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Posted by little_sparrow
Those exerpts are good. Gonna chex out the site.
Posted by curious visitorPosted by spica
My Libguy is like my wifey sometimes, just sayin'
Posted by spica
totally back this one.
also back the fact that libras are total freaks. but they don't walk around declaring it the way other signs do. females are usually more blunt than males are, and more agressive, though again most people will never see this.
male libras are more feminine than libra women are. they need more compliments and flattery. they need to be seduced. they need kissing and touching. they need to feel desired. they need to feel like their partner needs sex from them, not just that she wants it because she feels like she isn't desired or is worried about the relationship not working or something. libra women also need some of this, but not nearly as much. we're horndogs, but we seem frigid, so we get used to grabbing our men and dragging them to the bedroom. libra guys just assume that if their lady wanted them, she'd be starting things. saying "hey honey, i want to have sex now." isn't the same. kissing him expecting him to get horny also doesn't count. you gotta get into the moment. he has to feel like you're just kissing him, and that kissing him is getting her horny. that'll make him feel sexy, and feeling sexy will make him feel horny.
libras tend to need partners who initiate. pesca, if your friend is also a pisces (you said "we"), that's a really butterty combo for sex. i hate saying it. i had butterty experiences with pisces guys myself. we're too similar. both so passive, want the other to initiate things, up the ante. so we just wait.
Posted by size zero superheroPosted by brianafay
That's why you don't think of Libra men as deviants. If you aren't into it we will never bring it up again. We have to be extremely comfortable with you before we'd even think of bringing up some of our thoughts. Every time I hear someone called a pervert I think, "You say pervert like it's a bad thing?!?".
|How to Attract a LIBRA|
Libra’s are like one of the smoothest, most expensive, luxurious brands of vanilla ice cream you’ve ever tasted! They don’t need any fudge, nuts, banana’s or even a cherry on top. Savor every part of having a bowl of this ice cream from gently handling the container, slowly scooping a perfectly round scoop to using your best silver to bring it to your tongue. Once in your mouth, savor the cold smooth flavor until it melts and slides down the back of your throat. Feed them the next bite then share the bite after that… this is how you attract a Libra. You must of course be perfectly groomed and I mean perfect. Chipped nail polish, cracked heels and wrinkled clothes might just have you hitchhiking home. Libra’s love other people who are as pretty, polished and groomed as they are. They love symmetry and will be drawn to someone like them. The pretty, metro-sexual guy with a coy smile and brilliantly white teeth will score a Libra female over the bad boy in a leather jacket any day! Let the Libra chase you whether they are a man or woman. It just works better for them with their inherent sexual insecurities. This might be a little harder for men. Just let her get things started and then you can balance it out by being her equal while you take her on that carnal voyage. Ladies will love letting a Libra man court them because it’s the stuff fairy tales are made of! Make sure you manage this man in his castle so he doesn’t have any secret mistresses in a far wing!
Someone on the Gemini board posted this site. I thought I would share. It has a bit more info there as well.
The Libra male is Prince Charming on a white horse! He will sweep you off your feet after he’s adorned them with glass slippers. He’ll take you to his luxurious castle full of beautiful flowers, furs and fine items. He will wine you and dine you in erotic luxury and show you a side of love and sensuality you thought was only possible in fairy tales. He will make you fall in love with Love like no other man can. He’ll bathe you in sweet kisses and licks in all the right places and show you utopian orgasms. You’ll make beautiful love with your best friend. His lovemaking is not pornographic but artistic – beautiful, languorous and drowns you in sensual pleasure. This will repeat the next day, the day after, the day after that and the day after that. After awhile you will be tired of flowers and kisses and want some stability and security. His indecisiveness will outweigh another gentle orgasm. This airy man is so in love with his ideals and his ideal of you that the fall from grace isn’t pretty. The gentle, effeminate traits of this beautiful man that first drew you will drive you crazy because you’ll want a man’s man. His perfectly polished self and constant focus of this can lack substance and grate even the most patient of nerves. Invest some stability into this man and you can bring out his best side so he grows into his potentia! When you give him something he reciprocates and you get something back. That is how it works with a Libra; it’s all about balance. If you can master this fine art with a Libra male you’ll always have fun seesaw rides and go home to your best friend, sweet kisses, flowers and orgasms!
