Scorpios and casual sex

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11/13/2007 4:20:18 PM | More
Queenscorpio

84 years old female from Chicago

Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon

Which is more likely not to get attached during casual sex? Scorp male or female?

I vote scorp female. Males can get waaaayyyy attached, possessive and emotiional waaaayyyyy tooo soon.


Others?
11/13/2007 4:39:45 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Females attach easier than the males .. however, since I'm not Scorpio, I have to take an observers angle.
11/13/2007 6:04:11 PM | More
SouthernT

"Males can get waaaayyyy attached, possessive and emotiional waaaayyyyy tooo soon."

never known a guy to do any of the above becuase of sex.

11/13/2007 7:16:16 PM | More
scorpion_rising

male

As usual, circumstances dictate everything.

If a casual hookup is with 1) a super-hot chick, or 2) someone the dude has been jonesing about for awhile, or 3) requires some serious effort to get, it's going to be tough on him to let go.

If it's with 1) a troll, 2) something he has low interest in, or 3) someone who just rolled onto his lap, it's going to be easy to let go.

QueenSco, your observation isn't really about Scorpios. It's about the male-female dynamic. If you wanted some tonight, you could easily get it. If a hetero man wanted some tonight, he'd have to either pay or wait. Given that, it's easier to be detached towards sex whenever suitable.
11/13/2007 7:21:21 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Very good points, SR ..

From the female perspective, since she only has to click her fingers, it would appear as though men attach easier, since it is harder for him to get laid than a woman.

I'd warrant that if a woman had to suffer the rejection men do on as constant of a basis .. then she would indeed, attach to the man who would be willing to do her.
11/13/2007 7:28:54 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

However, since we're talking about "casual" sex .. I would still be inclined to say the female, for this reason ..

Men are used to walking away from a 'casual' sex partner, with no strings attached .. and second, Scorpio men appear to me as males who have very little regard for easy women, who present themselves as loose. So, it's not likely that he'll attach himself to her.

Whereas, the female Scorpion uses teasing, taunting, seductions .. as a way to keep their men on a string (even the ones they don't want and just want to toy with) ... so, with keeping this trait in mind, IF a guy just shagged her and tried to walk away .. she would be inclined to come on even stronger. Perhaps, this isn't becoming attached, to the sex, itself .. but, it is attaching to the man with intentions of keeping him dangling, coming back for more.

A female Scorpio will NOT BE IGNORED .. and if a man did this to her, then it's like super-gluing her to him.

11/13/2007 7:37:33 PM | More
MsAristocracy

39 years old female from East Coast  USA  

I am a true Virgo woman and I exhaust ev

Someone forgot to mention the one thing, if it's mind-blowing sex then you might have a hard time dealing with the rug being pulled from underneath you. Scorpios make love when they have sex. So if QS made love to him and it was mind-blowing then that's what happened.
11/13/2007 7:45:42 PM | More
scorpion_rising

male

"Scorpio men appear to me as males who have very little regard for easy women, who present themselves as loose. So, it's not likely that he'll attach himself to her."

Bingo.

I can't speak for other guys, but I'm not the type to expend a lot of effort to get a one-night stand. If it happens, great. If not, so it is. I don't necessarily look down on women for having one-night stands, I look down on them when they flaunt that power (as many so often do in a bar or club setting). I'd rather have my dignity intact and masturbate over groveling for sex.

A woman who flaunts that power is usually not going to be a good lay because she's going to demand that you please her, rather than mutual pleasure. Moreover, the odds of seducing this woman is low, as sometimes, she's just on an ego trip rather than wanting to get it on.

11/13/2007 7:46:00 PM | More
scorpion_rising

male

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11/13/2007 7:47:35 PM | More
scorpion_rising

male

"Scorpios make love when they have sex."

No, this is not true. Not all the time.

11/13/2007 9:00:21 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Huh?

11/14/2007 8:59:14 AM | More
Queenscorpio

84 years old female from Chicago

Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon

***QueenSco, your observation isn't really about Scorpios. It's about the male-female dynamic.***

Uhhh no, I am speaking from envolvement experiences. Example: Libra man/Scorp man

Libra men can have casual sex with a woman he cares for deeply and totally detach himself.
Scopr man (one experience) can have casual sex with a woman he deeply cares for and get VERY attached.

Scopr women (not just myself but others I know) can have casual sex, which with us girls would have to be someone we have some type of chemistry and serious attraction to and not get emotionally attached for awhile.

Not being biased, just my personal experience, and I am curious about others...
11/14/2007 9:03:17 AM | More
Queenscorpio

84 years old female from Chicago

Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon

***Whereas, the female Scorpion uses teasing, taunting, seductions .. as a way to keep their men on a string (even the ones they don't want and just want to toy with) ... so, with keeping this trait in mind, IF a guy just shagged her and tried to walk away .. she would be inclined to come on even stronger. Perhaps, this isn't becoming attached, to the sex, itself .. but, it is attaching to the man with intentions of keeping him dangling, coming back for more.***

P-Angel, good point. I can see this in a way... We scorp women hate rejection. Although, I haven't quite had it happen to me yet, but I know I would hate and do the above more so to prove a point than to actually want to keep the person - challenge thing... I guess. I know that is pretty petty, but I could see me doing that. LOL!!!
11/14/2007 9:07:05 AM | More
Queenscorpio

84 years old female from Chicago

Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon

*** wouldnt have thought scorps were casual about sex at all - either gender. i'm certainly not! that implies that it's just a physical impulse whereas it's more of a religious experience to me in any case.***

Oh, I have... I really liked the person, but wasn't thinking of a relationship with them, you know... Sometimes needs have to be met.

But, yeah, most times at some point even with casual sex the guy gets attached, even the unattachable libra... Then we have to quit. This was when I was adomant about not wanting a relationship after divorce.

But then, I am very good at it as well
11/14/2007 11:02:12 AM | More
Scorpionlady

female from Washington, DC,

Roxi you have a point there...I have casual sex let him know that is what I want or not and move from there...

I think it has a lot to do with your emotional state. Some women give up the sex thinking that they are going to have a relationship with the man and then the man walk away and the women is thinking damn he just treetrunked me and walked away....then she starts tripping wondering why he did that...

Men are just as greedy as women...I believe if a women throw herself at a man and she turned him on in some way...he would treetrunk her and walk away because the the preceptions she gave him at the time was just wanted to get treetrunked by him.


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