Anyone know the difference between a Capricorn guy being friendly vs flirty/interested?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by allrounder on Tuesday, November 23, 2021 and has 46 replies.

Understanding When a Capricorn Man Is Friendly or Flirty

A Capricorn man's friendliness is often polite and reserved, while flirting involves more personal attention and subtle signals of interest. Pay attention to changes in tone, eye contact, and body language. Recognizing these cues helps distinguish between casual friendliness and romantic interest in Capricorn men.

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Capricorns, man... most enigmatic sign I know.

which is funny cause my Lilith and Eros signs and 8th and 9th House are in Capricorn. But still Capricorn Suns, pretty hard to read for me.

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Unfortunately the Pisces women didn't tell you their secrets ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

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i feel bad for water sign women making do

these men were made for air sign women

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Posted by virgoOPPP

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Posted by virgoOPPP

capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Unfortunately the Pisces women didn't tell you their secrets ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

i feel bad for water sign women making do

these men were made for air sign women

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Lol earth belong with water- Don't torture the poor air sign women lol

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Posted by Wizardz_

If his dead eyes look even more dead than usual, then he's probably thinking how to screw you out of your life savings, aka he is "interested"

they're too proud to take money from women.

coz archaic beliefs.

you have to disguise them as 'loans.'

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Unfortunately the Pisces women didn't tell you their secrets ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

i feel bad for water sign women making do

these men were made for air sign women

Lol earth belong with water- Don't torture the poor air sign women lol

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water sign men are so peaceful

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Unfortunately the Pisces women didn't tell you their secrets ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

i feel bad for water sign women making do

these men were made for air sign women

Lol earth belong with water- Don't torture the poor air sign women lol

water sign men are so peaceful

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Get you another Scorpio- I remember how enthusiastic you were with him. Just not his phone lol

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Unfortunately the Pisces women didn't tell you their secrets ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

i feel bad for water sign women making do

these men were made for air sign women

Lol earth belong with water- Don't torture the poor air sign women lol

water sign men are so peaceful

Get you another Scorpio- I remember how enthusiastic you were with him. Just not his phone lol

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i thought the cancer finally wanted to breakup but now that i've had some time to think, we're really compatible ๐Ÿค” โ˜บ

also, desperate guys being desperate over the holidays but i'm not budging, not even for men who cook for me.

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Posted by Wizardz_

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If his dead eyes look even more dead than usual, then he's probably thinking how to screw you out of your life savings, aka he is "interested"

they're too proud to take money from women.

coz archaic beliefs.

you have to disguise them as 'loans.'

so what you're saying is : he played you so well that you gave him money AND thought it was your idea?

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no, we had a business going. it was natural for us to send money to each other every now and then. we never had issues with money or sex (coz earth?). but if i spend too much, he gets controlling (well, more than usual).

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Unfortunately the Pisces women didn't tell you their secrets ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

i feel bad for water sign women making do

these men were made for air sign women

Lol earth belong with water- Don't torture the poor air sign women lol

water sign men are so peaceful

Get you another Scorpio- I remember how enthusiastic you were with him. Just not his phone lol

i thought the cancer finally wanted to breakup but now that i've had some time to think, we're really compatible ๐Ÿค” โ˜บ

also, desperate guys being desperate over the holidays but i'm not budging, not even for men who cook for me.

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Cancers are generous for the holidays, when they care about you! Keep him around! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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I still feel lost, didn't really get proper answers. I'll just Google the difference I suppose..

I just have a sticky situation with a getting friendly Capricorn guy and was just looking for help tbh.

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Posted by allrounder

I still feel lost, didn't really get proper answers. I'll just Google the difference I suppose..

I just have a sticky situation with a getting friendly Capricorn guy and was just looking for help tbh.

sorry about that. but pretty much i feel they're bad news for virgos. tho who knows maybe it'll work out for you โ˜บโ˜บ

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Posted by virgoOPPP

capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Anyone who has a Pisces moon shouldn't be attributed to their Sun unless they're a Pisces. It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

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Posted by Nightcap-

Posted by virgoOPPP

capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

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huh? i don't understand this part ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ what do u mean?

