Top priorities in a relationship

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6/4/2011 7:17:17 AM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

Hi, wondered if you guys could give me some insight on what your priorities are in a relationship, I'm Pisces and curious to see how we differ on this or don't!
6/4/2011 7:39:47 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

honesty, transparency, communication, selflessness, consideration, civilised, integrity, responsible, patient - these are expected

clean, modest, calm, gentle, diligent, vigilant - these are desired

selfish, self centred, cunning, deceitful, malicious, spiteful, proud, uncooperative, rude, loud, opportunistic, arrogant, irresponsible, impatient, vindictive, controlling, dishonest - these mean you are going to be dumped AND chased down the street until you jump off a cliff haha
6/4/2011 7:51:58 AM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

Posted by zeoblade
honesty, transparency, communication, selflessness, consideration, civilised, integrity, responsible, patient - these are expected

clean, modest, calm, gentle, diligent, vigilant - these are desired

selfish, self centred, cunning, deceitful, malicious, spiteful, proud, uncooperative, rude, loud, opportunistic, arrogant, irresponsible, impatient, vindictive, controlling, dishonest - these mean you are going to be dumped AND chased down the street until you jump off a cliff haha


Honesty, selflessness and consideration, absolutely. The gentle I like too, clean is a biggie for me and I think a sense of humour is a must. Would you give me a better understanding of how you would define transparancy please.
6/4/2011 8:21:13 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

transparency means that whatever you do, whatever you are thinking, your partner can see clearly your intentions
6/4/2011 8:28:12 AM | More
BoomShakalakaBoom

31 years old male from Amsterdam, NL, Europe  

Archaeologist

Yes and lots of transparent clothes too! that will always keep my interest.
6/4/2011 9:00:09 AM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

Ah but transparent clothes would leave nothing to the imagination.....Thanks zeo, do you mean by being open and upfront?

6/4/2011 9:06:36 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

haha you guys are bad

transparent means hiding nothing

it doesnt mean transparent clothing haha, she might as well be naked for you guys. then everyone can get a look

i prefer my women fully clothed. what ever is covered makes me feel its forbidden and really makes me goal orientated at getting them off haha
6/4/2011 9:11:30 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

yeah i love stockings

thats all my next gf needs to do to hint at me and i will sink my teeth into her haha
6/4/2011 9:16:27 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

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6/4/2011 9:20:12 AM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

Ok another question, if you date are you looking for potential long term mostly, or a casual affair maybe just for sex or is friendship an important factor too?
6/4/2011 9:26:02 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

at my age, i look for marriage outcome with kids. so friendship is critical. cannot be partners if you cant be friends

sex better be a given haha

seriously, i couldnt look myself in the mirror if there was no responsibility in it. if you look in my list, responsibility is expected. irresponsibility means i'll make you jump off a cliff haha

we have to show we are civilised and a higher class of person. otherwise these young kids will just imitate. we have to set a good example

casual sex is not love, you're just a free prostitute that doesnt get paid

6/4/2011 9:39:11 AM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

Interesting and a good answer....Now what about friends with benefits? Or would feelings get in the way? I know, I'm nosy and curious
6/4/2011 10:14:51 AM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

I believe a true union is the bond between two people and if strong enough will last forever the paperwork is secondary, maybe the concrete to the foundation....
6/4/2011 5:07:24 PM | More
paranormalbadgirl

from California  U.S.A.  

I like ghost hunting, alternative music,

very good insight, blade. I finally got a date with my slow moving virgo. I had to bring it up, but he said yes.
6/4/2011 5:51:30 PM | More
seadream

female

An optimistic realist

Posted by 25thDecan
Right now I feel sex is it for me. If that sometimes. I don't see love on the horizon-not really so frustrated about it anymore either.

Were I to be in a relationship though....priority would be establishing intimate bonds through intimate moments(intimate=non sexual). What do we DO together that's not sex or dating. Totality. I AM that guy...well, I was...lol.


What went wrong, why aren't you that guy anymore? I would imagine you have a lot to give to the right person...just a thought!

I get what you saying about intimate bonds though, it's the mental closeness/understanding each other...just that feeling in your tummy (sorry girlie language!) The hug cos I feel you need one or the coffee you bring me because you want to, the drive out into the countryside to share the views because who else do I want to share this with, am I on track?
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