When a Taurus ignores you.

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3/7/2012 12:24:56 AM | More
lnana04

I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to respond when this Taurus comes back around. I think the last time I talked to him was on the 11th, so it's been about a month.

After I switched my phone service we texted back and forth and his texts started getting a little sexual, as usual, so I joked with him a bit saying that I take care of needs not wants. He replied back saying "this is a need" and I said "well go take care of it then, it doesn't have to be with me lol." That was the last text between us. Not sure if that pissed him off or what, but if he's gone he might as well be gone for good cause I can't deal. I don't appreciate that at all, cause attraction aside, I at-least thought we were associates/friends. Ah well.

Keep us updated ephflank and let us know if you decide to talk to him or not.
3/7/2012 11:20:28 AM | More
cancerlovestaurus

female

How about not respond to them? Let them sit and try to figure out what the heck you are thinking. If they really want it, then they should do what it takes. If not screw em'.
3/7/2012 1:04:28 PM | More
ephflank

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3/7/2012 3:36:47 PM | More
lnana04

Posted by cancerlovestaurus
How about not respond to them? Let them sit and try to figure out what the heck you are thinking. If they really want it, then they should do what it takes. If not screw em'.


Yeah, I don't think I'm going to respond if/when he comes back around.
3/9/2012 12:17:10 PM | More
slimredbull



Rising Sign is in 16 Degrees Leo Sun is

Wow, this is too funny. I was reading through the forum and had to register.

This topic came up with my Scorpio friend and I the other day. As I was explaining how well I can walk away and not look back, we talked about the crush he had on me decades ago. At the time I wasn't into him so I pretended I didn't know he liked me. Talking today, I finally admitted that I did know only because he kept asking and needed to know if I really did know. We lost touch, on my part this I am sure.

6 years ago, we cross paths again and exchanged numbers. We talked a bit, exchanged texts, then after a couple of months, I dropped off the planet again.

He asked what happened both times, the first time, I just wasn't that into him like that. I considered him more like a friend. The 2nd time I wasn't buying the sand at the beach that he was trying to sell me.

Now here 20 years later enjoying some great times and sharing some great laughs but he just isn't someone I see in my future. This time however, I will try to maintain the friendship.
3/10/2012 12:27:09 AM | More
Gabzor

ha the guy's really gonna feel it soon.. trust me i'm a taurus guy.. i fell in love with a girl, lost friends, changed myself all that..
and dxp knows i've been through hell, she used to sleep around with some guy i hated (we used to be friends)
and used to lie about everything to not get in trouble.. (guess thats the parts about tauros knowing other ppl so well)
i put her up with her crap for about more than a year.. all was going well.. for a while, but i could never trust her again..

the first time i walked away, it was for a day, and i couldn't help but apologize and go back.. i spilled my guts, but she says she cares and all..
but i didn't buy it.. and my heart was right. she still talks to the guy behind my back, blames me that i have nothing to do with him, and
says i shouldn't be looking at her phone *i wasn't..* she makes it real obvious.. by hiding and doing it.. she kissed him and hid it from me till i forced it out of her..

me being a tauro male, with a gemini venus, i know i'm quite feminine, and emotional, and i see why people with venus in gemini tend to cheat, i fought it of course..

i used to get butterflies by just hearing her voice, or one kiss from her, would make all the awful thoughts go, and i'd be sprung again but... after a year of it.. when she KNOWS
that i hate him, and after forgiving and forgiving, you can only forgive so much..

