Date with Cap man

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by stillstillwater on Monday, November 30, 2020 and has 79 replies.

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@stillstillwater
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I haven't been on an official date in forever so cut me some slack here. But I left the house in all black with a black blazer that had studs and black ankle boots. So basically a rocker about to go into a meeting. I forgot my mask so i had to go back in and caught myself in the mirror again... and changed the black blazer to a beige. Good save.

I show up... and this man is ALSO wearing all black! wtf. and I notice his shoes right away and he's wearing black sneakers. not even nice ones. And a black shirt that says "OUTLAW". Ok dude.

He looks like a nerdy version of Daddy Yankee and has this nerdy/sexy thing going on. Kind of nice. I notice he has a dad bod... not crazy about it but also we are in quarantine so no judgement.

We met in front of the building no problem (unlike Ms. Virgo and her Cap man circling around for 30 mins- God knows why He puts two knuckle heads together 😛 jkn).

Seems that place is closed. The man has a plan B. I like him already. So we go to another spot...which is like a lounge/club vibe on the rooftop. It's kind of empty which is nice so we can talk.We end up going to one other place which is also a club. So seems this man really likes the night life...

I won't bore you with the details but these were the phrases I collected for y'all...

"real estate market"

"stock market"

"the market crash in...."

"im always planning 6 months and a year ahead"

"i increased the price on x,y,z and now i'm making xyz"

"i had to change my game"

"i can say i'm on the elite level"

"5th dimension"

"frequency"

"i'm on a high frequency and what happens is lower frequency people try to bring you down"

"Don't worry, I can coach you. I'm a good coach."

Do you go out much? "It's a hit or miss for me"

"I may not be able to do everything but I know what everything costs so I get the best deals"

Did he agree to your price? "He wasn't happy but I got what I wanted"

Overall, very nice guy and he talked a lot about his work/career transition/hustles. And I enjoyed it. He knows a lot of stuff and someone you can learn from. He was very open about his insecurities but at the same time very confident. I'm always surprised how Cap men pull off looking so much better than they actually do based on how they carry themselves. He didn't text me if I got home ok which is always a pet peeve of mine.

I dunno... we'll see.

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@stillstillwater
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Posted by Moon_River

Posted by capincc

Sounds boring

two cardboards dating

YAWN

That’s why y’all need a Gemini. Then you can develop an actual personality. ☺️

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I don't know why you think there wasn't personality. Lol there was enough personality.

And no one actually NEEDS a Gemini. Sure they're nice but need? pushing it. Def need a Capricorn though... especially a Capricorn man.

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Unrelated (lol), here are the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder from Google:

-Grandiose sense of self-importance

-Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

-Belief they’re special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions

-Need for excessive admiration

-Sense of entitlement

-Interpersonally exploitative behavior

-Lack of empathy

-Envy of others or a belief that others are envious of them

-Demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes

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@stillstillwater
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Posted by capincc

Posted by stillstillwater

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Ya bout to have earthy rough sex

😙🤗😁😂

🙃

no girl. I don't even know why I'm dating. i've already met my husband just waiting for FedEx to ship him over here.

wasting cap mans time? This not going to end wwell for you

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no one is wasting time. I'm sure he would've preferred to be in my company than by himself. Oh never mind, He's a Cap. You're right.

I will make a sacrifice and prayer tonight for forgiveness.

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Posted by Electricboogaloo

Unrelated (lol), here are the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder from Google:

-Grandiose sense of self-importance

-Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

-Belief they’re special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions

-Need for excessive admiration

-Sense of entitlement

-Interpersonally exploitative behavior

-Lack of empathy

-Envy of others or a belief that others are envious of them

-Demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes

well he was not any of those.

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@stillstillwater
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Posted by Moon_River

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Posted by capincc

Sounds boring

two cardboards dating

YAWN

ok CC # 2

Isn’t his name super cute?

“Cap in cc”

It's an inside joke... before your time. Please sit down.

Before 2011?

I’m just still shipping them.

what was username? I don't remember you.

I’m twinkz 😂

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omgawd you loser

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@PhoenixRising
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Posted by stillstillwater

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Sounds like it was a nice date. Based on what you "collected" I'd put money on you going out again if he asked you.

yea it was nice. Definitely will go again but I think it'll be more like a friendship or help each other with the hustle.

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Hmph, and how did you come to the decision that it will only be friendship so early in the game? Were the sneakers 2018 Jordans or something?

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@Electricboogaloo
5 Years

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Electricboogaloo

Unrelated (lol), here are the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder from Google:

-Grandiose sense of self-importance

-Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

-Belief they’re special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions

-Need for excessive admiration

-Sense of entitlement

-Interpersonally exploitative behavior

-Lack of empathy

-Envy of others or a belief that others are envious of them

-Demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes

well he was not any of those.

