Signs of the aqua man in love?

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5/22/2009 8:26:11 PM | More
strangersmile_9

I've been reading around a lot in this forum but i dont know exactly how an aquarius guy acts when he feels for you. What are the signs you should look for if you want to know he has finally fallen for you???
I need pplz opinions from experience/knowledge/anything! Just put it out here for me
thx!!
5/23/2009 6:14:13 PM | More
Honeypot69

female from Sugabear :-)

Ascendant in Cancer Sun in Arie

He will tell you lol
5/23/2009 8:01:43 PM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

1. He will come right out & tell you. And let me tell you why it's a BIG DEAL for him to tell you: Aquas like for others to profess their feelings first & to prove themselves FIRST & when an Aqua finally becomes comfortable & vulnerable enought to admit to you that he loves you, that means you've already passed the test of being worthy to him. Keep in mind, an Aqua will NEVER wear their hearts on their sleeves for anyone UNLESS they already have proof that their partners would do the same for them. And once an Aqua says those words "I love you," he means them.

2. He will confide in you his deepest secrets. Aquas have lots of associates & friends, BUT they don't have many people in their lives that they can honestly be 100% themselves too. So, once an Aqua feels that kind of comfort around you, that means that he's thought about it, tested you already & has made the decision to trust you, with no turning back (of course unless you give him a reason to not trust you all over again). Aquas may seem like open books BUT trust me, there are lotttts of things most people don't know about their Aquas & usually won't know unless they are the best friend or the companion.

3. He will be very affectionate with you. Not all Aquas are afraid of PDA (public displays of affection) but then again, it's not common to see an Aqua tonguing someone they just "like" down in public. If your Aqua becomes more affectionate in private, that's a good sign, but if he becomes more affectionate in public, that's a GREAT sign & to him, it symbolizes that he is marking his territory & is proud to embrace what he has earned & what has earned him.

4. He won't be afraid to chase after you, cry in front of you or admit his faults around you. Any time an Aqua is seen putting down their "shields" and walls for someone, that means that that person must be someone special, beyond just a friend or just someone that they "like" (versus love). Aquas will ONLY put down their shields for the people they can see themselves being with for a long time (b/c once their shield is down, it stays down forever to an extent--which explains why Aquas are always so hesistant to put it down in the 1st place)

5/23/2009 8:03:59 PM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

5. Your opinion will start to matter just as much as his own. Often times people conversate with Aquas about deep things & assume that just b/c the conversation is deep, that it means the Aqua is really into them. Half of the time Aquas are just testing you to see if you match them intellectually. When an Aqua actually stops testing you & makes the decision that you are a match, you'll notice the conversations going alot different (still just as deep, but just differently). You'll know what I mean when you get to that point.

6. And best of all, he'll tell you that he's in love with you.
5/23/2009 11:06:54 PM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

"Yes...this is so true. I talk to people all the time, off and on all day long. I don't feel that I am testing them - I just like to find out if they are someone to avoid or not, based on what they talk about and how they say it. If it is someone I have put some time and effort into, whether in thought or action or both, they should consider themselves very special to me in some way."

Exactly! This is how I am. Every once in a while I like to return the calls of all the people I've ignored for weeks. And sure, I am generally interested in how they are doing. But the main focus & point of my call is to see where their mind is so that I'll know if I need to further continue avoiding them or ignoring them. This is something Aquas do alot without even realizing it, unless someone brings it to our attention, thus leaving us no choice but to admit it. Alot of people don't realize that Aquas aren't always just conversating with you just to test you. Some of the time they are just making sure that your mindset is still compatible today like it was last week & even though I can't necessarily make sense of this thought process myself, all that matters is that WE all do this.
5/6/2012 4:30:08 PM | More
Datariesgirl

female from USA  

READ MY CHART;-)

I agree with everything Krysrenee7 typed!! Wow!

