind made up. Hope it works out.

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If I may ask, what happened? Was he really mean?

Posted by rejuvenatedheart
You guys have been dating for how long and had had how many conflicts and y'all are... Moving in together...?

yup!
It may not seem like the right choice for you, but for me and him when we weighed out the factors and made the decision it was right for us. Whether it makes sense to you or not is irrelevant.

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Sorry for the typos I'm doing this on my cell phone.

I'm pretty sure it's over since it's been 5 days but I'm just a little shocked.

So I'm a Leo and he's an Aries so it's no surprise that we can go at it from time to time. This time may have been the final straw.

So my ram has time management issues. He shows up late and plans are always screwy. He travels 2.5 hours to see me and I appreciate that. It's just that he doesn't leave on time and or doesn't let me know he's going to be late in an appropriate time and can be dismissive. That's my biggest issue. I'm always running late to things so I can't completely fault him. It's how he communicates his lack of time management is what really gets under my skin. When he called me to let me know he was going to be late (messing up our dinner plans) he could tell I was frustrated. He said why can't we just order food and stay in. I told him no, I want to go out (because he's late plans are usually messed up so I wanted to go out). He then said I was acting childish and started making jokes that I didn't find funny. He said he promised we would go out and I said I don't believe and said, "are you serious?". I said it again, "I don't believe you." He said, "You're doing the most. I'm not coming" I said, "okay" and he said, "okay" then hung up.

We haven't talked since then and that was 5 days ago. It was weird a few days before then he had asked me what kind of ring I liked and we exchanged pictures of rings that I like. He even mentioned how it was out of his tax bracket. I know he wasn't asking me about rings because he meant it in a serious way as if he was thinking about marriage, I know he was just curious about what I like. However, it was nice that the conversation didn't freak him out.

Again, I know it's over I'm just a little shocked and hurt that it's over so abruptly like that without a proper ending. Just sucks :/

I am a leo woman dating aries man. Me and mine also can go at it a lot.. especially in the beginning.. we had very similar problems. How we got through it is I literally had to stop making it an issue.. which I know is hard because of our pride. It was tough. But I decided "this is who he is.. he sucks at phones.. I am not going to keep making him feel bad about this. if he wants to change it, he will. Until then I will work with him on it." Literally to the point of just letting him reach out to me.. if he was late, letting him be late and just doing my own thing. He told me once when he showed up 4 hours late to our date and realized I was SUPER upset, that he wanted someone who could just be grateful that they were able to see him.. I was like "Excuse me?!" that blew my mind lol but I also understood too.. he doesn't want to feel bad about who he is.. he just wants someone to love him. He didn't show up late to blow me off.. he got distracted which happens often and forgot the time until he remembered and then showed up. When I was able to see his intentions were good in his actions.. I was able to voice my concerns to him in a way that didn't make him feel like he had to change, I let him know these things bothered me but I also accepted him the way he was and was not going to change him. If he wanted to change he could as it would make things easier but I loved him for who he was.. overtime he did start to change and call/text more.. and when he didn't I would just pop up at his place lol so it worked out. In your case I understand you can't just go to his place and that you have to communicate In order for plans to work out.. but if you really care for him, you wont put it on him to change for you guys to be successful you will find a way to work through it together.

Thank you so much for the advice. I'm just worried since it's been so long (we've never gone this long without talking) that he's just done with the relationship :/

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Let him marinate.. they can go a loooong time. I went without talking to mine for a week when he was out of state and when we broke up it was days before we spoke.. It was rough, but he came around.. Yours will too just give him some time. If you want though you can send him a friendly message too just to speed up the time frame.

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Posted by ragingfirelove
horrible.. this combo brings exactly
What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess

"Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet."

I just made a post about my Aries and I'm a Leo too. Is this true for most Aries men^^^?

This is typically all aries. They are like babies.. extremely vulnerable, but pretend to be super tough.. stuck in their ways, can't see past their perspective.. flighty, constantly changing ideas/hobbies.. flirty.. etc. They need freedom while still feeling like you are home for them.

Hmm thanks for the 411. I've never dated an Aries and I don't know too many. Do you mind giving your feedback on my post since you seem knowledgeable haha?

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Posted by Sag898
Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it

With mine it isn't neccesarily when he doesn't get his way.. but if I speak to him in a way that isn't loving? Like if I criticize him I see a whole different side of him. Or when we did break it up it was because of me starting a conversation like "I don't think this is gonna work, me and you" like that phrase set him the treetrunk off... he doesn't like anything that threatens our relationship or hurts him and he does not like direct criticism I have to soften it a lot.

How did you expect him to react to saying you don't wanna be with him anymore? like... oh yeah cool, no worries bye

Well I wasn't trying to not be with him.. I was trying to talk to him but was super frustrated at that point that the conversation started very badly and I definitely learned from that mistake lol it was not a good experience and I will never be doing that again.

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I will also state that in the past this is how me and my ex communicated.. whenever I got frustrated doing conversations like this was the only way he would actually hear me and try to listen.. he was very abusive mentally and emotionally and I was constantly trying to leave the relationship.. but in this new relationship I didn't realize I had carried this baggage over.. until the argument happened and I almost lost him and that's when I realized I needed to fix this and not do that again.

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Posted by Sag898
Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it

With mine it isn't neccesarily when he doesn't get his way.. but if I speak to him in a way that isn't loving? Like if I criticize him I see a whole different side of him. Or when we did break it up it was because of me starting a conversation like "I don't think this is gonna work, me and you" like that phrase set him the treetrunk off... he doesn't like anything that threatens our relationship or hurts him and he does not like direct criticism I have to soften it a lot.

How did you expect him to react to saying you don't wanna be with him anymore? like... oh yeah cool, no worries bye

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Well I wasn't trying to not be with him.. I was trying to talk to him but was super frustrated at that point that the conversation started very badly and I definitely learned from that mistake lol it was not a good experience and I will never be doing that again.

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Posted by ragingfirelove
horrible.. this combo brings exactly
What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess

"Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet."

I just made a post about my Aries and I'm a Leo too. Is this true for most Aries men^^^?

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This is typically all aries. They are like babies.. extremely vulnerable, but pretend to be super tough.. stuck in their ways, can't see past their perspective.. flighty, constantly changing ideas/hobbies.. flirty.. etc. They need freedom while still feeling like you are home for them.