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OK, then what is this:

"im always planning 6 months and a year ahead"

"i increased the price on x,y,z and now i'm making xyz"

"i can say i'm on the elite level"

"i'm on a high frequency and what happens is lower frequency people try to bring you down"

"Don't worry, I can coach you. I'm a good coach."

"I may not be able to do everything but I know what everything costs so I get the best deals"

All I can do is tell you it's a real possibility. If you can't see it, my responsibility ends there.

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@stillstillwater
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Posted by PhoenixRising

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Sounds like it was a nice date. Based on what you "collected" I'd put money on you going out again if he asked you.

yea it was nice. Definitely will go again but I think it'll be more like a friendship or help each other with the hustle.

Hmph, and how did you come to the decision that it will only be friendship so early in the game? Were the sneakers 2018 Jordans or something?

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hhmm well I couldn't tell if i was attracted to him physically. I'm sure if I get to know him that will grow. There wasn't much chemistry either but that might develop too with a kiss. I'm just that type of person where I like to fall head over heels on the first interaction... like an instant connection... an instant oooooooooh I feel like I know you in some deep subconscious part of my existence....

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@stillstillwater
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Posted by Electricboogaloo

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Electricboogaloo

Unrelated (lol), here are the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder from Google:

-Grandiose sense of self-importance

-Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

-Belief they’re special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions

-Need for excessive admiration

-Sense of entitlement

-Interpersonally exploitative behavior

-Lack of empathy

-Envy of others or a belief that others are envious of them

-Demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes

well he was not any of those.

OK, then what is this:

"im always planning 6 months and a year ahead"

"i increased the price on x,y,z and now i'm making xyz"

"i can say i'm on the elite level"

"i'm on a high frequency and what happens is lower frequency people try to bring you down"

"Don't worry, I can coach you. I'm a good coach."

"I may not be able to do everything but I know what everything costs so I get the best deals"

All I can do is tell you it's a real possibility. If you can't see it, my responsibility ends there.

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he also mentioned his downfalls which I didn't include. I don't think anything is wrong with those statements; most of them are factual. Nothing wrong with being a planner or stating what you have been able to accomplish. Only one is the "elite level" but he could mean his thinking process etc.

We actually talked about that true power is knowing yourself: strengths and weaknesses.

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Sounds like the date went well but it's too.... Serious lol. Or maybe it's just me being an air sign, I always want my first few dates fun and interesting. Lots of laughing and bantering.

C'est une manière Gentil de dire que c'était pourris lol 😂

Hey, I googled that. 🤣

Just 2 Caps on a date that sounds more like a job interview lol. Both just need to loosen up.

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lol first date should be an interview because ain't nobody got time for a 2nd date if things don't align.

I enjoyed the date a lot. I do wish I learned more about his childhood though but he did tell me a bit about his mom and growing up with her.

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Posted by GODZ

Cest pas grave stillstillwater je suis heureux que tu es commencé tes fuccboi years, promis je commence les miennes en 2021 et tu pourra te moquer aussi

No sé cómo tener una cita es fuccboi years pero te daré mis años para que puedas disfrutarlos aún más. listooo....

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Posted by LuxePurr

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Sounds like the date went well but it's too.... Serious lol. Or maybe it's just me being an air sign, I always want my first few dates fun and interesting. Lots of laughing and bantering.

C'est une manière Gentil de dire que c'était pourris lol 😂

Hey, I googled that. 🤣

Just 2 Caps on a date that sounds more like a job interview lol. Both just need to loosen up.

lol first date should be an interview because ain't nobody got time for a 2nd date if things don't align.

I enjoyed the date a lot. I do wish I learned more about his childhood though but he did tell me a bit about his mom and growing up with her.

He's pretty chatty which is a good sign IMO. Probs has air merc. Hope he asks you out again. And run his chart!

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shoot! That's one thing I did not ask. And he was... he was carrying all the conversation and I got an Aqua vibe from him. So i'm curious if I'm right or what!

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Posted by GODZ

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Cest pas grave stillstillwater je suis heureux que tu es commencé tes fuccboi years, promis je commence les miennes en 2021 et tu pourra te moquer aussi

No sé cómo tener una cita es fuccboi years pero te daré mis años para que puedas disfrutarlos aún más. listooo....

Bah forreal dont you think it so much easier to speak in your natural langage

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Angelito, you'll never know about me unless you know me. So no comment. And enjoy parler francais.

