gemini/cancer man and scorpio woman

22gorgeouslady
Thanks!! Well, it does sound like I'm going crazy on this message board but truly, he's is a music producer and he travels constantly, he's trying to sell his home so I see he has a lot on his plate. I don't call him, I text him but not too much. I usually wait until he text me. I'm not one of those girls that blows up anyones phone, not even his. What's funny is that he says he has to put things in order, but If I meantion an ex boyfriend, he says stuff like, I DON'T want to hear about him. I'm like, ok! Lol! Once he told me that he's not wanting a relationship until he has things in order, I have left it alone bc it crushed me at first, but now I'm just feel like, whatever. I don't even stress about him anymore, but at the same time I do like him and I don't want to lose interest bc once I do, its difficult for me to go back to the old feelings I had for that person if he does come around! Usually months and months! Also, if I start talking to someone else, I think it would hurt him, but what would you do if you were me? You know like I know how tired we get from waiting, and the anticipation kills us. Scorpios don't like waiting too long. And once I feel like, oh well with the whole thing, he wont seem to like that bc he will be able to tell that I'm not the old me when feelings were involved. I have already decided that I MUST decrease my feeling for him and I have and it feels weird! Once I change my behaviors toward him, I think he'll notice bc I've done it before and he started complaining. Then I'm thinking to myself, REALLY, what do you want from me.... You say you don't want a relationship but you want to do everything that people I relationships do?? Nope, no more bc I cant set myself up to get hurt!! CANCERS... They're So confused!! Lol!! ^~^! Also, if you don't give a cancer what they want, do they usually run??
missmorals
Oh yes, and they do want everything to be perfect. I hate that too!!!...
missmorals
You need to relax..I can feel your intensity from here.

I am also a Scorp woman dealing with cancer/gemini (27 June)...you have to prepare yourself for a lot of push/pull. Let him come to you. Don't obsess you will only scare him away. You've done your part, he seems interested..he's just trying to sort things out in his own head..busy is just an excuse in my opinion. When they are on the chase, busy is never an excuse then!!

As a scorpio, I know how desperately we need to know everything. However, people work at different speeds and in different ways. He's probably sorting things out in his own head and like a true crab, goes into his shell to recouperate or something to that effect. you do have to be gentle and patient with these guys.

I am quite aggressive and I think our phone conversations for the past 2 days may have scared him away. I can be rather abrupt..My gut is telling me something is wrong. So lets just wait and see..no point getting all worked up about it.
22gorgeouslady
And what makes a cancer man start wanting to be a relationship?? I want to get closer to him and he doesn't want to make me his girlfriend! I'm a scorpio, and want to know what I have to do to really get him to stop thinking everything must be perfect!
Thanks!
22gorgeouslady
Ok, his birthday is June 21, 1977 and was born in south Carolina! I talked to him today and he told me that he really, really liked me but wasn't wanting a girlfriend right now bc he's trying to get his stuff straight. He also told me that I could possibly be his wife one day! He is very busy but he's one of those guys that wants his life to be perfect before he make any moves. He wants the things that come along with being boyfriend and girlfriend, but he doesn't want a committment.what is he about?? Does he really like me and could be truly busy??
Mystic Dreamer
alessa
22gorgeouslady, post about this in the cancer forums, you'll get better help over there, basically cancer guys have a different understanding of time, and they'd rather show affection than speak about it in words.But of course the whole natal chart counts as well, so let me know his birth date (date, time and place) and i'll try to help as much as i can
22gorgeouslady
Thank you!!! I can believe that, and with their insecurity problem that sounds normal to let them think about what they need! Its confusing because when I'm at his house, he always does stuff like tell me how attractive I am, and tells me how smart he thinks I am, or he'll do little things like rub my back without me asking, and just hold my hand and cuddle with me and we'll laugh! Thing is, is that if we have this chemistry and he does those things, why is he acting so weird? The stuff that he was doing, does it seem to you like he really liked me??? And maybe he's scared to tell me how he feels??? Do know how cancer men work!!
alessa
don't lose hope gorgeouslady, cancers usually need time and space to figure out their emotions.I'm dealing with one too - you have to be patient, after all, you haven't got anything to lose
22gorgeouslady
Ok! Well, how do gemini/cancer men act toward emotions?? He doesn't talk about feelings that he may have for me and he I brought it to his attention and he's quiet! I need advice! Someone help!!!
YaMama
Info about Mercury Retro...it ended on Oct. 15 2008.
http://www.astroprofile.com/2008mercuryrx.htm
22gorgeouslady
What does cusp of magic mean anyway?
22gorgeouslady
Do you think he'll come around?? What is he doing, do you think??
Mystic Dreamer
No....just leave him.

22gorgeouslady
Well, I sent him a message already saying that I thought we were getting closer and I asked him if he ever thought we would get closer! This happened 9 days ago and I got no response! What's going on, and after the 31st since I have already said something, should I try again???
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