When a Taurus ignores you.

ilove2bATaurus
Posted by SweetLibra
Posted by ilove2bATaurus
We know exactly what we want. If it doesnt work then why waste our time and urs?


Okay. I can understand that. But then why do some of you come back? If you've made that determination that you don't want a relationship, then why reappear after the disappearance? Do Taurus stand firm on their decisions or do you sometimes realize that you maybe judged someone on something very superficial and then regret making such a rash decision?

I realize this may not pertain to you specifically but since you are a Taurus maybe you can relate.


We come because figure u have learned ur lesson and maybe you've changed. Sometimes it could be because were bored and need someone to talk to. Yes we do stand firm on our decisions but some yes we do realize that we may have pre determined our decision too quickly and want to try again if the issue wasnt that serious.
leakena24
dear ephflank,

I am ignoring my ex girlfriend because, in all of my power i did everything i could to woe her, sent her flowers, lend her my car, spent 5000 dollars to get her car down here from Florida only to find out the engine had died. Baby sat for her son, brought her breakfast, drove her back and forth 60 miles a day and when one time i told her i couldn't help her anymore financially and she dumped me. You couldn't possibly imagine how this hurt me so. My way accepting the stupidity that i've cause to myself i went into a hell hole so i can't beat myself so that when i come out i will see the whole picture more clearly and start over. My financial security is so very important to me and when you threatnen that i'm gone. So if you didn't do anything wrong then he is wrong but if you did threatnen his security in anyway then you need to apologize and make an ammends. Thats the only way we Taurus men will forgive and give things another try.
TaurusBull1977
Posted by ilove2bATaurus


Majority of the time i have expressed how i feel and it has been ignored. it depends on the person. If u are someone that i really want to get to know, i will tell u. But if u are not an interest to me, i just wont entertain u at all. For example : I met an aries man. We talked on the phone for about 3 weeks and all he heard was that i liked some of the same things as he but did not hear that i wasnt interested in a relationship at the time. I tried getting know him more but he kept pushing the relationship issue just because i wanted spend a little time with him. He told me that he couldnt just be my friend so i stopped calling him.


This^^^^^^^^
TaurusBull1977
Posted by Mulligrub
I'm a Taurus woman and I tend to cut people off cold if they piss me off. I absolutely despise being told to answer for my actions or being told what to do.

I think for me if I ignore someone it's because I need to process my feelings on the matter before I respond. I don't like hurting people and will self-sacrifice to avoid someone else getting hurt to the point there is nothing left of me and then I have enough and out comes the bull anger!

I am a pretty forgiving person and always willing to meet someone halfway. If that person meant something to me then I will never leave them without closure and will always give them a logical and sound reason for me cutting off the relationship. If they were being a douche or didn't blip on my emotional radar then silence is all they get. If they were to sit back they would see the signs that the end was coming though.



....And THIS^^^^^^
Nouran20
Im a taurus girl and if i do that with a stranger then it means im not interested to know u closer or i just dont really like u..but being a slightly judgmental person u need to start opening coversations with me and then if ur really cool ill start taling more n more and also say hi to u the next time we see each other
But if we talk a little and i dont say hi to u again and STILL ignore u then I just dont like u

If ur talkin about a taurus person that ur ALREADY close with then probably u upseted them in some way u just gota go find out what rong and apologize and AVOID repeating ur mistakes too many times.
OverAnalyticBullhead
Sadly, I dont know the reason why i ignore ppl...

I think i just want to get through my daily routine perfectly and having a small convo with ppl around just isnt in my list of routines. And that's just me... just me... kk? i dont know about others but i just happen to do that. weird ryt? and i seems that im alright fine and dandy with it.... i dont know it... its confusing O_O
TaurusMarine
I'm a Taurus and I did so to break up with my boyfriend.
The Taurus guy I was seing did so to break up with me.
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- It's not that we love to ignore you, it's just we do get caught up in my own mind and always bettering ourselves..

SO lets say you communicate to your lover. Hey I would really like to hear from you more often? Is there any reason why you've been distant? Then listen, and then make a compromise usually there is something to work on both parties. So you ask him to open up more and then you ask is there something I can do to help oneself. Or this situation and fix it. So after talking just go do your own thing and let him think too..
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- Just give it some independent time and wait a little while and see if there are changes. If no changes then you might let go of him..
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- are you in the military service? Which branch?

& a Taurus and Taurus is nice in the beginning huh? So what happened with you both?
TaurusMarine
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- are you in the military service? Which branch?

& a Taurus and Taurus is nice in the beginning huh? So what happened with you both?

Marine Corps of course. Why?
TaurusMarine
@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428, it was like 6 y/ago. He was 3 years my junior, wasn't mature yet I guess. Besides, he understood he had nothing to keep me. So I don't blame him.
Nice at the beginning? Hm.... it had passed 2 years before he asked me out. but then it went well. However, I never trusted him.

When I ditched another guy in the same way I understood that Taurus guy that did the same to me.
When we ignore it means we have finally decided the person isn't right for us....but sometimes we're coward to speak it up to face.
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- I just looked at your screen name that that's great. Thanks for sharing...Thanks are you still active?

What do you like the most and least about the branch you have?

Yeah I've noticed certain things about talking to a bull too..IT makes me want to change my self to be less stubborn and less selfish.. in a realistic way.


I understand when you say we ignore cause we are cowards, but I ignore because there is usually something on my mind and I have to do this myself and I need space and time. I have an air fixed moon so the more I think the more I detach.. it's helpful because 8 out of 10 times I am often detaching at the little things..and 9-10 will complete disappear if I like you and you do or say something that isn't right. I usually feel it as red flags.. I will friend zone automatically.
TaurusMarine
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- I just looked at your screen name that that's great. Thanks for sharing...Thanks are you still active?

What do you like the most and least about the branch you have?

Yeah I've noticed certain things about talking to a bull too..IT makes me want to change my self to be less stubborn and less selfish.. in a realistic way.


I understand when you say we ignore cause we are cowards, but I ignore because there is usually something on my mind and I have to do this myself and I need space and time. I have an air fixed moon so the more I think the more I detach.. it's helpful because 8 out of 10 times I am often detaching at the little things..and 9-10 will complete disappear if I like you and you do or say something that isn't right. I usually feel it as red flags.. I will friend zone automatically.

Still active, love it to pieces!
Yeah, I see where you're coming from...Yeah, when think i stay motionless. Especiallly when sb hurt me or said sth wrong. I WANT to justify that person but the deeds speak louder than words. That's why, for example, people who stop choosing me automatically seize to be right for me...even if I love them.

"IT makes me want to change my self to be less stubborn and less selfish"
You're a Bull as well, right? Why then?
TaurusMarine
P.S. I couldn't stay friends with any of the people who hurt me in some way.
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