Scorpio Men - How do YOU want to be treated?

5/15/2012 10:52:56 PM | More
Crustacea



Sun: Cancer (5.53)

Okay I'm a Cancer (if that wasn't guessed by my username) & going off the basic sun/mercury signs Scorps and I are supposed to get a long AMAZINGLY~. Right? Well I'm damn near running the other nowadays.
Do you like women you can walk over slightly?

I attract Scorpio men like none other but I notice if I treat them nicely they start trying to be disrespectful and want to talk to me any kind of way but once I put them in their place they start to complain that "we argue too much/it's too stressful". Umm what? I honestly want that relationship where we can talk about anything and just be relaxed but I see Scorpio men aren't having that. I noticed the guys that I dropped/been dropped by longest relationships tend to be girls that are nice...too nice, to the point of pushover. Is this what ya'll truly want slightly deep down?

I'd also like to note the Scorpios I've attracted have been October ones. Yes every. one.
(Incase that tid bit might help?)

NOTE: This is not an attack. Be on the slight rational side with me. Thanks.
5/16/2012 12:26:45 PM | More
Skykomish

30 years old female from CO  USA  

Sun Scorpio 28.05 Ascendant Taurus 6.4

This isn't from the perspective you're looking for, but in relation to the quote "they start to complain that "we argue too much/it's too stressful"; Cancers know how to be emotionally manipulative, without being domineering. That'll piss a scorpio off really fast.
5/16/2012 1:01:21 PM | More
prettyladii

grand mother like, oh no.
5/16/2012 1:41:30 PM | More
Crustacea



Sun: Cancer (5.53)

Rockthenerds - Well I can have my motherly moments but not for too long but I dont get grandmotherly. That still doesn't answer my question either way though. I notice if you treat them nice they try to start trying to be unfair but when one puts a halt to that unfair behavior they pout and it's like no respect was earned. I notice some of them even play victim/dumb. Why?
Skykomish - I'm sure that can be true but not for me because I know how to be assertive.
5/23/2012 8:50:45 AM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Cancers are compatible with Taurus .. instead of trying to force a relationship with Scorpio, why not think in serious terms with a Taurus since that's who Cancer is suppose to be with?
5/23/2012 11:14:25 PM | More
piggytoo240

47 years old female from From a, place called  OZ  

Scorpios Rock!!Sun:ScorpSag:RisingCap:Mo

Taurus is compatible with Cancers and yet it seems that their relationship hardly ever last. They always seem to fall apart

Hmmmm! I wonder why is this so .

5/24/2012 12:23:33 AM | More
Huntress

from New England  US  

Lioness, lunar Scorp, & hedonistic. ENTP

Posted by Crustacea
Rockthenerds - Well I can have my motherly moments but not for too long but I dont get grandmotherly. That still doesn't answer my question either way though. I notice if you treat them nice they try to start trying to be unfair but when one puts a halt to that unfair behavior they pout and it's like no respect was earned. I notice some of them even play victim/dumb. Why?
Skykomish - I'm sure that can be true but not for me because I know how to be assertive.


Not to dispute the point that I've put in italics.. but rather to note that I've noticed this trait in fixed signs, including my own (Leo).

Your last statement proves itself simply by being present heh.

5/25/2012 3:20:05 AM | More
RoseTheTaurus

female from Pasadena, California  

Person, Escape Artist ..................

Posted by Stinger Baby
love is higher than a mountain
love is thicker than water
you are this dreamer's only dream
heaven's angel devil's daughter


scorpios want both your best and worst at the highest tilt. what they dont want is that best and worst to be phony. scorpio men are domineering, but they dont want a partner to crack under that. they fall head over heels for a lady that will battle them head to head... strength is a turn on to both scorp woman and man. they want to feel like they truly found their equal. woman's attitude has to be 'i love you. i respect you, but i will not take any of your butter." thats when he'll lay his weapons down at your feet and recognize you as worthy of respect. i dont respect anyone i can push around either.


i think this is because scorpios believe everyone has, or at least should have, personal power. there's never any reason to be a push over. when we do push people around, its not to bully them or be mean. its because we want a reaction. we want people to stand up for themselves. sometimes the best way to make a coward brave is to back them into a corner. when your back is against the wall, you discover new butter about yourself. you may have reactions you were too scared to have before. true self comes out.

when we talk and have compassion for the not so strong, then that's when they want to treat us like martyrs. so tough love is fitting for some until they get to the point where they arent going to take anymore butter. when you stand up to scorp, that's when you graduated to respect.



Wow I really like this. I can't believe how easily this cleared up some past Scorpio scars. My ex used to constantly push me and poke at me. I could tell he was trying to incite me but I didn't know why. The thing with me is I blow once and I'm out. My heart closes up and I want nothing to do with you.

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