I need advice from a Taurus man

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Lildebbiessnack
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My Taurus and I (I’m a Leo) have been “talking” since November. He had been admiring me from a far for years and then one day he slid in my inbox. We both had just ended some long term relationships. We started off as friends. Talked all day everyday and spent a lot of time with each other. He was sweet and affectionate. We were building towards a relationship. We argued here and there but got over it quickly. Months go by and everything is great then one day it seems different. He’s becoming distant, we barely talk or see each other. I ask him what’s wrong. What’s changed. He says nothing changed. That’s just how he gets sometimes....that goes on for a month. Then he says he just wants to be friends right now. He barely texts now. We don’t see each other at all but he claims he’s still interested. I asked him what I did to turn him off or blow things with him and he said I didn’t do anything he just gets into spells where he pushes people away....wtf y’all? I swear I don’t understand this man. So my question is should I just let him go?
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Posted by Lildebbiessnack

My Taurus and I (I’m a Leo) have been “talking” since November. He had been admiring me from a far for years and then one day he slid in my inbox. We both had just ended some long term relationships. We started off as friends. Talked all day everyday and spent a lot of time with each other. He was sweet and affectionate. We were building towards a relationship. We argued here and there but got over it quickly. Months go by and everything is great then one day it seems different. He’s becoming distant, we barely talk or see each other. I ask him what’s wrong. What’s changed. He says nothing changed. That’s just how he gets sometimes....that goes on for a month. Then he says he just wants to be friends right now. He barely texts now. We don’t see each other at all but he claims he’s still interested. I asked him what I did to turn him off or blow things with him and he said I didn’t do anything he just gets into spells where he pushes people away....wtf y’all? I swear I don’t understand this man. So my question is should I just let him go?


I’m curious. What are his other placements ?
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Sounds like he found someone else. I’m almost sure of it. Yes cut the bish off. Move on. Save yourself the drama and heartache now.

I was wondering if it’s just because I’m a suspicious scorpio but that’s instantly where my mind went to. lol sounds like he met someone else but doesn’t want to cut ties just in case the new situation don’t work out.
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Nope it’s exactly that
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Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by bkbella86

Sounds like he found someone else. I’m almost sure of it. Yes cut the bish off. Move on. Save yourself the drama and heartache now.

I was wondering if it’s just because I’m a suspicious scorpio but that’s instantly where my mind went to. lol sounds like he met someone else but doesn’t want to cut ties just in case the new situation don’t work out.

Nope it’s exactly that
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Exactly what? He found someone else?
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Sounds like he's dealing with depression, I also tend to isolate myself when I get myself into a funk, so I don't bother anyone with my emotional problems. He told you that this isn't about you, if he's like me, then it isn't about you, maybe his life is kicking his ass in some way. Keep asking him, or drop him. *Shrugs.* But let him know before you do, that may get him out of his funk as well..
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Posted by Lildebbiessnack

My Taurus and I (I’m a Leo) have been “talking” since November. He had been admiring me from a far for years and then one day he slid in my inbox. We both had just ended some long term relationships. We started off as friends. Talked all day everyday and spent a lot of time with each other. He was sweet and affectionate. We were building towards a relationship. We argued here and there but got over it quickly. Months go by and everything is great then one day it seems different. He’s becoming distant, we barely talk or see each other. I ask him what’s wrong. What’s changed. He says nothing changed. That’s just how he gets sometimes....that goes on for a month. Then he says he just wants to be friends right now. He barely texts now. We don’t see each other at all but he claims he’s still interested. I asked him what I did to turn him off or blow things with him and he said I didn’t do anything he just gets into spells where he pushes people away....wtf y’all? I swear I don’t understand this man. So my question is should I just let him go?


My best friend is a Taurus man happily married to a Leo Woman. He thinks deeply and distance himself whenever he has something on his mind which doesn't make sense to him. He has a need to stay grounded throughout his life and whenever he's not, he'll pull away. One problem many of us grown men have is finding other real men to have real conversations with during difficulties. So we turn inward to find the answers. Most earth signs naturally do this.

Our problems, our fears, our doubts are all processed internally and we remain distant in a meditative state until we have solace or a plan of action. Balance and remaining grounded are highly important to us earth signs and though you might not feel like waiting, if you do when he bounces back he'll know that you can understand him. Actions and interactions are great but the wrong course of action is counterproductive. So he's taking time to calculate his next steps. Hopefully you can understand.