atearth
@atearth
13 Years
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Posted by atearth
What can I say I'm very slow moving.
Yes in that time we've not had many dates.
We have seen each other normally once a week during this period, just happen to be going to the same events/do, so we spend 2 to 3 hours in each other company during the evenings, but don't get to interact much.
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Both of us are introverts, perhaps I'm more shy of the two of us.
We went on a our first date back in the summer, just talking for 4 hours in the park.
Had our second date in early September, just talking for 4 hours in the park.
Mid September were took a day trip to a political event, we begin at 7am and we didn't get back til 11pm.
They said on paper everything is perfect, and that they were hoping things would knit together and they had develop romantic feelings. however it hasn't happened so far. They guess it was a gradual realization, that they don't think these feelings were likely to develop. They also send that they realized that they sometimes end up in relationships out of flattery, without really listening to their own instincts.
They told me this earlier this week. We were going to arrange our third date this coming week in October, which is now not going to happen.
I'm sadden by the news, perhaps it's just me, we've been on a few dates, yes I have feelings for they. Perhaps more so than they do for me.
Just wished they have stuck out a little longer to see how things could develop.