How do Virgos deal with Anger?

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3/5/2014 12:22:51 PM | More
miamivirgo



Virgo Male

Posted by Qbone
It takes a lot, I mean A LOT to make a Virgo angry and response is as usual... Calm face appropriate behaviour and then depending on wounds may leave you alone for a while or forever.


To the letter.

You will need to go to the Virgo if you want them back. Even if they are at fault. And its not like they don't know they messed up we just feel ashamed and we wounded you badly that we should go away.

If you wounded us. That is way more tricky. Odds are if we are gone its for good.
3/4/2014 6:43:13 PM | More
bloodflood

anger for me is never immediate so i concur with others in saying it takes a lot for something to go over my tolerance level to anger me. usually repeat offenders will do it for me. things that anger me usually tend to be something maliciously done to hurt me or to someone i care for, with intent. (if you did something stupid out of ignorance then that would just annoy me, not anger me.) reason being, i cannot fathom the idea that someone would be so base as to intentionally be malicious. usually the first time around i'm faced with confusion, second time around hurt, third time around anger. third time's a charm so they say.
3/4/2014 4:31:38 PM | More
HaiJuJubes

I usually suppress my anger until it comes out on the next person to piss me off.

its weird that I know I do this yet still do it.
3/4/2014 3:39:57 PM | More
JustaSag

Very interesting thread, wish I had seen this years ago. Bumping this to the top.
8/2/2012 1:17:49 PM | More
GodMadeBeauty

female

Well lets see it depends, If I havent known you long and you piss me off I can cut you completely off and not contact you again but if you are close to me and I care about you, I will more than likely not say a word until you apologize and if you do make it short and sweet and I normally will accept it and things will be okay again. It also depends on how bad you piss me off if its something big then I will cut you off completely, if its little I'll get over it with a little time to analyze it by myself.
7/23/2012 3:06:13 AM | More
CasperChief117

22 years old male

Aquamarine, Herbal Tea
Practice Peace

7/22/2012 10:02:45 PM | More
lindavi20

Posted by LovelyTune
Lol @ stringsattached. thanks that was very helpful, and gave me a laugh at the same time.

oh these virgs are delicate creatures. but sharp, very sharp.


You are so right with that comment. When we get angry, hurt, whatever... and you might not know we are upset bc most of the time we go silent in our own world, BUT real hurt, anger, distrust really hits deep with us, even though we wouldn't let you know it. Double-edged sword. I know I personally go out of my way not to hurt or anger someone unless I am really, really pissed.
7/22/2012 9:13:34 PM | More
OProserpina

29 years old female

Figure it out on your own... Sun 27

Maybe I won't speak to them in the beginning (first few hours), but as long as they can figure out on their own what they did...I'm cool.
I can figure out what I do wrong all on my own, and so it annoys me greatly when other people can't figure it out for themselves. I'm not a babysitter.
7/21/2012 4:06:40 PM | More
Creolechica911

We internalize the situation , analyze the intention , if you worth being around confront you after withdrawing , or simply coming back as if nothing happened , or leave you lone forever depending on how big the offense was ...
7/19/2012 10:44:36 AM | More
anita91781

As a female Virgo I know I have a lot of patience with people. I have so much patience that it seems like I have no dignity. I am not one to "fly off the handle" and tell someone off. However, if someone repeatedly pisses me off and doesn't seem to get it, whether they are intentionally doing it or not, I will show my displeasure by not acting as friendly with them. If they continue to not get it and keep it up, I will move on and never look back. If it's a one time or two time thing I can deal, but if the same offense happens repeatedly with complete disregard to my feelings I will cut the person off indefinitely. I will make it like I never existed to them. If I run into them by coincidence I will avoid them to the best of my ability and if that's not possible I will act like everything's ok, but once I am out of their presence, I no longer exist to them again.

If someone does something so miserable with only the pure intention to hurt me, that's it. It can be a friend or aquaintance. I will cut them off and not only ignore their existence, but like I said, I will no longer exist to them either. I will make sure I am not seen or heard from again. I have lost a lot of so-called friends because of this.

I can only be pissed off by the same people so many times before something in my mind snaps and I completely disconnect. At that point nothing will bring me back, because as I said, I had extreme patience throughout and if they didn't get it, they don't know me or they don't care. If they purposely hurt me I see red because never in my life have I ever hurt anyone intentionally. I am a great reader of people and know if I may have said or done something offensive, but I rarely do. If I do hurt someone I apologize and try my best to make it up to them. For hurt to be caused to me intentionally is definitely grounds for dismissal from my life.
12/31/2009 2:04:33 PM | More
VirgoDancer

female from San Fransisco, California  

I agree with Jayna001. Last time I actually yelled at someone because of anger was years ago. Most of the time when I get angry, I just need some time to cool off, think things through. I remember this once I got mad at one of my house mates. I immediately took off and let my self cool down and think about stuff objectively. When I came back home, I was able to talk to her again like nothing had happened.

7/28/2009 3:33:38 AM | More
RainingPeanuts

female from California  US  

Virgos are definitely no fun to argue with... blegh

Me and my siblings can agree that we never knew when my Virgoen mother was angry.
It's like she would warn us but we just didn't believe her... until all hell broke loose!
But that took a whole whole whole lot of pain-in-the-asseing to get her there

So if you've been calmly warned, believe it hehe

As for my Virgoen love.. well it's like he just neutralizes my argumentative energy..
" !!!!" into a black hole.. there we go, that's a good analogy.

Most Virgos REALLY do NOT like to argue. It irritates them if you try to suck them
into an argument. Nothing *echo echo echoooo*

The issue at hand is SERIOUS. What issue? Any issue.
I created a word for it.. Analcity.. LoL my Virgo does not much appreciate it. Ah ee lai kit!
They get mad when you can't see the seriousness in the subject at hand btw.

I'd also like to point out that IF you happened to get under their skin, it was
only because you made no friggin sense.. and you wasted their time and
energy... according to them.

Better have some good points to back up your position.
Yelling anger out of your system is not valid. Not for them.

Even a fun debate may turn sour if you happen to strike a soft chord.
There they go getting pouty and quiet. But yeah, leave 'em alone.
They do get over it. Ohhh and DO NOT bring it up again! LoL

But they're surprisingly understanding creatures if you approach them in
an earnest way.








7/27/2009 7:21:45 PM | More
darkgoddess

I don't get angry to often and I'm a virgo but there are times when people really hit a nerve.People usually do not sense my anger until I stop talking completely.I think it's better to bottle up my anger. When I do that it's like telling my 'enemy' to just **** off.It's usually better to just leave me alone or I might jus say something or do something that might really hurt your feeling.Usually when a friend get's me upset I stay away forever. I don't like people saying sorry to my face so maybe an e mail could work but usually it's an ended friendship for me.
4/4/2009 7:01:21 PM | More
jayna001

female

hmmm yea silent anger sounds right. Silent treatment. It would take sooooo much bullbutter for me to yell let alone freak out. Get over things either very quickly or never. Im a sucker for an extremely heartfelt apology tho.
4/3/2009 8:11:11 PM | More
YourTeacher

I agree, it takes ALOT for a
virgo to get mad. When they
get really mad, most of them
dont show it with a big angry
face or loud yells. Most of them
like me would just be calm
thinking thinking and thinking
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