Does Ignoring aquarius push them away?

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5/16/2012 7:53:09 PM | More
BeautyNBrains23

female

I'm Beaautiful, fun, classy,bossy.sweet,

So... I've known this aqua guy for going on 7 months...in the beginning it was all good now... we're kind of rocky....he disappeared on me the month of february then came back in march...when i was barely interested,telling me how he missed me,and he was just going through something....i feel like he plays tit for that and that's annoying to me.. I'm a cancer,but not the typical overly sensitive and emotional type..I bless him with a lot of space...I'm a virgin and i'm 23 he's not!! and he's 33... i stayed over one night with him which was a tuesday,and i jst randomly asked when was the last time he was intimate with someone..he hesitated to tell me....then he goes "If i tell you don't be mad" i'm like yeah whatever and he says "SATURDAY" hell no!! it instantly pissed me off but i showed no emotion...so lately i've been easing back because some things about him is turning me away even though i really care for him!! so i'm a cancer and when we go through things we retreat in our shells away from people,so i disappeared on him for a week than he calls me i was busy so i had to call him back i did so and here he goes acting like nothings wrong and he says "What made you call me"? i said you called earlier,and he didn't like my response..we started talking again on good term then out of the blew one day...i texted him saying "What do you like about me"? he never replied so i called him ...he didn't answer so i'm fed up!! i want to say a lot to him but i figured just ignore him and move on.It's been a week since i've contacted him,and i'm quite proud of myself sometimes i would give in.
5/16/2012 8:52:28 PM | More
aquansidenout

32 years old female from USA  

Queen of selfies. So what.....jealous?

No ignoring us doesn't push us away. Half the time we're so caught up in our own little world that we don't notice until the person gets frustrated from the distance and contact us first. Then we're happy go lucky and they're pissed and we have no clue why. But if he has strong feelings for you or was starting to get those feelings the absence will sometimes make us want you more because you give us attention but not to much that we need to figure out why we're not the center of your world. Lol I have a cancer guy as we speak whose gone cold on me because he says I don't call or text him enough yet I always find time to log in on my social network. I felt bad and contacted and said my bad and tried to start a conversation but he seemed dry I got bored and it's been a couple of weeks and I just don't have the desire to contact him again because his passive aggressiveness is a turn off.
5/16/2012 9:17:03 PM | More
size zero superhero

female

ヽ( ゚ヮ・)ノ *******************

Acting as if someone does not exist or like you have no interest when you really do fits the definition of pushing them away. Most of the time it's highly effective as nobody wants to be among anyone who rejects them, in one way or another.

Reverse psychology is a crock due to humanity's permanent lack of mind-readers. Doesn't matter that Aquarians have been revered for their determination and intuition...even if they're in on your reasons for ignoring them doesn't mean hot-and-cold treatment and emotional games are acceptable.

Sorry, the whole description of this situation sounds real sketchy. You asked him when he last had some play and didn't like the answer. But you and him are not exclusive nor committed, so there's no reason to assume he won't look elsewhere in the meantime.
5/16/2012 11:11:27 PM | More
BeautyNBrains23

female

I'm Beaautiful, fun, classy,bossy.sweet,

It seem like i'm the one who's been doing all the contacting ...and i'm sick of it...maybe he will look else where..but idc...when you have something great in front of you ..you should embrace it at all cost..even if we don't speak again he will be the one to miss out..i last called him and no call back..so why should i continue to call and make myself look desperate.
5/17/2012 12:00:13 AM | More
Aqualad

21 years old male

Sun Aquarius 26.03   Ascendant Taurus

Most of the time it makes us want to talk to you more. When someone is ignore me(like this pisces girl right now) it usually just makes me really curious on what I did to deserve to be ignored. It definitely works with aquas when you go from a lot of contact to a little from what I've seen. It just get's our minds reeling lol.
5/17/2012 1:30:28 AM | More
BeautyNBrains23

female

I'm Beaautiful, fun, classy,bossy.sweet,

It's funny in a way because he told me all women he dated were cancers and they all disappeared on him...he says women leave him..The way i'm feeling i would do the same.lol

5/17/2012 7:43:11 AM | More
PiscesFebFish

You're a 23 year old Virgin? Thats so sad.
5/17/2012 8:12:40 AM | More
BeautyNBrains23

female

I'm Beaautiful, fun, classy,bossy.sweet,

Oh i'm not sad at all sweetie..I actually love and appreciate every part of my body...enough to not let just any man touch it.=)so thank you.
5/17/2012 8:56:50 AM | More
truecap

46 years old female from Small Town, USA  

Sun: Cap Rising: Scorpio Mercury: Capr

Posted by BeautyNBrains23
It's funny in a way because he told me all women he dated were cancers and they all disappeared on him...he says women leave him..The way i'm feeling i would do the same.lol


Maybe its him and not the women!

You did ask a question and an Aqua will be honest. Its a risk of getting your feelings hurt, but, if you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask the question. He is probably confused as to why you got upset.

I think you should blow him off if he's not responding. If he wants to contact you, he will. I'm so sorry. You seem like a nice girl, and you deserve someone better.

I respect your decision to remain a virgin! Stick to it! That is the greatest gift you can give a man and you have EVERY right to be choosy as to who gets that gift!
5/17/2012 8:57:51 AM | More
ShahBano

23 years old female

Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Posted by BeautyNBrains23
Oh i'm not sad at all sweetie..I actually love and appreciate every part of my body...enough to not let just any man touch it.=)so thank you.


Cool-
5/17/2012 9:01:18 AM | More
ShahBano

23 years old female

Zodiac in degrees 0.00

As for aqua men; they are their own masters, you can't, or anyone else for that matter, remote control them. They come and go as they please--no conditions, no negotiations, no ultimatums. Take them or leave them, you can't dictate them.

I am dealing with one who has Sun, Moon , Venus, Mars, juno, lilith in Aquarius-how does it sound ?

5/17/2012 9:44:52 AM | More
PiscesFebFish

Ok, enlighten me. I'm always open to learn something new or have my POV swayed....if the greatest gift you can give a man is your virginity, what is the great gift he is giving you in return and please explain how love and fidelity equate to sex.
5/17/2012 9:57:51 AM | More
ShahBano

23 years old female

Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Posted by PiscesFebFish
Ok, enlighten me. I'm always open to learn something new or have my POV swayed....if the greatest gift you can give a man is your virginity, what is the great gift he is giving you in return and please explain how love and fidelity equate to sex.


gift thing aside, every girl has the right to consider herself precious. why should a girl feel pressure to have sex just because other women are doing it. it's her body,her decision.

Just because a woman is sleeping around does not mean she becomes some sort of idol for other girls to look up to.
5/17/2012 10:02:32 AM | More
PiscesFebFish

So attach the feeling of being "precious" to either virginity or not sleeping around? So to you, feeling good about yourself is an extension of choosing to be or not to be physical with another human being?
5/17/2012 11:08:19 AM | More
truecap

46 years old female from Small Town, USA  

Sun: Cap Rising: Scorpio Mercury: Capr

Pisces - Whether you have sex freely or selectively is a personal choice. You choose your way, let everyone else choose theirs. It boils down to self respect and how you feel about sexual relations. Everyone is different. Personally, I would feel like a slut if I gave it freely to a lot of men and I wouldn't have much self respect. Not everyone would feel that way, some are more free spirited.

Besides, it's HER choice. Who cares what you think? And virginity is only given ONCE to ONE person. The first time should be special. The person who gets it should be loving, caring, respectful and worthy of it - not just some user jerk who is just after sex.

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