VB knows, and everyone said shes bad for me, but i just ignored and went with my blind heart.. then she kissed him.. and i knew my heart was really right and now
i could care less what she does..

the only thing that annoys me is that guy used to be my friend.. its kind of annoying.. but oh well... btw she was a taurus too, but with ALOT of firey signs as well, so i would
think of tauro women and just say taurus the terrible.. then again.. i read your posts from the beginning, and man when a taurus man ignores you, hes butthurt. but what your guy did is bs

i'm single and loving it, then again i'm too busy and don't have time for the bs anymore..

now the annoying thing is... i still miss her from time to time but i'm getting over it.. and the even more annoying thing is.. i deactivated my facebook (too many stalkers ) but when i did have facebook she would go crazy, call me and text me all angry saying i'm hers and i'm not supposed to be talking to anyone else? haha funny right?
and the other time, i went on a date with a girl, a scorpio.. and she went nuts..

and val

3/13/2012 7:45:51 PM | More
cancerlovestaurus

female

i'd say taurus and scorp are best are reading body language
3/15/2012 12:47:59 AM | More
ohtobetaurus

26 years old female

I am a 23 year old college sophomore. l

you should give her some time, even if you havent done anything to frighten her or anger her.. Sometimes we get a little scared, and to avoid having to confront our emotions and talk about thing we will just retreat. I have found that if something like this is happening with me it's best for the guy to just back off until i am ready to call him or talk to him, if you care about her i would give her that time and distance, but be there when she comes back around. It could take more time than a lot of men are comfortable with giving, but i feel safe assuming that she is worth the wait and you will be grateful you did in the end!
12/26/2012 4:21:59 PM | More
scorpiolady256

I have a taurus friend i txt how he dnt respond to my texts and he still does it. Andd some days ago i text em how he makes me feel as if i dont matter and if were friends /homies yo actions shows diff..n how u u kno feelings there im nt finna seat up here and like its ok...its mre but i call no answer im the type of person that like to conclude things the rightway..n also told em i feel like i cant treetrunk with u nomre..his stubborness is hurtful. But i text frd thru sun n called today but nomre texr since so 2 to 3 whole days no textin no merry xmas..wen i kno he aint gne respond..
12/26/2012 4:30:29 PM | More
scorpiolady256

*treetruk*
12/26/2012 4:31:51 PM | More
scorpiolady256

treetruk with you nomre

12/26/2012 6:05:52 PM | More
ilove2bATaurus

36 years old female from NC  

Loving, respectful, love to laughing at

Sorry sweetie, he has moved on or there is something he doesnt like about u. Usually we dont beat around the bush about how we feel. In his case he simply doesnt u like that much to pick up the phone or answer a text. We are good at dismissing people that we dont like out of our lives without u even knowing what happened. Try another taurus who is more mature.
12/26/2012 6:12:22 PM | More
ilove2bATaurus

36 years old female from NC  

Loving, respectful, love to laughing at

As a taurus, when dealing with people i have to dig deep inside to see if i can deal with that persons flaws. If i cant i will not keep them around very long. If any way i feel that this person can not be positive addition or i cant learn anything from them , then its over before they know it.
12/26/2012 7:11:07 PM | More
ilove2bATaurus

36 years old female from NC  

Loving, respectful, love to laughing at

Posted by SweetLibra
Posted by ilove2bATaurus
As a taurus, when dealing with people i have to dig deep inside to see if i can deal with that persons flaws. If i cant i will not keep them around very long. If any way i feel that this person can not be positive addition or i cant learn anything from them , then its over before they know it.


So why not just tell the person you don't think it's going to work out? Why just vanish, leaving the other to waddle in confusion? Do Taurus' ever end things with an explanation or do you always just disappear? How do you guys feel when the shoe is on the other foot and someone does it to you? Is it an upper hand type thing? Are Taurus intent on being the one to leave the relationship so not to be broken up with?
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Majority of the time i have expressed how i feel and it has been ignored. it depends on the person. If u are someone that i really want to get to know, i will tell u. But if u are not an interest to me, i just wont entertain u at all. For example : I met an aries man. We talked on the phone for about 3 weeks and all he heard was that i liked some of the same things as he but did not hear that i wasnt interested in a relationship at the time. I tried getting know him more but he kept pushing the relationship issue just because i wanted spend a little time with him. He told me that he couldnt just be my friend so i stopped calling him.
12/26/2012 7:13:39 PM | More
ilove2bATaurus

36 years old female from NC  

Loving, respectful, love to laughing at

We know exactly what we want. If it doesnt work then why waste our time and urs?
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