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|Im a Cancer man, and I cannot get this virgo woman off of my mind. Its driving me insane. The aloofness or wutever the hell it is. I feel crazy.....really....it suckz. Just got her a dozen roses for her birthday. If u check the "Virgo" forum, look for "should I continue to pursue virgo woman". I started that post. U can get the entire story there. Let me know wut u think. This thing is killing me.|
|Virgos can make you feel loved and appreciated more than probably any sign in the zodiac. They also like to be adored yet not as much as a Leo and in more of a subtle way at that. They are also sneakingly good in bed and will make you feel like what you have to say matters(even if inside they think they know whats right |
However,I am a Cancer man and my hardest breakup was with a Virgo Woman. I am an emotional sign and Virgo women are almost pure logic so they can move on much much easier if they feel the relationship has failed. Its close to impossible for them to want to get back with you when they make their mind up. If you are a Cancer man please be wary of how Virgo woman operate during breakups so you won't mope for a year like I did. They will toy with you a while if you let them know you miss them because they (pretend) feeling sad you are taking it so hard, but don't take it as them wanting to get back. They aren't emotionally gifted enough to realize some people need proper closure and not just "I use to love you last week, but I decided I don't anymore, wish you the best! They aren't meaning to be coldhearted, they just come off that way.
The Virgo issue during breakup doesn't seem to affect the Cancer Woman/Virgo Man matchup as much. The Virgo man usually has a hard time of letting go of the Cancer woman if he has strong sexual ties to her or left his ex to be with her. If his feelings aren't as deep he can let go just as easily as the Virgo Woman.Overall the Cancer Woman can make a Virgo Male act more out of his nature than the Cancer Man can with the Virgo Woman.
So basically if you are a sign that isn't rule by emotions, Virgo is a safe bet. They never think of the emotional consequences of how other people view their actions/reactions. They usually mean the best when it comes down to it however.
Posted by stasha313
I think it is possible. Just be yourself, stop over analyze. If you trust him, keep him as a friend but nothing more, he might need one. He has a wife you know... Let him solve his problems before getting into others. Don't put you life on hold because of him. Everyone here knows that I am a fan of C/V relationships. We virgos, love to feel needed, we love to protect the weak ones, and he seems to be ideal for this need. But... if he is not free to love you and be next to you when you need him.... what is the use? Often, trying to make so much good for the others, we forget that they should return something to us too. What are your feelings about him? You should talk to him and tell him to stop saying those words and get back to reality, remember him that he has a wife and should work on his problems instead of running away from it. Tell him that he is a strong man and he can do it. Talk to him as a true friend and not a lover. He will appreciate it.
|I knew something was wrong with this guy!!!!!!!|
If he is married, then you need to keep away from him.
His life is currently trouble, wrapped up in chaos and surrounded by turbulence.
End of story.
Posted by tauruschic
the fact that this Virgo thought she had any right or say in telling a free, individual who is a sparkle motion ADULT who he can and can't speak with is such a huge pile of treetrunking butter!!!
and what does the bm mean... baby mamma? The Virgo had a problem with a man speaking to the mother of his child????
ya, no wonder he gave her selfish, pathetic ass up without a second thought. insecure, controlling... see ya!
One of the problems is that I believe he was still talking to his ex (bm)
and Virgos don't put up with a lot. Virgo tried to make it work but as
soon as she realized that he wasn't holding up his end of the deal she
cut all ties. She said she "gives up" pretty quickly but I think she's
a smart girl. I personally don't see a cancer-virgo relationship going
very well. Virgos are pretty straightforward and Cancer men are a bit
on the sensitive side... which my Virgo gal HATEDDD..
My Virgo girlfriend just broke up with her Cancer. Apparently she felt like she was
walking on eggshells all the time and is very happy to be rid of him. He himself let go pretty
easily which makes me think they weren't meeting eye to eye very well...
|the best way for an immature Cancer to get over feelings for an old love... is to find a new one. |
It's selfish... because they see you as the greener pasture, fantasize about how 'things could be/ should be', chase the new feeling and try to BURY the old. They don't own up to the role they played in the demise of the past relationship. This is when you hear all the stories about the psycho ex and how much they have suffered.... ya, whatever.
A mature Cancer may use the same technique of 'transferring feelings' but they will go extremely slow in the new relationship, all the while gaining insight into themselves and owning up to the fact that it takes two to tango. OR they can randomly date for years, always trying to shake the shadow...
|Honey he's no good for you until he gets out of that situation. Cancer men are so loving, convincing, just everything a woman could want. Yes, they pour it on thick. It's almost like a spell has been cast over you.|
|Yep and you're all right!!!! I haven't really gotten myself into anything because he is in another state so basically it's whatever, but I'm starting to realize that this dude can lay it on thick!!!! I think I'll just walk away!!! Thanks for all of the advice!|
|@ Catin: You need no one but yourself right now. As you stated above, your doc told you that this situation is bad for your health. It's pushing you into therapy too. In fact, I highly recommend that after 3 years. You seem obsessed and unwilling to let go. For the love of it all, please don't go searching for another "man" to get with until you've got your butter together first. If you had any sense of compassion for others, and yourself, you would leave your love life well enough alone until you've healed from this.|
|Married? And the truth comes out!|
This isn't a "gut instinct", it's right in front of your face that this is off. Yeah, he's eager to jump into your arms because he feels trapped in a loveless, butterty marriage. Even if you guys aren't compatible your grass probably looks a lot greener right now. Just about anyone's pastures look more inviting than his own.
So this situation you got yourself into is stupid. You know it's stupid otherwise you wouldn't be sniffing around here seeking the advice that we all know you won't follow anyway. Sorry to come off sounding condescending but it's obvious that you are aware that this isn't healthy. Take care of you!
What he needs to do is face his problems first instead of entertaining new ones. Running off to be with you is only going to compound his issues. If he has a potentially suicidal wife then he needs to get her help. Even if it's just a manipulative tactic on her part, how is he to really know? He can have her committed for her own safety. Getting the police involved during one of her moments will either get her in their custody (and to the mental ward) or get her to knock that butter off real quick. Then he needs to file for divorce and get his own head straight. Then maybe, just maybe, if you guys can weather this storm, you can live happily ever after. Or whatever.
Posted by 69virgo
Easier said then done.... The crab shell butter in my life... in on its 3rd year... with nominal contact... 2010 N/C by me... but him... 4 calls... and 2 texts.... with me doing nothing... But the beat goes on... as I texted him back in order to confirm it was him... Sneaky bugger... used a different number... but I knew it was him ... Yup my gut told me so.... I have now sent him back to the curb.
Spoke to my doc.. today... and apparently this crab may be contributing to my physical ailments at the moment....It's all in my head of course...He has a stranglehold on me.. eventhough I haven't seen or really spoken to him in 3 years...
I need a MAN... not a child in my life... Games and more Games... and then more friggen Games... and the beat goes on.
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