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Posted by LuxePurr

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Posted by LuxePurr

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Posted by LuxePurr

Posted by GODZ

Posted by LuxePurr

Sounds like the date went well but it's too.... Serious lol. Or maybe it's just me being an air sign, I always want my first few dates fun and interesting. Lots of laughing and bantering.

C'est une manière Gentil de dire que c'était pourris lol 😂

Hey, I googled that. 🤣

Just 2 Caps on a date that sounds more like a job interview lol. Both just need to loosen up.

lol first date should be an interview because ain't nobody got time for a 2nd date if things don't align.

I enjoyed the date a lot. I do wish I learned more about his childhood though but he did tell me a bit about his mom and growing up with her.

He's pretty chatty which is a good sign IMO. Probs has air merc. Hope he asks you out again. And run his chart!

shoot! That's one thing I did not ask. And he was... he was carrying all the conversation and I got an Aqua vibe from him. So i'm curious if I'm right or what!

And imagine when you run his chart, he has... Dun dun dunnnn.. Libra moon and mars 🤣🤣🤣

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nooo way because Libra moon on Cap men is soooo feminine and it's noticeable right away. He def has a masculine energy. But imagine if I'm wrong. I'll admit it. I'll let you know lol.

He said I had a "good frequency and very mellow and feminine" "You are not aggressive though... but it's good because you're feminine".

I kind of felt like he was trying to say i'm toooooo laid back. I like being seen as laid back but the way he said it made me feel self-conscious. Like boy, I'll jump on this table and twerk on your face if you call me mellow one more time. JKN!!!!!!

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Posted by GODZ

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Cest pas grave stillstillwater je suis heureux que tu es commencé tes fuccboi years, promis je commence les miennes en 2021 et tu pourra te moquer aussi

No sé cómo tener una cita es fuccboi years pero te daré mis años para que puedas disfrutarlos aún más. listooo....

Bah forreal dont you think it so much easier to speak in your natural langage

Angelito, you'll never know about me unless you know me. So no comment. And enjoy parler francais.

Je sais que je t'ai vexé je le sent, désolé

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i can't resist your sweetness. Thank you xo, all is good.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Interviews are so boring & I’m cap dominant lol

LMAO everyone calm the fuck down. It was not an interview lol. There was not a, "tell me your strengths and weaknesses" and a "Well why should I go on a second date with you".

He just talked a lot about his career and goals. And he gave me feedback on mine. I'd say more like a mentorship session. lol.

And i damn enjoyed it. Leave me alone lol. What do you guys do you on your dates that's so fun and interesting? Tickle each other and chase around the bar? I really need to know lol.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Interviews are so boring & I’m cap dominant lol

LMAO everyone calm the fuck down. It was not an interview lol. There was not a, "tell me your strengths and weaknesses" and a "Well why should I go on a second date with you".

He just talked a lot about his career and goals. And he gave me feedback on mine. I'd say more like a mentorship session. lol.

And i damn enjoyed it. Leave me alone lol. What do you guys do you on your dates that's so fun and interesting? Tickle each other and chase around the bar? I really need to know lol.

I usually cup their balls and gargle their semen.

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when we were walking downstairs there were bunch of people walking down slowly. He cuts through all of them but as i'm "too laid" back I just stay behind them. Then when we're walking he's like "So are you a leader or a follower"?

*shots fired*

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I'm with Mudra. Wearing a T-shirt that says "Outlaw" is kinda tacky. Graphic tees that say something edgy are for teenagers if that. All black is too safe and uninspiring. Talking about work is boring especially for a Cap. It's a given and if that's what you lead with then you should be living more of a life. I try to talk about anything but work unless they ask. Him talking real estate and markets is stale. Also, making proclamations about himself as well as you is way too presumptuous for first time meeting. If these things are true, then it should be apparent otherwise it can come off as a try hard projection. Insinuating you're too laid back seems to be a ploy especially when he barely even knows you. Sounds like a meathead but maybe someone that would make a good contact if you want to invest or buy some ocean front property in Arizona.

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Posted by stillstillwater

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Interviews are so boring & I’m cap dominant lol

LMAO everyone calm the fuck down. It was not an interview lol. There was not a, "tell me your strengths and weaknesses" and a "Well why should I go on a second date with you".

He just talked a lot about his career and goals. And he gave me feedback on mine. I'd say more like a mentorship session. lol.

And i damn enjoyed it. Leave me alone lol. What do you guys do you on your dates that's so fun and interesting? Tickle each other and chase around the bar? I really need to know lol.

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Haha! I hate those interview type dates. Great you enjoyed it. I like to go for a more physical activity type date, a hike, bowling, walk through the park, etc. Things still come out but not so much pressure, more laughing & enjoying and seeing how the person functions overall instead of see our lists of who we are.

