Does Ignoring aquarius push them away?

BeautyNBrains23
So... I've known this aqua guy for going on 7 months...in the beginning it was all good now... we're kind of rocky....he disappeared on me the month of february then came back in march...when i was barely interested,telling me how he missed me,and he was just going through something....i feel like he plays tit for that and that's annoying to me.. I'm a cancer,but not the typical overly sensitive and emotional type..I bless him with a lot of space...I'm a virgin and i'm 23 he's not!! and he's 33... i stayed over one night with him which was a tuesday,and i jst randomly asked when was the last time he was intimate with someone..he hesitated to tell me....then he goes "If i tell you don't be mad" i'm like yeah whatever and he says "SATURDAY" hell no!! it instantly pissed me off but i showed no emotion...so lately i've been easing back because some things about him is turning me away even though i really care for him!! so i'm a cancer and when we go through things we retreat in our shells away from people,so i disappeared on him for a week than he calls me i was busy so i had to call him back i did so and here he goes acting like nothings wrong and he says "What made you call me"? i said you called earlier,and he didn't like my response..we started talking again on good term then out of the blew one day...i texted him saying "What do you like about me"? he never replied so i called him ...he didn't answer so i'm fed up!! i want to say a lot to him but i figured just ignore him and move on.It's been a week since i've contacted him,and i'm quite proud of myself sometimes i would give in.
BeautyNBrains23
It seem like i'm the one who's been doing all the contacting ...and i'm sick of it...maybe he will look else where..but idc...when you have something great in front of you ..you should embrace it at all cost..even if we don't speak again he will be the one to miss out..i last called him and no call back..so why should i continue to call and make myself look desperate.
Aqualad
Most of the time it makes us want to talk to you more. When someone is ignore me(like this pisces girl right now) it usually just makes me really curious on what I did to deserve to be ignored. It definitely works with aquas when you go from a lot of contact to a little from what I've seen. It just get's our minds reeling lol.
BeautyNBrains23
It's funny in a way because he told me all women he dated were cancers and they all disappeared on him...he says women leave him..The way i'm feeling i would do the same.lol
PiscesFebFish
You're a 23 year old Virgin? Thats so sad.
BeautyNBrains23
Oh i'm not sad at all sweetie..I actually love and appreciate every part of my body...enough to not let just any man touch it.=)so thank you.
truecap
Posted by BeautyNBrains23
It's funny in a way because he told me all women he dated were cancers and they all disappeared on him...he says women leave him..The way i'm feeling i would do the same.lol


Maybe its him and not the women!

You did ask a question and an Aqua will be honest. Its a risk of getting your feelings hurt, but, if you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask the question. He is probably confused as to why you got upset.

I think you should blow him off if he's not responding. If he wants to contact you, he will. I'm so sorry. You seem like a nice girl, and you deserve someone better.

I respect your decision to remain a virgin! Stick to it! That is the greatest gift you can give a man and you have EVERY right to be choosy as to who gets that gift!
ShahBano
Posted by BeautyNBrains23
Oh i'm not sad at all sweetie..I actually love and appreciate every part of my body...enough to not let just any man touch it.=)so thank you.


Cool-
ShahBano
As for aqua men; they are their own masters, you can't, or anyone else for that matter, remote control them. They come and go as they please--no conditions, no negotiations, no ultimatums. Take them or leave them, you can't dictate them.

I am dealing with one who has Sun, Moon , Venus, Mars, juno, lilith in Aquarius-how does it sound ?
PiscesFebFish
Ok, enlighten me. I'm always open to learn something new or have my POV swayed....if the greatest gift you can give a man is your virginity, what is the great gift he is giving you in return and please explain how love and fidelity equate to sex.
ShahBano
Posted by PiscesFebFish
Ok, enlighten me. I'm always open to learn something new or have my POV swayed....if the greatest gift you can give a man is your virginity, what is the great gift he is giving you in return and please explain how love and fidelity equate to sex.


gift thing aside, every girl has the right to consider herself precious. why should a girl feel pressure to have sex just because other women are doing it. it's her body,her decision.

Just because a woman is sleeping around does not mean she becomes some sort of idol for other girls to look up to.
PiscesFebFish
So attach the feeling of being "precious" to either virginity or not sleeping around? So to you, feeling good about yourself is an extension of choosing to be or not to be physical with another human being?
truecap
Pisces - Whether you have sex freely or selectively is a personal choice. You choose your way, let everyone else choose theirs. It boils down to self respect and how you feel about sexual relations. Everyone is different. Personally, I would feel like a slut if I gave it freely to a lot of men and I wouldn't have much self respect. Not everyone would feel that way, some are more free spirited.

Besides, it's HER choice. Who cares what you think? And virginity is only given ONCE to ONE person. The first time should be special. The person who gets it should be loving, caring, respectful and worthy of it - not just some user jerk who is just after sex.

truecap
In the old days, a man had to marry you to get sex.

Its a different time and place now.
ShahBano
Posted by truecap


Its a different time and place now.


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