hate it when people say virgos don't have feelings

memyself
Posted by TorontoLeo
I don't think its just the communication many times people don't take the time to listen and pay attention to Virgos feelings some are like Lochinvar stated have introvert/extrovert issue. Especially, this day in age many people are soo busy with themselves and not sitting down and actually listening. I don't Virgos are robots they just have different way of expressing themselves regarding their emotions and stuff. Also, Virgos have certain people they feel comfortable expressing themselves

For instance, My dad he's a Virgo and I'm a Leo I noticed he seems to be extremely comfortable expressing his feelings or whatever may have on his mind could be the weirdest thing and in my mind I'm like "Okayyyy!!! How do you come up with these things" but I don't tell him because I tend to realize my dad he's sensitive but I just nod and continue listening and ask questions LOL!! To think about it's been passed 7 years I've gotten closer with my dad and actually expresses himself ALL the time more often than my mother her being Sagittarius it's pretty funny!!

But I think its my dad he's observant noticed the way I communicate and often listen and don't judge him.. He seem to enjoy telling me his feelings and "weird" thoughts LOL

What I'm saying is this Virgos are not 'robots' I just think they are extremely overcautious to whom they decide to express their emotions. Us "outsiders" just have to be patient and don't pressure when time is right they will eventually tell us their feelings. Which I think it's normal I'm a Leo I'm also very cautious whom I express my feelings to but I think it's because I'm raised by a Virgo! HEHE many people seem to noticed I have similar traits as my father but I'm all Leo baby except the loud, attention looking part!!!



very true! with my family, close friends i can go on and on and on, sharing even mundane day-to-day happenings with MINUTE details hahaha. actually, once i get comfortable with someone i can talk for hours, and a very animated chat session that can be. i get all excited wanting to share some detailed things. i have noticed when i am into it, mine won't be long story short, but it will be long story longer . a less patient person might say can you come to the point already

TorontoLeo
I don't think its just the communication many times people don't take the time to listen and pay attention to Virgos feelings some are like Lochinvar stated have introvert/extrovert issue. Especially, this day in age many people are soo busy with themselves and not sitting down and actually listening. I don't Virgos are robots they just have different way of expressing themselves regarding their emotions and stuff. Also, Virgos have certain people they feel comfortable expressing themselves

For instance, My dad he's a Virgo and I'm a Leo I noticed he seems to be extremely comfortable expressing his feelings or whatever may have on his mind could be the weirdest thing and in my mind I'm like "Okayyyy!!! How do you come up with these things" but I don't tell him because I tend to realize my dad he's sensitive but I just nod and continue listening and ask questions LOL!! To think about it's been passed 7 years I've gotten closer with my dad and actually expresses himself ALL the time more often than my mother her being Sagittarius it's pretty funny!!

But I think its my dad he's observant noticed the way I communicate and often listen and don't judge him.. He seem to enjoy telling me his feelings and "weird" thoughts LOL

What I'm saying is this Virgos are not 'robots' I just think they are extremely overcautious to whom they decide to express their emotions. Us "outsiders" just have to be patient and don't pressure when time is right they will eventually tell us their feelings. Which I think it's normal I'm a Leo I'm also very cautious whom I express my feelings to but I think it's because I'm raised by a Virgo! HEHE many people seem to noticed I have similar traits as my father but I'm all Leo baby except the loud, attention looking part!!!

Lochinvar
Words don't actually convey emotion. It's your body language and tone that does. That's why people's personalities can come across differently when communicating by text rather than in person/over the phone.

It's not enough to feel empathetic internally. You actually have to actively convey it. Like if someone's angry/sad, openly acknowledging the emotion that the other person is expressing is helpful (even if it's incredibly obvious to you). Otherwise people sometimes make the mistake of thinking that you're indifferent/insensitive when you really aren't.

I think it's an introvert/extrovert issue.
memyself
Posted by neuroticvirgo
Posted by memyself
Posted by neuroticvirgo
Exactly! I mean I could SAY that I'm madly in love with peanut butter but that would be a lie. Anyone can say anything but actions, consistent actions is where the truth really is. If people can't read actions then Virgos really are doomed in a relationship. In our mind the ACTIONS are saying it. To speak it out loud would just be repeating ourselves.


very true, and likewise actions have more impact on us than words. if someone said in as many words that they were worried about me and someone just did what needs to be to fix the cause of worry, i will forever be grateful to that person. you may drift away from that person, but you will always remember them from the act of kindness they showed. actions matter people.