Watch out for this flirty, seductive, romantic activist! While she is projecting her judicial ideals on the world she will barrel you over with luxury! She’ll win your heart with food, beauty, lavish or thoughtful gifts and make you feel like a King – but only if you are her equal. This is a requirement for her to even be with you. Be forewarned that whether or not she commits to you she will demand fidelity from you. This does not mean she will offer you the same. A lady like this has many suitors and well, it’s always important to see what is on the other side. Whether or not she crosses you, don’t cross her! You don’t want to experience a scorned Libra woman! Her intellectual mentality, principals of fairness and love of Love are not battle weapons you want to feel unless you’re on her side. She will embrace her sexuality but she does not want you to worship her, she’d rather you be her equal and respect her mind. This woman hungers for sex and can be a naturally assertive sex partner when completely comfortable with herself. This sexual side can be repressed if she enters a relationship before she’s had time to express it. If she carnally deprives herself she risks unleashing a sexual side to the likes of Jenna James! You might like this assuming it’s with you! You’re best defense is a good offense and bringing this out in your early partnered Libra will benefit you both! In the spirit of the scales one of your best plays will be a sixty-nine… it’s the perfect balance of getting and giving!
|My sex drive is unmatched. I'm a bit of a slave to it. I agree with whoever said part of the whole reason for being in a relationship is the sex. I like knowing where my next shag is coming from. I have yet to meet any man who can match me. The closest I ever came were Aquarians because they seriously can go hours and hours and hours and are capable of multiple orgasms. They also have the right sense of curiosity.|
This being said it is possible to turn me off. If you say no too many times, my sex drive will just one day turn completely off. If you do something unappealing or gross. If I find you really boring, both mentally or in bed. I also find really weird things turn me on like knowing a guy always pays his bills on time or a guy who is really fidgety. lol. *shrug*
Having been in sexless relationships, it isn't fun. A huge portion of sexless relationships are caused by guys not putting out. It is one of these big secrets and if you are a girl and you don't know this, it can really mess with your head. I recommend the book the Sexless Marriage if you can find it. Also, some people even though you love them, you just don't have that sexual tension with. This happened in my last relationship. We loved each other very much but just not in a sexual way. We really just didn't do it for each other. In hindsite, I think it is because we simply weren't each other's normal "type". That attraction was just never there and no amount of love and friendship can make up for lack of sexual chemistry.
I think if you are really unhappy, you may have to just move on. In my relationship with the Virgo where his low sex drive was a problem for me, it really effected my self-esteem. It also effected my own ownership of my sexuality which for a libra lass is a bit of a big deal. I think because we are so sexual, almost to a masculine aggression, that our relationship to our own sexuality is very fragile. Be careful and ask if your sense of happiness and security with yourself is worth sacrificing for an unfulfilling sexual relationship. There are tons of men who probably have much more compatible sex drives and you will feel much more secure with those men.
Best of luck. It really sucks. I've been there.
Posted by QLIbraMale
Thank you for always answering my questions and with a sense of humor even though some are stupid.
I did ask for a "personal" reason 'cause I was a little taken back. hahaha
Posted by Micha
|i guess its a maturity thing, some libras dont have one and are fine with it, some do and are cranky when they are horny|
i personally love sex and everything about it, my libido is high and i have no problem being outright about my needs, but i got a first house mars in libra, who knows
|Its higher than you think. Libras are afraid of one thing and thats rejection. We hate no. So in order to insure one night of ecstasy we may use reltionships b/c we want to know that our assertion will be accepted. ITs not low libido, its immaturity, disillusion and subtle ways of controlling. It takes maturity for a libra to be outright frank, honest and direct like Aries who's maturity brings them to the lesson of others and compulsions|
If we cant be direct with you, then you are making us insecure in someway, we know that sex is a part of relationships so thats why we hop in them
We just need to be honest with ourselves to operate from withing b/c inside we want to just fucc the butter out of women, but some subconscious block slows us down, and its a fear of rejection, emotions, pride, ego,
its deeper than it appears. Thats why we choose someone who brings it out of us, so we can see it and we usually do pick powerful women like scorpios, aries, capricorns, those aggrsseive ones who usually dominates us.
You cant bring it out its up to the libra to be real with himself
|Since this post - I talked with mine about this issue. He never really struck me as a over sexual person to begin with. So I decided to ask him what/why/etc. He told me the same sort of reason noted here in this thread. He doesn't have sex just to have it. When he was single he did so just about twice per month. In a relationship (I am his first committed relationship... EVER.) he just had to get used to the rhythm of another person's sex drive. |
I'm not upset as I was before. After hearing about it, and hearing how upset I was - he remedied it. (real fast) lol
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