5/7/2012 2:13:19 AM | More
sweetkitty86

I have been dating an aquarius, very aquarius, male for 2 years and love him very much. He isn't confident in himself and beats himself up a lot on that. He decided that he wanted a break so he could work on himself because he feels he can't put the time into our relationship though he loves me. He says he hopes that he can figure it all out and then we can get back to having a good relationship. I am not the type of woman who needs her man by her side all the time, every day. I've been very accepting of the fact that he has needed time to figure out what he needs, and so this was a shock. I asked him several times if he was sure it was a break and not a break up that he actually wanted and he told me.. to the point he seemed annoyed, that no he wants a break, to remain friends, and i can do as i please but he won't be seeing anyone just working on himself (though i can tell by the tone, doing what i please did not mean, who.. as in no one else). He said I put it best.. he wants some time to think about things, us still talk but him focus on him and not worry about if i'm ok, talk in awhile and probably get together when he gets his thoughts together. It'c confusing, we spent tons of time together before this jobs, finished each others sentences.. can someone PLEASE give me some insight to this.
5/7/2012 5:23:52 AM | More
lisabethur8

female

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Posted by krysrenee7
1. He will come right out & tell you. And let me tell you why it's a BIG DEAL for him to tell you: Aquas like for others to profess their feelings first & to prove themselves FIRST & when an Aqua finally becomes comfortable & vulnerable enought to admit to you that he loves you, that means you've already passed the test of being worthy to him. Keep in mind, an Aqua will NEVER wear their hearts on their sleeves for anyone UNLESS they already have proof that their partners would do the same for them. And once an Aqua says those words "I love you," he means them.

2.

i agree to an extent. some of us like to profess their feelings first.
my husband and i had a taciturn kind of relationship in the first stages. no confessions of undying love, just 'actions',
even spending his hard earned money on me (which is BIG for him) he doesn't do that at all. then in return i saved up some money and bought him a trip to a few places with me of course. those actions show me how much he loves me, because i know his hard earned money is important to him. and time. loads of time. and dependability. no disappearing acts. regardless what astrologers say, disappearing acts to your chosen partner just show how inconsiderate and undependable someone is. it's akin to abandonment.
5/7/2012 8:26:35 AM | More
aliaries



Sun Aries 11.21 Moon Capricorn 5.43

Posted by Datariesgirl
I agree with everything Krysrenee7 typed!! Wow!


Hey Datariesgirl- you've snagged yourself an aqua man too?
5/17/2012 5:21:28 PM | More
Datariesgirl

female from USA  

READ MY CHART;-)

Posted by aliaries
Posted by Datariesgirl
I agree with everything Krysrenee7 typed!! Wow!


Hey Datariesgirl- you've snagged yourself an aqua man too?


Haha.. Aliaries, I sure did and Im having the time of my life!! I take it, you have one too?? Having fun?
1/18/2013 1:16:33 PM | More
ScorpioFemale79

34 years old female

I am interested in everything but passio

I have a question similar to this. I have an aqua who i work with. The first two years he was in another department but we clicked instantly. It was almost unnatural. Im a scorpio female and its a bad match thats why i was surprised how natural we got along. After a while he started to be subtly affectionate or always in my comfort space or always touching and going through my belongings. But when i got transferred to the same department. He got more distant. According to him it was cause im more skilled than him so my presence gave him the ability to focus on important projects he wasnt able to work on before. As a scorpio i saw it as neglect. But when i learned to not take it personally we started getting along well again

That being said when i read the signs ppl have listed here and my iwn research on the aqua sign. He sometimes acts diff thsn described such as

While he is supposed to be independent. He always likes going into my office to nab things. He will even quickly mutter how he likes coming into my office then quickly changes the subject.
It says above that a good sign is being more open about himself while he does seem to stick to surface level topics but if you ask him something personal. Hell tell you. But the difference with me is not his openess cause hes open with everyone. With me its things like inflection in the tone of his voice. Its also how he jokes with me vs everyone else. The way he jokes with ppl seems like in a fake way cause he does it a little too much. But with me he diesnt go overboard with it. Like with ppl hell say stuff like omgggg thanks for showing up late or wow cant open that door fast enough? And he will do that constantly to a person in yhat same way

With me its not that type of joking. Its more of comments like i like coming into your office and taking one tissue at a time Or hell say stuff like he dressed up for casual friday cause its my fault i dressed up. Sometimes he wont really make fun of me but will wanna joke with me about others.

