Mercury

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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by pooface222

Posted by Arielle83
Ya they talk like they have all the correct answers.

The arrogance gets annoying

I have to confess ..Im a Cap and I talk like I have all the answers but inside I don't believe I do.
Its actually a kind of insecurity where I want my answers validated..like I'm not talking butter because i believe I am.
I'm Cap Sun Moon Mercury and Mars yet I'm scared to be who I Know I am!
Insecurity!

Well you’re going to feel even more insecure when people look at you like you’re talking nonsense.

If Capricorn wants to be powerful, they have to learn to listen, before speaking, and don’t interrupt because you think your opinion is “better”.

Just makes the whole exchange seem one sided and self obsessed

Capricorns are powerful. They don't have to learn to listen because they have never needed anyone. They can do it alone, learn it alone. And they know they will have to.

It doesn't meet their needs to listen to you ..because they need themselves and their own opinions more than anyone.

I think its something they share with Virgos.

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I don’t care if they listen to me. I meant listening to another person/group/idea in general.

If anyone wants to be powerful, they have to listen to others.

If going around ignoring others, not believing anyone can have a better perspective and believing one is self important, then they exist in a realm of illusion.

Capricorns do need people. I find them clingier than others signs. They just hide it well if you aren’t close to them.

The ones you described sound more Scorpio than Capricorn.

My post was referring to the right fighter type of Capricorn. They usually have a lot of Pisces influence and seem childish.

Best Capricorn is one with sagittarian placements. They are powerful because they are more openminded and persuasive.

Posted by pooface222

Posted by Arielle83
Ya they talk like they have all the correct answers.

The arrogance gets annoying

I have to confess ..Im a Cap and I talk like I have all the answers but inside I don't believe I do.
Its actually a kind of insecurity where I want my answers validated..like I'm not talking butter because i believe I am.
I'm Cap Sun Moon Mercury and Mars yet I'm scared to be who I Know I am!
Insecurity!

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That's why we love you. ❤

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by pooface222

Posted by Arielle83
Ya they talk like they have all the correct answers.

The arrogance gets annoying

I have to confess ..Im a Cap and I talk like I have all the answers but inside I don't believe I do.
Its actually a kind of insecurity where I want my answers validated..like I'm not talking butter because i believe I am.
I'm Cap Sun Moon Mercury and Mars yet I'm scared to be who I Know I am!
Insecurity!

Well you’re going to feel even more insecure when people look at you like you’re talking nonsense.

If Capricorn wants to be powerful, they have to learn to listen, before speaking, and don’t interrupt because you think your opinion is “better”.

Just makes the whole exchange seem one sided and self obsessed

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Capricorns are powerful. They don't have to learn to listen because they have never needed anyone. They can do it alone, learn it alone. And they know they will have to.

It doesn't meet their needs to listen to you ..because they need themselves and their own opinions more than anyone.

I think its something they share with Virgos.

Posted by pooface222

Posted by Arielle83
Ya they talk like they have all the correct answers.

The arrogance gets annoying

I have to confess ..Im a Cap and I talk like I have all the answers but inside I don't believe I do.
Its actually a kind of insecurity where I want my answers validated..like I'm not talking butter because i believe I am.
I'm Cap Sun Moon Mercury and Mars yet I'm scared to be who I Know I am!
Insecurity!

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Well you’re going to feel even more insecure when people look at you like you’re talking nonsense.

If Capricorn wants to be powerful, they have to learn to listen, before speaking, and don’t interrupt because you think your opinion is “better”.

Just makes the whole exchange seem one sided and self obsessed

Posted by pooface222

Posted by Arielle83
Ya they talk like they have all the correct answers.

The arrogance gets annoying

I have to confess ..Im a Cap and I talk like I have all the answers but inside I don't believe I do.
Its actually a kind of insecurity where I want my answers validated..like I'm not talking butter because i believe I am.
I'm Cap Sun Moon Mercury and Mars yet I'm scared to be who I Know I am!
Insecurity!

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I am so glad for this thread... I have to say THANK YOU to @emhendo also because she nailed a lot of solid points.
I just sorta layed it down for a good friend of mine (the triplecap, old roommate) calling out a lot of this same stuff.
not aware of how words & actions make others feel
nnoot in touch w/honest about how they actually feel... cause do one thing & say another (tho I suspect that could be an aqua moon/pisces venus thing too)

they have cap in mars.
I'd bring up something hurtful or something that felt like.. meant to be mean.. and they'd say the same thing, I was projecting.
meanwhile this person projects all over the place... asks me if I'm hungry when they're hungry instead of just saying they're hungry. Stuff like that. Tries to be who they think I want them to be.

Ridiculously rigid and ice cold when upset. Says the same butter over and over. Literally the same sentences. Months could go by and the issue different. Same sentences.

Glad also that someone said they talk "at" you. I used to say this dude "reported." Every convo was like silly smalltalk stuff.

Big time ego compensation for their insecurities too. And as a pluto heavy person it's so cringe... it's so transparent.. it's so much more respectful to just own your butter. Everyone has weak points. just start right where you are.

God I feel so much better was starting to think it was just me.