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Posted by allrounder

Capricorns, man... most enigmatic sign I know.

which is funny cause my Lilith and Eros signs and 8th and 9th House are in Capricorn. But still Capricorn Suns, pretty hard to read for me.

Puh puh poke her phase ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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Posted by virgoOPPP

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Posted by virgoOPPP

capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

huh? i don't understand this part ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ what do u mean?

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Whoops I think I accidentally deleted the first part that said 'Signs that have Pisces moon are more like each other than their Sun unless they're a Pisces.' For moon signs, it's the only one like that with possibly Leo moons finishing a distant 2nd. For example, Caps with any other Moon are more like each other.

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Posted by Nightcap-

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

huh? i don't understand this part ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ what do u mean?

Whoops I think I accidentally deleted the first part that said 'Signs that have Pisces moon are more like each other than their Sun unless they're a Pisces.' For moon signs, it's the only one like that with possibly Leo moons finishing a distant 2nd. For example, Caps with any other Moon are more like each other.

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do you find pisces sun and pisces moon similar to each other?

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capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

huh? i don't understand this part ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ what do u mean?

Whoops I think I accidentally deleted the first part that said 'Signs that have Pisces moon are more like each other than their Sun unless they're a Pisces.' For moon signs, it's the only one like that with possibly Leo moons finishing a distant 2nd. For example, Caps with any other Moon are more like each other.

do you find pisces sun and pisces moon similar to each other?

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I think Pisces Sun handles the energy better as it is their nature. I find some Pisces moons conflicted internally which sometimes lends itself to contradictory behavior. Not in a bad way though. Maybe cos I haz 12th House stuff, I find both easy to get along with.

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You wouldnโ€™t happen to be a Virgal would you โค๏ธ

Like weirgo women was easy to understand and it was capricorn fault all the time, enough with this Iโ€™m bored. Iโ€™m not ร  capricorn male Iโ€™m a sag stellium

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Youโ€™re right both signs share the blame. Itโ€™s the Virgos fault for even bothering LMFAOO

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I still feel lost, didn't really get proper answers. I'll just Google the difference I suppose..

I just have a sticky situation with a getting friendly Capricorn guy and was just looking for help tbh.

Heโ€™s calculating if itโ€™s worth, a heart broken cost a lot

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Fair enough. But he keeps finding ways to compliment me and I swear that isn't normal Capricorn behaviour, at least I heard they weren't openly flirty types. That's why I'm confused by his intentions and I'm not sure how to assertively say that I'm not interested like that. Basically how to friendzone him nicely. Sucks, I hate friendzoning and rejecting people but what can I do, I'm not responsible for anyone's emotions.

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I still feel lost, didn't really get proper answers. I'll just Google the difference I suppose..

I just have a sticky situation with a getting friendly Capricorn guy and was just looking for help tbh.

sorry about that. but pretty much i feel they're bad news for virgos. tho who knows maybe it'll work out for you โ˜บโ˜บ

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yeah, it's strange how they say Virgos and Capricorns are a good match everywhere online. Then again, I'm more emotional and intuitive than your average Virgo cause of my Pisces Moon.

And I don't want it to work out though. I'm trying to find out his intentions so I can figure out if I need to reject him or not. I only wanna be friends lol but I hate friendzoning and rejecting people, it's so awkward and hard for a non confrontational person like me. But he is finding ways to compliment me quite a lot. Just today he asked for my IG then he said "aw aren't you pretty haha". As far as I read, Capricorns don't openly flirt so wtf is going on? I guess it's pretty obvious that he's interested, but do you think such a strong interest could be physical or emotional and physical and mental? We didn't really get acquainted until few weeks ago.. He's the one who looked for my FB then initiated contact, and yes, today he asked for my IG. I asked about this few weeks ago here and a Capricorn girl told me I was "overthinking" -_-

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Posted by virgoOPPP

capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Anyone who has a Pisces moon shouldn't be attributed to their Sun unless they're a Pisces. It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

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Well I'm a Pisces Moon, so are you saying that I'm more like Pisces than my Virgo Sun? I'd say I'm pretty balanced with both emotion and logic/practicality because of them.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

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Posted by allrounder

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They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

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Isnโ€™t that most guys? Pretend to be friends until you change your mindโ€ฆ. Just be straight with him. Itโ€™s better now before he gets feelings.

