WHY DOES VIRGO MAN HATES ME FOR WANTING HIM BACK?

lovelytaurus
Hello,i need a virgo perspective and suggestions...he fell head over heels for me 6months ago and said he will always love me.I was totally hooked but clueless on how to deal with him...he finally broke up with me and told me to get help.i tried to contact him he just gets violently angry and abusive even in public...i just want him to know i miss him and to give us another chance...what can i do?
LostintheSauce
Not enough details. Listen closely. If he's acting that way give him time. Maybe you shouldn't be with someone with tendencies to react like that. I suggest you evaluate what you like about him. If he act abusive & violently angry get away from him. He needs to learn to communicate & you're not the one to teach him. Give him space.
guccigemini55
Posted by LostintheSauce
Not enough details. Listen closely. If he's acting that way give him time. Maybe you shouldn't be with someone with tendencies to react like that. I suggest you evaluate what you like about him. If he act abusive & violently angry get away from him. He needs to learn to communicate & you're not the one to teach him. Give him space.


I agree.
RoseTheTaurus
This is eyebrow raising and sketchy without more details.

"he finally broke up with me" "told me to get help"
3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
Posted by RoseTheTaurus
This is eyebrow raising and sketchy without more details.

"he finally broke up with me"


LOL ...... I also agree with this.....

There are pertinent details that you maybe purposely leaving out because you want advice to
continue to chase him when deep down inside you know this isn't a good match....but you want
him anyway and you don't want to be alone..... (hmmm Taurus tenacity used for a lost cause..)

No one wants to get their heart broken and have to start over.... from square one
Especially if we "feel" like we have bonded with someone special ..... but unfortunately, that
is life. It gets harder to start over the older we get so we sometimes "hold on " not really for that
person but secretly because we don't want to start over again....

And have to once again ask those soul searching questions .....

Why did this happen again?
Why can't I find happiness?
I thought this would last?
Blah blah blah..... you know the routine .....
MrFirebird
Posted by lovelytaurus
Hello,i need a virgo perspective and suggestions...he fell head over heels for me 6months ago and said he will always love me.I was totally hooked but clueless on how to deal with him...he finally broke up with me and told me to get help.i tried to contact him he just gets violently angry and abusive even in public...i just want him to know i miss him and to give us another chance...what can i do?


Lovely Taurus,
If there is violence in his anger and abusiveness, even in public, I think you should
consider that it is likely to only get worse and much more dangerous than it already is that the
best recourse, is to let go. For your physical and emotional safety. He sounds extreme.
Believe me, I feel your hurt. But don't let your emotional heart blind so much that you cannot protect it.
I believe that you deserve a lot better than that.
miamivirgo
Taurus stop trying to control this virgo guy. Bide your time maybe he will cool down. You tauruses can be tough on us virgos in relationships. Is it within your realm of thinking that you made him feel like you were trying to rule the roost?

One thing we virgoes do notabide is being ruled.
lovelytaurus
hello and thank you for the kind response...my relationship with virgo was totally unexpected as i was just coming to terms with a divorce from my cancer husband and he(virgo) swept me off my feet.yes i was vulnerable but i was definately not looking to fall in love with anyone at all.He made me smile all the time(we work together) and he told me he always had feelings for me...he finally broke up with me when i got emotional infront of him when i learned about my ex husband getting re-married.
He just distanced himself and became cold to me.i even asked my best friend to interceed and he told her his plans of marrying me before the above took place...he has a 4yr old son whom he loves dearly and i adore him too...i know im not perfect but when he came into my life i acheived perfection in the form of virgo..i feel really bad that i am failing at every attempt to get him to come back and i feel helpless as he slips away further....is there hope for me?
lnana04
Why did you get emotional over your ex remarrying? Maybe he saw that you are still emotionally tied to your ex and decided to take a step back.
RealTalk
Posted by lovelytaurus
he just gets violently angry and abusive even in public...


Why in the HELL would you want to still be with him? HE'S ABUSIVE. Nuff said. What's wrong with you?
lovelytaurus
@realtalk because i love him,doesn't it count?
RealTalk
Posted by lovelytaurus
@realtalk because i love him,doesn't it count?


Because you love him??? Is this a joke? We're all being punked right? You can't be that stupid at 33 yrs old...ok so the fact that he beats your ass in public is ok because you love him right? I can't...smh.
lovelytaurus
ola everyone...@realtalk...:-) no you are not getting punk'd love is love whether im 13yrs or 33yrs.being abusive was after we broke-up.i never ever felt threatened or afraid for my life or i would have left on my own.
@harry99 thank you and i appreciate you for understanding my pain.i think about him alot.It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them anyway.
yes virgo/taurus is a power struggle esp. when it comes to communication because he always complained that he should be the one to initiate everything.i am always impulsive while he always followed a to do list.
but In all honesty i dont know how to let go.
lovelytaurus

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lovelytaurus
could any virgo man who has had the expirience with a taurus girl out there or vice versa,i would love your thoughts please...
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