Taurus man Virgo Woman - Help !!!!!!!

I know this taurus guy for months at work and expressed my love for him. We initially hit it off well, he took his time though I thought it was less compared to how long a Taurus man would take ( as if seen one of my friend take months ) and he did want me to surrender fully being intimate etc for which I took my own time and he really liked it. I gave in after four months and he bought me a ring not as a proposal but as a promise to be together which made me feel if it's too early.... Anyways things have been going great until he was hanging out with the girls at work and i kind of blew it up, got mad at him twice or thrice and he didn't really like it though he explained it all to me but was very angry about it and later I apologised and he said it's alright after which he told me not to misunderstand him and that he knows what he's doing. I said I wouldn't do things like again and everything has been going smooth. It was his ex's bday recently and he expressed how sad he felt recollecting what she did to him (she cheated on him) and that he was sorry for saying it to me to which I said it's completely alright to share things like that and that am here to understand and make sure he's alright and consoled him for which he said he loves me for understanding...After which he recently sent me a video of the different ways a man proposed to a girl and it surprised me.. it did bring a lot of happiness but made me wonder if he wanted to do the same or if he was just sending it simply as it's just been eight months into the relationship....The same night he sent me the video, he said we'll have to slow down meeting each other and that he likes it that way and wants to take his own sweet time for everything, said he doesn't want ppl to get to the point of doubting him at home considering the freedom he's being given and that he's not ready to take a decision now and just wants to chill with his friends and have his time... To which I made him know how difficult it is for me to stay away from him for more than a week and also said though we work in the same company but in diff locations I can only get to see him a week coz if I were there at the same location I wouldn't have asked me to meet me often and make things uncomfortable for him at home .. as I would get to see him everyday but that now we only plan to meet once a week etc., He said okay and said he would call me the next day. I left msgs asking him if there's anything wrong from my side and that we could take things slow if he wanted... He often tells me to understand and let go and did the same when I asked him about the girls he was smoking up with and he said he knows his limits and not to get insecure to which I said okay and would stop thinking that way..

The next day he apologized for speaking like that and said he was really disturbed with someone which had nothing to do with me but also that am his ultimate happiness and said he would meet me this coming week. He asked me to leave him alone for a day or two until he feels completely alright and not to explain anything concerning our relationship as he feels deeply connected with me etc... I did feel things were going way too fast, for me as a Virgo as it seemed very overwhelming the time he gave me a ring but watching the video he sent me, I got very worried wondering that he was either fully in and that he would be out very soon as the Taurus male I've seen takes a long time to commit and this seemed so early .. and just that thought u get when everything goes perfectly alright quick one after the other and u wonder if it's going to be the same and crumble at once...



Is it normal for a taurus man to ask for space when he's trying to figure out things in life ? And is it normal for him to take things slow once after committing and everything goes alright ? I wanted to speak to him and ask him where he sees this relationship going etc but stopped to see until he feels completely alright from the things he's been going through so I could take it slow... should I be worried as it's really making me wonder if he's having second thoughts on the relationship that he's asking me for time and space now... What do I do? For a moment I felt like he's not feeling the way he used to and is just forcing himself into it because of the way it's been.. please help 😞😭

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I bet if this was cancer, sag or libra

He would never

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Or pisces

But then again after Daniel's

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so after all of that, he said he enjoys his freedom, smoking with other girls and spending time with his friends?

Yaaa, his priorities are always on the front with him making time for me only if he's free most of the time but he is with his friends always on weekends and makes time for me if he gets free and I eventually make a scene at home if I need to meet him on weekends as my parents know that I don't work then and I have to cook stories of going to work etc... Apart from that, he smokes up with girls at work and tells me if anybody new talks to him or so... He seems honest sometimes and then seems so confusing to me...

Posted by Melody14

Yaaa, his priorities are always on the front with him making time for me only if he's free most of the time but he is with his friends always on weekends and makes time for me if he gets free and I eventually make a scene at home if I need to meet him on weekends as my parents know that I don't work then and I have to cook stories of going to work etc... Apart from that, he smokes up with girls at work and tells me if anybody new talks to him or so... He seems honest sometimes and then seems so confusing to me...

honesty only gets you so far. there are better guys out there. guys who want to be with you on the weekends, not as an after thought. guys who don't wan't you to lie to your parents but respect them and have a good relationship with them.

i mean is honesty all that great if he is doing stuff that makes you uncomfortable?

oh yeah he gave me gonorrhea after shagging some woman he met at a stag do but he was totally honest about it!

oh he stole money from me and crashed my car after he drove drunk but he was completely up front with me!

I got a headache from reading it.

Posted by AgentP911

I got a headache from reading it.

As did I 😩

Posted by Melody14

Is it normal for a taurus man to ask for space when he's trying to figure out things in life ? And is it normal for him to take things slow once after committing and everything goes alright ?

yes and yes....tldr the rest but sounds like you are way too worried and need to chill....I recommend meditating in a float tank at least twice a month....

Posted by Sailor_Mars

men are pigs and we are idiots for dancing to their music.

this is also sound advice....

Melody 14....

No disrespect. But this is the vibe that I am getting from you..."CONTROLLING ".

You express your love for him after working with him for several months...not after being in a relationship with him for several months. If that's not moving fast, then I dont know what is.

Then you play the role of Virgin Madonna. Let him wait for 4 months, he decides to send a chivalrous video of a wedding proposal, then things are suddenly moving too fast.

He decides to slow things down, ask for a little space because he senses things are moving too quickly...and now you're in a state of panic.

You want to control the narratives.

1. You decide when to move fast

2 You decide when to be intimate.

3. You decide when to slow things down.

Looks like your plans have backfired.