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Oh well it's not that hard. Nicely say, i see you are maybe interested, i'm not in that place, sorry. He'll survive. It's not that big of a deal.

Iโ€™m so ok with that, Iโ€™ll tell her ty cuz Iโ€™m low key lazy af

Ofc you would be. Not sure what is the problem.

Iโ€™m not a capricorn male Iโ€™m a sag stellium

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๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ haha with that logic Iโ€™m not a Saggie I have a Capricorn stellium

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Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL

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Oh well it's not that hard. Nicely say, i see you are maybe interested, i'm not in that place, sorry. He'll survive. It's not that big of a deal.

Iโ€™m so ok with that, Iโ€™ll tell her ty cuz Iโ€™m low key lazy af

Ofc you would be. Not sure what is the problem.

Iโ€™m not a capricorn male Iโ€™m a sag stellium

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ haha with that logic Iโ€™m not a Saggie I have a Capricorn stellium

Sun sign is a scam

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We are made up of all of our parts ๐Ÿ˜. Sun is a bit strong but Iโ€™m really a balance of everything. Iโ€™m sure you are too ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Posted by allrounder

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Posted by virgoOPPP

capricorn men aren't the 'walk in the park' that astro catladies promised. ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

Anyone who has a Pisces moon shouldn't be attributed to their Sun unless they're a Pisces. It's almost a different sign that are more like each other than their fellow Suns.

Well I'm a Pisces Moon, so are you saying that I'm more like Pisces than my Virgo Sun? I'd say I'm pretty balanced with both emotion and logic/practicality because of them.

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Sorta. More that the energy is starkly different than Virgos with any other moon. I'd say the same thing of Caps with Pisces moons too.

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They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

Isnโ€™t that most guys? Pretend to be friends until you change your mindโ€ฆ. Just be straight with him. Itโ€™s better now before he gets feelings.

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I suppose. I'll be dreading the awkwardness between us when we have our duet voice acting sessions together every Monday from now on though lol it's just us two in those sessions. Then again, I guess it's only awkward if he's emotionally immature, right?

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Posted by allrounder

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Posted by allrounder

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They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

Isnโ€™t that most guys? Pretend to be friends until you change your mindโ€ฆ. Just be straight with him. Itโ€™s better now before he gets feelings.

I suppose. I'll be dreading the awkwardness between us when we have our duet voice acting sessions together every Monday from now on though lol it's just us two in those sessions. Then again, I guess it's only awkward if he's emotionally immature, right?

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Yes. Heโ€™ll get over it if he doesnโ€™t have feelings yet. They just take some time to process.

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Posted by allrounder

Posted by PuzzlePieces

They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

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You just don't flirt back and act normal. It's not that hard. He gave you a compliment so say thanks and keep it moving.

Why did you give him your social media if you weren't interested?

Set friend boundaries and keep them.

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Posted by Krabss

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Posted by Krabss

Oh well it's not that hard. Nicely say, i see you are maybe interested, i'm not in that place, sorry. He'll survive. It's not that big of a deal.

Iโ€™m so ok with that, Iโ€™ll tell her ty cuz Iโ€™m low key lazy af

Ofc you would be. Not sure what is the problem.

Iโ€™m not a capricorn male Iโ€™m a sag stellium

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ haha with that logic Iโ€™m not a Saggie I have a Capricorn stellium

Sun sign is a scam

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whether they're friendly or flirty you'll never really know their true feelings because it's all business at the end of the day

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On the fourth date w/ a cap, I told him if he didn't kiss me there wouldn't be another date with me.

Which I didn't want to waste my time not knowing if we had physical chemistry, but then it was like ok. I felt bad not going on another date because I had pushed him out of his comfort zone. so I just started that relationship out of obligation till I found another reason to get out of it.

