- Scorpio Spell !! -

SunTauVenGem
So, i was caught up with my SCORPIO ex for a while who i wish to remain distance for the rest of my life because he has this thing about him that pulls me in - some kind of SPELL scorpio have for us Taurus ! -
Me and my bull shared our past lovers and how un happy we both were , we became extremely close because of it -

..NOW..
we live interstate and things went SOUR when his ex was back in the picture ! and to my surprise ( not ) i recently found out she's also a SCORPIO !!!!

I just want to give up and move on because i know they have this POWER - and me being so far away will loose anyhow ! and she will remain around his life forever ! -- ( birth- rebirth thing)

I don't have much choice !!!! According to him - they wish to remain friends because they want each other to be happy but they are not the ones to give it - surprise surprise -

THOUGHTS !! ? should I be there for him..i cant help myself but feel for him because i HAVE BEEN THERE and it isn't easy getting away from scorpio's spell !!!







geminibunny
I think you should get away and be there for yourself. At the end of the day you just need to take care of yourself first. If being there for him means putting yourself through unnecessary drama and pain, you'd need to ask yourself Why? The things you are doing for your ex you could be looking out for yourself instead. Work on you and your goals and you'd come out of this much happier instead of being caught up in his drama.
SunTauVenGem
@ Gemini bunny. I totally agree. Getting caught in drama is a big no no for me. I run away from them but I know how it feels to be caught in scorpions drama. They are complex creatures and my ex did drain me emotionally. I just have to keep my distance and wish him all the best I guess.
SunTauVenGem
Posted by MilkySoft
Don't get caught up in anything between them, let him sort out his feelings on his own. I mean, what would you do to support him? Bring up the astro mumbo jumbo and talk of "scorpio spells?" ha

From what I've read here, scorp leaves a bad taste in the mouth afterwards, so...just wait it out if you want?

But make sure to wait across the street at least and not on the back porch, if you know what I mean.
totally agreed with you on this one. He didn't believe in astrology untill he met me. I would totally bring up the fact that my ex is a Scorpio and yes I would talk about their effects on us taureans. He migh think I'm crazy! . I need to leave him alone to sort things out with her for good. He said we should be friends untill he sorts things out with her for good. I think the only way for him to get out of it is to move away from her completely. I will stay away but still be present in his life so he knows I have not gone anywhere. I don't want to give up on him just yet.. I'm seeing him in a week and I'm still unsure of how I will go about it. My plan is to keep it cool and be his friend. I don't think it is the right time to get physical with him but being physical with another Taurus is heaven ... So I'm lost...
M143


STVG,

You need to leave him alone because you have to... not for him to sort out things for her good.

lol. Do some favor for yourself... and if you suggest him to completely to get out from her is to move

away... well then, You might in a wrong track dear. It might be in his mind to get closer to her as

you are too busy minding his business with her. lol.

You are completely wrong about your presence with him just to win him back? lol.

Give him medicine first and let him cure....that means...just be quiet for awhile.

Taurus are drawn to Scorpio some aren't but mostly....

M143


To tell you the truth, Even we commit mistakes to Taurus men they still wanting us ( Scorpio). lol

I hate Taurus man, really. lol. That's why when I found out that my charts that I am close to Tauruses

I prayed... God, please no Taurus for me. 'cause it seems they are not my type of man but they are

provider and passionate like my man at this time, so I consider and learned to accept them...
SunTauVenGem
M 143. Taurus men/women are solid people. We are consistent and the best providers. I am not going to suggest him to move hell no!! all I'm saying is- he knows exactly why they r not good together. We talked about it for ages. I know I'm not good with my ex scorpion either but I am weak around him. He has that effect on me and yes she probably also has that effect on him. I am thankful my scorpion chose to give me a silent treatment for months now and I hope it stays that way. On the other hand I don't think his ex is giving up on him just yet. The reason why I care so much is because we were happy together and I know he deserves to be happy. That is all. But I am going to let him ( them) be.. explore the roller coster and see how the ride ends...!
SunTauVenGem
...so the answer is I don't have much hope....* sob*.. I am not going to fight win a battle with a scorpion . It's a loose/loose situation! !
M143

STVG,

Yes being with a Scorpio has lots of roller coaster ride but Scorpio are not coward. They loved

the death and rebirth process thing... that is when the partner give up after the big storm hits

in a relationship there we conclude that they cannot stand for a long term relationship.

Scorpio embraced the bad and good ones including the ''worst in yourself''

So when a Scorpio will throw a silent treatment... it's because Scorpio will leave you for good.

and when a Scorpio keeps rattling your world... It's because Scorpio wanted you more.

So silent treatment is a bad definition.
SunTauVenGem
M143,

My scorpio ex gave me silent treatment for 6 months 4 years ago. He waited for me those years to finally be with me. - fast forward here i am having another silent treatment for 2 months now and i WISH it stays that way. Its way too much drama for me. Taurus are DRAWN to scorpion yes ! there's no doubt about that..but after a while we RUN because we know scorpion are trouble and not good for us. It almost feel like an addiction. There's no consistency- stability- communication etc. Its nothing i look for as a long term partner. I am just being brutally honest here.

If they work out great- I told him i wish them both much happiness and he moved up there for a reason so he should give her a chance ( i meant it) only to be knocked back saying its over between them-

If he comes making a move on me next week , i will tell him directly that i wish not to do anything with him since things are not over between him and his ex- He will probably say otherwise- see what happens.

M143

True. Scorpio are troubled including me. It takes our partner to stand for us....

Maybe he loves his ex that's why he kept going back and forth.

Again, If you allow him to do it over and over again... He will take every chance.

So learn to say ''no'' if he is a Scorpio. lol
SunTauVenGem
Posted by M143

True. Scorpio are troubled including me. It takes our partner to stand for us....

Maybe he loves his ex that's why he kept going back and forth.

Again, If you allow him to do it over and over again... He will take every chance.

So learn to say ''no'' if he is a Scorpio. lol


It wouldn't surprise me if he still does. I probably still love my scorpio as well. Loving someone doesn't mean it will work long term..they are two different things. I will never say yes to my ex scorpio ever again !!! too much drama !!
Redbull
When my situation with a Scorp was over, it was over. Brought peace back to my life. Im blessed in that regard because I went through it, and then i was free. With wisdom haha. But i think this is inherently a difficult pairing.The whole opposite thing especially with these two signs. So I think Tauruseshave to accept this. If it goes good, fine. But if its difficult, just accept it and move on. For me it was one side destroying and rebuilding elsewhere, and me walking away from sheer determination and stubbornness to move on we havent talked in several years and lost complete touch and in the end that was the best way to handle it.
TaurusNikki
Just let it go already

They man just wants to lay around, he's not serious and u know that

U were on the scorpio board asking the same thing and even they told u to let him go, cause the man is bi polar
sugerbear
Ahh Sweetz I feel for you! Darn Scorpio's and their charm. I dont think you should write the taurus guy off just yet. If there was a connection there was a connection. Maybe just back off a bit and see what happens. If he told you things were bad with the ex then those problems are probably still there and he will see that. Just take a deep breath and have a glass of wine...live your life and see what happens a few weeks down the road.

M143 I sent you a message...I didnt want to highjack this thread.
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