Scorpio being indecisive?

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1/12/2009 3:34:38 AM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Hi all,

I would appreciate your view here. (Its my bday today so it would be extra appreciated).

I met a scorpio guy 12 days ago we went on couple dates, all perfect we hit it off very well and I really felt he was in to me (could be wrong of course) as much as I was into him.

He always texted me thanks for great eve and was sweet, well my confusion is that we have not seen each other for 11 days now, first he had little cash flow issues so he had no credit (so we exchanged few emails only) and told me we hang out in couple of days, sure no problem there, Then the day we were suppose to hang out he sent me email he is not feeling well...I did not reply straight away (was a bit upset) so couple hours later he sent me text message with apology and if i got his email that he cant make it. He seemed sincere in his apology, also said that he really does want to see me....to that I replied that I wish him to get well soon and that we can hang out once he is feeling better in a sweet way.

That was 3 days ago and I have not heard from him again, I understand if he is not feeling well he might not want to communicate much, but I just find it strange that he always texts/emails me he really wants to see me, but then he goes quiet...am not sure if he is interested and just busy with other things or if it is a game...
1/12/2009 3:55:37 AM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Nov_scorp

Thanks for your input, yes maybe he is testing me or maybe he is a player or maybe he just doesnt know what he wants...

I dont like initiating, because then you dont know if you are not making it too easy for him...I give him another day. It's just because today is my bday so it would be nice to hang out (he doesnt know this), never mind.
1/12/2009 4:14:25 AM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Thanks!
1/12/2009 4:25:59 AM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Thank you cybernikes! Hm but there should be limit to the guessing, I dont mind if guy needs his time and space, but I dont want to be taken for fool either...
1/12/2009 6:15:19 AM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Hm interesting cybernikes...yet I am hoping for little more input from other scorpios..
1/12/2009 6:18:42 AM | More
someonespecial

from your wildest dreams

Rising Sign is in 17 Degrees Libra Very

happy birthday!
he's probably still broke and can't afford to take you out. either way it's him not you. he's going through something.

1/12/2009 9:09:52 AM | More
Rays Heart

male

Happy Birthday Confusedgirl, Have a wonderful Cappy day!!!

At this point, I think it could be a lot of things. It's too early to tell, there is not enough information to conclude but he could be observing/testing you. Personally, text messaging is very empty for me, I simply can't develop any feelings for someone who's major line of communication with me is text messages (maybe it's just me). I need to hear your voice, I need to see and feel and text messages, doesn't do that for me. So in my case if we're only text messaging, it's not a good thing but at this point it could be just anything really.

So he doesn't know, that your birthday is today?
1/12/2009 9:56:35 AM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Thanks Rays Heat,

No he does not know it is my bday today...it's ok i go out with friends. Yes I do not feel comfortable with the texting either, but it seems to be his popular way of communicating.
It is just little strange when the person gives you all the I am into you signs, tells me he really likes me, he wants to do all these things together (just talking at this point of course) and then he goes quiet.
I mean if the guy is not interested that's ok but then he should not play like this (if that what it is). Either way I have decided that I will let him contact me and when (if)he does then we shall see what his issue is.
1/12/2009 10:28:44 AM | More
sophie68

Confused...
HAPPY B'DAY!!!
All I can say (being a scorp) I am majorly indecisive.
Could be 1. he has to sit back and analyze his feelings
2. He has a lot of other stuff going on
3. the money issue is a big part
4. He is a "playa"
So, sit back, go on with your busy self and let him make contact.
Oh...and I can tell you, if it helps any, Scorps love the chase and the mystery. If you do not text back to him, he will pick up the phone and call you...his ego will get in the way. That is how to change that "TM" situation.

1/12/2009 11:44:45 AM | More
Rays Heart

male

" Thanks Rays Heat, "

You're welcome and I think it's funny how you spelled my name. It sounds like " Raise heat ". You know, whatever it is at this moment, it has more to do with him than you.
1/12/2009 11:53:10 AM | More
Rays Heart

male

"Scorps love the chase and the mystery"


See I never could relate to that statement about Scorp, I don't chase at all and I can let go very easily, if I don't see mutual interest. It could be my air influence though.

1/12/2009 1:54:39 PM | More
sweethearts

female

NZ born Kiwi living and loving life in A

I got exactly that from my scorp man and concluded that if you are trying to second guess them in the beginning of your relationship then things wont change from there. Can you handle this sort of treatment??? 3 months later I opted for out, nothing ever changed!
1/12/2009 2:37:49 PM | More
sweet&sour

female

"See I never could relate to that statement about Scorp, I don't chase at all and I can let go very easily, if I don't see mutual interest. It could be my air influence though."

Oh, I guess then I haven't chased you enough yet.. lol..
1/12/2009 2:39:04 PM | More
sweet&sour

female

Hey confusedgirl, Happy Birthday!

Just do your things, no matter what the result, he should be the one chasing you..
1/12/2009 4:04:14 PM | More
confusedgirl

female

100% cappie

Guys thank you a lot, I do feel silly to analyze (overanalyze this) but somehow he lit up a fire inside of me that does not want to go away and even I am upset with him and trying to forget him...it will take lot of effort.

See I am simple woman I never play games and no lies...well I guess that is not how I should play this game, but I prefer to be myself and someone like me that way then think what and how should I act now to get that reaction...
For that reason perhaps I come across as naive or too trusting as I people judge by my own standards and if people tell me something about themselves then I choose to trust them.
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