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

You wouldnโ€™t happen to be a Virgal would you โค๏ธ

Like weirgo women was easy to understand and it was capricorn fault all the time, enough with this Iโ€™m bored. Iโ€™m not ร  capricorn male Iโ€™m a sag stellium

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I honestly think virgo and capricorn are like vampires staring into a mirror to each other.

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I still feel lost, didn't really get proper answers. I'll just Google the difference I suppose..

I just have a sticky situation with a getting friendly Capricorn guy and was just looking for help tbh.

sorry about that. but pretty much i feel they're bad news for virgos. tho who knows maybe it'll work out for you โ˜บโ˜บ

yeah, it's strange how they say Virgos and Capricorns are a good match everywhere online. Then again, I'm more emotional and intuitive than your average Virgo cause of my Pisces Moon.

And I don't want it to work out though. I'm trying to find out his intentions so I can figure out if I need to reject him or not. I only wanna be friends lol but I hate friendzoning and rejecting people, it's so awkward and hard for a non confrontational person like me. But he is finding ways to compliment me quite a lot. Just today he asked for my IG then he said "aw aren't you pretty haha". As far as I read, Capricorns don't openly flirt so wtf is going on? I guess it's pretty obvious that he's interested, but do you think such a strong interest could be physical or emotional and physical and mental? We didn't really get acquainted until few weeks ago.. He's the one who looked for my FB then initiated contact, and yes, today he asked for my IG. I asked about this few weeks ago here and a Capricorn girl told me I was "overthinking" -_-

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It's not worth the headache, think about how much work you require to take a chance and be comfortable now x2, x4, or x6. Unfortunately most caps think in a business form they see how it'll benefit them and how safe the situation is but of course it can't be too easy now because if they don't feel they're putting in the work than it's not worth it to them but if it's too hard it's also not worth the trouble. It has to be jusssssssssst right. They also happen to be picky as hell.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

You just don't flirt back and act normal. It's not that hard. He gave you a compliment so say thanks and keep it moving.

Why did you give him your social media if you weren't interested?

Set friend boundaries and keep them.

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Well I haven't told the whole story here but that's what I've been doing. My kindness is me being myself. I'm an empath by nature so I'm kind to everyone. But people who are interested in me probably take my kindness out of context and turn it into flirting for them. It's annoying because it's happened a lot. I don't know how else to "act" as a friend, because being friends to me is being kind no matter what. My kindness isn't conditional. Saying thanks has also only egged him on to keep going.

And yeah, I kinda had a feeling I forked it on giving him my social media but I told him I really don't use it so there's no point in following (I know, indirect. I'm still working on being a direct more confrontational person..) but he still followed cause he said "I find it easier to use" pft. He already first searched and contacted me by FB anyway so I just thought "maybe it can't hurt, and we can still keep it friendly" but nope.

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They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

You just don't flirt back and act normal. It's not that hard. He gave you a compliment so say thanks and keep it moving.

Why did you give him your social media if you weren't interested?

Set friend boundaries and keep them.

Well I haven't told the whole story here but that's what I've been doing. My kindness is me being myself. I'm an empath by nature so I'm kind to everyone. But people who are interested in me probably take my kindness out of context and turn it into flirting for them. It's annoying because it's happened a lot. I don't know how else to "act" as a friend, because being friends to me is being kind no matter what. My kindness isn't conditional. Saying thanks has also only egged him on to keep going.

And yeah, I kinda had a feeling I forked it on giving him my social media but I told him I really don't use it so there's no point in following (I know, indirect. I'm still working on being a direct more confrontational person..) but he still followed cause he said "I find it easier to use" pft. He already first searched and contacted me by FB anyway so I just thought "maybe it can't hurt, and we can still keep it friendly" but nope.

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Honestly, it's not your problem that you are passive and kind. Those are great qualities to have.

Maybe try to be a little distant if they are being friendzoned.

Moving out of their space and not letting them be physically close, helps. Men can usually take the hint when someone takes a step back, even while smiling, to keep space and there is no touching. sometimes they will try to come in close again and by the second step back, they know and will stay where they are.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by allrounder

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by allrounder

Posted by PuzzlePieces

They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

You just don't flirt back and act normal. It's not that hard. He gave you a compliment so say thanks and keep it moving.