Showing my Sag sun obviously 😉 but I use those Cap observation skills too lol

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I'm with Mudra. Wearing a T-shirt that says "Outlaw" is kinda tacky. Graphic tees that say something edgy are for teenagers if that. All black is too safe and uninspiring. Talking about work is boring especially for a Cap. It's a given and if that's what you lead with then you should be living more of a life. I try to talk about anything but work unless they ask. Him talking real estate and markets is stale. Also, making proclamations about himself as well as you is way too presumptuous for first time meeting. If these things are true, then it should be apparent otherwise it can come off as a try hard projection. Insinuating you're too laid back seems to be a ploy especially when he barely even knows you. Sounds like a meathead but maybe someone that would make a good contact if you want to invest or buy some ocean front property in Arizona.

Ha exactly! I’m sorry but saying all this stuff about yourself is such crap. It will be noticed and there is no reason you have to prove yourself unless you are insecure. And so is the laid back comment. Being laid back is not equal to not being a hard worker seriously.

The second Cap I dated said all this stuff about himself, and turned out I made twice as much as him & I worked way harder. Top it all off he was a trust fund baby omg seriously.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Interviews are so boring & I’m cap dominant lol

LMAO everyone calm the fuck down. It was not an interview lol. There was not a, "tell me your strengths and weaknesses" and a "Well why should I go on a second date with you".

He just talked a lot about his career and goals. And he gave me feedback on mine. I'd say more like a mentorship session. lol.

And i damn enjoyed it. Leave me alone lol. What do you guys do you on your dates that's so fun and interesting? Tickle each other and chase around the bar? I really need to know lol.

Haha! I hate those interview type dates. Great you enjoyed it. I like to go for a more physical activity type date, a hike, bowling, walk through the park, etc. Things still come out but not so much pressure, more laughing & enjoying and seeing how the person functions overall instead of see our lists of who we are.

Showing my Sag sun obviously 😉 but I use those Cap observation skills too lol

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I dunno why you guys take it so seriously. We went to a lounge had drinks, listened to music and talked.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

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I'm with Mudra. Wearing a T-shirt that says "Outlaw" is kinda tacky. Graphic tees that say something edgy are for teenagers if that. All black is too safe and uninspiring. Talking about work is boring especially for a Cap. It's a given and if that's what you lead with then you should be living more of a life. I try to talk about anything but work unless they ask. Him talking real estate and markets is stale. Also, making proclamations about himself as well as you is way too presumptuous for first time meeting. If these things are true, then it should be apparent otherwise it can come off as a try hard projection. Insinuating you're too laid back seems to be a ploy especially when he barely even knows you. Sounds like a meathead but maybe someone that would make a good contact if you want to invest or buy some ocean front property in Arizona.

Ha exactly! I’m sorry but saying all this stuff about yourself is such crap. It will be noticed and there is no reason you have to prove yourself unless you are insecure. And so is the laid back comment. Being laid back is not equal to not being a hard worker seriously.

The second Cap I dated said all this stuff about himself, and turned out I made twice as much as him & I worked way harder. Top it all off he was a trust fund baby omg seriously.

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The 'laid back' comment is usually used by guys as a subtle subliminal challenge to do something more aggressive or sexual to prove their faux assertion wrong.

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Sounds like it was a nice date. Based on what you "collected" I'd put money on you going out again if he asked you.

yea it was nice. Definitely will go again but I think it'll be more like a friendship or help each other with the hustle.

Don't be so hasty, Lady. He is perfect husband material to cheat on later. 🙂

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that type of negativity doesn't befit a sag 😛 wth do you want lol

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Posted by capincc

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Interviews are so boring & I’m cap dominant lol

LMAO everyone calm the fuck down. It was not an interview lol. There was not a, "tell me your strengths and weaknesses" and a "Well why should I go on a second date with you".

He just talked a lot about his career and goals. And he gave me feedback on mine. I'd say more like a mentorship session. lol.

And i damn enjoyed it. Leave me alone lol. What do you guys do you on your dates that's so fun and interesting? Tickle each other and chase around the bar? I really need to know lol.

Haha! I hate those interview type dates. Great you enjoyed it. I like to go for a more physical activity type date, a hike, bowling, walk through the park, etc. Things still come out but not so much pressure, more laughing & enjoying and seeing how the person functions overall instead of see our lists of who we are.

Showing my Sag sun obviously 😉 but I use those Cap observation skills too lol

I dunno why you guys take it so seriously. We went to a lounge had drinks, listened to music and talked.

OMG YOU HAD SEX!

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lol no sex in the champagne room sir

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