my virgo guy is ignoring me ;

tauruslove88
tauruslove88
he is soo mad at me he wont even talk to me...everytime i call or text...all he texts is (LEAVE ME ALONE)...for me it was like love on first date...he made me feel like i a diomaond....its weird cause its only been two weeks since i knew him..he is mad becuz he say that i didnt realize i had a good guy....i feel bad because i opened up but not enough i didnt want to get hurt..and i think he was ready for sex but i wasnt....will he come back???? he hasnt really said he didnt like me anymore...just texts saying (leaVE ME ALONE)....DOES HE STILL LIKE ME?? OR WANT ME BACK?
lildol
LEAVE HIM ALONE THEN! That's your only chance... if you have any at all!!
tiki33
He sounds like a complete jerk, I'd be thankful if I were you that he's gone, 2 weeks and he's already acting like a Narcissistic marker (discarding you and projecting fault onto you and NO I am not implying he's a Narc but he is revealing Narc behavior) were it's all your fault b/c you didn't open up quickly enough for him, if he's real then he'd allow you enough time to KNOW him first, keep it moving, don't ever chase a man to give him sex and give him your heart. You are supposed to be a bit guarded until he's proven to you and opened up to you enough that you feel he's worth the risk but you dodged a bullet b/c if any man abandons/discards you this quickly then that what was originally going to happen (in your case much sooner rather than later)

If your falling in love on the first day then either your desperate and lonely or you just encountered a sociopath/narcissist, there is no way you can fall in love with a man unless you know him and have spent a good amount of time with him. You are lucky if he stay gone because the end would be THIS RIGHT NOW what you are experiencing and it hurts like hell to know you invested in a man only for him to discard you like garbage, stop initiating communication with him and let him go.

WAKE UP! You are under his spell
tauruslove88
my bday is MAY 1 1988....
tauruslove88
im 23 he is 30
tauruslove88
yea i do feel like he put the whole blame on me
tiki33
7 year age gap is not a whole lot but it's enough years that he's on a whole notha level mentally and emotionally and it's easier for him to manipulate someone so young, he already mindtreetrunking you and it's only been ONE date, be happy he's gone.
tauruslove88
he stays in miami and i spent the weekend with him..the way he treated me no man has ever in my life..the last night which was a saturday is when he was upset with me...i been forgave him..y cant he just talk to me?
tiki33
lol cause he's controlling and you didn't do or say anything that unbelievably bad that he has to use the silent treatment power move as a weapon against you, you didn't give him sex boo hoo hoo, let his ass pout, stop giving him so much power over you, he'll talk when he's ready to talk.
tiki33
"the way he treated me no man has ever in my life." And he treated you that way for a reason, the pay off would be sex but SEE HOW HE'S TREATING YOU NOW, that's the way he was inevitably going to treat you after sex anyway and then you'd really feel used, be thankful that you weren't foolish enough to trade your body for a couple of great days.
tauruslove88
yea i see what u are talking about..he wanted sex real bad but i didnt give in...i think he really was pissed off about that...but tried to blame something else..BUT..i feel like i owed him sex...Y??... then men i dated in the past treated me like butter WAY worser then him..and i had sex with them....he treated me right..y not have sex with him??..thats how i feel...everyone cant be perfect..we all have faults..so thats y im willing to give it another shot if he allows it
tauruslove88
@layna....lol i know i should
tiki33
give him another shot to reject you AFTER sex lol, doesn't make sense to me but hey it's your life, your body, do what you need to do, you're young so yeah you are going to have to learn this your way. Rejection sucks no matter how nice or mean a man is, the inevitable end is you feeling like discarded butter and abandoned be it if he's nice or not, you don't owe anyone sex but maybe you feel you do owe him sex b/c you gave sex to prior markers so why not give it to him too, wow okay lol. He'll be back to cash in on that sex so stop worrying, he'll get sex and discard you like all the other markers, why hurry up to experience that again?
VirgoVixxxen
Owed him sex? WTH? Are you kidn'n me? Just because he treated you better than your past boyfriends?

tauruslove, you don't owe this guy a DAMN thing. Are you even ready to have sex with him? If not, and you do it solely based on the fact that you feel like you "owe it to him" then you seriously need your head checked. How old are you?

If he's so pissed off with you because you didn't give in, then what does that tell you about his character? Do you really want an marker like that? For whatever reason(s) you chose not to have sex with him, he should respect it. Period.

He's not the last guy that will treat you better than your exes. As a matter of fact, there are hundreds more that will treat you even better than he can, and won't go cold on you and act like a complete ass when you refuse to afford him the wonderful opportunity to partake of the most sacred part of your being...your temple!

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