Why did you give him your social media if you weren't interested?

Set friend boundaries and keep them.

Well I haven't told the whole story here but that's what I've been doing. My kindness is me being myself. I'm an empath by nature so I'm kind to everyone. But people who are interested in me probably take my kindness out of context and turn it into flirting for them. It's annoying because it's happened a lot. I don't know how else to "act" as a friend, because being friends to me is being kind no matter what. My kindness isn't conditional. Saying thanks has also only egged him on to keep going.

And yeah, I kinda had a feeling I forked it on giving him my social media but I told him I really don't use it so there's no point in following (I know, indirect. I'm still working on being a direct more confrontational person..) but he still followed cause he said "I find it easier to use" pft. He already first searched and contacted me by FB anyway so I just thought "maybe it can't hurt, and we can still keep it friendly" but nope.

Honestly, it's not your problem that you are passive and kind. Those are great qualities to have.

Maybe try to be a little distant if they are being friendzoned.

Moving out of their space and not letting them be physically close, helps. Men can usually take the hint when someone takes a step back, even while smiling, to keep space and there is no touching. sometimes they will try to come in close again and by the second step back, they know and will stay where they are.

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I DID IT ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ญ thanks for your advice, helped give me courage. I can finally fucking breathe lol and he said haha don't worry about it, it's fine, I'm not trying to get with you

Maybe he's just saying that to save face but anyway I'm glad I was able to make my feelings clear for once ๐Ÿ˜ญ I'm bloody breathing in the freezing air out of my window right now to calm down though haha

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Posted by allrounder

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Posted by allrounder

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by allrounder

Posted by PuzzlePieces

They ask you out ๐Ÿ˜‚ or pursue you. Until then you just donโ€™t really know.

Ok so I guess my Capricorn dude here is into me. He's complimenting me whenever he finds an opportunity to, then today he asked for my IG and said "aw aren't you pretty haha" so yeah. Damn it.

Do you know how to reject one nicely? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜… I just wanna be friends. I hate friendzoning and rejecting someone. It makes everything so awkward but I guess I don't really have a choice if I want him off my back :') just sad he seemingly only wanted to be friendly because he's into me sexually or romantically or both.

You just don't flirt back and act normal. It's not that hard. He gave you a compliment so say thanks and keep it moving.

Why did you give him your social media if you weren't interested?

Set friend boundaries and keep them.

Well I haven't told the whole story here but that's what I've been doing. My kindness is me being myself. I'm an empath by nature so I'm kind to everyone. But people who are interested in me probably take my kindness out of context and turn it into flirting for them. It's annoying because it's happened a lot. I don't know how else to "act" as a friend, because being friends to me is being kind no matter what. My kindness isn't conditional. Saying thanks has also only egged him on to keep going.

And yeah, I kinda had a feeling I forked it on giving him my social media but I told him I really don't use it so there's no point in following (I know, indirect. I'm still working on being a direct more confrontational person..) but he still followed cause he said "I find it easier to use" pft. He already first searched and contacted me by FB anyway so I just thought "maybe it can't hurt, and we can still keep it friendly" but nope.

Honestly, it's not your problem that you are passive and kind. Those are great qualities to have.

Maybe try to be a little distant if they are being friendzoned.

Moving out of their space and not letting them be physically close, helps. Men can usually take the hint when someone takes a step back, even while smiling, to keep space and there is no touching. sometimes they will try to come in close again and by the second step back, they know and will stay where they are.

I DID IT ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ญ thanks for your advice, helped give me courage. I can finally fucking breathe lol and he said haha don't worry about it, it's fine, I'm not trying to get with you

Maybe he's just saying that to save face but anyway I'm glad I was able to make my feelings clear for once ๐Ÿ˜ญ I'm bloody breathing in the freezing air out of my window right now to calm down though haha

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Hahahaha! NICE! It get's easier the more you do it. You start becoming fearless ๐Ÿ˜‰

Anytime I'm feeling a little uncomfortable about something, I take care of it right away to get rid of the feeling. Otherwise it can lead to more anxiety.