EXACTLY! I am always so shocked and grateful when someone is there for me in deed that I never forget that act of kindness. I guess because we are so used to being the ones doing for others that when someone does for us it blows us away. Even the smallest action seems huge to a Virgo (or at least to me) cause that person cared enough to see that I needed something done then take the steps to do it. All without me having to ask or them having to say anything. I find it glorious!


abso-treetrunking-lutely
neuroticvirgo
Posted by memyself
Posted by neuroticvirgo
Exactly! I mean I could SAY that I'm madly in love with peanut butter but that would be a lie. Anyone can say anything but actions, consistent actions is where the truth really is. If people can't read actions then Virgos really are doomed in a relationship. In our mind the ACTIONS are saying it. To speak it out loud would just be repeating ourselves.


very true, and likewise actions have more impact on us than words. if someone said in as many words that they were worried about me and someone just did what needs to be to fix the cause of worry, i will forever be grateful to that person. you may drift away from that person, but you will always remember them from the act of kindness they showed. actions matter people.


EXACTLY! I am always so shocked and grateful when someone is there for me in deed that I never forget that act of kindness. I guess because we are so used to being the ones doing for others that when someone does for us it blows us away. Even the smallest action seems huge to a Virgo (or at least to me) cause that person cared enough to see that I needed something done then take the steps to do it. All without me having to ask or them having to say anything. I find it glorious!
memyself
also i don't think its all about being serious at all times for virgos. i enjoy a good laugh, i love good humor. i can crack up at jokes with friends with uncontrollable laughter. i just have to have that rapport with you. if i like you, i will enjoy any and all conversations with you.
memyself
Posted by neuroticvirgo
Exactly! I mean I could SAY that I'm madly in love with peanut butter but that would be a lie. Anyone can say anything but actions, consistent actions is where the truth really is. If people can't read actions then Virgos really are doomed in a relationship. In our mind the ACTIONS are saying it. To speak it out loud would just be repeating ourselves.


very true, and likewise actions have more impact on us than words. if someone said in as many words that they were worried about me and someone just did what needs to be to fix the cause of worry, i will forever be grateful to that person. you may drift away from that person, but you will always remember them from the act of kindness they showed. actions matter people.
neuroticvirgo
Exactly! I mean I could SAY that I'm madly in love with peanut butter but that would be a lie. Anyone can say anything but actions, consistent actions is where the truth really is. If people can't read actions then Virgos really are doomed in a relationship. In our mind the ACTIONS are saying it. To speak it out loud would just be repeating ourselves.
memyself
for me if someone without saying anything indirectly did something, i will be the first to catch that. it's almost like a sixth sense. it's creepy at times, the analytical mind can get so much about another persons intentions.
memyself
i mean seriously, we can be so sensitive to someone's needs, and they do not even get it that we are doing this for them? i don't think people can read into actions anymore
neuroticvirgo
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by tiziani
I think it will always be analytical and logical with Virgos regardless. That is a key part of how they love. But yes I've seen myself they do grow to be very selective and play favourites. Not a bad thing in my book.


the Analytical sucks for their partners, because you don't know if you'll measure up, until one day they either yank the rug from underneath you or propose. There's not middle ground.


Is this really true? I'd like to think that when a Virgo is TRULY into you then you will know that you "measure up". We may not go screaming it from the rooftops but it's right there in our actions. Are you outside signs REALLY not able to see this? Is there anyone out there in a functioning relationship with a Virgo that can confirm or deny this? Cause in my mind in my relationships my feelings for the other person are totally obvious. Why does it always need to be said? Sometimes saying it over and over again makes it appear insincere. just my dos cents
memyself
i think the earth signs all get each other very well. i think there is that element connection or something, but i don't think we come across as cold to each other. we just get each other just the way we are.
memyself
Posted by CluelessCancer
I am coming to terms that individuals that say Virgos don't have feelings are those who are probably not the one and have not had their feelings reciprocated. Virgos have feelings when they want you.

When they don't. Well it's all analytical and logical and blah blah blah.


true, one has to be in a virgo's inner circle to see them compromise and sacrifice for you. but also you seriously have to be into the virgo to notice or get what they are doing for you, because there will not be any proclamations about it .
tiziani
I think it will always be analytical and logical with Virgos regardless. That is a key part of how they love. But yes I've seen myself they do grow to be very selective and play favourites. Not a bad thing in my book.
RealTalk
Posted by kindleberry
Posted by RealTalk
My mom said to me, I really don't get Virgos, it's like you can be so detached to the point of not even being human. I totally lol(ed).


detached from what? yourself?


Why don't you go & ask the Virgo who is constantly detached from you.
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