I guess its just the way he subtly comes across when hes around me. It fells like he has this i wanna take care if you types of actions. But idk. I dont know how he is around others 24/7.

What do u all think

1/18/2013 3:29:54 PM | More
truecap

46 years old female from Small Town, USA  

Sun: Cap Rising: Scorpio Mercury: Capr

I think he likes you, but it might be just as friends.
1/18/2013 3:32:44 PM | More
NotYourAverageAquarius

31 years old

Worry is the darkroom where negatives ar

@ScorpioFemalw79 Aquas are hard in that while we all have very similar traits we are at the same time quite a bit different. Are you the ONLY female in the office he does this with?? And if two years how come no dating?? I will say this... from my own personal experience, Aquas are good at reading people sorta like how Scorpios are good at reading people. I'm sure your probably right that he does have a thing for you and believe it or not he probably knows you do too even though you probably try not to make that all to clear. It's actually the vagueness that both your signs display all the time that has probably held this off from going any further because while both of you are probably certain the other is into you.... your attempts at being detached while probably noticed by you both are the very things holding you back..... Because your not 100% sure why he is acting detached just like he is not sure why your doing the same at times...you probably think "Was it cause he doesn't want me to think he's into me because he's not or is it because he's not sure I'm into him"? That is the ultimate question that I can't answer for you but I know if he is spending a lot of time around you he is into you for sure probably more than you realize..
1/18/2013 11:35:47 PM | More
EvilTurtle

41 years old male from michigan  

Aqua sun, rising, and venus Leo moon an

Posted by krysrenee7
1. He will come right out & tell you. And let me tell you why it's a BIG DEAL for him to tell you: Aquas like for others to profess their feelings first & to prove themselves FIRST & when an Aqua finally becomes comfortable & vulnerable enought to admit to you that he loves you, that means you've already passed the test of being worthy to him. Keep in mind, an Aqua will NEVER wear their hearts on their sleeves for anyone UNLESS they already have proof that their partners would do the same for them. And once an Aqua says those words "I love you," he means them.

2. He will confide in you his deepest secrets. Aquas have lots of associates & friends, BUT they don't have many people in their lives that they can honestly be 100% themselves too. So, once an Aqua feels that kind of comfort around you, that means that he's thought about it, tested you already & has made the decision to trust you, with no turning back (of course unless you give him a reason to not trust you all over again). Aquas may seem like open books BUT trust me, there are lotttts of things most people don't know about their Aquas & usually won't know unless they are the best friend or the companion.

3. He will be very affectionate with you. Not all Aquas are afraid of PDA (public displays of affection) but then again, it's not common to see an Aqua tonguing someone they just "like" down in public. If your Aqua becomes more affectionate in private, that's a good sign, but if he becomes more affectionate in public, that's a GREAT sign & to him, it symbolizes that he is marking his territory & is proud to embrace what he has earned & what has earned him.

4. He won't be afraid to chase after you, cry in front of you or admit his faults around you. Any time an Aqua is seen putting down their "shields" and walls for someone, that means that that person must be someone special, beyond just a friend or just someone that they "like" (versus love). Aquas will ONLY put down their shields for the people they can see themselves being with for a long time (b/c once their shield is down, it stays down forever to an extent--which explains why Aquas are always so hesistant to put it down in the 1st place)

you gave out our secrets
1/18/2013 11:58:18 PM | More
EvilTurtle

41 years old male from michigan  

Aqua sun, rising, and venus Leo moon an

Posted by Metoo
Your main purpose of the call is to see if you need to continue avoiding/ignoring them?
WOW.

based on this I highly distrust aqua motives, sounds highly manipulative, almost passively abusive as the unsuspecting friend gratefully sees your number on caller id and cheerily picks up, excited to hear from you. How aweful, if he/she only knew.

Why do aquas even have friends, I mean, people arent science projects.

Sad, sad, sad.


dont worry, most aqua use thier abilities for good. One central aspect of aquas is thinking of others as opposed to thinking of themselves. That being said if i treat you as a science experiment does it make you feel better its for the benifit of humanity.
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