Things going not as planned

Hi, I’m a Taurus girl and 37 yrs old. I feel like I’ve cursed with some negative energy. Every time I’m about to get married things just goes wrong. I got engaged 5 months ago and was supposed to have my wedding next month. But all of the sudden, one fight between my Sagittarius guy broke our relationship almost one month before the wedding. Issue was very small but I took it to the next leave just so can stop this wedding and it happened. I had no intention to do that and I still don’t know what happened. I’m blaming myself for this mess. My fiancé basically walked away and decided we should not get married. We both are stubborn and high tamper and he thinks its a good idea that we don’t get married.

I feel like I have been cursed not to be happy and not just me but my family too. My sister marriage broke 4 months ago on a small issue as well.

My family is very shaken up by this and don’t know what’s happening to our family. All is going well and soon wedding dates comes close something goes wrong.

I wonder if someone tell me what I can do to get rid of this negative energy around my family and house.

Thanks

Might be cause of bad feng shui.

Sell the house?

Get some couples counseling. If your getting married at a church they typically offer it.

Posted by PunGirl2019

Issue was very small but I took it to the next leave just so can stop this wedding and it happened.

Cold feet is a pretty common phenomenon. Your not cursed, your just not sure.

I feel like I'm cursed too. I'm 37 as well.

What's your chart?

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Might be cause of bad feng shui.

Sell the house?

Cant speak on particular situation but yeah sometimes this/change of scenery is a good move. I just made a similar move and feel great about it. Have another one planned but its looking like a year or so "operation" to get things together. I learned not to "plan" too much. Some, yeah but Because things dont always go as planned. I learned to be more flexible like my parents and a lot of other family members/people I know kind of for whatever reason stay in their house/location indefinitely. I just...who knows it may be the spot now and not the spot in 2 years at least thats what I've experienced I want to be able to move pretty freely.

Thats just the location aspect some of op seems like it is the type of thing that could take a while and is not in my wheelhouse to comment about.

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Yes. Most people think fengshui is a joke.

But from where I live, it's quite common to paid attention on that.

Good it worked for you.

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Might be cause of bad feng shui.

Sell the house?

Cant speak on particular situation but yeah sometimes this/change of scenery is a good move. I just made a similar move and feel great about it. Have another one planned but its looking like a year or so "operation" to get things together. I learned not to "plan" too much. Some, yeah but Because things dont always go as planned. I learned to be more flexible like my parents and a lot of other family members/people I know kind of for whatever reason stay in their house/location indefinitely. I just...who knows it may be the spot now and not the spot in 2 years at least thats what I've experienced I want to be able to move pretty freely.

Thats just the location aspect some of op seems like it is the type of thing that could take a while and is not in my wheelhouse to comment about.

Yes. Most people think fengshui is a joke.

But from where I live, it's quite common to paid attention on that.

Good it worked for you.

From what I understand its like the "energy" of a space/location and positioning right? Im not too versed in Feng shui but like even with location and orientation of furniture only makes sense that it matters. The Earth is spinning an in a particular direction so makes sense that where you sit and sleep and etc and in what direction would have some effects. Facing South vs east for instance. I go by the "feel". And just overall location I finally made a move on my place and was pretty pleasantly surprised by the results. Changed my life that is more an overall location thing. It was impractical to go to that city plus its too hot for me and just making a move can be overall a good move. And who knows to where maybe far away.

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Yeah the facing/direction of the house (kua) is the most important.

Let say if the head of the family/individual is supposed to not living in a house facing northeast but they lives in it then they'll fucked up untill they move. Lol.

There are many other things of course like the year when one's should move and where to place items etc.

Or maybe both sisters just crazy?

Posted by PunGirl2019

Hi, I’m a Taurus girl and 37 yrs old. I feel like I’ve cursed with some negative energy. Every time I’m about to get married things just goes wrong. I got engaged 5 months ago and was supposed to have my wedding next month. But all of the sudden, one fight between my Sagittarius guy broke our relationship almost one month before the wedding. Issue was very small but I took it to the next leave just so can stop this wedding and it happened. I had no intention to do that and I still don’t know what happened. I’m blaming myself for this mess. My fiancé basically walked away and decided we should not get married. We both are stubborn and high tamper and he thinks its a good idea that we don’t get married.

I feel like I have been cursed not to be happy and not just me but my family too. My sister marriage broke 4 months ago on a small issue as well.

My family is very shaken up by this and don’t know what’s happening to our family. All is going well and soon wedding dates comes close something goes wrong.

I wonder if someone tell me what I can do to get rid of this negative energy around my family and house.

Thanks

He’s a Sagittarius. That explains it all. 🙄

Seriously, if you two were that stubborn and hard headed with each other it’s probably for the best. Marriage itself does not automatically make anything better. Perhaps he was right. But since he was willing to walk completely away and not consider working on anything, in a way you’re better off.

It could also be you unconsciously seek out relationships that are unhealthy. Look at the other relationships you have had. Look for patterns.

Good luck.